Married couple, plan to divorce so one of them can marry their nanny.

[edjr 5,564]

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4443102/Happily-married-couple-pan-marry-girlfriend.html

 

 

 

'The benefits of one of us marrying her are going to be on many different levels. She is going to be legally considered a parent to the children and, more importantly, it will show her that this is not a temporary thing.'

He added: 'We both love her and it's something that's meant to be permanent.'

Cristina, 31, and Benno, met 12 years ago when they were both serving in the military police in Virginia.

They married four months later and a year into their marriage they had their first child, Isaiah, now 11, followed by, Rebecca, seven, and Brianna, six.

But eventually Cristina, who is bisexual, began to feel something was missing from her love life.

Cristina, also a legal assistant, said: 'Initially, it was my idea to open the marriage. I brought it to Benno's attention and told him I would like to introduce women to our relationship to see where it goes.

'Other than that we had everything going for us. Three kids, a great relationship and adding Sierra into our lives has just made it a hundred times better, I feel like I'm complete.'

Cristina found what she was looking for at the local shopping mall in Las Vegas, where she met Sierra, who was working in a pet store.

The pair went on a few dates and to Cristina's delight, Sierra was willing to join her marriage - and shortly after Benno was introduced into the mix.

Sierra said: 'At first I was very hesitant about getting involved with a married couple.

'I was worried that I would be disposable and that this was a phase they were going through. But when I spent time with them I realized what they wanted and feel this was a situation I could work with, so I jumped on board.'

The relationship progressed and the three decided to take the next step in their 'three-lationship'.

Benno said: 'Sierra and Christina and I all clicked and shortly after our first date we knew that we were meant to be with her and that this was something we wanted to pursue.

'It was just the natural course to take - to have her move into the home.

'My feelings for the both are equal. I love them both without question. They are both very much part of my life and I couldn't imagine living my life without either of them.'

And Benno says that the sexual side of the relationship is also equal - and adventurous.

He said: 'We share a bed together, we share everything together, so since we met Sierra we have not had a night that we don't all involve each other in some sort of sexual activity.

'It's busy. There are lots of hands everywhere. The beauty of what we do is that we can have a very active sexual life and it's completely safe and it's with people that we love.

'I don't ever have to worry about having a boring sex life 20 years from now when other couples or monogamous couples are. We have a lot of intimacy between all three of us.'

Since moving into the family home, Sierra has become the main caregiver for the trio's children, staying at home while Benno and Cristina go out to work.

Benno said: 'We had talked to our children before this and let them know we wanted to adopt someone and bring somebody into our relationship. Our children have been very supportive of this. They have understood.'

Now Sierra says she feels as much a mother to the children as Cristina, and the children even call her 'Mommy'.

Sierra said: 'I absolutely feel like their mum. I hope now, they love me, they call me 'mommy Sierra' and I love them just as much.

'I'm not jealous that the children are not biologically related to me at all. Just because I didn't birth them doesn't mean I can't love them and they can't love me. That doesn't hinder my love at all for them.'

Despite the unusual dynamic, Benno, Cristina and Sierra insist there is no jealousy in their triad, but admit they have problems like any other relationship.

Sierra said: 'There is really not jealousy in our relationship. Sometimes we have a hard time communicating because there are three people instead of two, but we always work through it.

 

 

Nice work if you can get it

[patweisers44 697]

Yeah, watch what happens the first time Cristina comes home and Benno has Sienna bent over like Bugs Focking Bunny without her consent. Shiot will hit the fan.

[parrot 789]

So who's marrying her?

[DankNuggs 305]

how much you want to bet its the two women who marry, and Benno gets the boot

[porkbutt 861]

buncha perverts. also child abuse.

[DankNuggs 305]

buncha perverts. also child abuse.

Guess my issue is that the wifes sexual needs, and the swinger wanting a legal piece of the pie for being a nanny/concubine are more important than the childrens need for stability. but do what you want.

[Kanil 519]

Sierra's got it figured out. She's got it made.

[shotsup 832]

So who's marrying her?

Gotta be cooter on cooter

[patweisers44 697]

I never realized Arizona Ron's real name was Benno

[DankNuggs 305]

Gotta be cooter on cooter

No way the mother relinqueshes her rights. You know that aint happening. Benno is going along to get along, and Benno is going to get dealt out of the equation

[kutulu 1,545]

I never realized Arizona Ron's real name was Benno

wrong board