titans&bucs&bearsohmy! 2,745 Posted September 23, 2014 We had the talk. Divied up the sh!t. Looks like I'll stay here till Christmas, then go find myself some cheap apartment somewhere. Maybe I'll just move to some other city. I'm done with this town. Hell, maybe I'll pull a volty and blow this hemisphere. Anyway. I don't feel like telling any real people yet, so I'll tell you people. I'm gonna get drunk now. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kilroy69 992 Posted September 23, 2014 sorry to hear that man Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SUXBNME 1,318 Posted September 23, 2014 In all seriousness, mebbe you should write her a heart felt poem Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
titans&bucs&bearsohmy! 2,745 Posted September 23, 2014 In all seriousness, mebbe you should write her a heart felt poem I'm sad that she's keeping the cat. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IGotWorms 3,297 Posted September 23, 2014 Good for you. It's been a long time coming and you've certainly tried your best to make it work. Time to get on with your life Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SUXBNME 1,318 Posted September 23, 2014 I'm sad that she's keeping the cat. That's grounds to kill the b1tch. Seriously? she's keeping the kat? In all seriousness, get another kat / kitteh. It will help. Trust me on this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mobb_deep 917 Posted September 23, 2014 Good for you. It's been a long time coming and you've certainly tried your best to make it work. Time to get on with your life go get your d!ck wet and forget all about that horse. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reality 2,710 Posted September 23, 2014 Good for you. It's been a long time coming and you've certainly tried your best to make it work. Time to get on with your life This, well said. Seriously, best of luck Titans, regardless of like petty political differences you seem like a solid dude. You deserve to be happy. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SUXBNME 1,318 Posted September 23, 2014 This, well said. Seriously, best of luck Titans, regardless of ###### like petty political differences you seem like a solid dude. You deserve to be happy. I'll give him happy <---4" of happy Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rholio 339 Posted September 23, 2014 Good luck, amigo. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BunnysBastatrds 1,902 Posted September 23, 2014 time to enjoy life brother. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
smashmouths@blf 33 Posted September 23, 2014 T's & P's Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gocolts 300 Posted September 23, 2014 Sorry to hear your marriage did not work out. Make no mistake though, you have definitely put in a good effort to try and make this work. From what I have seen you post over the years, this sounds like one of those rare cases where a divorce is justified. GOOD LUCK bro, hope you can find some happiness. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 5,152 Posted September 23, 2014 Good for you. It's been a long time coming and you've certainly tried your best to make it work. Time to get on with your life I don't agree with Worms often... well, ever... but I do here. I believe I've said to you that I'm not a big fan of divorce and think that people in general give up too early on their marriages, but you are not such a case. Based on everything you've said here I think this is a great thing for you and I wish you the best. Also I agree with your thought about leaving town and starting new. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
peenie 1,690 Posted September 23, 2014 why does she want a divorce?? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kilroy69 992 Posted September 23, 2014 I will take beecause she is a bitchh and can not see the gold she has in TBBOM for 1k alex Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OldMaid 1,838 Posted September 23, 2014 Condolences... but you'll be better off in the long run. If you find yourself in L.A. and need a friend, let me know. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kilroy69 992 Posted September 23, 2014 Go do some blow off a stippers ass. It always made me feel better when I was blue......then it made me turn white. lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wiffleball 4,629 Posted September 23, 2014 We had the talk. Divied up the sh!t. Looks like I'll stay here till Christmas, then go find myself some cheap apartment somewhere. Maybe I'll just move to some other city. I'm done with this town. Hell, maybe I'll pull a volty and blow this hemisphere. Anyway. I don't feel like telling any real people yet, so I'll tell you people. I'm gonna get drunk now. I'm really sorry to hear that man. Didn't she have some pretty serious health issues? Like her heart or something? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tanatastic 2,061 Posted September 23, 2014 Sucks man, but the best way to get over a woman is another woman. That's prob more applicable when ur young tho. At least Old maid is offering up a romp right? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wiffleball 4,629 Posted September 23, 2014 So....would it be, you know, cool if I ya know maybe call her now? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tanatastic 2,061 Posted September 23, 2014 So....would it be, you know, cool if I ya know maybe call her now? Eh 90% of the time when chicks want to break up they already have been seeing another dude for a while anyway. Your too late. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Voltaire 4,550 Posted September 23, 2014 Divorce isn't always so bad when there's no kids involved. In your case I wondered why it was taking so long. And if you feel like you're spinning your wheels going nowhere, feel free to join me in China. It sure turned my life around and I'm not the only one to feel that way. You picked a great time with me being in Detroit right now, maybe we can go back on the same flight. In your case, I'd recommend you come as a student, you could pick up Chinese as a skill that could help you get back on the legal track in some international business angle. If you want to come to Panzhihua, I should be able to help you get a scholarship, i have an American friend who's an ex-cop (older than me) doing that right now- full scholarships for him and a guy from Japan to study Chinese at Panzhihua University (the only two foreigners in the school). And then finding work teaching English on the side would get you plenty of disposable income. Me and that cop turn down work all the time. But we're way off the beaten trail. This is my wife's hometown, and very few foreigners. Besides me and those two and three Peace Corps people, that's pretty much all the resident foreigners in the city: six plus my three kids. But despite it's size and lack of reputation, there's money in the city and you'll rub elbows with some prominent folks. Or you could go to a part of China that you've heard of and has lots of foreigners and restaurants/stores that stock food you recognize. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
titans&bucs&bearsohmy! 2,745 Posted September 23, 2014 why does she want a divorce?? It didn't go down like that. Actually I brought it up. We just don't make each other happy. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
titans&bucs&bearsohmy! 2,745 Posted September 23, 2014 Divorce isn't always so bad when there's no kids involved. In your case I wondered why it was taking so long. And if you feel like you're spinning your wheels going nowhere, feel free to join me in China. It sure turned my life around and I'm not the only one to feel that way. You picked a great time with me being in Detroit right now, maybe we can go back on the same flight. In your case, I'd recommend you come as a student, you could pick up Chinese as a skill that could help you get back on the legal track in some international business angle. If you want to come to Panzhihua, I should be able to help you get a scholarship, i have an American friend who's an ex-cop (older than me) doing that right now- full scholarships for him and a guy from Japan to study Chinese at Panzhihua University (the only two foreigners in the school). And then finding work teaching English on the side would get you plenty of disposable income. Me and that cop turn down work all the time. But we're way off the beaten trail. This is my wife's hometown, and very few foreigners. Besides me and those two and three Peace Corps people, that's pretty much all the resident foreigners in the city: six plus my three kids. But despite it's size and lack of reputation, there's money in the city and you'll rub elbows with some prominent folks. Or you could go to a part of China that you've heard of and has lots of foreigners and restaurants/stores that stock food you recognize. I'll definately consider it. I've got a few things to tie up here for the next few months. Then I'll figure it what I want to do. I may head to the west coast.... I may head abroad. I'm in no hurry to figure it out. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drobeski 3,061 Posted September 23, 2014 Congrats and good luck Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TD Ryan2 314 Posted September 23, 2014 We just don't make each other happy. I was going to post - "go be happy" this is the whole enchilada. 1. you must be happy with yourself, and after that 2. you must be happy with who you are as a couple. If you don't have 1. you can't ever get to 2. and 2. is trickier - you have to genuinely like who you are as a couple - you have to have goals/dreams that are aligned. You don't have to be alike, and maybe being "different" in some ways is better, i.e. your strengths/her strengths. But you have to like who you are as a couple - you have to have a shared vision about where you want to go and what you want to be in life together. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
edjr 5,540 Posted September 23, 2014 why does she want a divorce?? She's tired of having to sneak around. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NorthernVike 2,079 Posted September 23, 2014 So....would it be, you know, cool if I ya know maybe call her now? You should prolly find out if she's any good in the sack first. If so, we can all pull a train on her ass. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RLLD 3,455 Posted September 23, 2014 You should prolly find out if she's any good in the sack first. If so, we can all pull a train on her ass. Again....? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cruzer 1,992 Posted September 23, 2014 Sorry to hear. Even if for the best - still sucks. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
southcarolina 166 Posted September 23, 2014 I'm sad that she's keeping the cat. You know what they say,.. the wimminz gots "half the money and all the puzzy" Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DankNuggs 305 Posted September 23, 2014 congrats, best of luck Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Giants Fan 85 Posted September 23, 2014 Dating in your 40's ...if you have no kids is like. ... Eff that. Bitches be all cray cray, and shiznit. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Giants Fan 85 Posted September 23, 2014 Even if you don't have kids. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
titans&bucs&bearsohmy! 2,745 Posted September 23, 2014 Dating in your 40's ...if you have no kids is like. ... Eff that. Bitches be all cray cray, and shiznit. No, I think I am done with the female species. I've grown accustomed to celibacy, so no biggie. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
