Do you have female friends?

[Maximum Overkill 1,989]

I have a lot of female friends that I'd love to bang. It doesn't mean that I will. 

[seafoam1 3,025]

11 minutes ago, Maximum Overkill said:

I have a lot of female friends that I'd love to bang. It doesn't mean that I will. 

You take those chances when you are in your 20s, not when you have an established life. 

I had a group of friends for a few years once. We all hung out daily for like 2-3 years in a row. I dated one girl for a while, and had sex with 4 of the other girls in the group at different points in that time. I partied too much and screwed up my one relationship with the one chick, but honestly that was probably for the best because I had a lot to do in life and wasn't ready to be in a long term relationship. 

Now? I would never even come across as interested in another other than than woman I'm with. That would just kill me inside. 

And for those who don't think women are obsessed about men, in my 20s and 30s I've never had so many 40 and 50 year old women coming on to me. 

I did love the older women at that point. 

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5 minutes ago, seafoam1 said:

You take those chances when you are in your 20s, not when you have an established life. 

Ohh, the younger me would bang anything within 10 feet of me. The wiser me doesn't care to or need to. That doesn't mean that I can't still appreciate Hot Tail. 

And EVERY MAN in here is lying if they say they don't look at and appreciate a hot Women and think about it.  

[seafoam1 3,025]

46 minutes ago, Maximum Overkill said:

Ohh, the younger me would bang anything within 10 feet of me. The wiser me doesn't care to or need to. That doesn't mean that I can't still appreciate Hot Tail. 

And EVERY MAN in here is lying if they say they don't look at and appreciate a hot Women and think about it.  

I saw a chick today. I still can't get her out of my mind. 20 something, blonde, thin, legs for days, and she didn't walk around like she knew she was hot as hell. Life is good now because life was good back then. I think the real angry, creepy people, on this planet are the ones who never had been able to enjoy their youth. 

aka...Liberals. 

 

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29 minutes ago, seafoam1 said:

I saw a chick today. I still can't get her out of my mind. 20 something, blonde, thin, legs for days, and she didn't walk around like she knew she was hot as hell. Life is good now because life was good back then. I think the real angry, creepy people on this planet are the ones who never had been able to enjoy their youth. 

aka...Liberals. 

 

Indeed!!! 

[WhiteWonder 2,738]

Again, it’s not a question of needing to. Many of you are older and/or married. Wanting to bang anything that moves in your 20s vs. not feeling the need to in your 50s isn’t really the question here. 
 

it’s do you have genuine female friends? A female you are pretty close with who you don’t want to and wouldn’t sleep with (if you were single) and she doesn’t want to sleep with you. 
 

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1 hour ago, TheNewGirl said:

I agree with you, I thought I said this above? 

It happens, but not as often as with men. 

And...I wouldn't equate someone saying that a man is cute or good looking means they'd fock him. I can totally look at a man and think, "Wow, he's hot." and still not want to bang him. 

Sorry, it sounded more like you were saying it was a guy thing. You literally said women don’t typically tend to sexualize men. I disagree 

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3 hours ago, jerryskids said:

Eh... it's a spectrum I think.  There are plenty of women in our circle of friends/acquaintances who, if neither of us were married, I'd be humping their legs like a dog in heat.  Most of the women we see regularly are friends from our gym, so they are fit and generally younger than me.  The one I mentioned, as I said she's passable, but combined with some personality things and her situation, I don't think I'd do it.  I certainly don't think about it.

Heck, I've been married for 30+ years.  If I woke up single tomorrow, I'd have no idea how to approach a woman.  Is there an app for that? I'd probably just give all my money to some ho on Chaturbate or something.   

 

Yes but acquaintances don’t count. I’m asking about legitimate female friends. 

even with the “friends from our gym” I would guess those are closer to acquaintances that you only know because of you and your wife’s shared hobby and probably only see at the gym or maybe out and about and you stop to say hi.

For the married geeks, I was thinking more along the lines of if you got divorced, is there a female in your life you’d reach out to, grab lunch and chat in a supportive way. That you wouldn’t even be thinking about as a rebound. 

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1 hour ago, WhiteWonder said:

 

it’s do you have genuine female friends? A female you are pretty close with who you don’t want to and wouldn’t sleep with (if you were single) and she doesn’t want to sleep with you. 
 

Okay, to answer it in this basic form...yes. My running coach. He's my friend, known him for over 10 years. I don't want to fock him, he doesn't want to fock me (I know with all of my being that I am NOT his type). 

So, I have one.  

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7 minutes ago, TheNewGirl said:

Okay, to answer it in this basic form...yes. My running coach. He's my friend, known him for over 10 years. I don't want to fock him, he doesn't want to fock me (I know with all of my being that I am NOT his type). 

So, I have one.  

And Larry Nassar had no interest in young girls.

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10 minutes ago, TheNewGirl said:

Okay, to answer it in this basic form...yes. My running coach. He's my friend, known him for over 10 years. I don't want to fock him, he doesn't want to fock me (I know with all of my being that I am NOT his type). 

So, I have one.  

I said female! 

 

.  I believe you.  That's where I was hoping the topic discussion would go but of course it turned into "i'd bang all my female friends when I was single in my 20s!"  My closest female friend who I would be most likely to open up to is someone I slept with in the past, so that doesn't count... and a more current female friend who I have known for about 2 years, get along really well with, will grab drinks with, discuss movies and stuff flat out told me she wants to fock. She knows I don't want to. She's part of a friend group so I used the excuse of not wanting things to be weird rather than saying shes not my type physically. So I am now interested to see if our friendship fizzles out.

[Engorgeous George 2,331]

Do avowed lesbians count?

[TheNewGirl 1,491]

4 minutes ago, WhiteWonder said:

I said female! 

 

.  I believe you.  That's where I was hoping the topic discussion would go but of course it turned into "i'd bang all my female friends when I was single in my 20s!"  My closest female friend who I would be most likely to open up to is someone I slept with in the past, so that doesn't count... and a more current female friend who I have known for about 2 years, get along really well with, will grab drinks with, discuss movies and stuff flat out told me she wants to fock. She knows I don't want to. She's part of a friend group so I used the excuse of not wanting things to be weird rather than saying shes not my type physically. So I am now interested to see if our friendship fizzles out.

I'd be curious if it fizzles out too. 

It's the "wanting to fock" by either party that tends to ruin things. The rejection felt might be strong enough for people to just go, forget it and move on. 

I do have one guy that I can reach out to anytime, ask how he's doing, etc. I made a comment to him once about not being closer friends because I am married, and he kind of was like, "What difference does that make?" So I don't know if that means he doesn't want to fock me, or what. I just kind of let it go, though. There are times that we hang out for coffee, but it's usually in a group setting, but he will talk to me more than other members of the group. 

It's kind of weird once I type it all out.   Maybe we both secretly want to fock each other but can't say it out loud. 

[Hardcore troubadour 15,433]

What started out as friendship has grown stronger. I only wish I had the strength to let it show. 

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3 minutes ago, TheNewGirl said:

I'd be curious if it fizzles out too. 

It's the "wanting to fock" by either party that tends to ruin things. The rejection felt might be strong enough for people to just go, forget it and move on. 

I do have one guy that I can reach out to anytime, ask how he's doing, etc. I made a comment to him once about not being closer friends because I am married, and he kind of was like, "What difference does that make?" So I don't know if that means he doesn't want to fock me, or what. I just kind of let it go, though. There are times that we hang out for coffee, but it's usually in a group setting, but he will talk to me more than other members of the group. 

It's kind of weird once I type it all out.   Maybe we both secretly want to fock each other but can't say it out loud. 

Exactly.

I actually met this girl while I was out with a friend of mine. She was there with a friend and my friend was falling all over himself trying to sleep with her friend . Then I found out she is also good friends with a group we tend to hang out with at the local bars so I began to see her out more frequently and at more formal gatherings. When I see her now, we tend to talk amongst ourselves most of the time. 

I remember early on, after seeing us chatting it up a bunch, an older guy in the group who has known her the longest told me "she doesn't want to fock you. you're not her type."  To which I replied that was great, she's not my type either. But I already knew she did, and I knew he obviously was jealous. This was before she blatantly told me. I can just always tell because there never seems to be an in between. A woman either has very little interest in talking to me or getting to know me, OR she wants to sleep with me. Hence the realization that I really don't have any female friends and my curiosity on this topic. 

[frank 2,306]

18 minutes ago, TheNewGirl said:

I'd be curious if it fizzles out too. 

It's the "wanting to fock" by either party that tends to ruin things. The rejection felt might be strong enough for people to just go, forget it and move on. 

I do have one guy that I can reach out to anytime, ask how he's doing, etc. I made a comment to him once about not being closer friends because I am married, and he kind of was like, "What difference does that make?" So I don't know if that means he doesn't want to fock me, or what. I just kind of let it go, though. There are times that we hang out for coffee, but it's usually in a group setting, but he will talk to me more than other members of the group. 

It's kind of weird once I type it all out.   Maybe we both secretly want to fock each other but can't say it out loud. 

I think I know why he’s not interested in you. 

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Married 32 years, but yes I do have a few longtime female co-workers that I care about and consider as friends. Strictly friendship. 

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4 minutes ago, frank said:

I think I know why he’s not interested in you. 

How do you mean? 

We are in a running group and a lot of people hang out for coffee after. 

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My Best Friends Girlfriend.  She used to be mine. 

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4 hours ago, WhiteWonder said:

Yes but acquaintances don’t count. I’m asking about legitimate female friends. 

even with the “friends from our gym” I would guess those are closer to acquaintances that you only know because of you and your wife’s shared hobby and probably only see at the gym or maybe out and about and you stop to say hi.

For the married geeks, I was thinking more along the lines of if you got divorced, is there a female in your life you’d reach out to, grab lunch and chat in a supportive way. That you wouldn’t even be thinking about as a rebound. 

You have more relationship rules than a chick

 

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