ADD1CT36 1 Posted March 27, 2007 if you could sleep with his girlfriend???? what kind of person does that? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mungwater 588 Posted March 27, 2007 One that has as much regard for the girlfriend as a used kleenex, and apparently so does the boyfriend. If he really gave a shat about her, his friend would know that he'd be swallowing a mouthfull of teeth, and he wouldn't do it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Strike 3,950 Posted March 27, 2007 Apparently your boyfriends buddy. Oh, and don't forget, Bros before Hos..... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kutulu 1,542 Posted March 27, 2007 Girlfriend, no. Wife, yes. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Patriotsfatboy1 1,432 Posted March 27, 2007 No way. Not a chance. That is just plain silly. I would fock her, but I would not ask first Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GobbleDog 816 Posted March 27, 2007 Man Law #154 - Tis easier to get forgiveness, than permission. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADD1CT36 1 Posted March 27, 2007 No way. Not a chance. That is just plain silly. I would fock her, but I would not ask first see that's what i thought. but he asked me and then went and asked him before i could say anything. wait, no this isnt about me One that has as much regard for the girlfriend as a used kleenex, and apparently so does the boyfriend. If he really gave a shat about her, his friend would know that he'd be swallowing a mouthfull of teeth, and he wouldn't do it. would it be different if he asked to "join" them and not just do her? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Black Label Society Posted March 27, 2007 would it be different if he asked to "join" them and not just do her? Your SLUTNESS knows NO boundaries!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADD1CT36 1 Posted March 27, 2007 Your SLUTNESS knows NO boundaries!!! wait! how does this make ME a slut? i didnt say i did it. i swear to god - this was totally random and i never flirted with this guy or anything. had no idea he was even interested. i am more than willing to take blame where there is some. ps. like you should talk Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stop talking cheerleader 0 Posted March 27, 2007 Depending on the seriousness of the relationship this doesn't really sound like a good friend Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADD1CT36 1 Posted March 27, 2007 Depending on the seriousness of the relationship this doesn't really sound like a good friend exactly. the first thing that came to mind was that movie where the dude asked his friend to try to get his gf to cheat on him. i thought maybe it was a test to see what i would do. i got really pissed off at my s.o. and he said he had nothing to do with it and was just as surprised. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Snoopy1 0 Posted March 27, 2007 if you could sleep with his girlfriend???? what kind of person does that? I am 100% behind you asking some guy to sleep with his GF, especially if it's 30FBT! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wiffleball 4,631 Posted March 27, 2007 Had a jackasx of a guy who was married at the time ask about 3 of my g/f's for a 'three-way'. (Pretty sure he wasn't talking chili with cheez and onions) Not surprislingly, he ended up cheating on his wife of 17 years, lost her, Married the psycho ###### whom he cheated with, then after a drama filled engagement she kicked him out less than 4 months later. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 5,172 Posted March 27, 2007 would it be different if he asked to "join" them and not just do her? Different, yes. Better, a little I suppose. I've never had a 3 some but I always imagined that the couple would approach the third party, not the opposite. That being said, if you are out drinking and the guy says "dood, your gf is smoking, if you ever want a 3some count me in," I would take it as a compliment. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DuckStupid 40 Posted March 27, 2007 exactly. the first thing that came to mind was that movie where the dude asked his friend to try to get his gf to cheat on him. i thought maybe it was a test to see what i would do. i got really pissed off at my s.o. and he said he had nothing to do with it and was just as surprised. I'd be surprised as hell if your SO hadn't talked with his "buddy" about this before hand... Just sayin... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
edjr 5,547 Posted March 27, 2007 I am 100% behind you asking some guy to sleep with his GF, especially if it's 30FBT! :creepy: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADD1CT36 1 Posted March 27, 2007 Different, yes. Better, a little I suppose. I've never had a 3 some but I always imagined that the couple would approach the third party, not the opposite. That being said, if you are out drinking and the guy says "dood, your gf is smoking, if you ever want a 3some count me in," I would take it as a compliment. YES! i could see that. been there done that. cool. not at all how THIS happened. and i was put in a really bad situation. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mungwater 588 Posted March 27, 2007 I think that if this is even a topic of conversation, you're not a SO of his, you're just some chick he's banging. Really disrespectful on both of them. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADD1CT36 1 Posted March 27, 2007 I am 100% behind you asking some guy to sleep with his GF, especially if it's 30FBT! not that stc isnt beautiful. but it would never happen. for many reasons. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RLLD 3,455 Posted March 27, 2007 If your man is pvssy-whipped or seriously insecure then he will get pretty pissed off about it. If he isn't a complete twit he will just decline but say thanks for the props. JMHO Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Snoopy1 0 Posted March 27, 2007 not that stc isnt beautiful. but it would never happen. for many reasons. You are thinking about it all wrong... You and STC have a sleep over, you both wearing your nighties...a pillow fight starts....oops your pillow knocks loose the strap of her top...you reach over to put it back on, but right as your gets there she turns and you brush her breast.... Excuse me, BRB. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADD1CT36 1 Posted March 27, 2007 I think that if this is even a topic of conversation, you're not a SO of his, you're just some chick he's banging. Really disrespectful on both of them. yes thank you. that's what i said. and i said i'm not your wh0re that you can pimp out. and he got all weepy and sad. If your man is pvssy-whipped or seriously insecure then he will get pretty pissed off about it. If he isn't a complete twit he will just decline but say thanks for the props. JMHO he said it was up to me. on the 3some thing. which i also think is a trick. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mungwater 588 Posted March 27, 2007 yes thank you. that's what i said. and i said i'm not your wh0re that you can pimp out. and he got all weepy and sad. he said it was up to me. on the 3some thing. which i also think is a trick. so he a little cryer too, on something that he did.. This just screams dump him Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RLLD 3,455 Posted March 27, 2007 he said it was up to me. on the 3some thing. which i also think is a trick. Not a trick. There are plenty of guys out there harboring a hidden desire/fear of watching their SO have at it with another guy. I wanted this with a few of my GF's, but once married sort of lost that fetish. He likely wants to do teh threesome thing, but....once you do the M/M/F, rest assured he will be expecting a F/F/M at some point in the future..... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
edjr 5,547 Posted March 27, 2007 sex/dating advice from FFT is like asking MC Hammer for financial advice. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADD1CT36 1 Posted March 27, 2007 Not a trick. There are plenty of guys out there harboring a hidden desire/fear of watching their SO have at it with another guy. I wanted this with a few of my GF's, but once married sort of lost that fetish. He likely wants to do teh threesome thing, but....once you do the M/M/F, rest assured he will be expecting a F/F/M at some point in the future..... believe me, as you know, i've been around the block and i've seen this happen a hundred times. i told him how bad an idea it is to do this with a friend and that i'm kinda hurt that his friend would even just approach it the way he did. and i still feel they are lying about not discussing it all before asking me. i know how guys are. there's no way he wouldnt have known his friend was into me by now. we've been together since sept and i've known them all since last summer. i also know that he's not into the 3some thing with a girl or guy since we have talked about that already. so i'm completed shocked that he even considered it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MDC 5,878 Posted March 27, 2007 yes thank you. that's what i said. and i said i'm not your wh0re that you can pimp out. and he got all weepy and sad. he said it was up to me. on the 3some thing. which i also think is a trick. You're just some skank he's banging. HTH! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADD1CT36 1 Posted March 27, 2007 You're just some skank he's banging. HTH! this is occuring to me thank you very much sex/dating advice from FFT is like asking MC Hammer for financial advice. but i'm not asking for advice. just trying to understand what could be going on here...??? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RLLD 3,455 Posted March 27, 2007 believe me, as you know, i've been around the block and i've seen this happen a hundred times. i told him how bad an idea it is to do this with a friend and that i'm kinda hurt that his friend would even just approach it the way he did. and i still feel they are lying about not discussing it all before asking me. i know how guys are. there's no way he wouldnt have known his friend was into me by now. we've been together since sept and i've known them all since last summer. i also know that he's not into the 3some thing with a girl or guy since we have talked about that already. so i'm completed shocked that he even considered it. They absolutely discussed it, no question. The only real question is whether or not this is the last "hurrah", so to speak, before he dumps you. My money is on that. Not to beat you up, but have you considered the possibility that you more or less put it out there that you are "experienced" and sexually adventurous? That aspect of your personality will never place you among the "keepers" with regard to men, always just something to get them through. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MDC 5,878 Posted March 27, 2007 this is occuring to me thank you very much but i'm not asking for advice. just trying to understand what could be going on here...??? Here's how it is: Maybe he enjoys focking you, but you're not someone he respects or wants any kind of a personal relationship with. If he did, your "boyfriend" would be punching his buddy out for suggesting you screw him too. Instead, he's pitching you on a threesome like you're a focktoy to be passed around by his friends. If that's the kind of arrangement you want, super. If you thought you were in a relationship or want dating material or some kind of emotional commitment, dump this guy. And I'm certain these guys have talked about this before. On a related note, because he'd even ask you about a threesome with his friend, I'm wondering if you give of desperation or skank vibes. He must think you have very little self-esteem for it to not even occur to your "boyfriend" that you might be offended by these questions. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADD1CT36 1 Posted March 27, 2007 so he a little cryer too, on something that he did.. This just screams dump him that's what i'm thinking. i'm trying to decide if this was all just a bad misunderstanding and i should trust him or not. he has a hard time expressing himself so i would like to believe that this all shocked him too. i dont know. it just happened so we'll deal with it. i'm really mad at the moment and i dont believe in doing anything in anger. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MDC 5,878 Posted March 27, 2007 that's what i'm thinking. i'm trying to decide if this was all just a bad misunderstanding and i should trust him or not. he has a hard time expressing himself so i would like to believe that this all shocked him too. i dont know. it just happened so we'll deal with it. i'm really mad at the moment and i dont believe in doing anything in anger. So shocked that he casually suggested DP'ing you with his friend. Right. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Toro 1 Posted March 27, 2007 that's what i'm thinking. i'm trying to decide if this was all just a bad misunderstanding and i should trust him or not. he has a hard time expressing himself so i would like to believe that this all shocked him too. i dont know. it just happened so we'll deal with it. i'm really mad at the moment and i dont believe in doing anything in anger. I say do it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TAS 2 Posted March 27, 2007 This really isn't even something to be "pondering". Obviously your boyfriend has very little value for your guys relationship. Dump him and move on. Unless you want the 3some, of course. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
supermike80 1,285 Posted March 27, 2007 Not to beat you up, but have you considered the possibility that you more or less put it out there that you are "experienced" and sexually adventurous? That aspect of your personality will never place you among the "keepers" with regard to men, always just something to get them through. I don't know if that's a fair statement. It definitely will get her asked for and about sexual scenarios that would probably not normally come up. But some men want to keep sexually adventurous women...long as the adventure continues when they are married. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RLLD 3,455 Posted March 27, 2007 I don't know if that's a fair statement. It definitely will get her asked for and about sexual scenarios that would probably not normally come up. But some men want to keep sexually adventurous women...long as the adventure continues when they are married. Princess in public and whoah in private. It just seems to me that some women love to profess their sexual prowess in various ways, and subconciouslly some men might translate that as her being not trustable etc.....y'know what I mean? Guys dont mind dating a girl who is sexually aggressive and experimental, they just dont want anything long term with her...JMHO That being said, we know her guy is lying, and this is all his idea, and he is too much of a pvssy to manup about it. If that is not true, at least he isnt a bigger pvssy by trying to fight his friend like a twat, over it... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
naomi 343 Posted March 27, 2007 he has a hard time expressing himself so i would like to believe that this all shocked him too. i dont know. it just happened so we'll deal with it. i'm really mad at the moment and i dont believe in doing anything in anger. have to agree with MDC. He has to be REALLY awful at expressing himself/relating to people if being shocked took precedence and his gf is left thinking wtf, does he value me at all? Doubt that's it and he could be better if it concerned him. If a guy is that dense, you don't want to date him anyway. Sounds harsh but the point is he's probably not that dense. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Black Label Society Posted March 27, 2007 wait! how does this make ME a slut? i didnt say i did it. i swear to god - this was totally random and i never flirted with this guy or anything. had no idea he was even interested. i am more than willing to take blame where there is some. ps. like you should talk It's a JOKE!! and I know.....WTF.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 5,172 Posted March 27, 2007 Guys dont mind dating a girl who is sexually aggressive and experimental, they just dont want anything long term with her...JMHO I agree with this. My wife will do anything with me in the bedroom (she loves pron, giving BJs, the occasional anal, etc.) but won't do anything outside of it, not even a strip club. There are times I wish she were more adventurous this way, but then I think better of it. Of course, as I type this, my wife is working out with her studly personal trainer. Again. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RLLD 3,455 Posted March 27, 2007 Of course, as I type this, my wife is working out with her studly personal trainer. Again. You really think I am studly? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
