sawilson 1 Posted September 29, 2006 So, after getting divorced and starting to date, I've heard from many to take it "slow". How would you guys here define "slow"? :popcorn: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brad GLuckman 518 Posted September 29, 2006 I would say not actively seeking another relationship, and giving yourself time to get over the divorce. Instead of going out and looking for another person to be with right away, just going out and having a good time. If you meet someone, cool...if not, no big deal. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sawilson 1 Posted September 29, 2006 I would say not actively seeking another relationship, and giving yourself time to get over the divorce. Instead of going out and looking for another person to be with right away, just going out and having a good time. If you meet someone, cool...if not, no big deal. I'm saying if you kind of started "dating/seeing" someone. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BMoney 0 Posted September 29, 2006 So, after getting divorced and starting to date, I've heard from many to take it "slow". How would you guys here define "slow"? :popcorn: soft feathery licks down there...slow r+b music playin...slow drink sippin...u know the rest after she gets pushed down the stairs, it picks up...gravity doesnt take a day off for anyone... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
phillybear 365 Posted September 29, 2006 No anal on the first date. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 5,273 Posted September 29, 2006 The most important thing is lubrication, you can't have too much of that. When you penetrate her ass, go in forcefully but not too hard, just enough to get inside, not too deep. Stop and ask caringly if it feels OK. If so, push slowly in, occasionally pulling slightly out to get her used to the feeling, and continue to ask how it feels. A show of concern for her comfort as key, as she is in a vulverable position and will feel much more comfortable. When all of the way in, take her cues as to the tempo. Remember to be responsive to her pleasure. You want her to enjoy it so that you will be in there again. HTH Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sawilson 1 Posted September 29, 2006 No anal on the first date. thanks for the tip! The most important thing is lubrication, you can't have too much of that. When you penetrate her ass, go in forcefully but not too hard, just enough to get inside, not too deep. Stop and ask caringly if it feels OK. If so, push slowly in, occasionally pulling slightly out to get her used to the feeling, and continue to ask how it feels. A show of concern for her comfort as key, as she is in a vulverable position and will feel much more comfortable. When all of the way in, take her cues as to the tempo. Remember to be responsive to her pleasure. You want her to enjoy it so that you will be in there again. HTH Uhm, you do know I'm female. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Snoopy1 0 Posted September 29, 2006 So, after getting divorced and starting to date, I've heard from many to take it "slow". How would you guys here define "slow"? :popcorn: I'm waiting a decade, figure by then I'll forget that women are all nuts. Halfway there... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 5,273 Posted September 29, 2006 Uhm, you do know I'm female. Well, I've heard that. Sorry, this is the only situation where I think "slow" applies. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TylerRoseFan 16 Posted September 29, 2006 Don't fall in love to quickly. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MDC 5,933 Posted September 29, 2006 It's OK to suck his cack on the first date, but wait until the second to let him take a big steamy load on your boobs while you're doing it. HTH. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Black Label Society Posted September 29, 2006 Dear SAW.... Did you expect ANYTHING different??? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 5,273 Posted September 29, 2006 Dear SAW....Did you expect ANYTHING different??? Of course not, that is why she put :popcorn: at the bottom. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SUXBNME 1,348 Posted September 29, 2006 Man, you people are the sux Poor Saw is asking for honest advice, and what does she get? Phillybear : No anal JK : Anal, but use lots of lube TRF : Don't fall in love (not too bad advise) Let me help you out, Saw. 1: Anal is ok on the first date (just make sure that you orally get all the crap off of him after he is done) 2: A Pink Sock is reserved for the second date 3: It's ok to give him a rim job after date #3 4: I'm sad...Kitty is crying Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
naomi 347 Posted September 29, 2006 I'm saying if you kind of started "dating/seeing" someone. Hmmm, I really liked his reply but see what you mean. Once you're already seeing the person, it seems you ought to just go at the speed that works for you two. Just what is natural. Maybe it's said to be sensitive to the fact you might be emotionally more vulnerable, eager to make a connection and replace what you had but with someone different. So just make sure you're with him for him and not the emotional security of having closeness again. /feel really strange saying that with my life experience but it's my best guess. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheNewGirl 1,046 Posted September 29, 2006 Personally, I don't believe in taking things slow/fast. If I want to fock someone on the first date, I do it. If I don't want to fock and want to get to know them better, I do that. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 5,273 Posted September 29, 2006 Personally, I don't believe in taking things slow/fast. If I want to fock someone on the first date, I do it. If I don't want to fock and want to get to know them better, I do that. So how should I interpret that neither of these options happened when we met? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
joeshushu 51 Posted September 29, 2006 Hey sweetie I am available and people I know say I am slow. Oh wait that doesn't sound right. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheNewGirl 1,046 Posted September 29, 2006 So how should I interpret that neither of these options happened when we met? It wasn't a date? Oh, and then there is that whole "husband" thing. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sawilson 1 Posted September 29, 2006 So what are the thoughts about receiving "the shocker" on the first date? Dear SAW....Did you expect ANYTHING different??? Nah, not so much. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 5,273 Posted September 29, 2006 It wasn't a date? Oh, and then there is that whole "husband" thing. Yeah, sorry I've got one of those. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TylerRoseFan 16 Posted September 29, 2006 To be honest I didn't know you were splittn' up. I'm sorry to hear it didn't work out. I guess I should hang out here more often. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sawilson 1 Posted September 29, 2006 What about a "dirty sanchez"? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TylerRoseFan 16 Posted September 29, 2006 What about a "dirty sanchez"? Not till the second date. You need to know if he's a keeper or not... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TylerRoseFan 16 Posted September 29, 2006 I take back all the other stuff I said. I'll go w/ below: Man, you gotta hit that ######! :yes: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
