We've been down this road.
Personally, when I watch the kid move her hips back and forth, it doesn't look like she's having sex. That my opinion. I don't see kids as sexual in nature. Other guys here do. That's where we have to agree to disagree.
I'm trying to understand how this leads to pedophilia. I see a kid dancing, nothing sexual, I'm not turned on. You see a girl engaged in a sexual act. Why is it? The only thing I can think of is that it excites you.