Study finds men under 30 who aren't having sex has nearly tripled in the past decade

[Voltaire 4,556]

11 hours ago, Cloaca du jour said:

Idiocracy....we are living it.

The hope is maybe the liberals don't reproduce and die off and then, when the conservatives inherit the idiots, they think of something.

[Filthy Fernadez 2,696]

10 hours ago, OldMaid said:

Sux might end up alone, but it won’t be because he hates women.

It's not that these guys hate women. It's that they hate dealing with all the stuff they don't want to get the one thing they do want.

[JustinCharge 2,397]

On 4/1/2019 at 8:16 AM, lickin_starfish said:

Interesting that women don't follow the same trend. Are they banging each other?

It it because younger men are becoming less masculine (more liberal), and therefore less attractive sexually?

Maybe they are going after men over 30 (seeking maturity and more financial stability).

[RLLD 3,455]

47 minutes ago, Filthy Fernadez said:

It's not that these guys hate women. It's that they hate dealing with all the stuff they don't want to get the one thing they do want.

It would be financially, emotionally, mentally better to buy it when you want it, and avoid the needless bullsh!t that women bring to the table.

[Filthy Fernadez 2,696]

14 minutes ago, Ray Lewis's Limo Driver said:

It would be financially, emotionally, mentally better to buy it when you want it, and avoid the needless bullsh!t that women bring to the table.

I know what you're saying but ultimately the species needs to continue.

One thing to consider with this study and as I've been alluding to. It's not just that men are saying "I don't want to deal with them" (this seems more like an older guy's perspective) but also (and perhaps to a much larger degree) women are saying "why should I sleep with you?". The 20 something year old men are becoming increasingly less productive, less ambitious.

[TBayXXXVII 2,108]

13 hours ago, jerryskids said:

Interesting, and thanks for sharing.  Are you still with the mom?  Also I'm 51 which I suppose is more normal (or as you call it, old.   ).  

No, she had issues and tried to solve them with drugs.  She overdosed when our son was 14 months old.  Yes, you are "old".  LOL 

[TBayXXXVII 2,108]

13 hours ago, MDC said:

You two could spit roast a cougar.

 

13 hours ago, Bier Meister said:

father/son bondage..... um, bonding experience

Don't be absurd.  That would never happen... unless she was in her 80's, a major alcoholic, and had multiple comma's in her bank account.

[RLLD 3,455]

26 minutes ago, Filthy Fernadez said:

I know what you're saying but ultimately the species needs to continue.

One thing to consider with this study and as I've been alluding to. It's not just that men are saying "I don't want to deal with them" (this seems more like an older guy's perspective) but also (and perhaps to a much larger degree) women are saying "why should I sleep with you?". The 20 something year old men are becoming increasingly less productive, less ambitious.

There are plenty of people out there making babies, just adopt, hell you don't actually need a wife to have a baby.....so dont....

[trumpurethra 42]

Video games

Seriously I talk to dudes all the time its all they do. And it's not just millennials. Dues in their 30's, 40's, and 50's as well. And a lot of women, when they meet me, are ecstatic I don't play games or use social media. They are shocked when I don't have my phone out all the time and actually talk to them.

Telling you, soon dudes be born with vaginas.

[TBayXXXVII 2,108]

16 minutes ago, trumpurethra said:

Video games

Seriously I talk to dudes all the time its all they do. And it's not just millennials. Dues in their 30's, 40's, and 50's as well. And a lot of women, when they meet me, are ecstatic I don't play games or use social media. They are shocked when I don't have my phone out all the time and actually talk to them.

Telling you, soon dudes be born with vaginas.

Yeah, we know.  We call them Democrats.

[titans&bucs&bearsohmy! 2,745]

1 hour ago, Filthy Fernadez said:

I know what you're saying but ultimately the species needs to continue.

One thing to consider with this study and as I've been alluding to. It's not just that men are saying "I don't want to deal with them" (this seems more like an older guy's perspective) but also (and perhaps to a much larger degree) women are saying "why should I sleep with you?". The 20 something year old men are becoming increasingly less productive, less ambitious.

I think it's an odd case of mutual rejection happening. Women are rejecting young men, for the reasons you mention. More men are rejecting women as well, although I would agree that is more an older guy thing. You usually need to get burned a couple of times before you go all redpill. 

[titans&bucs&bearsohmy! 2,745]

44 minutes ago, Ray Lewis's Limo Driver said:

There are plenty of people out there making babies, just adopt, hell you don't actually need a wife to have a baby.....so dont....

I gotta figure single dude at the adoption agency doesn't go down as easy as you think. 

[RLLD 3,455]

4 minutes ago, titans&bucs&bearsohmy! said:

I gotta figure single dude at the adoption agency doesn't go down as easy as you think. 

Maybe right, but I bet there is a way.....hell, fly down into Mexico and grab one that they are handing out to cross the border....

[Filthy Fernadez 2,696]

6 minutes ago, titans&bucs&bearsohmy! said:

I would agree that is more an older guy thing. You usually need to get burned a couple of times before you go all redpill. 

Some of the youtube channels I view had something along this line. MGTOW (Men Go Their Own Way) i.e. women are just a drain so live free of that burden.

[RLLD 3,455]

4 minutes ago, Filthy Fernadez said:

Some of the youtube channels I view had something along this line. MGTOW (Men Go Their Own Way) i.e. women are just a drain so live free of that burden.

[titans&bucs&bearsohmy! 2,745]

26 minutes ago, Filthy Fernadez said:

Some of the youtube channels I view had something along this line. MGTOW (Men Go Their Own Way) i.e. women are just a drain so live free of that burden.

Yeah. There is a sub reddit of mgtow. And redpill I believe. 

 

I agree with some of the thought, but most of them go too far. All the THOT (that hoe over there) and AWALT (all women are like that) I'd a bit much.

My first wife rode me like a polo pony and gradually broke me in many ways. Psychology, financially, blah blah. But hey. I let her. God knows she didn't do it by herself too.

I had no intention of ever doing it again. But it happened. Just met one I couldn't walk away from. One hopes one learned from the last time and all that. Or perhaps I'm a dumbass.

We are married under Filipino law. There is no divorce there, although annulments can be had. A friend asked me... "Does it concern you that there is no divorce?"

"No. They don't have divorce, but they do have airplanes. I won't let it get as bad as last time. And there by God will not be a number 3, so whatever."

I think one problem with marriage... We are sold u realistic expectations. I had these visions in my head of a perfectly compatible partner in all things, that was right there with you making decisions and such.

But frankly, every woman I've ever been with just wants you to make the decisions for the most part. As I've aged, ive become more comfortable with that.

Main difference between my wives? American one made me call the shots, and then second guessed and criticized them forever more. New one gives he opinion if she has one (rare) and backs my play. 

[RLLD 3,455]

I can say, confidently, that if my current relationship were to end, there would never be another.....

[MDC 5,890]

27 minutes ago, Filthy Fernadez said:

Some of the youtube channels I view had something along this line. MGTOW (Men Go Their Own Way) i.e. women are just a drain so live free of that burden.

If you visit the MGTOW site on Reddit you’ll see they spend all day moaning about women. Most of these dudes weren’t going their own way by choice.

[titans&bucs&bearsohmy! 2,745]

1 minute ago, MDC said:

If you visit the MGTOW site on Reddit you’ll see they spend all day moaning about women. Most of these dudes weren’t going their own way by choice.

Yeah. There is a grain of truth to their thought. But they bury that grain in a mountain of bitterness and frankly, misogyny. I also love the elaborate lingo. Blue and red pills, betabux, Chad's, beckys, cack carosel, etc. It's kinda fascinating in an odd way. 

Check out the wall. It's another group of woman haters that are kinda nutty. 

[MDC 5,890]

11 minutes ago, titans&bucs&bearsohmy! said:

Yeah. There is a grain of truth to their thought. But they bury that grain in a mountain of bitterness and frankly, misogyny. I also love the elaborate lingo. Blue and red pills, betabux, Chad's, beckys, cack carosel, etc. It's kinda fascinating in an odd way. 

Check out the wall. It's another group of woman haters that are kinda nutty. 

You’ve got The Red Pill (hate women but like getting laid so here’s how to be a playa), MGTOW (hate women and can’t get laid, pretend not to care), incels (hate women, can’t get laid, don’t even pretend otherwise), etc. They all think they’re sort of different from each other but they all share the same lingo and it’s the same stuff (alpha / beta, soy boy, cuck etc.) you see on The Donald or here on the GC.

[OldMaid 1,838]

I feel like Ray could use a hug.  

[Filthy Fernadez 2,696]

11 minutes ago, OldMaid said:

I feel like Ray could use a hug.  

Oh he'll throw you the bone. Just don't expect breakfast....

[naomi 343]

The lovely manosphere.

When women b!tch about men it's all pretty unoriginal and inspired in a detached manner, on average. It registers more on a progressive virtue signalling meter than an actual malice meter. There's a blindness to its harm and injustice potential.

Many of the manosphere guys - and the less outspoken ones seem to be okay with them - are completely malicious spirited. It's legitimately disturbing. The world would be hell if it was just them.

 

[RLLD 3,455]

15 hours ago, OldMaid said:

I feel like Ray could use a hug.  

[Patriotsfatboy1 1,432]

21 hours ago, OldMaid said:

I feel like Ray could use a mouth hug.  

Slut

[trumpurethra 42]

On 4/3/2019 at 9:57 PM, naomi said:

The lovely manosphere.

When women b!tch about men it's all pretty unoriginal and inspired in a detached manner, on average. It registers more on a progressive virtue signalling meter than an actual malice meter. There's a blindness to its harm and injustice potential.

Many of the manosphere guys - and the less outspoken ones seem to be okay with them - are completely malicious spirited. It's legitimately disturbing. The world would be hell if it was just them.

 

Very true. The amount of dudes out there feel its ok to say sh!t like grab women by the puzzy and just be general sh!tbags towards women seems to be growing in number.

 

Wonder why that is?

[Hardcore troubadour 12,618]

6 minutes ago, trumpurethra said:

Very true. The amount of dudes out there feel its ok to say sh!t like grab women by the puzzy and just be general sh!tbags towards women seems to be growing in number.

 

Wonder why that is?

Some guys are so messed up their wives give  them the boot and they wind up living in an apartment by themselves. 

[edjr 5,552]

On 4/3/2019 at 9:59 AM, Ray Lewis's Limo Driver said:

I can say, confidently, that if my current relationship were to end, there would never be another.....

That's where I am. I can't be bothered. Honestly.

[titans&bucs&bearsohmy! 2,745]

4 hours ago, edjr said:

That's where I am. I can't be bothered. Honestly.

I live in an apartment building full of teachers on the campus of the school I work for. There's several hundred teachers living here. A few married couples, mostly singles. About 20% foreign, the rest Chinese.

It kind of amazes me how many of the single guys among the foreigners just have zero interest whatsoever in going out and getting laid. I mean, this is Asia... It's pretty damn easy. But most of my friends just can't be bothered.

Strange. I get not wanting the relationship and all. But pulling anonymously is easy enough, and it's not like there aren't a million hookers and massage places if even that is too much effort.

[RLLD 3,455]

I am not at all surprised.  Women are takers, why put yourself in that situation? 

[listen2me 23 1,538]

On 4/3/2019 at 9:04 AM, trumpurethra said:

Video games

Seriously I talk to dudes all the time its all they do. And it's not just millennials. Dues in their 30's, 40's, and 50's as well. And a lot of women, when they meet me, are ecstatic I don't play games or use social media. They are shocked when I don't have my phone out all the time and actually talk to them.

Telling you, soon dudes be born with vaginas.

This amazes me.  I realized the 18-25 year old all seem to play games.  But been around conversations with 30 somethings talking about what they did on so and so game last night.  Been asked what system I have.  When I tell them I dont have one... the look on their face is priceless.  Like Im some sort of animal for not wasting hours of my life on kids games.

Very odd.  Never realized how many older people play games.

[RLLD 3,455]

23 minutes ago, listen2me 23 said:

This amazes me.  I realized the 18-25 year old all seem to play games.  But been around conversations with 30 somethings talking about what they did on so and so game last night.  Been asked what system I have.  When I tell them I dont have one... the look on their face is priceless.  Like Im some sort of animal for not wasting hours of my life on kids games.

Very odd.  Never realized how many older people play games.

This is painted as a negative, but I want to see what happens over time......fewer single parent families?  Will bars do away with ladies night? How will women respond?

[Drizzay 645]

23 minutes ago, listen2me 23 said:

This amazes me.  I realized the 18-25 year old all seem to play games.  But been around conversations with 30 somethings talking about what they did on so and so game last night.  Been asked what system I have.  When I tell them I dont have one... the look on their face is priceless.  Like Im some sort of animal for not wasting hours of my life on kids games.

Very odd.  Never realized how many older people play games.

Gaming is the new escape drug.

[RLLD 3,455]

1 minute ago, Drizzay said:

Gaming is the new escape drug.

Better than having them use heroin I guess.....

Seriously, I see many positives embedded in this. Its not 100%, but for men it is a win....

[vuduchile 1,941]

3 hours ago, Ray Lewis's Limo Driver said:

Better than having them use heroin I guess.....

Seriously, I see many positives embedded in this. Its not 100%, but for men it is a win....

What are you saying exactly?  Men spending most of their free time playing video games is a positive thing?

Gaming and social media are poor substitutes for true human interaction   

And jacking off to porn is a far cry from getting laid   

 

 

[titans&bucs&bearsohmy! 2,745]

11 hours ago, vuduchile said:

What are you saying exactly?  Men spending most of their free time playing video games is a positive thing?

Gaming and social media are poor substitutes for true human interaction   

And jacking off to porn is a far cry from getting laid   

 

 

I get your point, but let's be honest. Every one of us spends a good deal of their free time d!cking off. Some watch TV or movies. Some read. Some fock around on the internet, say a low rent message bored, or Facebook, or YouTube. Some listen to music. Others play games.

Whatever. We all got empty hours to fill. 

[JustinCharge 2,397]

I think a majority of kids start out well-adjusted but then they have bad life experiences that screw them up mentally.  I think a majority of adults by age 25 have serious mental problems.  Our culture is very unhealthy.

[RLLD 3,455]

17 hours ago, vuduchile said:

What are you saying exactly?  Men spending most of their free time playing video games is a positive thing?

Gaming and social media are poor substitutes for true human interaction   

And jacking off to porn is a far cry from getting laid   

 

 

I am.  If the distraction of video games, for all of its obvious negatives, prevents them from falling victim to a society that is built to harm them, then yes.  While a poor substitution for actual in-person and human interactions, it does insulate them from the parasitic nature of women to exploit them.

[Baker Boy 1,484]

The unintended results of Social Engineering are far reaching, this is just the beginning.

To deny our own impulses is to deny the very thing that makes us human.

 

[titans&bucs&bearsohmy! 2,745]

21 hours ago, riversco said:

I think a majority of kids start out well-adjusted but then they have bad life experiences that screw them up mentally.  I think a majority of adults by age 25 have serious mental problems.  Our culture is very unhealthy.

Every culture is very unhealthy. Just in different ways.

Ours is unhealthy in the sense of pursuit of status and things and money and ignoring things that actually make one happy.

Here in Asia, they have this whole obedience to family death spiral thing we don't have. And they are also becoming very Tainted by our consumerism culture to boot.

Culture, by nature, is the process of forcing individuals to conform to a norm. That is never healthy.

Of course, the letting snowflakes do their own thing has a point where it goes too far too, As we are seeing.