Are the transgender threads in this forum getting out of hand?

[jerryskids 6,926]

11 minutes ago, squistion said:

Denounding what...trangender folks? Democrats who have spoken out have all denounced the shooter and what they did. 

How about acknowledging what Fumble said, and Europe has already discovered:  there is a huge social contagion with LGBTQ+ in children?

[jonnyutah 354]

5 minutes ago, squistion said:

Denounding what...trangender folks? Democrats who have spoken out have all denounced the shooter and what they did. 

Yes. Denouncing trannies. 

Every time a tranny in oregon wins a state title.

Every time a tranny goes into the womens locker room at the YMCA. 

Every time a tranny gets violent.

Every time a tranny cry bullies.

They need to stop pretending there is an epidemic of trans violence every time some messed up tranny prostitute or sex addict gets beat up for pretending they dont have a shlong. 

Hahahaha. And now you just realized that you are on that hill since you are likely having a visceral reaction reading all that and want to defend it. 

[jerryskids 6,926]

1 hour ago, Fumbleweed said:

30 years now providing counseling/therapy in a school setting, so take this for what it's worth. 

Transgenderism is so blended now with social contagion that those immersed in it are very often deeply confused about who they really are. I blame the left for a lot of that as the affirming of gender fluidity has been horribly harmful. Kids are struggling with identity issues in their early adolescent years and the transgender label is a desperate play for identity in most of the contagion kids. Yes, there are and have always been true transgender children, but the number has grown in the past 10-15 years because of the push and constant affirmation from the left. Most kids claiming to be transgender aren't truly transgender, but are deeply confused and need support- the vast majority have trauma in their past to deal with and that comes first before looking at the gender-related issues. 

What I hope the left and right and everyone in between can always agree on is that kindness is always the answer to so much of what ills the world. Be kind. To everyone. But, you don't have to further mix up an already mixed-up kid to be kind to them. When the trauma is addressed and processed, most times the contagion kids looking for some sort of identity abandon the idea of gender fluidity. I have a great deal of experience with this. And, occasionally they don't because, again, there are kids out there who are legit in regards to transgenderism. 

As for the shooting yesterday, transgenderism is not the lead story in all of that, but it's not a non-story either. There are a lot of people we're not giving help to because we don't want them to feel as if they need it when they really, really do. 

This is the best post I've seen here in a long time.   

Also I hope I sniped you by taking the Broncos in IBL.  

[The Real timschochet 7,040]

1 hour ago, HellToupee said:

Trannies don’t bother me .  I’m probably the most trans friendly person here

Im glad you feel this way. But why then did you post Andy Ngo yesterday? He is an extreme anti-trans bigot, and uses words like “Transtifa” as he did in the quote you posted. You wrote that he sees it “straight”. You can’t agree with Ngo and call youself trans friendly, sorry. 
 

[squistion 2,307]

3 minutes ago, The Real timschochet said:

Im glad you feel this way. But why then did you post Andy Ngo yesterday? He is an extreme anti-trans bigot, and uses words like “Transtifa” as he did in the quote you posted. You wrote that he sees it “straight”. You can’t agree with Ngo and call youself trans friendly, sorry. 
 

Don't try to confuse him with logic or the facts.

[HellToupee 1,917]

16 minutes ago, The Real timschochet said:

Im glad you feel this way. But why then did you post Andy Ngo yesterday? He is an extreme anti-trans bigot, and uses words like “Transtifa” as he did in the quote you posted. You wrote that he sees it “straight”. You can’t agree with Ngo and call youself trans friendly, sorry. 
 

Trans terrorists is a real thing . The Zizians and trantifa exist. Now Andy Ngo is a member of the LGBTQ community so he may be biased against trans people because we do know in general the gays and lezzies are at odds with each other and both look down at trans people. . But don’t discount Ngo’s reporting because of his perceived bias 

[TimHauck 3,030]

22 minutes ago, jerryskids said:

This is the best post I've seen here in a long time.   

Also I hope I sniped you by taking the Broncos in IBL.  

Yet there are a lot of people here that wouldn’t agree with being kind to trannies.

[TheNewGirl 1,540]

1 hour ago, Fumbleweed said:

30 years now providing counseling/therapy in a school setting, so take this for what it's worth. 

Transgenderism is so blended now with social contagion that those immersed in it are very often deeply confused about who they really are. I blame the left for a lot of that as the affirming of gender fluidity has been horribly harmful. Kids are struggling with identity issues in their early adolescent years and the transgender label is a desperate play for identity in most of the contagion kids. Yes, there are and have always been true transgender children, but the number has grown in the past 10-15 years because of the push and constant affirmation from the left. Most kids claiming to be transgender aren't truly transgender, but are deeply confused and need support- the vast majority have trauma in their past to deal with and that comes first before looking at the gender-related issues. 

What I hope the left and right and everyone in between can always agree on is that kindness is always the answer to so much of what ills the world. Be kind. To everyone. But, you don't have to further mix up an already mixed-up kid to be kind to them. When the trauma is addressed and processed, most times the contagion kids looking for some sort of identity abandon the idea of gender fluidity. I have a great deal of experience with this. And, occasionally they don't because, again, there are kids out there who are legit in regards to transgenderism. 

As for the shooting yesterday, transgenderism is not the lead story in all of that, but it's not a non-story either. There are a lot of people we're not giving help to because we don't want them to feel as if they need it when they really, really do. 

This is probably the best thing I've read here in a very long time. 

I am sure there are a few of us here who remember being these ages and struggling with friendships, discovering who we are as people, and figuring out our place in the world. You add one social issue to ANY of this and it will begin to rewire and skew thinking. There is proof out there that our brains can be rewired. You add in parents who NEED their children to be a part of this social movement and this is what happens. These kids need someone other than mom and dad to talk to. 

One of my daughter's best friends is transmale. She plans on getting surgeries and all kinds of things. She's in her early 20s, but the only thing I can think of is the potential for a lifetime of physical pain that she might be going through. 

I also have another friend who was lesbian until her mid 40s and then decided she was trans. She's been on hormones, had top surgery and will eventually get bottom surgery. her mental illnesses and issues have not improved or changed, when she thought that becoming a man would "fix" it all. 

There's so much more to all of this. 

[TimHauck 3,030]

3 minutes ago, TheNewGirl said:

This is probably the best thing I've read here in a very long time. 

I am sure there are a few of us here who remember being these ages and struggling with friendships, discovering who we are as people, and figuring out our place in the world. You add one social issue to ANY of this and it will begin to rewire and skew thinking. There is proof out there that our brains can be rewired. You add in parents who NEED their children to be a part of this social movement and this is what happens. These kids need someone other than mom and dad to talk to. 

One of my daughter's best friends is transmale. She plans on getting surgeries and all kinds of things. She's in her early 20s, but the only thing I can think of is the potential for a lifetime of physical pain that she might be going through. 

I also have another friend who was lesbian until her mid 40s and then decided she was trans. She's been on hormones, had top surgery and will eventually get bottom surgery. her mental illnesses and issues have not improved or changed, when she thought that becoming a man would "fix" it all. 

There's so much more to all of this. 

Do you think your friend became trans in their 40’s because of social contagion?

[The Real timschochet 7,040]

5 minutes ago, TheNewGirl said:

This is probably the best thing I've read here in a very long time. 

I am sure there are a few of us here who remember being these ages and struggling with friendships, discovering who we are as people, and figuring out our place in the world. You add one social issue to ANY of this and it will begin to rewire and skew thinking. There is proof out there that our brains can be rewired. You add in parents who NEED their children to be a part of this social movement and this is what happens. These kids need someone other than mom and dad to talk to. 

One of my daughter's best friends is transmale. She plans on getting surgeries and all kinds of things. She's in her early 20s, but the only thing I can think of is the potential for a lifetime of physical pain that she might be going through. 

I also have another friend who was lesbian until her mid 40s and then decided she was trans. She's been on hormones, had top surgery and will eventually get bottom surgery. her mental illnesses and issues have not improved or changed, when she thought that becoming a man would "fix" it all. 

There's so much more to all of this. 

It sounds to me like you vote conservative mostly for economic reasons (such as your complaints about California bureaucracy, etc.) Does the Republican intolerance on trans and gay issues bother you? 

[Hardcore troubadour 15,583]

Just a reminder , sometimes people get confused. The best way to figure out what gender a person actually is is too just take out trans and put in fake. As in trans - woman. That’s a fake woman. That has/ had pennis and a prostate. 

[jerryskids 6,926]

46 minutes ago, TimHauck said:

Yet there are a lot of people here that wouldn’t agree with being kind to trannies.

What is "kind," though?  I treat people I encounter with kindness, unless indicated otherwise.  I think most people are that way.  Some here might just avoid the situation (e.g., avoid approaching or talking to a trans person).  That's perhaps the most kindness they can muster.  I strongly doubt that anyone here would walk up to such a person and tell them they are mentally ill, regardless of their bloviation on this site.  

[Mr Fantasy 67]

20 minutes ago, Hardcore troubadour said:

Just a reminder , sometimes people get confused. The best way to figure out what gender a person actually is is too just take out trans and put in fake. As in trans - woman. That’s a fake woman. That has/ had pennis and a prostate. 

Yes  the trans part of man or woman is  code for fake. It’s the nonbinary ones that confuse me

[Hardcore troubadour 15,583]

1 minute ago, Mr Fantasy said:

Yes  the trans part of man or woman is  code for fake. It’s the nonbinary ones that confuse me

If they claim non binary that means they are also FOS and looking for attention. 

[TimHauck 3,030]

25 minutes ago, jerryskids said:

What is "kind," though?  I treat people I encounter with kindness, unless indicated otherwise.  I think most people are that way.  Some here might just avoid the situation (e.g., avoid approaching or talking to a trans person).  That's perhaps the most kindness they can muster.  I strongly doubt that anyone here would walk up to such a person and tell them they are mentally ill, regardless of their bloviation on this site.  

In person I agree.  Online no.

Because let’s be honest, most of the righties here living in the burbs have probably not come across more than like 1 trans person in real life anyway.

[iam90sbaby 2,659]

All mentally ill crossdressers should be thrown in a mental institution. If you support this or think it’s ok in anyway you’re a sick fock and probably gay.

[iam90sbaby 2,659]

Seriously, if you care this much about the plight of a mentally ill crossdresser there’s something wrong with you 

[MDC 7,590]

1 hour ago, TimHauck said:

In person I agree.  Online no.

Because let’s be honest, most of the righties here living in the burbs have probably not come across more than like 1 trans person in real life anyway.

I bet some Geeks have cvm across several trannies and vice versa!  

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