Looking back at all the girls I dated, I never once was with one who had problems with hygiene, weight control, managing any health problems. And coincidentally, none of them were bitter at the world for the jobs they had, the way they were treated in public, problems with world being against them and/or their sexuality. Who dates the ones that are so angry at men and work associates, bosses, the world, etc? They sound like terrible people to be around.