Instead of learning the main language of the country they live in...

[seafoam1 3,017]

...have a book written to tell the normals how to understand what a certain group is going on about.

https://www.banksquarebooks.com/book/9781804942307

My Little Black Book: A Blacktionary

This book is for all of us. It's for people who are entering the workplace and finding their identity, for managers who feel bombarded with ever-evolving definitions and neat phrases, for everyone who is afraid of saying the wrong thing and being judged

This is a contemporary dictionary, a global lexicon that reflects today's world and breaks down barriers to engaging in conversations on race.

[RLLD 4,230]

So you have a language based on skin color.......wow....

[seafoam1 3,017]

24 minutes ago, RLLD said:

So you have a language based on skin color.......wow....

This is my favorite part...

"...for everyone who is afraid of saying the wrong thing and being judged." 

[weepaws 3,191]

So this book would eliminate the OP from posting.  

[Tree of Knowledge 1,852]

Many people say to be an effective manager in today’s world you need to dress and act like Flavor Flav (grill included).  

[Hardcore troubadour 15,403]

Just now, Tree of Knowledge said:

Many people say to be an effective manager in today’s world you need to dress and act like Flavor Flav (grill included).  

True story about Flava: Cops had to respond to his apartment in the Bronx for some sort of dispute/ nonsense. When they got there, his place was a complete wreck, shitt all over the place and a giant Darth Vader mannequin with a clock around its neck. When the cops got there Flava said: “Excuse the mess, but I’m in distress”. 

[seafoam1 3,017]

It's surreal. 

[frank 2,304]

7 hours ago, Tree of Knowledge said:

Many people say to be an effective manager in today’s world you need to dress and act like Flavor Flav (grill included).  

Don’t believe the hype.