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Any of you have a story of the one that got away? In high school and into college,I dated a girl I thought was the one. Smart, funny, good looking, came from a good family. She was a great girl. Me being a horny young teen wanted to test the waters though. I told her I wanted to date other people as she was my first really serious girlfriend. I ended up seeing a girl a few times but she didn't compare to my girlfriend. We get back to an exclusive relationship and everything is good. For a while! Now it is her turn to test the waters. It first I was like what's fair is fair. I asked her if she had someone already in mind and she names off my best friend. I completely lost it and ended the relationship. Tried to win her back a few times later on but she had already found someone else (not the best friend. He said he knew nothing about her intentions). Anyhow, went through a lot of crappy relationships. Got married to a crazy b!tch of a woman. Divorced her and eventually found my wife that I am with today. All the bad crap was totally worth it to be with her. She is every bit my team mate and partner in everything we do. So I guess sometimes the one that got away is a good thing. 

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Probably not....there were some great girls to be sure, but not sure it would have turned out better than what I have.....

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Are we talking about a girl that you dated and wish it had worked out long term or are we talking about one of the ones tied up in the basement who may have escaped?  :unsure:

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Just now, Patriotsfatboy1 said:

Are we talking about a girl that you dated and wish it had worked out long term or are we talking about one of the ones tied up in the basement who may have escaped?  :unsure:

:ninja:

I feel like this is a don't ask, don't tell situation. 

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I met this guy in a Sacramento suburb.  He liked Coors Light, had an awesome garage tool setup, and the comfiest couch I've ever slept on.  I had a hard time quitting him.  :(

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Hmmm, maybe the one who liked to get peed on.  Or the Muslim who was crazy about oral. Hard to pick one. They all had great qualities that I hated let 'get away'. But current GF is a nymph, so without them getting away, I'd be missing out on that.  I'm going to pass. 

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3 minutes ago, The Observer said:

Hmmm, maybe the one who liked to get peed on.  Or the Muslim who was crazy about oral. Hard to pick one. They all had great qualities that I hated let 'get away'. But current GF is a nymph, so without them getting away, I'd be missing out on that.  I'm going to pass. 

Divorced guys aren’t the one who got away. HTH. More like go away. 

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Just now, Hardcore troubadour said:

Divorced guys aren’t the one who got away. HTH. 

Huh?  Did I misunderstand the thread subject?   Did I claim to be the one who got away?  Or did you just not have a good response but you felt pressure to post something?

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16 minutes ago, Patriotsfatboy1 said:

Are we talking about a girl that you dated and wish it had worked out long term or are we talking about one of the ones tied up in the basement who may have escaped?  :unsure:

I don't understand what the difference is.

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1 minute ago, The Observer said:

Huh?  Did I misunderstand the thread subject?   Did I claim to be the one who got away?  Or did you just not have a good response but you felt pressure to post something?

Good for you. I kinda like that there are numerous women who would have married me in a second. So happy I waited. I’m smart like that. 

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42 minutes ago, KayJay1971 said:

Any of you have a story of the one that got away? In high school and into college,I dated a girl I thought was the one. Smart, funny, good looking, came from a good family. She was a great girl. Me being a horny young teen wanted to test the waters though. I told her I wanted to date other people as she was my first really serious girlfriend. I ended up seeing a girl a few times but she didn't compare to my girlfriend. We get back to an exclusive relationship and everything is good. For a while! Now it is her turn to test the waters. It first I was like what's fair is fair. I asked her if she had someone already in mind and she names off my best friend. I completely lost it and ended the relationship. Tried to win her back a few times later on but she had already found someone else (not the best friend. He said he knew nothing about her intentions). Anyhow, went through a lot of crappy relationships. Got married to a crazy b!tch of a woman. Divorced her and eventually found my wife that I am with today. All the bad crap was totally worth it to be with her. She is every bit my team mate and partner in everything we do. So I guess sometimes the one that got away is a good thing. 

Nice story Newbs. 

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3 minutes ago, Gladiators said:

I don't understand what the difference is.

You must do it different.  The ones that I keep tied up in the basement are not ones to get attached to.  Sort of like having a pet pig.  You don't want to get attached because then the bacon doesn't taste as good.  :dunno:

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4 minutes ago, Hardcore troubadour said:

Good for you. I kinda like that there are numerous women who would have married me in a second. So happy I waited. I’m smart like that. 

I'm sure you're quite the catch.  Chicks love vanilla sex.  Glad you're happy. 

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2 minutes ago, The Observer said:

I'm sure you're quite the catch.  Chicks love vanilla sex.  Glad you're happy. 

I hit a jackpot. Got one of the last angels on earth. She’s not perfect. But perfect for me. We are sweet and sour. Lol. 

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2 minutes ago, Hardcore troubadour said:

I hit a jackpot. Got one of the last angels on earth. She’s not perfect. But perfect for me. We are sweet and sour. Lol. 

That's actually very sweet. She would love to see that you posted that. 

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2 minutes ago, The Observer said:

That's actually very sweet. She would love to see that you posted that. 

She knows. 

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41 minutes ago, jerryskids said:

I met this guy in a Sacramento suburb.  He liked Coors Light, had an awesome garage tool setup, and the comfiest couch I've ever slept on.  I had a hard time quitting him.  :(

I totally remember that faggit. He had a think for kats and stuff

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1 hour ago, Strike said:

I thought this thread was going to be about fish.  :(

It still can be

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2 hours ago, Hardcore troubadour said:

She knows. 

Awe. Now isn't this better than going at each other over political beliefs? Spread the love y'all. 

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Most of my life sexual regrets are around girls who, in hindsight, I probably could have banged if I had played it better.  A few in particular ended up being total sluts.  :wall:

One girl in HS "got away" I suppose, I really liked her.  It didn't help that we had the same friend group and she "got" them in the breakup, so I spent the entire summer between junior and senior years with practically nothing to do.  I managed to talk to her when school started back up and we cleared the air.  I'm FB friends with her and I like her husband, consider him a friend.  

I wouldn't trade my wife for anyone though, I hit the jackpot with her.  :cheers:

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Probably not the exact thread for this, but my only regret in life is dropping that McRib sandwich ago in the airport six years ago.   You'd think it would be finger banging my stepsister but no.

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My cousin.    

Before all of you freak out, she was adopted so I think that makes it OK*.   And I am just talking about banging her, not dating.    She was pretty hot when we were younger.   We used to do stuff together (bars, dancing, hanging out with friends) right before/just as she was entering her slutty phase.   We used to get hammered and there were several times where we were soooo close to it at the end of the night.   But then I'd pull back because, well - she was my cousin.     She had a great body and clearly would have been a freak in the sack.    She totally fell apart (looks wise) several years later.      But now I look back and I'm like; "WTF didn't I just do it?   What would have been the downside?"   It's not like she would have become all clingy and stuff.   "Worst" case scenario was a hot FWB at the time when she was just becoming a slut.     What exactly was the downside there?      Should have done it.   

* = I may need a GC ruling on that one.   Does being adopted make it OK to bang your cousin?   

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1 minute ago, Masshole said:

My cousin.    

Before all of you freak out, she was adopted so I think that makes it OK*.   And I am just talking about banging her, not dating.    She was pretty hot when we were younger.   We used to do stuff together (bars, dancing, hanging out with friends) right before/just as she was entering her slutty phase.   We used to get hammered and there were several times where we were soooo close to it at the end of the night.   But then I'd pull back because, well - she was my cousin.     She had a great body and clearly would have been a freak in the sack.    She totally fell apart (looks wise) several years later.      But now I look back and I'm like; "WTF didn't I just do it?   What would have been the downside?"   It's not like she would have become all clingy and stuff.   "Worst" case scenario was a hot FWB at the time when she was just becoming a slut.     What exactly was the downside there?      Should have done it.   

* = I may need a GC ruling on that one.   Does being adopted make it OK to bang your cousin?   

I think there is a whole channel on Pornhub dedicated to this fantasy, so it must be OK.  :unsure:

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2 minutes ago, Masshole said:

My cousin.    

Before all of you freak out, she was adopted so I think that makes it OK*.   And I am just talking about banging her, not dating.    She was pretty hot when we were younger.   We used to do stuff together (bars, dancing, hanging out with friends) right before/just as she was entering her slutty phase.   We used to get hammered and there were several times where we were soooo close to it at the end of the night.   But then I'd pull back because, well - she was my cousin.     She had a great body and clearly would have been a freak in the sack.    She totally fell apart (looks wise) several years later.      But now I look back and I'm like; "WTF didn't I just do it?   What would have been the downside?"   It's not like she would have become all clingy and stuff.   "Worst" case scenario was a hot FWB at the time when she was just becoming a slut.     What exactly was the downside there?      Should have done it.   

* = I may need a GC ruling on that one.   Does being adopted make it OK to bang your cousin?   

Totally fine.  I focked my adoptive mom all the time.

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9 minutes ago, jerryskids said:

I think there is a whole channel on Pornhub dedicated to this fantasy, so it must be OK.  :unsure:

Now that I think about it, I had a cousin who used to flirt with me.  I don't think we were blood related so maybe not technically a cousin.  Anyway in my mind she was a cousin so I never moved forward on it.  She was what HT calls "hourglass" so she probably had body image problems and would have been a freak, oh well.  :dunno:

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34 minutes ago, BufordT said:

Nope they’re all the same

Just different levels of crazy.

The crazy love people feel in their teens and early 20s happens with anybody. It's not unique.

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4 hours ago, jerryskids said:

Most of my life sexual regrets are around girls who, in hindsight, I probably could have banged if I had played it better.  A few in particular ended up being total sluts.  :wall:

One girl in HS "got away" I suppose, I really liked her.  It didn't help that we had the same friend group and she "got" them in the breakup, so I spent the entire summer between junior and senior years with practically nothing to do.  I managed to talk to her when school started back up and we cleared the air.  I'm FB friends with her and I like her husband, consider him a friend.  

I wouldn't trade my wife for anyone though, I hit the jackpot with her.  :cheers:

Many, many shoulda banged but was too much of a poosay memories.

There was one chick when I was in law school I really had a thing for. Was one of those things where she was always getting back with her sh!tty boyfriend, whom she eventually married. I always wanted to make a move, but the timing never worked out.

But I ended up with a great one. Sure, I had to have a horrible marriage to a wildabeest first, but such is life.

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7 hours ago, jerryskids said:

Most of my life sexual regrets are around girls

Most?

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