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#1 Gladiators

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Posted 18 November 2017 - 11:07 PM

This is purely hypothetical. Okay, not really. May or may not be worth the read.

Last summer, my younger sisters and their families visited for a week at our summer place. My older younger sisters boyfriend (hereinafter referred to as DB) and I have a little bit of history. When my wife and I went on our honeymoon, my oldest younger sister and DB stayed at our house to take care of our dogs while we were gone. Other than our parents, my sister and DB are the only ones who had access to our house via the garage code. 2 months after our honeymoon, our safe deposit box went missing. Head scratcher.

2 summers ago, my sisters and their families visited. We all went out boating for the day, but DB decided he needed to go back early because he was getting a migraine. Shortly after the rest of us got back, I noticed the $150 or so of cash I had hidden in the top drawer of my dresser was missing. Another head scratcher. I asked all my nieces and nephews (all under the age of 8) if they happen to have found some money. Nope.

I mentioned to my sister that I was missing money and that I talked to the kids. None of them seemed to know anything about it. Low and behold, the next day, my sister hands me the money and says, Make sure you put it in a safe spot. WTF am I supposed to do with that comment?

I leave it be because theyre visiting from out of state and I dont want to ruin their trip.

Now it gets interesting.

So this last summer, my sisters and I are getting our kids all ready for bed. DB is sitting out by the fire along with my wife and my dad. I was getting PJs for my boys when my youngest sister walks in and asks if this device from the bathroom is mine. I had no idea what the F it was, so my response was, No. She goes on to say that she thinks its some sort of recording device. I took it and put it in a safe spot and got my kids to bed.

I went back out by the fire with everyone for a few hours to hang out. In the meantime, DB is freaking out. He asked my wife and youngest sister if they happened to see my nephews toy that he leaves out in weird spots. They all replied no. My wife had no idea what was going on at this point.

Later that night, my younger sister gave me a chord that would connect the device to my work laptop. Its extremely rare that I bring my work laptop to our summer place. And I dont know why the FOCK my youngest sister would happen to have a chord that actually works with this device. Anyway, I plug the device into my computer and try downloading whatever is on it. Mind you, this is at about 2am. I see a few images that are impossible to make out. I put everything away for the night and went to bed.

Next morning, I plug the device back in and do a better job with downloading whatever is on this device. Working my way backwards, I see a few videos of my youngest sister in the bathroom looking at this device like a retard playing with a phone. But the video before that is of my sisters friend (who happened to be visiting too) going to the bathroom. Working back farther, there are videos of other females going to the bathroom at my oldest younger sisters house in another state. 1 of these videos is of a little girl...I didnt see anything inappropriate because I turned the video off while she was still fully clothed, but judging by height/face, I would guess she was 7-9 years old. Continuing to work my way back, in horror, the very first video was of my mom when she visited them.

What would you do in this situation?

Ill share the rest of the story later.

Update

I was considering the following options, in order of priority:

1) Call the county police
2) Show my sister the videos and go from there
3) Confrint DB and go from there

My primary concern was the safety of everyone. I wasnt sure if he had a weapon. I wasnt sure how he would react. I wasnt sure if he may confront us first thing in the morning, since he knew hed be in a heap of sh!t if he didnt get the device back. Lastly, I wasnt sure how calling the police would play out. Would they knock on the door and just take him based on my phone call and accusation? Would they come in and create a huge disturbance? Would they need to review evidence, and if so, how would we accomplish that without him realizing what was going on?

I snuck out with my computer and went for a walk. I called the county PD and explained everything. They met me about an hour later, went over all the details, and reviewed some of the videos. Things could not have played out any better than they did. Detective called for some backup. We rode down to my place and everyone but DB was gone. They had gone for a walk. Police knocked on the door, he answered it, and came out, and they arrested him.

Probably the most focked up situation Ive been in.

#2 Drizzay

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Posted 18 November 2017 - 11:13 PM

Go immediately to police with this sh!t....right after you punch DB in the face.
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#3 Bier Meister

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Posted 18 November 2017 - 11:16 PM

hide you money and do his wife...... wait just a minute


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#4 Filthy Fernadez

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Posted 18 November 2017 - 11:18 PM

Since it's two different states, you might want to first talk to the FBI. Don't sit on this sh!t man.


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#5 IMMensaMind

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Posted 18 November 2017 - 11:21 PM

I would invite him on a hunting trip.

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Posted 18 November 2017 - 11:21 PM

I never use em

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Posted 18 November 2017 - 11:24 PM

Yeah...fbi immediately

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Posted 18 November 2017 - 11:25 PM

He may turn around and accuse you

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Posted 18 November 2017 - 11:25 PM

You could end up like jared fogle

#10 IGotWorms

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Posted 18 November 2017 - 11:26 PM

Can sizes??! :mad:

#11 wiffleball

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Posted 18 November 2017 - 11:46 PM

i don't rely on that technology crap. 

 

that's why I post a caricature artist in my bafrooms. 

 

"Here's my Sister In Law, Nekkid - and Juggling!"   :banana:

 

 

and, FBI. 

 

Do NOT let anyone get ahead of the story! First one in wins.  Everyone else?  On the defensive. 


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#12 titans&bucs&bearsohmy!

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Posted 18 November 2017 - 11:50 PM

Yeah...fbi immediately


This. That sh!t is on your computer now. Even if you deleted it. You are in possession.

Oh, and the FBI will likely inspect your computer. If there is or ever has been anything questionable on it, at any point, Id be sure to comprehensively lose it at the bottom of a lake first.

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Posted 18 November 2017 - 11:54 PM

OH, and BTW - The shiit is apparently on your computer now.

 

If you actually need convincing beyond that, you are beyond retarded. 

 

And Best not to log into any other networks (like work).   


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Posted 19 November 2017 - 12:00 AM

Can sizes??! :mad:

Exactly    :mad:



#15 Gladiators

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 12:04 AM

Sisters are both A
Wife B
Mom C

I cant confirm any of those other than the wife.

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 12:07 AM

Contact the local PD.  Tell them your story.  They can and will reach out to the other state and start an investigation.  I'd let them decide if/when it's time to bring in the Feds.

 

Also all the videos on your comp will be time stamped and will jive with your story if you don't fock off and wait to long.


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#17 Brad GLuckman

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 12:57 AM

First thing I would do is ask the Geek Club. You're on the right track. :thumbsup:

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 01:13 AM

Sisters are both A
Wife B
Mom C

I cant confirm any of those other than the wife.

Nipples? 



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Posted 19 November 2017 - 08:27 AM

Nipples? 


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#20 IGotWorms

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 08:58 AM

Sisters are both A
Wife B
Mom C

I cant confirm any of those other than the wife.


Are the sisters like really fit? Nice ass and all that?

I can forgive the A cup if so :thumbsup:

#21 TommyGavin

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 09:25 AM

Sisters are both A
Wife B
Mom C

I cant confirm any of those other than the wife.


Were you breast fed ?
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#22 Gladiators

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 09:42 AM

I updated the OP.

Sisters are in good shape. They dont work out, but are fit.

Yes, I was breastfed. No, I dont remember.

#23 mmmmm...beer

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 10:14 AM

Well played man. Realize your sister will blame you. You're going to be the reason they are in such legal trouble. I'd be shocked if it was otherwise. Realize that he will take off back home and probably have a warrant.

You made the best choice though.

Again.. it will be all your fault. I would have done the exact same thing.

How has Mom, sisters, and wife reacted?

Also this might be the best story on the geek club in awhile.
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Posted 19 November 2017 - 10:28 AM

Good job.
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#25 IGotWorms

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 10:29 AM

Wow thats crazy.

You did the right thing man, especially with the little kiddos involved :thumbsup:

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 11:14 AM

So many fockers walking around who just need to be ended. At least stomped on.

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 11:17 AM

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Yes, I was breastfed. No, I dont remember.


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Sometimes when I reflect back on all the beer I drink I feel ashamed. Then I look into the glass and think about the workers in the brewery and all of their hopes and dreams. If I didn't drink this beer, they might be out of work and their dreams would be shattered. Then I say to myself, it is better that I drink this beer and let their dreams come true than be selfish and worry about my liver. ~Jack Handey (VIA IronToeNedney)

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 11:20 AM

I'm guessing DB is short for douche bag.

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 11:21 AM

BreakingNews

DB is none other then DigBy from the GC!!!
Sometimes when I reflect back on all the beer I drink I feel ashamed. Then I look into the glass and think about the workers in the brewery and all of their hopes and dreams. If I didn't drink this beer, they might be out of work and their dreams would be shattered. Then I say to myself, it is better that I drink this beer and let their dreams come true than be selfish and worry about my liver. ~Jack Handey (VIA IronToeNedney)

#30 Gladiators

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 11:47 AM

I'm guessing DB is short for douche bag.


Yes.

Very first time I met DB, he wanted to make it clear that he was NOT going to be the stereotype (his words). He was going to work and provide for his family.

Well, not 3 months later he quit his job to be a stay at home dad. Hasnt worked in about 8 years. So combine that with the stealing, lying, these felonies, and hes a certified POS. My sister is smart, so she did not blame me for long. However, she is still allowing DB to live with her while the legal proceedings play out. P!sses me off, but I guess she wants him around to take care of the kids as needed while she works. This is despite me offering to pay for whatever she needs so DB can be removed from the picture.

Oh well, such is life.

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 11:54 AM

Yes.

Very first time I met DB, he wanted to make it clear that he was NOT going to be the stereotype (his words). He was going to work and provide for his family.

Well, not 3 months later he quit his job to be a stay at home dad. Hasnt worked in about 8 years. So combine that with the stealing, lying, these felonies, and hes a certified POS. My sister is smart, so she did not blame me for long. However, she is still allowing DB to live with her while the legal proceedings play out. P!sses me off, but I guess she wants him around to take care of the kids as needed while she works. This is despite me offering to pay for whatever she needs so DB can be removed from the picture.

Oh well, such is life.


Im confused, all this between you your sister the police and DB has played out within the span of a day? :huh:

#32 Gladiators

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 11:58 AM

Im confused, all this between you your sister the police and DB has played out within the span of a day? :huh:


All this stuff went down this last summer. 4 months ago.

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 12:03 PM

Wow! You did the right thing, I'm proud of you! I'm so glad you didn't think to protect him because you want to protect your sister.

Thanks for sharing the story. That was quick thinking and brave. :thumbsup:


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Posted 19 November 2017 - 12:04 PM

Oh.. so you just asked us after the fact to see if we'd give you the answer of what you did or something else.

I get you, but it was much more exciting thinking we were watching drama unfold.

What was he charged with? Did Mom press charges?
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#35 IGotWorms

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 12:06 PM

Im suspicious now.

Who the hell is this gladiators guy anyway??

G0ddamit Newbie! :mad:

#36 Gladiators

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 12:09 PM

Yes, I couldnt post this at the time it happened due to legal implications/proceedings. I will update with details on charges later.

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 12:14 PM

I would make it look like an accident. Or pay a professional. 



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Posted 19 November 2017 - 12:16 PM

Well played man. Realize your sister will blame you. You're going to be the reason they are in such legal trouble. I'd be shocked if it was otherwise. Realize that he will take off back home and probably have a warrant.

You made the best choice though.

Again.. it will be all your fault. I would have done the exact same thing.

How has Mom, sisters, and wife reacted?

Also this might be the best story on the geek club in awhile.

 

If she's sane, she'll break up (/is broken up) with the massive creep. He did her a favor.



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Posted 19 November 2017 - 12:21 PM

If she's sane, she'll break up (/is broken up) with the massive creep. He did her a favor.


There's a major issue there. She's still allowing him around. That's focked up.

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Posted 19 November 2017 - 12:27 PM

There's a major issue there. She's still allowing him around. That's focked up.

 

 

i agree.  he shouldn't be around kids


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