Look at me!

[TheNewGirl 1,635]

The fact you are even considering this means there is something lacking in you sex life. This won't help.

 

 

No no no no no.

 

You're misreading.

 

I didn't say we were interested in this, I asked if it would WORK for a couple to stay together after something like this happens. Do they eventually/inevitably break up, or would a marriage reach 40 or 50 years with a couple that swang/swapped?

 

never said I was interested in this, and I don't think my husband is either. We are both quite happy.

[IGotWorms 4,063]

No no no no no.

 

You're misreading.

 

I didn't say we were interested in this, I asked if it would WORK for a couple to stay together after something like this happens. Do they eventually/inevitably break up, or would a marriage reach 40 or 50 years with a couple that swang/swapped?

 

never said I was interested in this, and I don't think my husband is either. We are both quite happy.

 

Oh I get it now. You have a "friend" who might be interested in swinging.

[RLLD 4,275]

No no no no no.

 

You're misreading.

 

I didn't say we were interested in this, I asked if it would WORK for a couple to stay together after something like this happens. Do they eventually/inevitably break up, or would a marriage reach 40 or 50 years with a couple that swang/swapped?

 

never said I was interested in this, and I don't think my husband is either. We are both quite happy.

 

Are you flirting with me?

[Patriotsfatboy1 1,433]

I have a hard enough time coordinating sex time with my wife. Having to coordinate with multiple people would be too much work. Can't I just whack off?

[TheNewGirl 1,635]

Oh I get it now. You have a "friend" who might be interested in swinging.

 

 

We actually do know a married couple similar to the ones that someone else mentioned; drinking/swimming parties, etc. Although, they have a hot tub, not a swimming pool.

 

But, taking their marriage into account, do they have a good chance of being together 25 plus years if they frequently invite 3 or 4th parties into their sex life? Or, does doing that eventually fock everything else up? Should you only do this if you have no connections to the other parties, for example, you're not friend with them, or your kids aren't friends, etc. There are NO ties whatsoever, etc. Does it ruin the friendships?

 

Just asking in general here. I haven't known actual swingers before but from what I hear you really have to have clear boundaries and all of thatm and everyone must consent.

[RLLD 4,275]

I have a hard enough time coordinating sex time with my wife. Having to coordinate with multiple people would be too much work. Can't I just whack off?

 

It's the better option overall, really. Cheaper than trying to keep a woman happy, and if you want kids you can still try to adopt. In the end, without some female parasite sucking the life out of you, you will be much happier.

[Patriotsfatboy1 1,433]

It's the better option overall, really. Cheaper than trying to keep a woman happy, and if you want kids you can still try to adopt. In the end, without some female parasite sucking the life out of you, you will be much happier.

 

 

I knew I should have married my hand.

[BunnysBastatrds 2,583]

On 10/22/2012 at 1:42 PM, Patriotsfatboy1 said:

 

 

I knew I should have married my hand.

 Me too

[MikeMatt 355]

4 hours ago, BunnysBastatrds said:

 Me too

His hand or your hand ?

[Voltaire 5,468]

On 10/19/2012 at 3:37 PM, The Elevator Killer said:

My ex and I went through a period where we kept getting approached by swingers. All were to ugly to fock. That's my impression of most swingers.

 

On 10/18/2012 at 8:06 PM, scott4507 said:

 

 

They started swapping by answering ads in certain magazines, then moved on to websites. Through after-hours clubs, they then evidently moved on to full-blown orgies (pun intended) and finally on to group gangbangs. Her and 6 guys, five women and 40 men type thing, etc. Once it was 100 guys and 12 women! They even reserved half wings in motels with connecting rooms for the orgies....

 

Hmmm .... one is saying that orgy women are fugly, and the other says that since the male : female ratio is 40 : 6, In such a situation, I presume that guys are probably willing to settle for even the fuglies just to get a little attention..

It just so happens that I've become quite an expert on internet orgies. You should be aware that I've been conducting extensive online research on this topic spanning many years. I'd like to report that invariably, in all the instances that I've come across, every one of the women is young, hot and sexy. Meanwhile, the male : female ratio skews somewhere between 1:1 and to sometimes upwards of 1 male to 10 female, and quite frequently, no males at all! Not the opposite as these two are telling us.

So, i wonder why the discrepancy. Baffling. 

[MikeMatt 355]

27 minutes ago, Voltaire said:

 You should be aware that I've been conducting extensive online research  

To summarize- you watch a lot of pron. 

[The Elevator Killer 714]

6 hours ago, Voltaire said:

 

Hmmm .... one is saying that orgy women are fugly, and the other says that since the male : female ratio is 40 : 6, In such a situation, I presume that guys are probably willing to settle for even the fuglies just to get a little attention..

It just so happens that I've become quite an expert on internet orgies. You should be aware that I've been conducting extensive online research on this topic spanning many years. I'd like to report that invariably, in all the instances that I've come across, every one of the women is young, hot and sexy. Meanwhile, the male : female ratio skews somewhere between 1:1 and to sometimes upwards of 1 male to 10 female, and quite frequently, no males at all! Not the opposite as these two are telling us.

So, i wonder why the discrepancy. Baffling. 

You pick better "friends" than I do?