t.j. booker 206 Posted November 9, 2017 No, I do not think you resume anything at all right now. You need to do this in such a way that she definitely gets the message: you're not going to bang her right now because you "respect her wishes" (you don't: she doesn't get to enjoy such a privilege at the moment); you're doing it to decide what's right for you - and you cannot do that with her under your roof. She left your abode, right? Now, without question, what I'm suggesting would have had far more impact had you done it immediately, and not just let her back in your house, but doing it now is STILL leaps and bounds better than allowing her to stay. You need to have her get her own place, or stay with a friend. You say that you are setting the boundaries, after considering the reality atm. Right now, I'm not at all convinced that she's not using you. What you want, is for her to WANT you. If she freaks out/is mean/lashes out at your suggestion, you'll have your answer: she's back not for you, but for someplace to live. For now. Don't let that happen. You can simultaneously correct your relationship to represent the correct balance of power AND test if she's genuine by doing this. It's going to be hard. You need to do it. well to be fair the house is in her name and I weigh 3 bills so I cant really expect her to want me, Id settle for an obligation handjob once in a while. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IMMensaMind 459 Posted November 9, 2017 well to be fair the house is in her name and I weigh 3 bills so I cant really expect her to want me, Id settle for an obligation handjob once in a while. Fix yourself. You can. I'm done now, mostly because you're probably focking with us. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reality 2,710 Posted November 9, 2017 well to be fair the house is in her name and I weigh 3 bills so I cant really expect her to want me, Id settle for an obligation handjob once in a while. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
supermike80 1,285 Posted November 10, 2017 I wouldn't take her back man. You don't know what you're exposing your kids (guy might come knocking while you're out) or yourself (STD) to. Can you ever truly trust her again? I know it sucks to say.....but yeah, this. You can do better Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SenatorRock 708 Posted November 10, 2017 There is no way this is real. If it is real, OP you need to listen to Filthy and run as fast as you can. Gloria is going to rope you back in with promises of this and that, meanwhile she will keep you at arms length and the next time she is ovulating she will be texting/sexting the first guy who winks at her. Before you know it she is "having a girl's night", "texting a friend from work", "on her period" every time you try to get some action, giving birth to "your kid" who happens to pop out a different race. RUN. (I know you won't listen to any of this, unfortunately as men we all have to learn this lesson on our own) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Voltaire 4,558 Posted November 10, 2017 booker. Be this guy: https://youtu.be/MiwseUrMRLI My four year old daughter came up behind me to see what the commotion was all about and giggled and is now back to playing with her dinosaurs muttering "no more pick" "no more pick." Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 5,193 Posted November 10, 2017 It's really hard to comment effectively without seeing a pic of Gloria nekkid. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IMMensaMind 459 Posted November 10, 2017 My four year old daughter came up behind me to see what the commotion was all about and giggled and is now back to playing with her dinosaurs muttering "no more pick" "no more pick." Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Baker Boy 1,485 Posted November 10, 2017 You can fix yourself all you want, you are not the problem see is. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
titans&bucs&bearsohmy! 2,745 Posted November 10, 2017 You can fix yourself all you want, you are not the problem see is. Oh he should totally fix himself. To get a hotter next piece. Of course, this is fake as sh!t, so whatever. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tanatastic 2,061 Posted November 10, 2017 Can tell its fake by some of the wording. Golly I just dont know blah blah.. But its strange to keep up such an odd lie that no one asked about. Whatever floats peoples boat i guess. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
t.j. booker 206 Posted November 10, 2017 I can assure you guys this is not a lie. Im not a liar, unlike a certain woman I know who woukd say she had a pta meeting when there was no Ora meeting or that she had girls night out at the bar when there was no girls night out, or said she was going for a walk and cane back 2 hours later with different parties on. anyway I got a dozen roses and a reservation for a great steakhouse so the healing and sexy tunes start tonight! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mungwater 588 Posted November 10, 2017 I can assure you guys this is not a lie. Im not a liar, unlike a certain woman I know who woukd say she had a pta meeting when there was no Ora meeting or that she had girls night out at the bar when there was no girls night out, or said she was going for a walk and cane back 2 hours later with different parties on. anyway I got a dozen roses and a reservation for a great steakhouse so the healing and sexy tunes start tonight! Who the fvck would buy their cheating wife flowers? Steakhouse I can see, but she's footing the bill Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fandandy 3,311 Posted November 10, 2017 She sounds like a pleaser. That's a great quality as long as you can break her of the habit of pleasing other guys. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
EternalShinyAndChrome 2,515 Posted November 10, 2017 I'm calling this a trolling expedition at this point. NFW is this guy serious. Yeah, this is some stinky bait for sure. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Filthy Fernadez 2,696 Posted November 10, 2017 Does she come home from these nights out dripping like a popsicle in July? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TimmySmith 2,782 Posted November 10, 2017 My guess is newbie is down to his original handle. And it's real. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Filthy Fernadez 2,696 Posted November 10, 2017 My guess is newbie is down to his original handle. And it's real. Newbie's face looking like a chocolate glazed donut after eating wife's a$$ after her night out. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kutulu 1,545 Posted November 10, 2017 Congrats on becoming a cuck Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
EternalShinyAndChrome 2,515 Posted November 10, 2017 Newbie's face looking like a chocolate glazed donut after eating wife's a$$ after her night out. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gepetto 985 Posted November 11, 2017 My guess is newbie is down to his original handle. And it's real. LOL, and probably true. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NorthernVike 2,080 Posted November 11, 2017 Wife came home? Bury her deeper next time. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bill E. 666 Posted November 12, 2017 I'm calling this a trolling expedition at this point. NFW is this guy serious. I mean golly I agree. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bill E. 666 Posted November 12, 2017 do you guys really think so? I mean golly I know I am not the most assertive guy but I did not realize how bad it had got. Maybe I need to have a talk eith Gloria and see if its okay if we resume normal marital relations earlier rather than later. I guess I could write down what I need to say and read it to her or send s text at least. What do you guys think? Fake News. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TommyGavin 788 Posted November 12, 2017 Maybe she is dating FBeerNuts in MD 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IGotWorms 3,310 Posted November 12, 2017 Maybe she is dating FBeerNuts in MD Sounds like the issue might work itself out then Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TommyGavin 788 Posted November 12, 2017 Sounds like the issue might work itself out then Unless he dies of brain cancer :sad: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IMMensaMind 459 Posted November 12, 2017 This thread is winning. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
