cyclone24 1,814 Posted March 1, 2016 Jesus....ok...this isnt world war 3 in our family. It got brought up, and i just didnt commit right away bc my family might want to do something....and they acted put out about it and laid guilt trips No..i dont ever have a birthday party and dont need presents, but it was more the lack of consideration. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shotsup 832 Posted March 1, 2016 Jesus....ok...this isnt world war 3 in our family. It got brought up, and i just didnt commit right away bc my family might want to do something....and they acted put out about it and laid guilt trips No..i dont ever have a birthday party and dont need presents, but it was more the lack of consideration. On your part. Yes. Knowing is half the battle. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 5,206 Posted March 1, 2016 When I was 13 my cousin got married on my birfday. I was like OMG$%#@%$#@@!!! How can they steal my middle school attention?! That's basically how I view this. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Djgb13 2,338 Posted March 1, 2016 Jesus....ok...this isnt world war 3 in our family. It got brought up, and i just didnt commit right away bc my family might want to do something....and they acted put out about it and laid guilt trips No..i dont ever have a birthday party and dont need presents, but it was more the lack of consideration. Don't worry I understand what you're saying. You're not upset about it like some idiots here think you are. You upset over the fact that they know it's your bday but are being inconsiderate towards you about it. I got married on my sisters bday. However, I asked if she would be ok with that first. It's the act of being considerate to someone that this is about. Not the actual fact that you're upset that they took over your big day Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MDC 5,892 Posted March 1, 2016 When I was 13 my cousin got married on my birfday. I was like OMG$%#@%$#@@!!! How can they steal my middle school attention?! That's basically how I view this. My wife's grandmother died a few days before my birthday years ago and they held the funeral on MY day. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
frank 2,145 Posted March 1, 2016 Good, bad, I'm the guy with the gun. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Djgb13 2,338 Posted March 1, 2016 Good, bad, I'm the guy with the gun. I call it my boom stick Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cyclone24 1,814 Posted March 1, 2016 I call it my boom stick Next one of you primates...even..touches me.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mile High Drunk 13 Posted March 1, 2016 I'd say you are going to go then no call no show. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nospk 230 Posted March 1, 2016 Look on the bright side, you will probably only have to deal with this every year for about the next 14 years plus or minus! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites