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Are virgins??

 

Holy Crap!

 

So said Christiane Amanpour on The Daily Show. Apparently she's doing some special on sex around the world.

 

Welcome to our future.

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Yeah.

 

Part of it is work culture. That crazy hours sleep in a tube at the office thing. Makes getting out hard.

 

Part of it is the Asian culture. Id bet a large percentage of Chinese men are too. Casual dating and hooking up just wasnt a thing here. That is changing, but slowly. Its not quite arranged marriage here, but its close. I teach a class for young adults (20s) on sundays. The guys all say they have no girlfriends and will never marry, because they cannot afford to buy and apartment, let alone pay the customary payment to her parents. Without that, no dice.

 

Some of it in japan is that the online world has taken over for a lot of people there. There is just something wrong with the culture over there.

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Yeah.

 

Part of it is work culture. That crazy hours sleep in a tube at the office thing. Makes getting out hard.

 

Part of it is the Asian culture. Id bet a large percentage of Chinese men are too. Casual dating and hooking up just wasnt a thing here. That is changing, but slowly. Its not quite arranged marriage here, but its close. I teach a class for young adults (20s) on sundays. The guys all say they have no girlfriends and will never marry, because they cannot afford to buy and apartment, let alone pay the customary payment to her parents. Without that, no dice.

 

Some of it in japan is that the online world has taken over for a lot of people there. There is just something wrong with the culture over there.

Is there a lot of rape in China compared to here?

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Is there a lot of rape in China compared to here?

Public transportation is a disaster for women. Upskirts, Groping - and I learned what "frottage" means.

 

They started offering separate cars just for women.

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Public transportation is a disaster for women. Upskirts, Groping - and I learned what "frottage" means.

 

They started offering separate cars just for women.

Yeah well they wouldn't have such an issue if the men there weren't so sexually frustrated

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Yeah well they wouldn't have such an issue if the men there weren't so sexually frustrated

Preaching to the choir brah.

 

Then again, I wouldn't have gotten all that extra ice cream at the church retreats...

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Is there a lot of rape in China compared to here?

Like wiff said, groping is a problem. They do have womens only cars on the subway for that reason (although nobody obeys it, and there are usually many men in there. I ride in there all the time).

 

I have heard that it is fairly common for bosses to more or less rape or pressure their female staff into sex. It seems common for a boss, even a principal at a school, to have a few random hotties working for him in an unspecified capacity.

 

Supposedly, the thing is, you will never hear about it, because the women will never complain. If they do, they are damaged goods and not marriageable. I dunno how true that is.

 

I do know chicks here wont say no pretty much. Ive had a couple of occasions where fooling around was occurring, and I could tell they didnt want it to happen, but they never said anything. I stopped of my own accord.

 

One chick that I dated for a few months said, months in, I didnt want to go to a hotel that first night.

 

Well why didnt you say so? Not only that, why did you talk your friends into going with my friends? Weird.

 

So yeah, there is probably lots of rape here. You just dont hear about it.

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Like wiff said, groping is a problem. They do have womens only cars on the subway for that reason (although nobody obeys it, and there are usually many men in there. I ride in there all the time).

 

I have heard that it is fairly common for bosses to more or less rape or pressure their female staff into sex. It seems common for a boss, even a principal at a school, to have a few random hotties working for him in an unspecified capacity.

 

Supposedly, the thing is, you will never hear about it, because the women will never complain. If they do, they are damaged goods and not marriageable. I dunno how true that is.

 

I do know chicks here wont say no pretty much. Ive had a couple of occasions where fooling around was occurring, and I could tell they didnt want it to happen, but they never said anything. I stopped of my own accord.

 

One chick that I dated for a few months said, months in, I didnt want to go to a hotel that first night.

 

Well why didnt you say so? Not only that, why did you talk your friends into going with my friends? Weird.

 

So yeah, there is probably lots of rape here. You just dont hear about it.

Damn, that's pretty sad

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Damn, that's pretty sad

Man, Ive been here for three years now and I still dont get them. Probably never will.

 

Their lives seem so sad in a way.

 

The young ones are basically only free in college. Men and women both. Before that they are squarely under daddies thumb. Afterward, they are in all kinds of a rush to get married and have babies. I know many people that openly say they dont like their boyfriend or girlfriend, but will marry them anyway.

 

Then there are the ones who cant afford to marry. They just work and live in some hovel with several others. Nobody ever seems to go out or have much any fun.

 

Part of it is money. Most of them are pretty poor. The Chinese teachers Ive worked with make $500 to my $2,250, and they work far more hours than I do.

 

Your shop girl or chick that works in a massage place or hair salon will get one day off a month. Often live in a barracks.

 

Your construction worker? Usually also lives in a barracks. They have little complexes for the migrant workers all over town. Basically shipping containers made into houses.

 

Pretty sad in a lot of ways. But there is also an innocence to them, a lack of the jaded cynicism we have. They delight in very small pleasures. I dunno.

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It doesnt help that a lot of men there become NEETS or are obsessed with anime or video games. Like hardcore obsessed. Arent worried about girls in the real world and are in love with girls in anime or video games.

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It doesnt help that a lot of men there become NEETS or are obsessed with anime or video games. Like hardcore obsessed. Arent worried about girls in the real world and are in love with girls in anime or video games.

Yeah, there is definitely a lot of people just checking out of real life.

 

They have lots of cyber cafe type places here where people pay to sit and play games all night. Ive never been to one because for some reason, foreigners arent allowed. But they seem to do good business.

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Are virgins??

 

Holy Crap!

 

So said Christiane Amanpour on The Daily Show. Apparently she's doing some special on sex around the world.

 

Welcome to our future.

You'd fit right in.

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Yeah, there is definitely a lot of people just checking out of real life.

 

They have lots of cyber cafe type places here where people pay to sit and play games all night. Ive never been to one because for some reason, foreigners arent allowed. But they seem to do good business.

I would probably check out too if that was what life was like in today's day and age.

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I would probably check out too if that was what life was like in today's day and age.

Its interesting. The conflict between their traditional culture and values and The new western ones.

 

I have a few male Chinese friends who say stuff like forget Chinese girls, wont have anything to do with them. Thats pretty common among the more seasoned expats, but some Chinese say it too.

 

Im supposed to buy a house and put it in your name, and THEN give your parents around $30,000 in dowry? For what? Why would anyone do that?

 

Most expats who marry Chinese marry a pretty western one who doesnt do that sh!t. But Ive dated a couple who make no bones about it. Pay up or Fock off.

 

And after the wedding, she controls all the money. You get an allowance.

 

Not to mention all of the mooching relatives. Gets costly quickly.

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Everything on Fox News is comedy, you guys just dont get it.

Big scary Fox news....one right leaning television news source just ruffles panties.

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Big scary Fox news....one right leaning television news source just ruffles panties.

1. Right leaning? Please. Its so far right it cant even see the center.

 

2. I dont care. I honestly find it funny the rare occasions I see it.

 

3. Yes. The other networks blow ass too.

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Are virgins??

 

Holy Crap!

 

So said Christiane Amanpour on The Daily Show. Apparently she's doing some special on sex around the world.

 

Welcome to our future.

You're just the man to solve this dilemma :thumbsup:

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Its interesting. The conflict between their traditional culture and values and The new western ones.

 

I have a few male Chinese friends who say stuff like forget Chinese girls, wont have anything to do with them. Thats pretty common among the more seasoned expats, but some Chinese say it too.

 

Im supposed to buy a house and put it in your name, and THEN give your parents around $30,000 in dowry? For what? Why would anyone do that?

 

Most expats who marry Chinese marry a pretty western one who doesnt do that sh!t. But Ive dated a couple who make no bones about it. Pay up or Fock off.

 

And after the wedding, she controls all the money. You get an allowance.

 

Not to mention all of the mooching relatives. Gets costly quickly.

How did you meet your fiance? Was she working in China?

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Some of the weirdest porn I've ever watched is Japanese. Those fockers seem weird. Not surprised they're all virgins.

 

Plus the bushiest, darkest shrub of pubes and this little cack. No wonder they try to blur it out.

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Send Digbys mom over there. Problem solved

This is random. You trying to beef with me or something? Personally, too tired care and quite frankly just dont care if you are

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This is random. You trying to beef with me or something? Personally, too tired care and quite frankly just dont care if you are

Its not random, its a continuation of him saying fake doctor and you saying he passed the fake bar. So you cant get defensive, its part of that back and forth, not just out of the blue.

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Its not random, its a continuation of him saying fake doctor and you saying he passed the fake bar. So you cant get defensive, its part of that back and forth, not just out of the blue.

Sorta, but mostly it was just a joke I wanted to make and digby seemed like an obvious target

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Its whatever man. Just seemed out of the blue is all. Honestly man Im too tired to really care. Wasnt sure if it was from earlier or what. Carry on gents

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Sorta, but mostly it was just a joke I wanted to make and digby seemed like an obvious target

Oh i feel you, you def dont need a reason. I just know sometimes people need dots to connect so it makes sense.

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Its whatever man. Just seemed out of the blue is all. Honestly man Im too tired to really care. Wasnt sure if it was from earlier or what. Carry on gents

You need to toughen up a little bit, Nancy

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How did you meet your fiance? Was she working in China?

We were both in the expat bar. I was hitting on some Arab slutty chick. Went to the bathroom. On my way out, I saw her. She caught my eye. Tiny little thing with boobs.

 

Being drunk, and it being dark, I assumed she was Chinese, so I walked up and started hitting on her in Chinese. She said in English that she doesnt speak Chinese. I said, good, Im better in English. We chatted a minute, I asked her to have a drink. She couldnt, she was with some guy. She gave me her number and went back to her date, I went back to my slutty Arab chick.

 

Called her a couple days later, we went out, and it just kinda clicked. She is easily the lowest maintenance chick Ive ever been around.

 

Yeah, shes a teacher here too. She actually studied to be a teacher. Taught a while in the Philippines, two years in Kuwait, and now on her third year here in china.

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You need to toughen up a little bit, Nancy

Bro Im not even the least bit upset lol. I was just trying to figure out what was going on cause it seemed like it came out of left field.

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