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  1. Posted

    13 hours ago, seafoam1 said:

    Dude, if a person is suicidal, you don't just go take them on a short trip or to an event. You get them immediate help in any way you can.  Don't fock around with strangers on the Internet telling you to just hang out with him for a couple days. That doesn't fix the problem.

    That is, if he is truly suicidal. If he just needs a friend during a tough time, that's a lot different. 

    Now how you get them help, if indeed he is a suicide risk, there are people out there who do this for a living. You can talk to them for free. 

    Just my take. 

    This IS the help I can get him. Take him on a trip and get him to talk to me and then suggest he talk to a professional when he gets it all off his chest. I am the most average of all dudes you will ever meet and I am just trying to keep up. 

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    19 hours ago, weepaws said:

    I don’t understand why people wait, if this person means so much, and you have the time and ability to go to him, that’s what you do.  And instead of wondering what to do, why not start with praying for healing.  

    man I am a single dad that lives 1200 miles away from him. This trip is going to take probably 1k out of my bank account and I am going to have to find coverage for my kid. It is easy to say go to him. It is harder to actually do it in real life. I am pricing out a trip now to go see him 

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    I have a buddy that I have known since we were 9. If I was not at his house, he was at mine. Even now. 30 years away from graduation and 1200 miles away I consider him one of my best friends in my life. 3 times in the last few weeks I have had to talk him down from the ledge. He is on his second divorce, second set of kids and were approaching 50 and they just found a mass that is likely cancer. I am pretty sure that he made an attempt recently though he claims it was "just an accident" He is ex military and has had a hard time with life lately. I have yelled at him. I have pleaded with him. If I thought for a second me going to him would help I would. I just do not know what to do. I have thought about reaching out to a friend of ours to see if he could check on him. Someone he respects. The first time he called sent me into a 20 min panic attack where I could not stop crying and this whole situation has my brain a little wonky. The best memories of my life are with this guy, and I would hate to see him kill himself.  Any suggestions? Anyone else go through this?

    I know. Rats asss but we are all at the age where were going to start losing friends to this. 

  6. Posted

    20 hours ago, MDC said:

    But you’re convinced Trump isn’t a racist despite his numerous racist comments and associations with white nationalists like Stephen Miller? 

    YOU were convinced Biden was not a racist when they have him on camera as a younger man saying he did not want his kids growing up in a racial jungle. You pick and choose what you are offended by based on who is on your side. Just another liberal hypocrite. 

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    13 hours ago, Meglamaniac said:

    Reports are leaking out that the pilot cycled up the flaps instead of the landing gear

    The landing gear was never up so that would track if he thought he cycled up the landing gear. It also seems like a very rookie mistake. Also. Imagine being the only person to walk away from that shitt. ONE person. 

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  25. Posted

    3 hours ago, TheNewGirl said:

    Could be worse, could be Ryan Reynolds. That dude has ONE character in EVERY movie he's in. 

    I really used to like him. The more I see of him and his wife in the real world, the less I like either. 

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