Your thoughts on family members dating.... [Update #3]

[Voltaire 4,562]

On 3/4/2021 at 5:08 AM, TBayXXXVII said:

She doesn't have a daughter.  Hell, we can't have sex unless I wear a condom... AND pull out.  She won't be on birth control and under no circumstances can she get pregnant.  I mess up once and I'm cut off for a month!

 

On 3/4/2021 at 5:25 AM, TBayXXXVII said:

I brought that up.  She's not having it.  I just have 16 months to go.  Her contracts end June 30, 2022.  She will officially be retired on July 1, 2022.

We’ve long known that your girlfriend is a bodybuilder. The first part had me scratching my head as to her unusual rules but the second part cleared it up as to why... I hadn’t made the connection that her line of work was the reason or that she had a contract let alone that contracts like hers have such clauses in them.

Good luck to the four of you to figure it all out. 

[TBayXXXVII 2,117]

7 hours ago, titans&bucs&bearsohmy! said:

You should get him a banjo for Christmas.

Seriously, I think it's fine. Bring the issue about the future possible weirdness to his attention, and let him make his call. 

Yeah, they're not even related.  The only way the girl becomes my niece is me marrying her aunt.  I just think it's funny to say it.  

[TBayXXXVII 2,117]

7 hours ago, Voltaire said:

 

We’ve long known that your girlfriend is a bodybuilder. The first part had me scratching my head as to her unusual rules but the second part cleared it up as to why... I hadn’t made the connection that her line of work was the reason or that she had a contract let alone that contracts like hers have such clauses in them.

Good luck to the four of you to figure it all out. 

It's primarily sponsorship contracts.  She has deals with companies who make the belts, gloves, weights, gear, etc.  They also pay any fees and costs associated with the competitions.  She's not makes hundreds of thousands of dollars a year or anything, but she's doing well and not having to pay (the sponsors cover her costs), for virtually anything for these competitions is really where the big kick is.  The thing is that she only gets that money if she's active.  If she's pregnant and can't compete... no money/income.  If she can't get back at her old levels, the contracts can be terminated.  It really is more or less a coincidence that all of her current deals at around the same time.  They all expire within 3 months of each other with the last one being June 30, 2022.  That's why she's retiring at that day.  She has job opportunities already lined up after she's done competing.  We already talked about it and odds are we're going to be moving and I'll have to look for a job elsewhere.  I'm almost capped out at what I can make, but her future earnings could dwarf mine.  Plus, it's not like only this area needs physical therapists.  I can get a job anywhere.

My son and her niece will be fine.  They both have their own careers.  They're not truly related but I will be sure to introduce them as my "my son and niece... sorry, his girlfriend", in the future... because that's the kind of guy I am.  When I told them that, I got a look from both women.  My son thought it was hilarious.  

[Patriotsfatboy1 1,432]

2 hours ago, TBayXXXVII said:

Yeah, they're not even related.  The only way the girl becomes my niece is me marrying her aunt.  I just think it's funny to say it.  

Could definitely do something in the Internet porn arena. Not sure what the huge fascination is, but everything has incest overtones to it now (from what my friends tell me).

[TBayXXXVII 2,117]

32 minutes ago, Patriotsfatboy1 said:

Could definitely do something in the Internet porn arena. Not sure what the huge fascination is, but everything has incest overtones to it now (from what my friends tell me).

That's interesting.  I never even considered that (porn that is).  I just thought it was funny.

[NorthernVike 2,080]

51 minutes ago, Patriotsfatboy1 said:

Could definitely do something in the Internet porn arena. Not sure what the huge fascination is, but everything has incest overtones to it now (from what my friends tell me).

The problem with those though, is how often have you wrestled with your hot step sister and it just slips in and she begs you to keep going.  That almost never happens to me.   

[TBayXXXVII 2,117]

2 hours ago, NorthernVike said:

The problem with those though, is how often have you wrestled with your hot step sister and it just slips in and she begs you to keep going.  That almost never happens to me.   

Back when I was still in HS, there was this guy and girl dating.  They were together for 3 years when his mom started dating her dad.  Their parents got married 1 year after they guy and girl did.

It was kind of funny that their parents' engagement party was 1 month before their own wedding rehearsal dinner.