The Game (Part II), Continuing FFA tips and discussion to scoring hot tail

[edjr 6,580]

When I need help scoring tail, I HEAD TO FBG FOR ADVICE!!

 

http://forums.footballguys.com/forum/index...howtopic=435968

 

The thread "Things you miss- FFA edition" made me realize that I miss the old "The Game- by Neil Strauss" thread having life and vigor. It's now on page 37 and dieing a slow death....newbies don't want to take the time to comb through all that info and veterans feel like it's already probably been discussed so why bother anymore. I say NO! Our daily entertainment and increasing the odds of scoring random trim is at stake here people!!!

 

During the course of that original thread I compiled random notes along with documentation from my own successes and failures over the past year and a half. Kind of like my personal cliff notes version of the Game for regular reference before a night on the town. I'd like to share those here to get the juices flowing again for discussion and additions. Keep in mind there is no rhyme or reason to the order of info below, just a random smattering of info as they were acquired. Here we go...

 

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** KEYS to portray on initial contact:

- humor & entertainment (if they get bored by your presence it's over before it started)

- Confidence (with a sense you are better than them)

- Mystery and Intrigue (keep them wanting to know more about you)

 

1) Tease her about something

- What’s with the big purse…you have a gun in there?

- Those are some tall shoes…you like 4 foot tall when those come off?

 

2) Look around at other things and seem preoccupied when first start talking to her.

- Combine being preoccupied with humor from point #1

 

3) Don’t answer questions directly…give funny responses about what you do, etc. (This combines humor + mystery)

- Oh, I’m a club dancer

- Oh, I’m a Calvin Klein underwear model

 

Walk into the place like you own it and are important. Head high, make eye contact, smile, etc. Make it seem like you are somebody worth finding more about. Create intrigue and interest with your demeanor. (Remember to smile as much as possible, you're just more approachable that way)

 

Great prop to get an in….Keep an earring in your pocket. Make it look like you picked it up off the floor near your target and ask them if they lost it. (added bonus…able to make body contact and touch their hair and brush it back to “confirm” that it isn’t theirs)

 

Have her describe the perfect man to you…

- What does he look like?

- How does he make you feel?

- What does she feel like in his arms?

** get her thinking and aroused in my presence, she’ll automatically assess having those feelings with being around me

 

You smell so good, I’m trying hard not to kiss you. OK get off me before I do something stupid (brush her away)

Or

It’s terrible that I want to kiss you right now isn’t it? OK get off me….(brush her away)

Or

You want to kiss me don’t you? (if answers no) I didn’t say you could, it just seemed like you had something on your mind.

 

Make eye contact and give a slight stare of inquisitiveness and trying to figure something out. What college did you go to? (doesn’t matter what she answers) Oh good, you look just like a girl that I couldn’t stand in college. I was hoping you weren’t her. Great in, followed up by a neg.

 

3 second rule: move within 3 seconds of seeing the girl you want. Anything else show weakness or weirdness. Avoids nervousness and overthinking.

 

Control your speech speed....talk slow and relaxed (don't show nervousness or overexcitment)

 

Never overextend a stay. Make it seem like you are under a time constraint and have to get back to your friends or someone more important. Avoids looking like a leech or stalker. Also lets you go out on top….nobody can be entertaining and funny forever….make your presence, make them interested and leave em hanging for more.

 

Look for IOI’s (Indicators of Interest)

- She asks your name (NEVER initially give yours or ask hers…let her do the asking and inquiring..this helps guage her interest also)

- Asks you what you do, where you live, etc.

- Asks if you’re single

- When you touch her hand she squeezes back

- Take her to a different location or dance floor….take her hand to lead thru the crowd. If she grabs and hold or squeezes than it’s on.

- When you make it look like you’re leaving she reinitiates contact.

- Beauty is common, but what make you more than another pretty face in the crowd? If she begins to list qualities that is a positive IOI.

- Stop talking. If she reinitiates the chat with a question that begins with “So” it’s a positive IOI.

 

Demonstrate higher value by using “negs”

- You’re bossy

- Are you always this pushy?

- Is that your real hair color?

- Oh my god, she’s so grabby…how do you roll with her?

- Woah, woah hands off the merchandise (act like you are the prize, and she is just another woman)

- Beauty is common, but what makes you more than another pretty face in the crowd?

- You're a lesbian aren't you! (She'll then defend herself and try to prove she's not)

*** always follow up a neg with some recovery compliments though…want to keep it balanced with interest and disinterest. Reward her good behavior with a compliment, but keep her working for them.

*** Don't agree with everything she says- push back or act disgusted and turn away. (if she reinitiates contact than turn back towards her)

 

When opening a group, talk and focus on the group and not just the target. Actually the play is to ignore the main target for a while….if there are men in the group focus on the men. Gets her guard down and lets her see you become the center of attention and want to get in on that. Hot girls can’t stand when they aren’t being focused on…especially by someone outside of her group.

 

With groups, chat up the men or non-attractive friends first...if they don't accept you first than they will eventually ruin the fun with the real target.

 

Ask the group "so how does everyone know each other?" This lets you find out couples, backgrounds for future talking points, stories to keep talking about or poke fun of.

 

Make sure she knows you are picky when it comes to girls. Make her feel like it's a competition to win YOU over.

 

When she starts talking about her boyfriend, agree with how great he is and talk him up as much as you can. Don't get caught ripping on the boyfriend as that will get her defenses up. The more you talk up the boyfriend and tell her how great of a guy he must be, she'll slowly start to think about what makes him an ##### and his value will lessen and yours will raise. If he really is such a great guy than you don't have a chance with her anyways so no sense in wasting more time.

 

A little opener:

Me: Hey, uh, awkward seeing you here...

Her: ????

Me: Oh wait, you're not Tracy!

Her: ????

Me: Sorry, you look almost exactly like this girl Tracy I took out to dinner once and well, I just didn't think it was going to turn into anything and never called her back- that's awful isn't it.

** Talks opened.

 

Always use a non-threatening body language and positioning. Never approach them from behind, always from the side or front so they see you coming. When talking with them lean back, face body away, look over the side or shoulder. Always give a sense of pulling away (again creating mystery or a sense that you’re just not that into them) and they will lean in or come closer if interested. Find reasons to touch their hair (brush it back away from eyes) or arm or cheek….women instinctively simle/blush if interested. If threatened it will be obvious….in that case ABORT and don’t waste more time.

 

Flirt Zone = bar area or high tables….people in this area want to be talked to and entertained. Those sitting in the corner or back tables don’t want to be bothered so don’t waste your time….will end up an uncomfortable situation if approach and fail.

 

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5 Questions game:

** bet a drink, don’t do the game for free

** goal is to get the answers WRONG. (there’s no trick questions)

 

1) What city are we in?

2) What’s the name of this bar?

3) What are you drinking?

- First 3 questions can be whatever…doesn’t matter

 

4) So, how many questions is that so far?

- Key: ask in a way to make her realize you’re trying to help her out and remind her not to get tricked by the game. Say it slow and in a different tone. Hopefully she’ll say “7” or something..

 

5) Oh, nice work you got me….have you played this game before?

- She’ll have her guard down and answer “No, really I haven’t” and then you let her know you just won. That was Question #5 and she answered it correctly. Game over, buy me a drink. (once you get your drink, let her know you have to go join your friends and it was nice talking to her…walk away on a high note leaving her wanting more)

 

 

Guess the number between 1 and 10 Game.

Think of it in your head (whisper it to your friend), but don’t say it. (Stare into her eyes, really concentrating on her thoughts…get a connection going with the stare) 70% of the time the number will be “7”. If wrong…..response: oh man, guess that was a waste of $20 on those damn psychic classes. Damn you Dionne Warwick!

 

Alternate finish: After you say "7" act like no big deal and quickly start talking about something else like you're so confident you're correct. (if you were correct, she'll be hooked in amazement)

 

Alternate finish if they say you guessed wrong: Oh come on, you're lieing! And then turn to her friend and say "OK, you, here, try this one (and then break out the 5 questions game) Don't let it phase you...doesn't matter if you were right or wrong, it's just abot keeping them entertained and engaged.

 

[Isotopes 1]

When I need help scoring tail, I HEAD TO FBG FOR ADVICE!!

 

http://forums.footballguys.com/forum/index...howtopic=435968

 

That is really horrible advice.

[Patriotsfatboy1 1,432]

More proof that "40 Year Old Virgin" was based in reality.

[Me_2006 14]

...no.

[TD Ryan2 316]

wow.

I've seen guys with 4600 golf tips in their heads trying to hit the ball and that's very entertaining to watch (in a train-wreck sense).

 

 

watching this unfold at a bar has to be better.

 

 

I say it all the time: it's the idiots in this world that have allowed a very average ME to succeed.

thank God for stupidity and the low bar it has set.

[titans&bucs&bearsohmy! 2,745]

That is some of the worst pick up advice ever.

 

The earring gambit is especially pathetic.

[Patriotsfatboy1 1,432]

wow.

I've seen guys with 4600 golf tips in their heads trying to hit the ball and that's very entertaining to watch (in a train-wreck sense).

watching this unfold at a bar has to be better.

I say it all the time: it's the idiots in this world that have allowed a very average ME to succeed.

thank God for stupidity and the low bar it has set.

The Bell Curve is an amazing thing.

[Me_2006 14]

Anyone else think tips to scoring hot tail from FBG is like "600 ways for a better Yom Kippur by Mahmoud Ahmadinejad" ?

[edjr 6,580]

I say someone tries this advice on a real live woman and video tape it for us.

[Patriotsfatboy1 1,432]

I have not logged into the Gestapo Headquarters is a while, but I had to just to see the comments that were made.