hypothetical stupid legal/divorce question

[drobeski 3,061]

say you're divorced 6 years or so

in the divorce agreement , you will provide the ex wife health insurance until either one of 2 things happen A. Either ex remarrys

B. you lose your insurance coverage

 

A hasn't hasn't happened. but B did, the insured had a full time job that he/she got his insurance through.

He/she leaves the job for other self employed opportunities but maintains insurance through cobra plan.

business deal goes sour, cant afford and cancels insurance.

later on gets new job with new insurance...

does the insured still need to cover ex ?

[joneo 529]

Worms is the lawyer here. Ask him.

[edjr 5,564]

I'd have to see how it exactly written up. I'm guessing it doesn't say "loses insurance coverage"

 

I knew a dude that was giving his ex alimony, few grand a month. Dumb b1tch went and remarried and lost it. Women really are morons.

[MDC 5,891]

I'm assuming that yes, if you agreed to continue paying your ex's insurance the fact that you changed jobs is irrelevant. You'd have to consult an attorney to look over the actual wording of the agreement though.

[drobeski 3,061]

I'd have to see how it exactly written up. I'm guessing it doesn't say "loses insurance coverage"

 

I knew a dude that was giving his ex alimony, few grand a month. Dumb b1tch went and remarried and lost it. Women really are morons.

i cant find my copy of the divorce

but layman's terms it was "lose it" as far as i remember

[joneo 529]

I'd have to see how it exactly written up. I'm guessing it doesn't say "loses insurance coverage"

 

I knew a dude that was giving his ex alimony, few grand a month. Dumb b1tch went and remarried and lost it. Women really are morons.

 

So your saying this dude is single and I have a chance?!

[edjr 5,564]

i cant find my copy of the divorce

but layman's terms it was "lose it" as far as i remember

 

was it something you guys wrote up on your own without a lawyer?

 

Luckily my ex let me write up our entire divorce, no lawyer. She was a real keeper.

[IGotWorms 3,315]

Depends on the agreement - which is likely based on state law.

 

Try posting a question here: http://www.avvo.com

 

You'll likely get some responses from family law attorneys in your jurisdiction. Although it will be difficult for anyone to say for sure w/o seeing the actual agreement

[HenryHill9323 65]

 

was it something you guys wrote up on your own without a lawyer?

 

Luckily my ex let me write up our entire divorce, no lawyer. She was a real keeper.

She just wanted to GTF away from you no matter what the cost.

[edjr 5,564]

Depends on the agreement - which is likely based on state law.

 

Try posting a question here: http://www.avvo.com

 

You'll likely get some responses from family law attorneys in your jurisdiction. Although it will be difficult for anyone to say for sure w/o seeing the actual agreement

 

I was going to take it to someone in the office, that is why I needed the actual agreement

[MDC 5,891]

She just wanted to GTF away from you no matter what the cost.

Irony.

[IGotWorms 3,315]

 

I was going to take it to someone in the office, that is why I needed the actual agreement

drobeski - where did you get the agreement? Was it a form the two of you got from the courthouse? Or did a lawyer draft it up? Or was it something you scribbled out on a cocktail napkin?

[edjr 5,564]

drobeski - where did you get the agreement? Was it a form the two of you got from the courthouse? Or did a lawyer draft it up? Or was it something you scribbled out on a cocktail napkin?

 

I found it

 

http://chicago.barstoolsports.com/files/2015/03/Screen-Shot-2015-03-04-at-8.35.20-AM.png

[drobeski 3,061]

drobeski - where did you get the agreement? Was it a form the two of you got from the courthouse? Or did a lawyer draft it up? Or was it something you scribbled out on a cocktail napkin?

nh, she had a lawyer i didnt. i threatened to lawyer up when they were seeking alimony, then they dropped that nonsense and we settled on her getting to live in the house until it sold or foreclosed and provided health until either one of us got married or i lost it.

 

I consider it lost since it was cancelled for non payment

[IGotWorms 3,315]

 

I found it

 

http://chicago.barstoolsports.com/files/2015/03/Screen-Shot-2015-03-04-at-8.35.20-AM.png

Got your Geeks confused: RP's ex is the cvm dumpster

[drobeski 3,061]

She just wanted to GTF away from you no matter what the cost.

i was in this mode

[edjr 5,564]

nh, she had a lawyer i didnt. i threatened to lawyer up when they were seeking alimony, then they dropped that nonsense and we settled on her getting to live in the house until it sold or foreclosed and provided health until either one of us got married or i lost it.

 

I consider it lost since it was cancelled for non payment

 

Yeah see, that's why this doesn't jive.

 

You could have canceled it the day after the agreement and then got it back a day later, just to poke her.

[IGotWorms 3,315]

nh, she had a lawyer i didnt. i threatened to lawyer up when they were seeking alimony, then they dropped that nonsense and we settled on her getting to live in the house until it sold or foreclosed and provided health until either one of us got married or i lost it.

 

I consider it lost since it was cancelled for non payment

Best course of action would be to find the agreement/judgment and bring it to a family law attorney to get their advice. Especially if she's going to make an issue out of it

[Patriotsfatboy1 1,432]

You probably need to:

1. Find the copy of the agreement. You need it no matter what.

2. Lawyer up. Without seeing the language, I can't tell for certain, but I would guess that you would have a hard time claiming that your responsibilities are no longer there given that you chose not to pay for your insurance.

[NorthernVike 2,080]

Before drobs got divorced, they went to a marriage counselor. The counselor said lets start with something you have in common. Drobs said...well, neither of us suck d1ck. It didn't end well...

[MDC 5,891]

Before drobs got divorced, they went to a marriage counselor. The counselor said lets start with something you have in common. Drobs said...well, neither of us suck d1ck. It didn't end well...

Why did drobs lie to his lawyer?

[edjr 5,564]

Before drobs got divorced, they went to a marriage counselor. The counselor said lets start with something you have in common. Drobs said...well, neither of us suck d1ck. It didn't end well...

 

Things really started to go down hill, when she got him a turtle neck for Christmas.

[NorthernVike 2,080]

Why did drobs lie to his lawyer?

[drobeski 3,061]

Why did drobs lie to his lawyer?

you're forcin it kid

[drobeski 3,061]

You probably need to:

1. Find the copy of the agreement. You need it no matter what.

2. Lawyer up. Without seeing the language, I can't tell for certain, but I would guess that you would have a hard time claiming that your responsibilities are no longer there given that you chose not to pay for your insurance.

was over a year i went without plus i let her know it was going to end

plus she was a mega kunt

[edjr 5,564]

was over a year i went without

 

OBAMA GUN GET YOU

[NorthernVike 2,080]

Can SIZE!?

[edjr 5,564]

Can SIZE!?

 

Don't recall, she was cute though, for sure. drobeski done good (lookswise) Of course, this was 10 years ago :|

[Patriotsfatboy1 1,432]

was over a year i went without plus i let her know it was going to end

plus she was a mega kunt

You are lucky that you are not in MA. You would be totally focked if you were. That does not mean that your not focked, it just means that it is not a slam dunk.

 

I don't think that the courts care what you went with or without. They also don't care that you told her what was going to happen. Unless you have an updated agreement where she consented to the changes of the terms, the original terms of the separation are in effect.

 

All ex-wives are mega kunts. It is part of the definition.

[edjr 5,564]

 

most wives are mega kunts. It is part of the definition.

 

[Patriotsfatboy1 1,432]

Drive-thru marriages don't count.

[drobeski 3,061]

Can SIZE!?

originally nice B's

 

then she went mental got disgusting fake D's

looked retarded on here 95lb 4'11 frame

[edjr 5,564]

Drive-thru marriages don't count.

 

yeah, but she wasn't. sweetest girl I ever dated, still is. we still talk, texted for a bit yesterday.

[Magnificent Bastard 190]

My only hope here is that somehow obamacare bites you directly in the ass. Please let that happen.

[drobeski 3,061]

My only hope here is that somehow obamacare bites you directly in the ass. Please let that happen.

i told her to sign up for it

[edjr 5,564]

Just did a little creeping on FB to try and find your ex, think I found your daughter.

 

slowly steps away from the keyboard...

[NorthernVike 2,080]

originally nice B's

 

then she went mental got disgusting fake D's

looked retarded on here 95lb 4'11 frame

Link?

 

 

also...you can prolly take hypothetical out of the thread title.

 

[vuduchile 1,941]

Thank god there was no alimony in TX when I got divorced. Providing financial support and insurance for your children is a given, but why is it necessary for men to continue supporting an ex who's able bodied? It's an antiquated practice that makes it nearly impossible for men to cut ties and move on with their lives.

 

If she has the ability to get insurance through her employer, she should do it.

 

Best of luck in resolving this drobeski.

[IGotWorms 3,315]

Thank god there was no alimony in TX when I got divorced. Providing financial support and insurance for your children is a given, but why is it necessary for men to continue supporting an ex who's able bodied? It's an antiquated practice that makes it nearly impossible for men to cut ties and move on with their lives.

 

If she has the ability to get insurance through her employer, she should do it.

 

Best of luck in resolving this drobeski.

It used to be founded on the policy that uninsured people was just a bad thing generally so they did whatever they could to make sure everyone maintained access to it.

 

Not so much of an issue anymore now that our exalted president has fixed the issue

[IGotWorms 3,315]

i told her to sign up for it

Wouldn't that be ironic after years and years of you crying about Obummercare