TheNewGirl 1,491 Posted August 11, 2023 12 hours ago, WhiteWonder said: yeah, I was with a female friend and told her that if she just swiped yes she would get a match each time. She said no way. So she started swiping and every single guy was a match. To be fair she is young and attractive but not ridiculously hot or anything. Women have their pick. Especially with dating apps where every guy suddenly has the confidence they wouldn't have had if they had to approach her in person. men have their pick too. Many men want the super attractive, thin, no kids, no baggage, no drama, low maintenance woman. The socially accepted attractive female. A lot of those requirements would cross me off the list almost immediately due to may age, size, and kids. (I am not fat, but I've put on a few pounds over the last three years). I also have several scars due a few surgeries and sepsis, so once my clothes are off, I imagine would be a giant turn off to many men. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mike Honcho 5,275 Posted August 11, 2023 3 minutes ago, TheNewGirl said: men have their pick too. Many men want the super attractive, thin, no kids, no baggage, no drama, low maintenance woman. The socially accepted attractive female. A lot of those requirements would cross me off the list almost immediately due to may age, size, and kids. (I am not fat, but I've put on a few pounds over the last three years). I also have several scars due a few surgeries and sepsis, so once my clothes are off, I imagine would be a giant turn off to many men. Those are like my all my turn ons! How u doin'? 1 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kilroy69 1,250 Posted August 11, 2023 16 hours ago, WhiteWonder said: yeah, I was with a female friend and told her that if she just swiped yes she would get a match each time. She said no way. So she started swiping and every single guy was a match. To be fair she is young and attractive but not ridiculously hot or anything. Women have their pick. Especially with dating apps where every guy suddenly has the confidence they wouldn't have had if they had to approach her in person. I think that it is a little skewed. Men swipe yes on everyone. I do not even look at them. Then when I match with someone I decide if they look like someone I would date and not gorlock the destroyer. 25-40 decent looking with a job are my only requirements for a drink and dinner. If they are ugly I just unmatch without saying anything. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IGotWorms 4,058 Posted August 11, 2023 3 hours ago, TheNewGirl said: men have their pick too. Many men want the super attractive, thin, no kids, no baggage, no drama, low maintenance woman. The socially accepted attractive female. A lot of those requirements would cross me off the list almost immediately due to may age, size, and kids. (I am not fat, but I've put on a few pounds over the last three years). I also have several scars due a few surgeries and sepsis, so once my clothes are off, I imagine would be a giant turn off to many men. Those men will almost never get a date, and if they do, she’ll take em for all they’re worth. And I’m not talking a free dinner. I mean his savings, retirement, pension, probably house once the dumb sh1t takes out a HELOC, etc etc Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RaiderHaters Revenge 4,348 Posted August 11, 2023 3 hours ago, TheNewGirl said: men have their pick too. Many men want the super attractive, thin, no kids, no baggage, no drama, low maintenance woman. The socially accepted attractive female. A lot of those requirements would cross me off the list almost immediately due to may age, size, and kids. (I am not fat, but I've put on a few pounds over the last three years). I also have several scars due a few surgeries and sepsis, so once my clothes are off, I imagine would be a giant turn off to many men. women with no kids and never married are the most drama, baggage and maintenance women Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kilroy69 1,250 Posted August 11, 2023 17 minutes ago, IGotWorms said: Those men will almost never get a date, and if they do, she’ll take em for all they’re worth She is talking about unicorns. Show me a super attractive, thin, no kids, no baggage, no drama, low maintenance woman on a dating site. Those do not exist outside of fantasy/your early 20s. What you get is women who have hit the wall. No longer care, have 5 kids with 5 different men, have serious mental issues disguised as "adorable quirks". But who have been lead to believe by all their friends they are a 10 and deserve "tall dark and handsome" I would be a billionaire if I had money each time I read a profile that said "not looking for a hookup. I know my worth" and the woman looks like a cross between a sasquatch and a gorlock the destroyer. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
edjr 6,588 Posted August 11, 2023 Nice shoes, want to fock? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites