kilroy69 1,248 Posted January 2, 2009 What they said. If you got tied down to her, mooost likely you would have wanted out yourself at a point...but a kid would be in the mix. Think she did you a favor, and you can think about what kind of situation and person is ultimately right for you or what you need to do to be right for it yourself. So you won't actually be attracted to Jerry Springer like scenarios where the deck is stacked in favor of changing your life for the I understand what you are saying. It still just hurts though. I guess it would be easier if we did not get along. However not only did we never raise our voices to each other in the 2 months we dated she never gave ANY indication that she never thought it was going to go far. We were talking about kids names as late as last week. I know that I should just be happy that it ended now. If she could just up and dump me like that she never liked me anyway and was just using me as a fock buddy and a place to stay. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Quickolas1 80 Posted January 2, 2009 However not only did we never raise our voices to each other in the 2 months we dated she never gave ANY indication that she never thought it was going to go far. We were talking about kids names as late as last week. wow, all 2 months of it huh? when you say talking about kids names, did you mean re-naming the THREE she ALREADY has? you're bordering on being kicked out of the man's club for falling in love too quickly with a wh0re Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kilroy69 1,248 Posted January 2, 2009 wow, all 2 months of it huh?when you say talking about kids names, did you mean re-naming the THREE she ALREADY has? you're bordering on being kicked out of the man's club for falling in love too quickly with a wh0re I know. Take my mancard. I deserve it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
naomi 356 Posted January 2, 2009 I understand what you are saying. It still just hurts though. I guess it would be easier if we did not get along. However not only did we never raise our voices to each other in the 2 months we dated she never gave ANY indication that she never thought it was going to go far. We were talking about kids names as late as last week. I know that I should just be happy that it ended now. If she could just up and dump me like that she never liked me anyway and was just using me as a fock buddy and a place to stay. Have to agree that two months doesn't sound like long enough to use how you were in that time as a window to how you'd always be together. But say it was 6 months anyway, I think that if the other person is invested in things working out and invested in what the relationship means to them, then naturally emotions will rise sometimes. Voices will rise as differences or potential differences are explored. They don't have to rise like that in order for a relationship to be good, but sometimes the kind of emotion you're getting at could be a good thing. The absence of that could indicate she didn't have enough interest to ever get bothered by stuff really. OR you two just really did get along in that sense. Have no idea, just don't think ---> necessarily equates to happy. There's other thoughts coming to my mind...started to type them out, but it's probably a bad thing to try to analyze it right now. Let the actions be words instead of the words you've shared. If it's a big mystery to you now, you'll get clarity in time. Thinking about it will probably just leave you more There's nothing wrong with just taking the actions for what they are, it's the clearest thing to do. Sorry it sucks though Hope it is a consolation that it seems so likely to all of us outsiders that you're better off. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kilroy69 1,248 Posted January 2, 2009 Hope it is a consolation that it seems so likely to all of us outsiders that you're better off. It does. It also makes me feel better to know that if it took her that short of time to find someone else then I doubt she ever liked me too much anyway. Just used me for a place to stay and sex. Not that I mind being used for sex. Just dont lead me to believe we are not only developing something but that things are going great. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Voltaire 5,316 Posted January 2, 2009 Two months isn't much of an investment if it's not working. Shrug it off. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
