Its pretty hoity toity and they consider themselves a serious school vs where you stash your kid while at work. Also its very liberal or hippyish.
So one day Im dropping off the four year old and ask him for a hug. Hes being a butthead that morning so he doesnt immediately comply. I then take my hug. Hes squirming and saying no but thats just a little game we play (he knows not to tell anyone... just kidding!!)
So the head lady at the daycare pulls me aside and shes like um little Johnny indicated that he wasnt consenting to that touching, and its very important that we honor and respect that so he learns appropriate boundaries as far as people saying no and others respecting it when they say no.
I mean Ill be honest, it does make some degree of sense. But at the same time I was just like lady I gotta get to focking work and I cant wait til my own kid quote unquote consents before I give him a g0ddamn goodbye hug.
Shes not a fan of mine.