My Ex wife did the unthinkable.

[mighty_thor 115]

Kevin Federline had more than $15,000/year to draw from... a team of high-priced attorneys... and an ex-wife who was publicly going completely fruit-loop and endangering the lives of her children.

 

Don't use Federline as a benchmark.

 

I'm not saying don't go for custody. Quite the contrary. Don't for one second believe it isn't going to be a near impossible accomplishment. Many fathers don't get custody of their children until they're dead at the hands of a biological mother or her new boyfriend.

 

Yeah, the $15,000 is a problem. But the wife has nothing. I'm not sure gocolts is telling us everything about himself. I seem to recall that he was disabled or something like that. thats why i asked him if he had any ghosts in his closet.

 

I don't know the specifics of your case mephisto. i have a good friend who also fought for custody but he knew he was in a losing battle. You don't have a prayer against the typical woman. I realize its not an even fight. I remember my friend telling me that he had to pay her lawyer fees. Which is ludicrous because she could hire the most expensive lawyer to represent herself.

 

But here is the case of a woman stating that her ex boyfriend has threatened to shoot himself in front of the boy. Can you smell "murder-suicide"? If gocolts gets a judge who smells it then he has a chance. If the kid gets murdered after the judge ruled in favor of the woman then his name will be splattered all over the news. Maybe a smart lawyer could make a judge consider that.

[Frank M 181]

I've decided I don't believe a word of it.

[gocolts 300]

So your ex stole over 40 grand from a previous employer and got caught!

 

Now she is thinking about taking out a restraining order on her boyfriend? My advice is that you should encourage her to get the restraining order. Fill out all the paper work and just let her sign the form if you have to. This restraining order will help your case as well. the best thing would be for her to state the exact quote from the ex-bf on the rstraining order application/form. this will give you the evidence you need.

 

The fact that she is a crook and hangs out with unstable people is huge in a custody case.

 

Do you have some ghosts in your closets that would come out in a custody battle? I don't know why you are being such a puzzy with regards to the custody. I get the feeling you want your ex back. You have not even tried to get another woman.

Excellent idea there. Wish I would have thought of that when she first asked. I will call her and my son today and see what the situation is. She asked me for advice in the first place so I feel I can keep on this. If he is still calling, I will make a push for the restraining order.

 

As far as ghosts in my closet goes, I'm not sure. I know she will use the fact that I am disabled to her advantage. Plus, when she first left she got a focking restraining order on me and told the police that I raped her, which I didn't. So there's that. She also claimed domestic violence even though I NEVER laid a hand on her or even threatened to lay a hand on her. I am not being a puzzy about the custody, we just got finished up with the first battle in January. Yes, it took about a year. Non of that shiat mattered to the judge about her stealing and going out then, so I doubt it will matter now.

[gocolts 300]

Wow. I just read through most of this and I would say stay the fock out of that mess. I feel for you, man. Pretty shiity that they are playing mind games with your son. Rite Aid sells over the counter paternity tests for like 20 bucks. Just a thought...

There is no doubt that he is mine. Our relationship was outstanding at the point when she got preggo. Plus, my son looks exactly like me. It is uncanny. When you look at my child pics and compare them to my son's, it is obvious. Plus plus, it wouldn't matter at this point anyway. He is mine and there is no way I could just abandon him.

[BLS 314]

As far as ghosts in my closet goes, I'm not sure. I know she will use the fact that I am disabled to her advantage. Plus, when she first left she got a focking restraining order on me and told the police that I raped her, which I didn't. So there's that. She also claimed domestic violence even though I NEVER laid a hand on her or even threatened to lay a hand on her. I am not being a puzzy about the custody, we just got finished up with the first battle in January. Yes, it took about a year. Non of that shiat mattered to the judge about her stealing and going out then, so I doubt it will matter now.

 

 

I think this qualifies as a 'ghost' in your closet.

[gocolts 300]

I get the feeling you want your ex back. You have not even tried to get another woman.

 

This may have been harshly worded by mighty thor, but I bet its true. Time to get over her gocolts.

Well it's not true. The only reason I even considered it was because I was in fear for my son's life Sunday evening. Like I said earlier, a lot of crazy ideas ran through my head when I heard about this.

 

I am 100% focused on my son and therefor I don't think it would be fair to split up the time I have him with some woman. I would love to find someone to spend time with. I am lonely when my son is not here. I don't think a woman would understand why I couldn't spend time with both her and my son at the same time. It wouldn't be fair to the woman either to only be able to hang with me when my son wasn't there. I expect to start getting him most of the time in just a couple more weeks when he is out of school. And if my ex ever does get a job, I will be the one watching him while she works. I have drilled this into her head that it is not putting me out to watch my own son and she doesn't need to spend money on freaking daycare. She is always asking me if it is ok for me to watch him when various things come up. She always says "I don't want you to think I am dumping him off and putting you out." I welcome ANYTIME I can get with him.

 

After all the shiat she has done, there is no freaking way i could take her back. She could accuse me of rape again. She could have me kicked out of my own house again. I bought my house years before I even met her. But when she left me, it was me that was made to leave until she got moved out. And boy did she clean me out. Everything we ever purchased together she took. And like TNG said in an earlier post, this would not teach my son anything good about a marriage.

[gocolts 300]

My advice would be to talk to a lawyer who specializes in fathers custody cases. My fiance's father has one here in Colorado that has helped him through 2 divorces (only 1 where kids where an issue). I did a quick google search and found a link to a fathers rights attorney in Indiana.

 

http://www.stanleyrobison.com/PracticeArea...ild-Custody.asp

 

I'd say give him a call and setup a time to explain the situation to him. At the very worst he could say "you're focked" and at the very best you get your son back into a more stable/sane environment. It may cost you some money but most attorneys are willing to work out a payment plan (and it can't be more than what another 10 years of your ex's leeching is going to cost you).

Thanks for the tip. I will give him a call.

[TheNewGirl 1,496]

Well it's not true. The only reason I even considered it was because I was in fear for my son's life Sunday evening. Like I said earlier, a lot of crazy ideas ran through my head when I heard about this.

 

If you're fearing for your child's life due to the life that your ex has chosen, SOMETHING needs to be done.

 

I am 100% focused on my son and therefor I don't think it would be fair to split up the time I have him with some woman. I would love to find someone to spend time with. I am lonely when my son is not here. I don't think a woman would understand why I couldn't spend time with both her and my son at the same time. It wouldn't be fair to the woman either to only be able to hang with me when my son wasn't there.

 

Please don't assume that women are like this. Some, yes. But I gather that there are many MATURE women out there that would completely understand that your child comes first. If she can't understand that, then SHE isn't worth it.

 

I expect to start getting him most of the time in just a couple more weeks when he is out of school. And if my ex ever does get a job, I will be the one watching him while she works. I have drilled this into her head that it is not putting me out to watch my own son and she doesn't need to spend money on freaking daycare. She is always asking me if it is ok for me to watch him when various things come up. She always says "I don't want you to think I am dumping him off and putting you out." I welcome ANYTIME I can get with him.

 

To the bolded, she doesn't want you to think that she's dumping the kid off and going and doing "various things?" She doesn't work, and you've noted that she parties and drinks a lot. Where the fock does she get the money to do that? If she's spending "child support" on alcohol, SOMETHING needs to be done. And, she might not want it to seem like she's 'dumping the kid off' but isn't that what she's doing? I mean, the kid is hindering some part of this lifestlye that she's chosen, so yea, IMO, she IS dumping him off.

 

After all the shiat she has done, there is no freaking way i could take her back. She could accuse me of rape again. She could have me kicked out of my own house again. I bought my house years before I even met her. But when she left me, it was me that was made to leave until she got moved out. And boy did she clean me out. Everything we ever purchased together she took. And like TNG said in an earlier post, this would not teach my son anything good about a marriage.

 

However, even though you aren't willing to take her back, the things that are being allowed to happen aren't teaching him anything, either.

[gocolts 300]

I'm no elitist, and I know you want your son back, but maybe you should think about improving your self first.

 

I don't see how it's possible to support both yourself and a kid on that kind of income without being a leech. Kid is 8, he's going to need someone to watch him when you're at work. Childcare is expensive. Do you get healthcare through your job now? Is it good enough for your kid?

 

Just some things to think about. You want to be a positive role model for your kid, bettering yourself will help you do that. You definitely don't want to teach him that government handouts are the way to go.

 

Best of luck.

Trust me buddy, it is enough. I can make it on that. Anybody can if they have too. I don't get food stamps or welfare. I get a disability check each month. I paid a lot of money to SS and always had good paying jobs before I became disabled. That is why I get more than people who get SSI instead of SSD. SSI is for people who are disabled and didn't work enough/pay enough into SS.

 

Hell, me,my son, and my wife lived on around that for years after she got canned for stealing all that money. She has had jobs since then but always ends up just quiting. She gets food stamps and such. She was even using the after school daycare at the school. He would stay for a few hours after school everyday, even though she wasn't working or going to school or anything. When they found out, they told her she can not use this service when she is doing nothing in the first place. I was the one who always took care of him and she can't handle it then or now.

 

Which brings me to another thing. She started taking him to a counselor a week ago. I have been very adamant that putting him on drugs is NOT going to happen. He lies to her and is very pissed at her. So she doesn't no what to do. She talks to me about it and says "You know how he is." To which I inform her that I don't have those problems. He does good when he is with me. So her answer is he needs a shrink.

[gocolts 300]

Well, before everyone starts tripping all over themselves over poor gocolts and his terrible situation, let's not forget how self righteous and judgmental he is to others. I'm thinking what goes around comes around. Sucks for the kid, but how much better off is he going to be with a guy who has so little compassion and understanding in his heart that he avoids family members simply because they're gay and spends inordinate amounts of time on a message board spewing right wing propaganda?

 

The kid will have a hard life in either situation.

Call me crazy, but I don't want my son around child molesters.

[gocolts 300]

Kevin Federline had more than $15,000/year to draw from... a team of high-priced attorneys... and an ex-wife who was publicly going completely fruit-loop and endangering the lives of her children.

 

Don't use Federline as a benchmark.

 

I'm not saying don't go for custody. Quite the contrary. Don't for one second believe it isn't going to be a near impossible accomplishment. Many fathers don't get custody of their children until they're dead at the hands of a biological mother or her new boyfriend.

When I try and get custody again, I will have to pay for my attorney and my ex's. With all the trouble she is having with him and her life, I am hoping that she lets him come stay with me this next school year. IF she gets a job it should only help my cause. She will have her own money and with her having all the difficulties with him, maybe I can convince her to let him come back to the good school. He is always telling her that he wants to go back to Chandler school because he liked it so much better. There was a point a couple of weeks ago where she acted very open to the idea due to all the problems he is giving her.

[gocolts 300]

Hey, I never said that his trying to get custody wouldn't be an easy task. I side with you in many ways when it comes to this, and I firmly believe that fathers should have just as many rights as mothers.

 

The road that he would have ahead of him to try and get his son full time wouldn't be an easy one and would likely take lots of time and money.

 

However...

 

Taking that risk is something that gocolts isn't even considering, the way that I read it. He woudl rather get back together with this ho that try and get full custody and raise his child properly. I dont' think that he's even willing to look into it, talk to an attorney, talk to SOMEONE to help him out with this. He'd rather jack around with the boyfriend, restraining orders, cooter pics from his ex and so on. Sorry if this sounds ###### gocolts, but I really think that you need to get off of your butt and do something more.

I know I didn't tell you this before you posted this, but I just got done with the first round of the custody battle in January. And no, I don't want her back. I know most people bounce back and forth all the time with the breakups and then get back togethers. I am not like those people. I had some crazy thoughts of what I could do to get him out of that environment. Getting back together is NOT going to happen. I don't even know this dudes last name, something I intend to change soon.

[Frank M 181]

Call me crazy, but I don't want my son around child molesters.

 

What child molester? Your gay cousin?

 

If gay=child molester in your head, your son has no chance anyways.

[gocolts 300]

What child molester? Your gay cousin?

 

If gay=child molester in your head, your son has no chance anyways.

No, not the gay one. There are 3 sickos that have molested kids on my mother's side the family. When the relatives on my mothers side have a family reunion, they have it at one of the child molesters house. Then they call me and ask "Why don't you come to the family reunions???" To which I say I say "I don't think it is appropriate to have dozens of children at a child molesters house."

[mighty_thor 115]

Trust me buddy, it is enough. I can make it on that. Anybody can if they have too. I don't get food stamps or welfare. I get a disability check each month. I paid a lot of money to SS and always had good paying jobs before I became disabled. That is why I get more than people who get SSI instead of SSD. SSI is for people who are disabled and didn't work enough/pay enough into SS.

 

Hell, me,my son, and my wife lived on around that for years after she got canned for stealing all that money. She has had jobs since then but always ends up just quiting. She gets food stamps and such. She was even using the after school daycare at the school. He would stay for a few hours after school everyday, even though she wasn't working or going to school or anything. When they found out, they told her she can not use this service when she is doing nothing in the first place. I was the one who always took care of him and she can't handle it then or now.

 

Which brings me to another thing. She started taking him to a counselor a week ago. I have been very adamant that putting him on drugs is NOT going to happen. He lies to her and is very pissed at her. So she doesn't no what to do. She talks to me about it and says "You know how he is." To which I inform her that I don't have those problems. He does good when he is with me. So her answer is he needs a shrink.

 

Chandler, IN must be a lot poorer than most towns in the US and a lot less expensive. And from your political comments, I would also guess that it is a small town and is 99.9% white (trash). I pay more than $15,000 a year in property taxes.

[gocolts 300]

Chandler, IN must be a lot poorer than most towns in the US and a lot less expensive. And from your political comments, I would also guess that it is a small town and is 99.9% white (trash). I pay more than $15,000 a year in property taxes.

Well you would be wrong. It is about priorities. I don't have cable TV, fancy phone features like caller ID, or a cell phone just to name a few things I can live without. Of coarse my ex has a cell phone, all the extra phone features, and cable TV all while complaining she is always broke.

 

Gas is 3.60 a gallon. Milk is 4 bucks a gallon. Bread is 2 bucks a loaf. There are plenty of rich folks living in Chandler. Maybe my property taxes are cheaper. I pay about 600 a year on them. my home is probably worth 90,000. I bought it a long time ago when I was 23 for 50,000.

[gocolts 300]

Chandler, IN must be a lot poorer than most towns in the US and a lot less expensive. And from your political comments, I would also guess that it is a small town and is 99.9% white (trash). I pay more than $15,000 a year in property taxes.

I am in the minority when it comes to politics around here. We have not had a republican run for town council in over 20 years. All democrats all the time around here.

[footballpowers 0]

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Honest to God this can’t be true. I have NEVER in my life felt sorrier for a child…>EVER!!! This poor child has absolutely no chance in life.

[porkbutt 893]

 

thank God for being normal.

[Rattlesnake 0]

I am literally shocked at this response from Rattlesnake.

 

 

And why is that?

[Frank M 181]

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Honest to God this can’t be true. I have NEVER in my life felt sorrier for a child…>EVER!!! This poor child has absolutely no chance in life.

 

Best post yet.

[borg 0]

I am in the minority when it comes to politics around here. We have not had a republican run for town council in over 20 years. All democrats all the time around here.

 

 

Thor was pretty close:

 

As of the census[1] of 2000, there were 3,094 people, 1,178 households, and 882 families residing in the town. The population density was 1,831.9 people per square mile (706.9/km²). There were 1,267 housing units at an average density of 750.2/sq mi (289.5/km²). The racial makeup of the town was 98.61% White, 0.36% African American, 0.13% Native American, 0.06% Asian, 0.06% Pacific Islander, 0.06% from other races, and 0.71% from two or more races. Hispanic or Latino of any race were 0.58% of the population.

[gocolts 300]

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Honest to God this can’t be true.

That's right, it isn't true. You have a very hard problem with comprehension. Most of what you said is way off.

 

WTF makes you think i would talk to an 8 year old about gay sex anyway???

 

I am not bigoted against immigrants, just the ones who are illegal.

 

I just voted for a Democrat 2 hours ago.

 

Just because she accused me, doesn't mean it happened. She dropped it the minute she moved out. Why would she do that if I actually did it.

 

The mother has him in therapy because she doesn't realize 8 year olds might lie when they are taught that lying is acceptable, she took back the dude after she explained to my son she dumped him for lying.

 

I don't think she is a heavy drinker. She drinks on the weekends when she is out partying, not through the week when she has to get him up for school the next day.

 

She is very promiscuous, you got that part right.

 

I don't work, I am disabled. So that is right too.

 

My ex doesn't work, so that is correct too.

 

I do have a problem with the muslims who want to kill YOU because you are not a muslim, call me crazy.

 

How do you propose I tell my ex who she can or can not date??

[Franknbeans 46]

Best post yet.

that certainly explains his anger towards gays

[gocolts 300]

Thor was pretty close:

 

As of the census[1] of 2000, there were 3,094 people, 1,178 households, and 882 families residing in the town. The population density was 1,831.9 people per square mile (706.9/km²). There were 1,267 housing units at an average density of 750.2/sq mi (289.5/km²). The racial makeup of the town was 98.61% White, 0.36% African American, 0.13% Native American, 0.06% Asian, 0.06% Pacific Islander, 0.06% from other races, and 0.71% from two or more races. Hispanic or Latino of any race were 0.58% of the population.

There has been a lot of new homes built here in the last 7 years. Big time. Not too many blacks in Chandler. Chandler has a rep of being slightly redneck.

[mighty_thor 115]

That's right, it isn't true. You have a very hard problem with comprehension. Most of what you said is way off.

 

WTF makes you think i would talk to an 8 year old about gay sex anyway???

 

I am not bigoted against immigrants, just the ones who are illegal.

 

I just voted for a Democrat 2 hours ago.

 

Just because she accused me, doesn't mean it happened. She dropped it the minute she moved out. Why would she do that if I actually did it.

 

The mother has him in therapy because she doesn't realize 8 year olds might lie when they are taught that lying is acceptable, she took back the dude after she explained to my son she dumped him for lying.

 

I don't think she is a heavy drinker. She drinks on the weekends when she is out partying, not through the week when she has to get him up for school the next day.

 

She is very promiscuous, you got that part right.

 

I don't work, I am disabled. So that is right too.

 

My ex doesn't work, so that is correct too.

 

I do have a problem with the muslims who want to kill YOU because you are not a muslim, call me crazy.

 

How do you propose I tell my ex who she can or can not date??

 

Who did you vote for? Hillary or Obama?

[Angry White Male 0]

I just voted for a Democrat 2 hours ago.

WHAT?!!!???!

[DankNuggs 305]

good luck man... tough situation, true nightmare.

 

Here:

 

Record a conversation in which she admits she is keeping the child to exploit alimony. take her to court, clearly living on food stamps in the ghetto isn't healthy compared to the life you want to give your son.

[gocolts 300]

Who did you vote for? Hillary or Obama?

Hillary

[Brad GLuckman 519]

Well, before everyone starts tripping all over themselves over poor gocolts and his terrible situation, let's not forget how self righteous and judgmental he is to others. I'm thinking what goes around comes around. Sucks for the kid, but how much better off is he going to be with a guy who has so little compassion and understanding in his heart that he avoids family members simply because they're gay and spends inordinate amounts of time on a message board spewing right wing propaganda?

 

The kid will have a hard life in either situation.

 

What goes around comes around?

 

Your disapproval of GoColts political views and attitude on a message board somehow justifies, in your mind, his psycho ex-wife dating a guy who threatened to kill himself in front of his child?

 

...

[gocolts 300]

good luck man... tough situation, true nightmare.

 

Here:

 

Record a conversation in which she admits she is keeping the child to exploit alimony. take her to court, clearly living on food stamps in the ghetto isn't healthy compared to the life you want to give your son.

She would never admit it. I am hoping that a judge will see that she has been living off the child support this whole time, although it didn't help in this past battle.

 

I am also hoping that she gets a job and I start getting him all the time and even her possibly letting him move back in with me so he can go back to the good school. Let her keep the support for a period of time while establishing that he lives with me. Then take her back to court and show that I have had him most of the time and she gets the support. I lot of things have to fall in place though for this to happen.

[gocolts 300]

WHAT?!!!???!

 

I never thought there could be a situation where I would do that. Then Barrack Obama showed up.

[DankNuggs 305]

 

I never thought there could be a situation where I would do that. Then Barrack Obama showed up.

Barack Obama thinks you are 'wealthy' if you make $75,000 a year... If you can explain to me how you can live in a decent place, have children and put them through college, and be able to save any amount of money for retirement on 75k you will be stretched...

 

i think Obama is a communist thinly veiled in socialist propoganda, he really scares me.

[footballpowers 0]

Barack Obama thinks you are 'wealthy' if you make $75,000 a year... If you can explain to me how you can live in a decent place, have children and put them through college, and be able to save any amount of money for retirement on 75k you will be stretched...

 

i think Obama is a communist thinly veiled in socialist propoganda, he really scares me.

 

 

Ummmm you're quoting a guy who is unemployed and relies on these democratic programs (which I don't like!) and our tax payers money to make $15,000 a year. You do realize this don't you?

[Frank M 181]

What goes around comes around?

 

Your disapproval of GoColts political views and attitude on a message board somehow justifies, in your mind, his psycho ex-wife dating a guy who threatened to kill himself in front of his child?

 

...

 

Comprehend much?

 

Number one, I feel bad for the kid. He's focked whatever way it comes out.

 

Number two, I never said anything about his wife nor did I justify her behavior.

 

I'm talking to all the misguided souls who feel sorry for poor gocolts because of his terrible situation when all we've heard from him for the past two or three years, however long he's polluted this place, is hatred and vitriol. You reap what you sow, man.

 

Besides, it's all bullshiot anyways, the ramblings of an insane person desperately seeking attention.

[DAVID RUFFIN 2]

Barack Obama thinks you are 'wealthy' if you make $75,000 a year... If you can explain to me how you can live in a decent place, have children and put them through college, and be able to save any amount of money for retirement on 75k you will be stretched...

 

i think Obama is a communist thinly veiled in socialist propoganda, he really scares me.

 

 

Obama is a communist thinly veiled in socialist propoganda.

[gocolts 300]

Ummmm you're quoting a guy who is unemployed and relies on these democratic programs (which I don't like!) and our tax payers money to make $15,000 a year. You do realize this don't you?

Why do you feel it so necessary to the point of lying to try paint me as some kind of leach??

 

I worked since I was 15 years old and paid into this thing they take out of your check called Social Security. It is something they take out of your every check. In case something happens and you become disabled the start to give you your money back, depending on how much you paid into the fund. It's not like I never worked and draw off of loads of social programs.

 

Just this past year I qualified for help with my gas bill since my income is so low. I didn't take the money because I am not this drain on society.

 

Last week I had to rent a dolly so my dad could get my brand new dryer I have been saving for for over 6 months. My previous dryer stopped heating so it took 6+ hours to dry some clothes. Anyway, I take the dolly back early and got some of the rental fee back. I paid 15 bucks for a 24 hour rental. So the guy gave me 5 bucks back. However, there were 2 fives stuck together. As I took the money I noticed and said "These 2 must have stuck together" as I gave him the other 5 back. I could have kept it and the guy would have never known.

 

Hell, I don't even go to the food banks. I qualify for tons of free stuff yet I don't take advantage of it. It is there for people who are in situations just like I am in. I don't really recall ever demanding special programs that will obviously help me out.

 

[KSB2424 3,148]

Why do you feel it so necessary to the point of lying to try paint me as some kind of leach??

 

I worked since I was 15 years old and paid into this thing they take out of your check called Social Security. It is something they take out of your every check. In case something happens and you become disabled the start to give you your money back, depending on how much you paid into the fund. It's not like I never worked and draw off of loads of social programs.

 

Just this past year I qualified for help with my gas bill since my income is so low. I didn't take the money because I am not this drain on society.

 

Last week I had to rent a dolly so my dad could get my brand new dryer I have been saving for for over 6 months. My previous dryer stopped heating so it took 6+ hours to dry some clothes. Anyway, I take the dolly back early and got some of the rental fee back. I paid 15 bucks for a 24 hour rental. So the guy gave me 5 bucks back. However, there were 2 fives stuck together. As I took the money I noticed and said "These 2 must have stuck together" as I gave him the other 5 back. I could have kept it and the guy would have never known.

 

Hell, I don't even go to the food banks. I qualify for tons of free stuff yet I don't take advantage of it. It is there for people who are in situations just like I am in. I don't really recall ever demanding special programs that will obviously help me out.

 

Don't sweat it gocolts. He doesn't agree with your politics so in typical fftoday fashion he attacks you personally. It's the ole internet tuff guy trick.

[mighty_thor 115]

Why do you feel it so necessary to the point of lying to try paint me as some kind of leach??

 

I worked since I was 15 years old and paid into this thing they take out of your check called Social Security. It is something they take out of your every check. In case something happens and you become disabled the start to give you your money back, depending on how much you paid into the fund. It's not like I never worked and draw off of loads of social programs.

 

Just this past year I qualified for help with my gas bill since my income is so low. I didn't take the money because I am not this drain on society.

 

Last week I had to rent a dolly so my dad could get my brand new dryer I have been saving for for over 6 months. My previous dryer stopped heating so it took 6+ hours to dry some clothes. Anyway, I take the dolly back early and got some of the rental fee back. I paid 15 bucks for a 24 hour rental. So the guy gave me 5 bucks back. However, there were 2 fives stuck together. As I took the money I noticed and said "These 2 must have stuck together" as I gave him the other 5 back. I could have kept it and the guy would have never known.

 

Hell, I don't even go to the food banks. I qualify for tons of free stuff yet I don't take advantage of it. It is there for people who are in situations just like I am in. I don't really recall ever demanding special programs that will obviously help me out.

 

 

I don't mean to pry too much but what's your disability, if you don't mind answering?

[footballpowers 0]

Don't sweat it gocolts. He doesn't agree with your politics so in typical fftoday fashion he attacks you personally. It's the ole internet tuff guy trick.