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Long story short. My daughters 21. Been dating a complete loser for 3 years. Two months ago, she dumps the scumbag. (Christmas miracle)

Last week, I guess he says he'll change his ways and she says. My hearts with you, I've always loved you.

And boom, back together. My wife and daughter are really close, mother/daughter, like sisters type blah blah blah. So she knew last week. I get the news broken to me today.

Wife is not happy. I'm beyond p!ssed.

 

I probably didn't handle my daughter telling me to well. Pretty much just said good f0cking luck, and went downstairs to get a beer. I was ready to explode, so I actually caught myself, so maybe it was handled well. I don't know.

 

Any of you cats ever had to deal with your kids pieces of sh1t significant others?

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No one provide any answers until we get two sets of can sizes.

 

 

 

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I think at 21 it's tough.. have to give her her freedom to make these mistakes because the person she will date a 21 she won't probably give the time of day of 30.

 

The only thing I would advise her is just to make sure that his words match his actions. That's all you can do.

 

Hopefully by 21 you've taught her to be tough enough to walk away if his words don't match his actions.

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That focking sucks man. I'm torn on the advice to give. You're pretty much in a lose-lose situation.

 

You're an assh0le if you try talking her out of it. If you don't try talking her out of it, you sit there while she potentially focks up her life. Will she look back and say, "Thanks for letting me figure things out on my own." Or will she say, "Why didn't you intervene dad?"

 

My dad has let my sister just figure things out on her own. Unfortunately, she hasn't yet. I started a thread a few months back about my cocksuckermotherfuckerpieceofshit almost brother in law a few months ago. http://www.fftodayforums.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=472389

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POS loser can mean a lot of things. Does he cheat on her, emotionally or physically abuse her, steal her things etc.? Then you need to intervene.

 

If hes simply a deadbeat, at 21 years old your daughter should know better than to be his enabler.

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Long story short. My daughters 21. Been dating a complete loser for 3 years. Two months ago, she dumps the scumbag. (Christmas miracle)

Last week, I guess he says he'll change his ways and she says. My hearts with you, I've always loved you.

And boom, back together. My wife and daughter are really close, mother/daughter, like sisters type blah blah blah. So she knew last week. I get the news broken to me today.

Wife is not happy. I'm beyond p!ssed.

 

I probably didn't handle my daughter telling me to well. Pretty much just said good f0cking luck, and went downstairs to get a beer. I was ready to explode, so I actually caught myself, so maybe it was handled well. I don't know.

 

Any of you cats ever had to deal with your kids pieces of sh1t significant others?

 

Not yet, but I'm dreading the day I will... Hope my daughter ends up a lesbo. The thought of some doosh banging her makes me physically ill.

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if it's violence or illegal (drugs?) you intervene.

 

if not, you can't do anything - she has to fail to learn - and the key is for you to prevent destroying your relationship with her while she's figuring all this out.

 

Don't Dads set the template for what their daughters look for in a partner? What the fock did you do Kopy?

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if it's violence or illegal (drugs?) you intervene.

 

if not, you can't do anything - she has to fail to learn - and the key is for you to prevent destroying your relationship with her while she's figuring all this out.

 

Don't Dads set the template for what their daughters look for in a partner? What the fock did you do Kopy?

 

Seahawks fan? :dunno:

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top 10 porn search?

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You should define things a bit better. How exactly is he a loser? Or do you just not like him? Cause you know, there's never anyone good enough for your baby girl. What is your daughter's status? Is she in school? Does she live at home? Does she work? She has a lot of life left to live and she may figure it out at some point.

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Thread title is also my most searched category on YouPorn

 

Really? Cause that seems very mild. Not even sure I'd get wood over that.

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Is the same little focker that you walked in on whilst he was balls-deep in your daughter?

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Long story short. My daughters 21. Been dating a complete loser for 3 years. Two months ago, she dumps the scumbag. (Christmas miracle)

Last week, I guess he says he'll change his ways and she says. My hearts with you, I've always loved you.

And boom, back together. My wife and daughter are really close, mother/daughter, like sisters type blah blah blah. So she knew last week. I get the news broken to me today.

Wife is not happy. I'm beyond p!ssed.

 

I probably didn't handle my daughter telling me to well. Pretty much just said good f0cking luck, and went downstairs to get a beer. I was ready to explode, so I actually caught myself, so maybe it was handled well. I don't know.

 

Any of you cats ever had to deal with your kids pieces of sh1t significant others?

Just be there for her. Life too short. It's your daughter. If he hurts her, destroy him.

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Why are the guys without daughters chiming in?. Nobody asked you.

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Honestly what can you do? If you fight her on it she will just pull farther away.

 

You played it right. Show youre displeased and leave it at that.

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Why are the guys without daughters chiming in?. Nobody asked you.

Because we are the people your parents warned you about. We know what is going on from the inside.

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Because we are the people your parents warned you about. We know what is going on from the inside.

Yeah, I got that covered. And I doubt it.

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Honestly what can you do? If you fight her on it she will just pull farther away.

 

You played it right. Show youre displeased and leave it at that.

 

:thumbsup:

 

allegedly. antifreeze is odorless and looks just like juice.

 

offer him a beverage.

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I've got two daughters, 19 and 16. Luckily neither has been in that long of a relationship, let alone with a loser. My 19 yr old has talked about starting to date this guy who sounds like a player though; I'm :angry: but I can't stop her. All you can do is let her know that you are there for her no matter what, and that you are always willing to talk. Although it sounds like she and your wife are really close, so perhaps she has the WTF discussions and you just be supportive Dad. :cheers:

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Dont have daughters but I imagine thats gotta be tough. Probably the main thing would be to convince her how great she is so she doesnt feel like she has to date some focking loser :dunno:

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What do you think she sees in him? Does your wife tell you what your daughter's though process is?

 

Oh, and I hope your wife doesn't fall down the stairs after withholding info from you.

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Dont have daughters but I imagine thats gotta be tough. Probably the main thing would be to convince her how great she is so she doesnt feel like she has to date some focking loser :dunno:

would your wife mind acting as an example of why?

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He's 22, never driven. Says he had a bad experience as a kid and has anxiety and can't. She's driven his @ss around for 3 years.

Has never liked her talking to other guys. And for that matter, even her girl friends. She still has her best friend from high school. She was always like our second daughter. To this day she still has free rome of our house. She hates him, and he hates her.

Has never wanted us to grab a beer and a pizza with his parents, just to meet and shoot the breeze. I met them once, my wife twice. Both brief times.

Has never hit her. But has been aggressive through the years. Ie..grabbing her wrist and dragging her away from some scenario.

Claims he's been diagnosed by a mystery therapist with "lying disease". He can't help himself with anything he does or says.

We are a big time dog family. Besides my daughter's best friend, my kids dog is her best friend.

He says when they get married, she's not allowed to ever get a dog.

This sh!t goes on, and on.

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Is the same little focker that you walked in on whilst he was balls-deep in your daughter?

Yes.

God damn you got a good memory!

 

And that was even when I thought he might be an ok kid.

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I have learned to nip things in the bud. The moment he grabbed her wrist was the moment he should have been throated and asked if he wanted to die while he gasped for air. Maybe it's not too late. I'd give it a go. This isn't ending well anyway, may as well get it over with.

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would your wife mind acting as an example of why?

How about yours. Oh thats right, sorry... she left you :(

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I didn't have any kids because I couldn't take the 50/50 chance that one of them would be a daughter.

 

No wife...no kids...No Problems!

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She's always been a good kid. No parties, good grades. Put herself through 2 years of college, and now has a job.

She lives here at home rent free. But she bought her own car, and did some college on her own. So I told her I'd never charge her rent aslong as she needed to stay home. That way she could pay her debts and not worry about food or a roof.

Literally, a great kid. Except for this guy.

I thought it was done.

This is the absolute most I've ever been disappointed in her in my whole life.

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I didn't have any kids because I couldn't take the 50/50 chance that one of them would be a daughter.

 

No wife...no kids...No Problems!

ha! We knew she wasn't yours!

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Because we are the people your parents warned you about. We know what is going on from the inside.

 

You don't even know what's going on from the outside. That's why you're called a "LOSER". ;)

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She's always been a good kid. No parties, good grades. Put herself through 2 years of college, and now has a job.

She lives here at home rent free. But she bought her own car, and did some college on her own. So I told her I'd never charge her rent aslong as she needed to stay home. That way she could pay her debts and not worry about food or a roof.

Literally, a great kid. Except for this guy.

I thought it was done.

This is the absolute most I've ever been disappointed in her in my whole life.

I wouldnt be so hard on her. The heart can make us blind. As a dude didnt you ever stay with some kvnt much longer than you should have because it was hard to let go? I mean sure, you told yourself it was because of the pvssy but that wasnt all of it. Especially at that age.

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