MDC 5,803 Posted September 28, 2020 My 12.5 y/o Boston terrier took a bad turn the past week or so. He’s totally incontinent now wearing belly bands, doesn’t want to go for walks and walks like an arthritic old man, sleeps all day and when he’s not sleeping faces the wall or corner of the room for no reason. I spent a lot of money this weekend on bloodwork and an emergency ultrasound but other than some liver levels being a little elevated they can’t find anything. The vet said he could biopsy the liver or give him an MRI but that seems extreme for a dog his age. He doesn’t seem to be in pain. Not sure if I wait til he is in obvious pain or stops eating? The incontinence is close to a dealbreaker. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GobbleDog 811 Posted September 28, 2020 2 minutes ago, MDC said: incontinence Goodbye Fido. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
EternalShinyAndChrome 2,426 Posted September 28, 2020 Sorry to hear that, MDC. That's a tough call. 13 to 15 years is about the lifespan of a Boston Terrier so he's right there. I feel terrible for your situation, but as bad as this pains me to say it, I think it's time. Again, I'm sorry. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mike Isles 583 Posted September 28, 2020 He is an iggles fan. RIP Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hawkeye21 1,840 Posted September 28, 2020 That’s a crappy situation. Something every dog owner dreads. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dain11279 917 Posted September 28, 2020 When your arms get tired Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DonS 3,050 Posted September 28, 2020 Sounds like it's time. Doggo doesn't sound happy so it's best to let him go. Sorry man. Losing a dog is the focking worst. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mike Honcho 3,933 Posted September 28, 2020 Always a tough decision. If the vet didn't find anything, maybe you give it a week or so to work out, but the incontinence is pretty tough(you live in the city right?). For me it's always a two-fold question---First, Am I prolonging their life in any way that is causing them any suffering or has the effort to keep them become much more than the joy they provide? Good luck, do the what's best for you and your dog. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TimmySmith 2,782 Posted September 28, 2020 Ask a non owner. They will say "2 years ago". Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MDC 5,803 Posted September 28, 2020 12 minutes ago, EternalShinyAndChrome said: Sorry to hear that, MDC. That's a tough call. 13 to 15 years is about the lifespan of a Boston Terrier so he's right there. I feel terrible for your situation, but as bad as this pains me to say it, I think it's time. Again, I'm sorry. Thanks. I feel sort of bad thinking about putting him down if he’s not obviously hurting. But he’s in diapers and won’t go for walks - I get him outside and he stops after 10 feet. We’re going to work on his diet a little. If he’s like this with no progress or decline in a few weeks I may have to have him out down. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Utilit99 4,099 Posted September 28, 2020 When you have to ask the question if it should be put down. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reality 2,697 Posted September 28, 2020 Ugh... Sucks, I'd give it a few weeks but, if nothing changes, it's time. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shorepatrol 1,727 Posted September 28, 2020 44 minutes ago, GobbleDog said: Goodbye Fido. This. I've held onto too many dogs getting put down. Focking heartbreaking but it's the right decision IMO Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Old School 360 Posted September 28, 2020 32 minutes ago, MDC said: Thanks. I feel sort of bad thinking about putting him down if he’s not obviously hurting. But he’s in diapers and won’t go for walks - I get him outside and he stops after 10 feet. We’re going to work on his diet a little. If he’s like this with no progress or decline in a few weeks I may have to have him out down. Sorry man. This is the part of having a pet that really sucks. After my divorce, I learned the ex was going to put down the dog. My stepdaughter wouldn’t have It and took the dog to live with her. He’s old and grumpy, blind in one eye, but still seems pretty happy when he’s not sleeping. I’ve had the talk with her that if and when the time comes, one of us needs to be with him when it’s time, and not send him off to the back room of the vet with a total stranger. I know it’s coming, sooner than we’d like, but for now he’s not in pain. When that changes, we’ll have to do something. Good luck to you. Hopefully it’s something that turns around soon. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
phillybear 364 Posted September 28, 2020 So...dogs, otherwise known as land gators, are one of the most dangerous animals in the United States of America. Dogs are the leading spreader of rabies among all USA animals. Out of all USA animals, they are third in murder of humans. Dogs put about 13,000 humans in the hospital every year. Dogs bite nearly 5 million Americans every year. Whenever you see a dog, kill it, before it has a chance to kill you. Well, that's the way I felt in the early years. Dogs, hookers, dog hookers, whatever. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Strike 3,884 Posted September 28, 2020 6 minutes ago, phillybear said: So...dogs, otherwise known as land gators, are one of the most dangerous animals in the United States of America. Dogs are the leading spreader of rabies among all USA animals. Out of all USA animals, they are third in murder of humans. Dogs put about 13,000 humans in the hospital every year. Dogs bite nearly 5 million Americans every year. Whenever you see a dog, kill it, before it has a chance to kill you. Well, that's the way I felt in the early years. Dogs, hookers, dog hookers, whatever. You spelled pitbull wrong. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
5-Points 2,695 Posted September 28, 2020 It's a quality of life decision. You've had him for 12 years, you know him. Would he want to simply exist? It's always a tough call and it never gets easier but it's one that needs to be made. Sorry you have to make it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Utilit99 4,099 Posted September 28, 2020 16 minutes ago, phillybear said: So...dogs, otherwise known as land gators, are one of the most dangerous animals in the United States of America. Dogs are the leading spreader of rabies among all USA animals. Out of all USA animals, they are third in murder of humans. Dogs put about 13,000 humans in the hospital every year. Dogs bite nearly 5 million Americans every year. Whenever you see a dog, kill it, before it has a chance to kill you. Well, that's the way I felt in the early years. Dogs, hookers, dog hookers, whatever. Dog faced pony soldiers..... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Big Guy 1,400 Posted September 28, 2020 Bummer Man.......I also have a 13 year old Heeler turn has gotten worse this week. Facing the same deal Good Luck.....and I hope you enjoy your new pup! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gladiators 1,894 Posted September 28, 2020 Sorry to hear MDC. Sucks Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FlyinHeadlock 459 Posted September 28, 2020 When they can no longer do the things they enjoy. General rule of thumb though, if they can't walk around, move it is time. They are miserable and keeping it going any longer is selfish. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Djgb13 2,338 Posted September 28, 2020 1 hour ago, Mike Honcho said: Always a tough decision. If the vet didn't find anything, maybe you give it a week or so to work out, but the incontinence is pretty tough(you live in the city right?). For me it's always a two-fold question---First, Am I prolonging their life in any way that is causing them any suffering or has the effort to keep them become much more than the joy they provide? Good luck, do the what's best for you and your dog. This. Wait a bit and see how he does. You’ve had him for over a decade. It’ll be hard to give up a pet you’ve had that long. If the dog isn’t miserable and you can manage taking care of him then i couldn’t do it Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shorepatrol 1,727 Posted September 28, 2020 1 hour ago, Strike said: You spelled pitbull wrong. I love my peeboo Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gladiators 1,894 Posted September 28, 2020 1 hour ago, Mike Honcho said: Always a tough decision. If the vet didn't find anything, maybe you give it a week or so to work out, but the incontinence is pretty tough(you live in the city right?). For me it's always a two-fold question---First, Am I prolonging their life in any way that is causing them any suffering or has the effort to keep them become much more than the joy they provide? Good luck, do the what's best for you and your dog. That’s a bit extreme. I think he should just put the dog down. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RaiderHaters Revenge 3,518 Posted September 28, 2020 Sorry man, I just know I kept my first one probably a year too long, he would whimper alot I had to lift him up to get him walking and I was selfish, after I finally did it, I felt relief, I knew how miserable he was. He couldnt do anything on his own, but he always would try to make me happy Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drobeski 3,061 Posted September 28, 2020 Thought this was another wentz thread. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reality 2,697 Posted September 28, 2020 Just now, drobeski said: Thought this was another wentz thread. Undefeated. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FlyinHeadlock 459 Posted September 28, 2020 We called a service last time. Much easier than driving knowing what was about to happen. It was over in 12 seconds. I carried him out on a stretcher with the Vet tech. Still horrible but he was 15 and change for a big dog. That is a damn good life. Most his breed barely make 12. We feed him human food. I think that is why he lived longer. He was good though until the last week. Still running around and barking. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hardcore troubadour 12,399 Posted September 28, 2020 I took my old dog out in the yard and shot him then buried him near a tree. Did it before anyone woke up. That’s just me though. Other people do it different. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The Elevator Killer 497 Posted September 28, 2020 Damn dude, this sucks. I think you have the right idea. Give it a little time to see if he comes out of it. Good luck buddy. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
titans&bucs&bearsohmy! 2,745 Posted September 28, 2020 If you are even considering it, it's likely time. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Patriotsfatboy1 1,432 Posted September 28, 2020 Sounds like it is time. Would you want to go through life just sleeping and shitting all over yourself? Ours died in her sleep about 6 weeks ago. She had cancer, but seemed pretty good. Was almost 12. It sucked coming downstairs and finding her not breathing, but it was better than some of the alternatives. Set up a radio fence for the new one hopefully coming a few weeks. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KayJay1971 238 Posted September 28, 2020 Sorry to hear this MDC. Even though the dog is not displaying any symptoms of pain, there must be something that is causing it to not want to walk. I would give it a week tops and if no changes for the better, then it is time. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Patented Phil 820 Posted September 29, 2020 When your arms get tired. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MDC 5,803 Posted January 2, 2021 Had the dog put down this afternoon. The past 3 months his symptoms got much worse and he spent most of his time asleep or pacing / panting, sticking his head in corners and getting “stuck” behind furniture. It seemed likely he had a stroke or brain tumor. He was a great dog and he’ll be missed. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mike Isles 583 Posted January 2, 2021 1 minute ago, MDC said: Had the dog put down this afternoon. The past 3 months his symptoms got much worse and he spent most of his time asleep or pacing / panting, sticking his head in corners and getting “stuck” behind furniture. It seemed likely he had a stroke or brain tumor. He was a great dog and he’ll be missed. Sorry dude. Can’t say I am a pet person but been around pets my whole life so I certainly get it. Good luck to you and your family. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MDC 5,803 Posted January 2, 2021 Just now, Mike Isles said: Sorry dude. Can’t say I am a pet person but been around pets my whole life so I certainly get it. Good luck to you and your family. Thanks. His quality of life was such shiit that even the kids knew it was time. But it still sucks. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gladiators 1,894 Posted January 2, 2021 Sorry to hear MDC. Focking sucks. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RaiderHaters Revenge 3,518 Posted January 2, 2021 Did you get him a covid test? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Patriotsfatboy1 1,432 Posted January 2, 2021 Sorry to hear about your loss. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites