I'd dated someone for three years and for a variety of geographic / career type reasons she's across the country and I'm still here. So I met a new blowup doll in 2006. Although we got along great on a personal level and the sex (quality and quantity) was terrific, it always felt to me like we were fock friends, not really lovers, and it finally fizzled out in November. So it's been over a year since I've been with someone I'm really into physically and emotionally. I've been dating but I'm looking for a relationship, not a quick hookup, and I'm sick of having the same dumb conversations and going through the same first date motions blah blah. Dating when you're over 30 is the suck.   Just had to complain. Feel free to insert the usual ghey / blowup doll / mascara / secretary jokes here. I realize this thread is just screaming out for it.