10 things I try to find out from guys on a 1st date

[itsjjw 0]

So out of all the guys that boned you, not once did you ever get tag-teamed?

That is honestly disgusting. No way is that going to ever happen.

[RLLD 4,230]

That is honestly disgusting. No way is that going to ever happen.

 

 

We know all we will ever need to know about you.....

[DaWeffa 0]

And yet I am condemned ofr trying to have the best of both worlds: enjoying my sexuality and finding a decent mate?

1 ) Its called 'common courtesy'. I wouldn't expect a man to understand that I guess.

 

2 ) Guys do not like gold diggers. Its important to set the impression early.

 

why not enjoy your sexuality with a decent mate....that is fun and honest???

 

i am from the south we are bread for common courtesy

 

its not gold digging if a guys asks you out...

 

 

Bottom line, let's be realistic, you guys only want women for one thing. Ok, make it two, you need to eat too.

 

guys dont want women for sex......they just want the sex....i cook more than my woman does

 

As I said in previous posts. Having a hubby cheat would not be a major surprise. Nor would it be worth ruining a marriage over. As long as its not frequent, not often, not long running, not in plain sight, and is discreet, it can be overlooked.

 

I know everyone is going to gang up on me for that, but its really just not a big hangup for me.

 

you need to seek some help.....seriously....

 

Nah, despite how many guys here will back that up, and there are a few who will say they want more from a partner, I know some do.

 

i want way more from a partner....i had all the sex i can handle in college...but i dont want a business partner i want apartner that i can have fun with and be mad at from time to time....

 

 

Not only no, but he|| no. There is no way a third party is going to be in our private relationship. I respect my man more than that.

 

funny, because an occasional cheating husband IS bringing someone into your relationship......

[itsjjw 0]

 

 

 

guys dont want women for sex......they just want the sex....

 

I admire your sexual open-minded-ness.

 

 

funny, because an occasional cheating husband IS bringing someone into your relationship......

 

Its something than as long as it is not blatent and frequent can be overlooked for the sake of the marriage. I do not expect my husband to be perfect. After all he is a man, not a woman.

[Wildman 0]

I admire your sexual open-minded-ness.

Its something than as long as it is not blatent and frequent can be overlooked for the sake of the marriage. I do not expect my husband to be perfect. After all he is a man, not a woman.

 

 

Then just be honest that you want an open deal and define the parameters. But according to your logic, that won't work because afterall, a man will actually know what you want rather than try to read your mind about what's okay and what's not...

 

I'm sure that comment will get me to the couch....

[itsjjw 0]

Then just be honest that you want an open deal and define the parameters. But according to your logic, that won't work because afterall, a man will actually know what you want rather than try to read your mind about what's okay and what's not...

 

I'm sure that comment will get me to the couch....

He will be expressly told that infidelity will result in instant on the spot castration. Once he screws up he will be made to suffer. Immensely. Lots of screaming and yelling and crying. Then he can beg for forgiveness.

 

He will not ever know that it is not that big a deal. He has to believe that it would be in order to keep it under control.

[Yer mom 2]

I like bread

[Wildman 0]

He will be expressly told that infidelity will result in instant on the spot castration. Once he screws up he will be made to suffer. Immensely. Lots of screaming and yelling and crying. Then he can beg for forgiveness.

 

He will not ever know that it is not that big a deal. He has to believe that it would be in order to keep it under control.

 

So have you ever been a relationship where a man has attempted to be the puppeteer in the fashion you enjoy expressing on this board?

 

And a deeper question...have you ever been in love with a person?

[bostonlager 2,665]

He will be expressly told that infidelity will result in instant on the spot castration. Once he screws up he will be made to suffer. Immensely. Lots of screaming and yelling and crying. Then he can beg for forgiveness.

 

He will not ever know that it is not that big a deal. He has to believe that it would be in order to keep it under control.

 

 

You sound like a girl I used to date that always wanted to tie me up and make me beg to let her free me while she spanked the shat out of me.

[itsjjw 0]

So have you ever been a relationship where a man has attempted to be the puppeteer in the fashion you enjoy expressing on this board?

 

And a deeper question...have you ever been in love with a person?

Yes. Dan.

[Wildman 0]

Yes. Dan.

 

Was Dan pretty recent?

[itsjjw 0]

Was Dan pretty recent?

It ended a couple of years ago now. But we're still friends.

[Wildman 0]

It ended a couple of years ago now. But we're still friends.

 

Then why the

[bostonlager 2,665]

Then why the

 

 

Dan was packing a big black snake I would imagine.

[Patriotsfatboy1 1,432]

Then why the

 

Dan, as in Danielle. There is no same-sex marriage in NY. I hope that you neo-cons are happy with yourselves. The poor girl is totally a wreck (see: this thread) because of your close-minded approach.

[Yer mom 2]

especially with butter. Sometimes i'll just keep on eating it and by the time the meal arrives im already stuffed

[itsjjw 0]

Dan was packing a big black snake I would imagine.

Dan was white, and very well endowed. Only one problem: divorced and not looking to get remarried. After two years, he wanted me to move in with him, but not get married, it was time to move on. There were other issues too. We still talk from time to time.

[Vic_Rattlehead 0]

Sounds like you could use some ... BIG PETE!@#@!

 

I read the last 3 posts in this thread.

[RLLD 4,230]

Then why the

 

He either won the lottery, or is making fat coin now, and she knows she lost out on a sugar daddy

[phillybear 366]

I like bread

 

I admire your bravery. Yeast infections are generally thought to be nasty.

[Yer mom 2]

I admire your bravery. Yeast infections are generally thought to be nasty.

 

 

A few years back a female friend of mine was over at the house visiting, hotter than Mr. Albas daughter. It was a scorcher that day and I had the fan oscillating around the room. A strange stench arose and it was driving me fockin batty, she left a few minutes later. She was wearing some Daisy Dukes and was sitting on the carpet. Once she left, I sniffed the carpet where she was sitting and almost puked, my roommate in hysterics. Could never lower myself to hit it after that

[VikesFan 1]

1 ) Last serious relationship and its length.

 

It tells you a lot about them and their attitude towards that person is very telling.

 

2 ) Religious beliefs, in general.

 

Not to debate about, but to get a feel for their overall character and if it can co-exist with my beliefs.

 

3 ) Feelings about having children.

 

Talking about my nephews is a good indication on his feelings towards children.

 

4 ) Occupation and work history.

 

Does he have potential or not?

 

5 ) When was the last time that he spoke with or visited his mother.

 

Shows proper respect. Its important for a man to have a good relationship with his mother.

 

6 ) In what state would he like to retire in.

 

Inside info on his goals long-term. Lets him talk about his dreams and desires.

 

7 ) Favorite pet as a child.

 

Dog lover? or cat lover? or no heart? or total freak?

 

8 ) Women working versus motherhood

 

Asking if both of his parents worked leads him into revealing this opinion.

 

9 ) What should I order for dinner?

 

Is he going to lead or defer? Its a fine line for him to walk. I like to see how guys handle it.

 

10 ) If you were an animal what animal would you be and name three reasons why?

 

Greatest psych question ever invented.

 

 

Seems a bit overboard. I coudl easily see some of this getting into 3 hours of chatting (like job stuff/general life plan), but seriously, this seems more like a job interview. Get 2 or 3 of them answered on that first date. Worry about the others later.

[itsjjw 0]

Seems a bit overboard. I coudl easily see some of this getting into 3 hours of chatting (like job stuff/general life plan), but seriously, this seems more like a job interview. Get 2 or 3 of them answered on that first date. Worry about the others later.

I never said that I always got all of them answered. Those are just the things that I try to find out if possible.

[RLLD 4,230]

I never said that I always got all of them answered. Those are just the things that I try to find out if possible.

 

Honestly, if women were not such capable liars, marriage would not be possible-ever....

[itsjjw 0]

Honestly, if women were not such capable liars, marriage would not be possible-ever....

We're just trying to keep up with the guys.

[RLLD 4,230]

We're just trying to keep up with the guys.

 

So long as you all maintain the lead, we will do our best to keep up

[De Novo 0]

Once she left, I sniffed the carpet where she was sitting and almost puked, my roommate in hysterics.

 

[kutulu 1,676]

I like bread

 

White bread?

[hoytdwow 202]

Are you into pee-play?

[mighty_thor 115]

I have plenty of friends to hang out and have fun with. I have no need for a date to do that with. Who needs you for that?

 

That's why you'll always be alone

 

 

I dated a lot and married in my mid 30's. Your interview dates are all wrong for a first date. Your first date is a time to see if you have any chemistry and common interests. Its a time for letting the conversations go where they want. This is when you get more comfortable and when he is more likely to open up and let you see who he is. If you try to control the direction of conversations with interview questions the guy is likely to be turned off and is likely to think you are some kind of control freak. There is plenty of time to get to know someone. You will naturally learn about someone from a first date. Look at what he orders instead of putting him under the gun ordering for someone he barely knows. Any guy with half a brain will know what you are up to when you start talking about nephews.

[Snoopy1 0]

do you know when Dakota died your parents sold him to the local chinese buffet restaurant?

 

 

 

LOL---that didn't happen! He's living on a big farm with lots of other dogs!