You know how white guys don't want a white woman

[Me_2006 14]

Yea the mudsharking thing is something that is specific to my group of friends. I have never heard it used outside of us. WOW 2 black girls at your school in KY? Do you go to a private shcool? I went to public schools in GA and Im not sh!tting ya half of the people in my class were black out of almost 200 that graduated. We came in with over 400 in our class and the majority of the dropouts were black. I would say that off the 200 that dropped out maybe 150 were black and the rest were white. We did not have any other minority groups to speak of. Laiotions but they don't drop out.

Nah, it's not a private school. Definitely very public. Just not a very big town.

 

I think there's something like 140 in my class that are scheduled to graduate this year. About 700 or so in my high school altogether. Very few black chicks. 2 isnt an understatement. A few mixed girls (3 or 4) and then like 5 or 6 black dudes. That's about it. There are two chinese kids (brother and sister) that I know of, and a few middle eastern students (maybe 4). A mexican here and there, but other than that, pretty much white.

[kilroy69 1,268]

Nah, it's not a private school. Definitely very public. Just not a very big town.

 

I think there's something like 140 in my class that are scheduled to graduate this year. About 700 or so in my high school altogether. Very few black chicks. 2 isnt an understatement. A few mixed girls (3 or 4) and then like 5 or 6 black dudes. That's about it. There are two chinese kids (brother and sister) that I know of, and a few middle eastern students (maybe 4). A mexican here and there, but other than that, pretty much white.

Thats what it was like for my brothers here in jackson MI. They went to school with 2 black kids in their ENTIRE school. When I came up here it was culture shock.

[Me_2006 14]

Thats what it was like for my brothers here in jackson MI. They went to school with 2 black kids in their ENTIRE school. When I came up here it was culture shock.

I'd say so.

 

the weird thing is, here, there isnt really a seperation kind of thing going on. I mean, the black kids act black, but we're all friends and stuff. Surprisingly non-racist environment given the area.

[Angry White Male 0]

I also don't think it makes you racist if you aren't cool with it either. It's just an odd, appearance/lifestyle kind of thing I guess.

It's the definition of racism, and is in fact the major barrier to race relations, and the one which historically influenced a lot of the law. Intermarriage and miscegenation have always been in American culture. "Purity of the race" and all that.

[shovelheadt 71]

I can completely understand why a black dude would go after a white chick. I find very little attractive about black women. Hope that didn't sound racist, just a fact.

[Mungwater 601]

I have no problem with it, I don't think it ever bothered me because I'm not into fat white chicks.

[TheNewGirl 1,636]

What do white women think about a white guy focking a black chick?

does it really matter to white women?

would you react the same way that a white guy would to his chick being porked by a black guy?

or is it just the white man's insecurity about a humongous black cack ramming his chick that freaks us out?

sawilson, TNG, STC, BEG, ADD1CT, peenie, Jessy etc... please chime in.

 

 

I don't care if a guy has had sex with women of other races.

 

Before me, my husband was dating a Latina.

 

Before him, I dated a couple of Asian doods.

[kutulu 1,703]

Before him, I dated a couple of Asian doods.

 

Did they go bukkake on your face?

[TheNewGirl 1,636]

i know for a fact that black people are no where not even on the same planet as racist as whites.

the types of things you all say are never said among blacks about whites.

 

in a way i think this racial hatred is what empowers and forms bonds between you all, by putting blacks down a lot it makes you feel worthy and united.

we don't do that.

 

i do think blacks make fun of whites excessively.

 

Contradict yourself much?

[peenie 1,961]

i don't think it's racist to say that you're not attracted to black women because it's not until just recently that black women or women of color have been touted as beautiful in the media which is what shapes our definition of beauty.

also, you are white and it is natural that you would be attracted to what is familiar to you.

i'm sure just as you find black women unattractive, black women find white men equally unattractive, hence the low dating amongst them.

[Strike 6,016]

i don't think it's racist to say that you're not attracted to black women because it's not until just recently that black women or women of color have been touted as beautiful in the media which is what shapes our definition of beauty.

also, you are white and it is natural that you would be attracted to what is familiar to you.

i'm sure just as you find black women unattractive, black women find white men equally unattractive, hence the low dating amongst them.

 

LOL and yet somehow you called me racist for saying EXACTLY that.

[kutulu 1,703]

It's all pink on the inside.

[peenie 1,961]

Contradict yourself much?

first of all my comment was about, "are blacks as racist as whites"

i said no way.

then i said, however they do make fun of them excessively.

when i say make fun, i mean the way comics on stage make fun of whites and the way you'd hear blacks make fun of whites because of the way they dance or walk. that is not racist in my opinion.

it goes openly for all to hear, it happens in front of the person they're talking about, it's not behind closed doors or behind the safety of a computer screen.

that is not to say that there aren't racist black people, i'm saying that based on my experiences, i feel whites are far more racist than blacks.

 

don't mix up being race aware and racist.

one is being conscious and the other is being mean and evil.

[kutulu 1,703]

first of all my comment was about, "are blacks as racist as whites"

i said no way.

then i said, however they do make fun of them excessively.

when i say make fun, i mean the way comics on stage make fun of whites and the way you'd hear blacks make fun of whites because of the way they dance or walk. that is not racist in my opinion.

it goes openly for all to hear, it happens in front of the person they're talking about, it's not behind closed doors or behind the safety of a computer screen.

that is not to say that there aren't racist black people, i'm saying that based on my experiences, i feel whites are far more racist than blacks.

 

don't mix up being race aware and racist.

one is being conscious and the other is being mean and evil.

 

Talk out of both sides of your mouth much. Also, wanna fock? I gots the jungle fever!

[stop talking cheerleader 0]

I've dated and have made-out with three beautiful black men when I was younger, never had sex or anything but they were good guys for the most part. I've dated latin guys, they tended to be romantic and more giving, and then there were all of the white guys. I've had all of my bad "dating" experiences with white guys, maybe because we dated longer then a month who knows, but they tended to be more dead beats then anyone else. If my SO had sex with other races I would be fine with it, who cares? AS far as pemus size goes, my three encounters were very well endowed....but never saw them, just felt it while we were dancing if that says anything. It actually scared me more then anything, if I only knew then what I know now

[peenie 1,961]

LOL and yet somehow you called me racist for saying EXACTLY that.

hmm...i think if i can remember correctly i was irritated that there was a thread asking whether or not the geeks would hit a black actress, who was clearly a beautiful woman.

those types of remarks, "would you hit it," were usually reserved for a woman with an issue like being grossly overweight or ugly or something.

so i found it racist to see that simply being black was a reason not to simply consider a person beautiful.

as stacey dash has non-traditional (eurocentric) features one can conclude that her african heritage is the turn-off.

[kutulu 1,703]

hmm...i think if i can remember correctly i was irritated that there was a thread asking whether or not the geeks would hit a black actress, who was clearly a beautiful woman.

those types of remarks, "would you hit it," were usually reserved for a woman with an issue like being grossly overweight or ugly or something.

so i found it racist to see that simply being black was a reason not to simply consider a person beautiful.

as stacey dash has non-traditional (eurocentric) features. so therefore one can conclude that her african heritage is the turn-off.

 

I'd hit that sh1t all week long and twice on Sundays...even during football season. Also, that link is weak.

[peenie 1,961]

really?

she looks pretty in it to me.

there are nude photos of her, but they're nsfw so...

i'm not a guy so i can't pick pictures you would like.

[Strike 6,016]

hmm...i think if i can remember correctly i was irritated that there was a thread asking whether or not the geeks would hit a black actress, who was clearly a beautiful woman.

those types of remarks, "would you hit it," were usually reserved for a woman with an issue like being grossly overweight or ugly or something.

so i found it racist to see that simply being black was a reason not to simply consider a person beautiful.

as stacey dash has non-traditional (eurocentric) features. so therefore one can conclude that her african heritage is the turn-off.

 

I have no idea about what irritated you. All I know is I said "I"m not normally attracted to black women but I find her totally hot" which EVERYONE else interpreted as a compliment, but you called me a racist. When I asked why you continually refused to answer. You can try to justify it however you want now but it doesn't change the facts. I'll give you credit in that finally you admitted in that thread that you might have overreacted but that doesn't change the fact that you accused me of exactly what you said is acceptable here. Just more proof of your racist hypocrisy.

[kutulu 1,703]

really?

she looks pretty in it to me.

there are nude photos of her, but they're nsfw so...

i'm not a guy so i can't pick pictures you would like.

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[TheNewGirl 1,636]

first of all my comment was about, "are blacks as racist as whites"

i said no way.

then i said, however they do make fun of them excessively.

when i say make fun, i mean the way comics on stage make fun of whites and the way you'd hear blacks make fun of whites because of the way they dance or walk. that is not racist in my opinion.

it goes openly for all to hear, it happens in front of the person they're talking about, it's not behind closed doors or behind the safety of a computer screen.

that is not to say that there aren't racist black people, i'm saying that based on my experiences, i feel whites are far more racist than blacks.

 

don't mix up being race aware and racist.

one is being conscious and the other is being mean and evil.

 

That's because when black people make fun of white people, it's funny, it's okay.

But when white people make fun of black people it's racist.

[wiffleball 4,797]

Your entire premise is completely off. White guys could give a shiit about whether some bottom feeding lowlife nails a black chick.

 

It's the Black Wimmen that are HUGELY resentful of the whole White Women Black Guy thing. Pixxes them off something fierce. There have been all kinds of articles about it. It was one of the stated reasons why Black women - who people thought would have been pixxed off at the whole 'domestic violence' angle - Sided with O.J. rather than the victims. They see White Wimmen as trolling on the few men they have available - that aren't in jail, on drugs, or unemployed.

 

What they should do is stop blaming everybody but themselves. Get your fat axx out of the kitchen and into a gym and maybe your men would find you attractive.

 

 

 

 

 

 

And yes, Peenie, not ALL Black Wimmen feel this way. And not ALL Black Wimmens are fat. It's a sociological perspective, not an absolute, mkay?

[Big_Pete 0]

hmm...i think if i can remember correctly i was irritated that there was a thread asking whether or not the geeks would hit a black actress, who was clearly a beautiful woman.

those types of remarks, "would you hit it," were usually reserved for a woman with an issue like being grossly overweight or ugly or something.

so i found it racist to see that simply being black was a reason not to simply consider a person beautiful.

as stacey dash has non-traditional (eurocentric) features one can conclude that her african heritage is the turn-off.

besides her disc sized nipps, I'd nail the sh1t out of her. Hell, she could paint herself purple and I'd still hit it all day!

[Strike 6,016]

That's because when black people make fun of white people, it's funny, it's okay.

But when white people make fun of black people it's racist.

 

That's pretty much the way many blacks see it. They don't see the racism in that attitude.

[kutulu 1,703]

Is it racist that I have fantasies about banging a black chick dressed up like a slave while I wear a powdered wig?

[TheNewGirl 1,636]

Your entire premise is completely off. White guys could give a shiit about whether some bottom feeding lowlife nails a black chick.

 

It's the Black Wimmen that are HUGELY resentful of the whole White Women Black Guy thing. Pixxes them off something fierce. There have been all kinds of articles about it. It was one of the stated reasons why Black women - who people thought would have been pixxed off at the whole 'domestic violence' angle - Sided with O.J. rather than the victims. They see White Wimmen as trolling on the few men they have available - that aren't in jail, on drugs, or unemployed.

 

What they should do is stop blaming everybody but themselves. Get your fat axx out of the kitchen and into a gym and maybe your men would find you attractive.

And yes, Peenie, not ALL Black Wimmen feel this way. And not ALL Black Wimmens are fat. It's a sociological perspective, not an absolute, mkay?

 

 

I have to agree with this. Black women are very resentful that white women are coming into their "territory." I have heard, seen, read on MANY occassions where black women bad mouth white women for "taking their good black men." I think that black women can't see past the fact that maybe the white woman has a better attitude and personality than the black women he's encountered. Many black men say that black women are loud, obnoxious, get in your face, types of women...maybe he's not attracted to that.

[TheNewGirl 1,636]

Is it racist that I have fantasies about banging a black chick dressed up like a slave while I wear a powdered wig?

 

[parishilton] That's hooooottt. [/parishilton]

[wiffleball 4,797]

I have to agree with this. Black women are very resentful that white women are coming into their "territory." I have heard, seen, read on MANY occassions where black women bad mouth white women for "taking their good black men." I think that black women can't see past the fact that maybe the white woman has a better attitude and personality than the black women he's encountered. Many black men say that black women are loud, obnoxious, get in your face, types of women...maybe he's not attracted to that.

 

 

Not to mention many are really really really fat. We can handle obnoxious, but fat - no way. Even fat guys won't ###### fatties. It's unfair, but true.

[cortezthekiller303 0]

interesting.

See, for me, I've had girlfriend who've focked black guys before, and it's never really bothered me.

But depending on the chick and her skanky level, I usually assume that the only (and this is gonna sound horrible), but the only reason why a white chick would fock a black guy is to see if they really do have humongous cacks.

Now, I have a few black friends, and a few messican friends, and my black friends are great, I love them to death, but still, I can't shake the feeling that a white chick upon seeing an attractive black guy at a club, and an attractive white guy at a club, that if she goes home with the black guy, it's cause she wants to see if he's packing a foot long d1ck that will bore her .30 over like an engine.

and I know that if I was with a chick who was that big of a s|ut, I'd only use her as a fock doll and nothing else.

 

I hope you got teh AIDS and ###### off and die.

[stop talking cheerleader 0]

I have to agree with this. Black women are very resentful that white women are coming into their "territory." I have heard, seen, read on MANY occassions where black women bad mouth white women for "taking their good black men." I think that black women can't see past the fact that maybe the white woman has a better attitude and personality than the black women he's encountered. Many black men say that black women are loud, obnoxious, get in your face, types of women...maybe he's not attracted to that.

 

What's that one movie with Julia Stiles? Save the Last dance or something where she gets harrassed for dating a "good black man doing something with his life?" Yeah...that is what this convo reminds me of

[TheNewGirl 1,636]

What's that one movie with Julia Stiles? Save the Last dance or something where she gets harrassed for dating a "good black man doing something with his life?" Yeah...that is what this convo reminds me of

 

 

Exactly!!! The doods sister gives her crap, because she (Julia Styles) can't figure out why the black chicks are all so mean to her.

 

There is another teen-type movie too that deals with this, but I can't remember the name.

 

I think that Othello is another one, but I will have to check.

[peenie 1,961]

That's because when black people make fun of white people, it's funny, it's okay.

But when white people make fun of black people it's racist.

that is another topic and i've said on this website many times that i find it bothersome and double standard, hence my defense of imus.

the double standard does exist which is why i mentioned it here. i'm the one that pointed that fact out.

it is my opinion that not being able to equally make fun of each other is one of the ways we keep racism alive, we don't communicate honestly with each other.

it's not fair that one group can bash another.

 

i wouldn't have brought it up if i didn't find it a problem. i don't support it. nor do i find it funny.

i actually find it offensive.

i don't think white people are soooo different than blacks, but keeping that sterotype alive is reinforcing those beliefs.

 

i hate all these movies that come out with stuffy old white folks being entertained by off color deviant black folks that are supposed to show them the way.

trading places was great movie, no need to try to rewrite that one a million times in different ways.

(except in me, myself and irene-the black kids were funny)

[Big_Pete 0]

I hope you got teh AIDS and ###### off and die.

why? what did I say in that that was so bad?

my example was the "everything being the same, except 1 was white and 1 was black". That way personalities didn't come into play, and I even used it in the bar scene.

[peenie 1,961]

It's the Black Wimmen that are HUGELY resentful of the whole White Women Black Guy thing. Pixxes them off something fierce.

well i find it ironic that me as a black woman is the one of the few people defending interracial relationships.

i have said nothing negative against it and as a matter of fact i've tried to lift their relationship up out of the gutter where you all tried to place it, by saying white women only want the big black cack.

i'm the one disagreeing with that premise.

you see, when you are secure with who you are there is no slight when anyone finds love and happiness.

i'm not mad when my black brothers love my white sisters or when they love other black brothers.

it has no reflection on me or my ability to find a partner.

 

but i agree with you, not all people feel that way, i didn't always:

here, check this out

[TheNewGirl 1,636]

that is another topic and i've said on this website many times that i find it bothersome and double standard, hence my defense of imus.

the double standard does exist which is why i mentioned it here. i'm the one that pointed that fact out.

it is my opinion that not being able to equally make fun of each other is one of the ways we keep racism alive, we don't communicate honestly with each other.

it's not fair that one group can bash another.

 

i wouldn't have brought it up if i didn't find it a problem. i don't support it. nor do i find it funny.

i actually find it offensive.

i don't think white people are soooo different than blacks, but keeping that sterotype alive is reinforcing those beliefs.

 

i hate all these movies that come out with stuffy old white folks being entertained by off color deviant black folks that are supposed to show them the way.

trading places was great movie, no need to try to rewrite that one a million times in different ways.

(except in me, myself and irene-the black kids were funny)

 

 

This post makes NO sense considering that you posted this above as well:

 

when i say make fun, i mean the way comics on stage make fun of whites and the way you'd hear blacks make fun of whites because of the way they dance or walk. that is not racist in my opinion.

[wiffleball 4,797]

But depending on the chick and her skanky level, I usually assume that the only (and this is gonna sound horrible), but the only reason why a white chick would fock a black guy is to see if they really do have humongous cacks.

 

You have a lot to learn about wimmen BP, more to the point, about girls.

 

Some white girls - more than will ever admit - date black guys for the same reason they date unemployed abusive bikers, rockers, artists, Democrats, etc.

 

- To get back at Daddy.

 

 

In the end, no matter how how old, intelligent & successful they are, there's a little girl driving some of women's most guttaral instincts. For many, the man they choose is either to:

 

1) Replace the Daddy they Love or

2) Punish the Daddy that didn't love them or even worse, hurt them or molested them.

 

 

As with all humans, there are many many variations on the theme.

[peenie 1,961]

@tng, what makes no sense?

maybe you need to type more than one sentence to make your point instead of quoting me over and over.

 

eta,

i do not find making fun of someone racism. i am bothered by the double standard though.

however i was answering your question about the double standard, not whether it is racist to make fun of someone. is that your problem? i feel one group being freely able to express themselves while the other one cannot keeps racism alive.

get it yet?

[Me_2006 14]

It's the definition of racism, and is in fact the major barrier to race relations, and the one which historically influenced a lot of the law. Intermarriage and miscegenation have always been in American culture. "Purity of the race" and all that.

No no. I mean if you aren't attracted to black/asian/mexican/middle eastern/etc men/women that it doesn't make you racist. It's just not what your'e particularly attracted to. It doesn't signify some sort of superioirity. It's like a guy who's attracted to brunettes or redheads or whatever the case may be. Just a preference about appearance.

[TheNewGirl 1,636]

@tng, what makes no sense?

maybe you need to type more than one sentence to make your point instead of quoting me over and over.

 

 

Maybe you need to stop saying assinine things, and just admit that you're a hyocrit and a bigot...

[phillybear 366]

For what it's worth, a white woman once told me that the appeal of having the sex with a black man is the "bad boy" image and attitude as compared to a white man. Sort of like comparing DMX to Weird Al.

 

Also, I have found that black women are just as enthusiastic in telling me to get lost as women of any other race.