cyclone24 1,814 Posted April 2, 2018 So a lot of the guys that did the baseball camp with me this summer are getting together in Chicago for a party. Thinking since the Cubs are in town I should catch a game I grab tickets for a Saturday from a guy that went to the camp. So now I'm supposed to send him the money for it. Well we get an email that says that the get-together isn't going to a Cubs game but is going to be at this guys man cave that apparently won Man Cave of the year. So I haven't paid the guy for the tickets but he has sent them to me. He is going to the man cave party. Is it bad form to tell him I'm going to send the tickets back so I can make the party and probably catch a Cubs game the day before or do I need to pay for these tickets and just miss the get-together? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frozenbeernuts 1,652 Posted April 2, 2018 So a lot of the guys that did the baseball camp with me this summer are getting together in Chicago for a party. Thinking since the Cubs are in town I should catch a game I grab tickets for a Saturday from a guy that went to the camp. So now I'm supposed to send him the money for it. Well we get an email that says that the get-together isn't going to a Cubs game but is going to be at this guys man cave that apparently won Man Cave of the year. So I haven't paid the guy for the tickets but he has sent them to me. He is going to the man cave party. Is it bad form to tell him I'm going to send the tickets back so I can make the party and probably catch a Cubs game the day before or do I need to pay for these tickets and just miss the get-together? Damn that's tough. Explain the situation, see if he understands Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Alias Detective 1,179 Posted April 2, 2018 So a lot of the guys that did the baseball camp with me this summer are getting together in Chicago for a party. Thinking since the Cubs are in town I should catch a game I grab tickets for a Saturday from a guy that went to the camp. So now I'm supposed to send him the money for it. Well we get an email that says that the get-together isn't going to a Cubs game but is going to be at this guys man cave that apparently won Man Cave of the year. So I haven't paid the guy for the tickets but he has sent them to me. He is going to the man cave party. Is it bad form to tell him I'm going to send the tickets back so I can make the party and probably catch a Cubs game the day before or do I need to pay for these tickets and just miss the get-together? Does this take place before or after the Dungeons and Dragons game? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cyclone24 1,814 Posted April 2, 2018 Does this take place before or after the Dungeons and Dragons game? After....but before the anal. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
5-Points 2,727 Posted April 2, 2018 He's going to the party so sending him back the tix isn't an option. How about giving them as a gift to somebody you know? Or ask him if he knows somebody who could use them. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Voltaire 4,558 Posted April 2, 2018 You need to reimburse the guy for the tickets first thing. Then see if you can return them or sell them, or give them away if you don't want to attend the game. (Or go and skip the man cave thing). Either way, explain the situation to your crew. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NorthernVike 2,080 Posted April 2, 2018 Sounds like you asked for the tickets so you own them. Pay the man and do what you want with the tickets. Skip the game and find a father and son that would not otherwise be able to go to a game and give the tickets to them. Or better yet, a mom and son and get head for them at a latter date. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Filthy Fernadez 2,696 Posted April 2, 2018 After....but before the anal. Cubs game and a cornhole tourney?! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fireballer 2,381 Posted April 2, 2018 Or ask him if he knows somebody who could use them. This is the first option, but youre probably gonna just eat them or get rid of them yourself. Depending on how serious you desire for these tix was, youre probavly informally obligated to buy them off this guy. Id mention your plan to buy them then resell them yourself due to the man code, and he may let you off the hook. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Patriotsfatboy1 1,432 Posted April 2, 2018 Tickets are yours. Pay the man and you can do whatever you want with them after that point. Your real obligation is to kill yourself, though. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NorthernVike 2,080 Posted April 2, 2018 Tickets are yours. Pay the man and you can do whatever you want with them after that point. Your real obligation is to kill yourself, though. But not with a gun. He no likey guns. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cyclone24 1,814 Posted April 2, 2018 Tickets are yours. Pay the man and you can do whatever you want with them after that point. Your real obligation is to kill yourself, though. I'm a Cubs and Bears fan. What else do you want? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NorthernVike 2,080 Posted April 2, 2018 I'm a Cubs and Bears fan. What else do you want? Blood! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bier Meister 1,513 Posted April 2, 2018 Explain the situation. Let him know you are happy to pay for them, but you intend to resell them or give them away. Ask if he would prefer to have the choice of who goes (you don't pay, he does what he wants with the tickets). Choice should be his. He may or may not want to deal with finding people to go. i used to own SF Giants season tickets and would not have to try very hard to sell/give away tickets, so I would have taken them back or possibly traded them for different a game/date. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NorthernVike 2,080 Posted April 2, 2018 Another option would be to change your name to Chronicwelcher and tell the guy to fock off. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cyclone24 1,814 Posted April 2, 2018 Another option would be to change your name to Chronicwelcher and tell the guy to fock off. Aaaannnnndddd there it is. Haha Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fandandy 3,311 Posted April 2, 2018 You owe him for the tickets. If you decide not to go to the game, that's on you. Why should he be out the money for tickets he sent you? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TimmySmith 2,782 Posted April 2, 2018 You owe him for the tickets. If you decide not to go to the game, that's on you. Why should he be out the money for tickets he sent you? If they were his tickets, that he already had, I think sending them back is fine. I he purchased them for you, you pay him. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sho Nuff 719 Posted April 2, 2018 Or welch and bring hookers and blow to the party. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 5,197 Posted April 2, 2018 Agreed with everyone here. Thank him for the tix and tell him that you plan on attending the man cave that day instead. If he knows other people that want them you'll send them back, otherwise you'll send him the money and sell them on StubHub (or trade them to a single desperate mom for a beejer, I like that idea whoever said it). Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cyclone24 1,814 Posted April 2, 2018 Interesting. Glad I asked. I thought it would have been more okay to send them back. I'll pay you the guy for them and go from there. Thanks fellas. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wiffleball 4,639 Posted April 2, 2018 Offer. Acceptance. Yadda Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vuduchile 1,941 Posted April 2, 2018 Sounds like you asked for the tickets so you own them. Pay the man and do what you want with the tickets. Skip the game and find a father and son that would not otherwise be able to go to a game and give the tickets to them. Or better yet, a mom and son and get head for them at a latter date. Wait. Are you suggesting he get head from both the mom and the son at the same time, or will they take turns? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vuduchile 1,941 Posted April 2, 2018 When is the game, where are the seats and how much do you want for em? I might be able to use them. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cmh6476 751 Posted April 2, 2018 Want me to take your wife? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bier Meister 1,513 Posted April 2, 2018 Want me to take your wife? going to give them the "bro deal" and only take a handjob? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cyclone24 1,814 Posted April 2, 2018 When is the game, where are the seats and how much do you want for em? I might be able to use them. Saturday July 30. Section 427, row 10, seats 107 and 108 $204 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NorthernVike 2,080 Posted April 2, 2018 Saturday July 30. Section 427, row 10, seats 107 and 108 $204 You didn't tell us it was for the end of July. Give the focking things back, he's got plenty of time to get rid of them. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IGotWorms 3,311 Posted April 2, 2018 Its your problem now. But if he isnt a doosh he should step up to help Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bier Meister 1,513 Posted April 2, 2018 You didn't tell us it was for the end of July. Give the focking things back, he's got plenty of time to get rid of them. 4 months should be plenty of time for either of you to move them. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mike Honcho 4,027 Posted April 2, 2018 Saturday July 30. Section 427, row 10, seats 107 and 108 $204 Sounds like you got taken...there is no Saturday, July 30th. Counterfeit tix. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cyclone24 1,814 Posted April 2, 2018 No my voice text was terrible. It is June. Sorry. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mike Honcho 4,027 Posted April 2, 2018 No my voice text was terrible. It is June. Sorry. I was hoping that maybe they were playing the Marlins or Padres, that way you would have an out, cause you wanted tickets to a Major League game. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NorthernVike 2,080 Posted April 2, 2018 Hold a Geek contest and give them to a fellow geek. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shotsup 832 Posted April 2, 2018 Someone has already mentioned and I agree. If they are his season tickets and already paid for - then returning them with a big ol' thanks anyway as it conflicts with the ghey get together is fine. Especially two + months prior. If he laid out cash just to purpose these tickets for you I'd pay him and figure out a solution afterwards Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frozenbeernuts 1,652 Posted April 2, 2018 Saturday July 30. Section 427, row 10, seats 107 and 108 $204 Dont help out this triangle sliced pizza lover! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cyclone24 1,814 Posted April 2, 2018 Dont help out this triangle sliced pizza lover! Why you sonofabitch....I'm pro square!! Pro square!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mike Honcho 4,027 Posted April 3, 2018 I was hoping that maybe they were playing the Marlins or Padres, that way you would have an out, cause you wanted tickets to a Major League game. Actually after seeing the crying the Twins did this weekend when Baltimore bunted into the shift to break up their pitchers ONE-HITTER, I'm not sure they are a major league team either. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BunnysBastatrds 1,914 Posted April 3, 2018 Sounds like you asked for the tickets so you own them. Pay the man and do what you want with the tickets. Skip the game and find a father and son that would not otherwise be able to go to a game and give the tickets to them. Or better yet, a mom and son and get head for them at a latter date. This. Can't tell you how many times I've had extra tix and gave them to dad/sons sitting in front of the Dome arguing with scalpels and walked up and handed the two and Said" Enjoy the game with your son/daughter. See you in section 601. Who Dat!!!" Bunny has pissed off many scalpers. The look and joy is priceless. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cyclone24 1,814 Posted April 3, 2018 This. Can't tell you how many times I've had extra tix and gave them to dad/sons sitting in front of the Dome arguing with scalpels and walked up and handed the two and Said" Enjoy the game with your son/daughter. See you in section 601. Who Dat!!!" Bunny has pissed off many scalpers. The look and joy is priceless. Yeah..I do that alot with my courtside seats to our G league team. Sometimes only stay for a bit to watch, see some people...then I'll find a kid and dad and give them my Tix. I'm not doing that with Cubs tickets though. Ha. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites