Brad GLuckman 519 Posted September 2, 2006 BUT Yeah..This isn't working for you right? Well, there are men out there who LIKE women who they have to treat like a child. There are men who want to feel like they are the guidance in a grown woman's life. Don't know why, but they definitely do exist. Point I made before is this is who she is. You will not change her. So let her go. Make each other happy. Let her find a man who will tolerate these things more than you will. Yeah but some of us just get duped. This is why I think all people should live together for at least a year before they get married. My wife refused to do anything for herself. But we only lived together for a month before we were married so I didn't see it. She lived with her parents still and her daddy took care of her. Then we get married and all of a sudden...I'm supposed to take over for her father. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites