wiffleball 4,686 Posted April 10, 2013 So, if you have a friend who's being totally taken care of (financially, vacations, business-wise, etc.), but you know the guy who's doing it is just a total POS, do you say anything? I mean, she seems happy enough. And it's not like I"ve got some romantical notions - I'm not even in the same state anymore. But for Pete's sake, it's so focking obvious that 1) He's just using his (Daddy's) money and 2) She's just thrilled to have that money. the problem is, at some point, she'll wake up and the money and the jerk will be gone. You just know that, right? I've met the guy - and he was incredibly insecure around me. He's a ###### - and known for being so. I'd like to think my friend (early 40's) would know better, but let's face it, she's her age - and this is her last hurrah. Just let her enjoy it? Let her take advantage of this priick as much as she can and get what she can? Hard to watch, but I think that's the route you let happen. Thoughts?? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 5,427 Posted April 10, 2013 I think I'm missing an important piece of info. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rholio 339 Posted April 10, 2013 So, a gold digger hooked up with an A-hole, and you're wondering if you should mention it to the gold digger? Yeah, stay away. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nikki2200 4 Posted April 10, 2013 What in the world could this possibly have to do with you? Cool thread though. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chronic Husker 85 Posted April 10, 2013 So, you're planning on bailing with all the family $ but want to give your mom warning? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Old School 360 Posted April 10, 2013 I think I'm missing an important piece of info. We are waiting..... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IGotWorms 3,446 Posted April 10, 2013 So, a gold digger hooked up with an A-hole, and you're wondering if you should mention it to the gold digger? Yeah, stay away. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wiffleball 4,686 Posted April 10, 2013 I think I'm missing an important piece of info. Bananners. Seriously. Not chicken filets. Bananners with long point 'nanner stems at the end. A little wierd. Even African chicks are like "WTF"??? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sergeant Bri 0 Posted April 10, 2013 I think that stupid chicks dating dirtbags might actually predate facebook. Just zip it and go back to watching Real Housewives. Or get her to send some semi-nude pics. If she wants relationship advice she'll ask for it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sergeant Bri 0 Posted April 10, 2013 I think that stupid chicks dating dirtbags might actually predate facebook. Just zip it and go back to watching Real Housewives. Or get her to send some semi-nude pics. If she wants relationship advice she'll ask for it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NorthernVike 2,080 Posted April 10, 2013 I think that stupid chicks dating dirtbags might actually predate facebook. Just zip it and go back to watching Real Housewives. Or get her to send some semi-nude pics. If she wants relationship advice she'll ask for it. I'll pass on the pics if her teets look like bananners. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TimmySmith 2,782 Posted April 10, 2013 Why is it that girls we are secretly in love with always date dirtbags? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NorthernVike 2,080 Posted April 10, 2013 Why is it that girls we are secretly in love with always date other dirtbags? Fixed Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
El Barton 8 Posted April 10, 2013 We are waiting..... ....... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
patweisers44 710 Posted April 10, 2013 I think I'm missing an important piece of info. well done 'skids, well done. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VQFxmAdyKcg Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Finbabble Garp 1 Posted April 10, 2013 But for Pete's sake, it's so focking obvious that 1) He's just using his (Daddy's) money and 2) She's just thrilled to have that money. In the self-help game, we call this "win-win." the problem is, at some point, she'll wake up and the money and the jerk will be gone. You just know that, right? That's ok. Golddigging can be a valuable life skill, and it transfers from relationship to relationship. Even as she gets more old and haggard, all that means is she'll have to settle for slightly older and slightly less-well-off as she moves ahead. But as long as she still has a bagina, is still willing to use it for profit, and doesn't suddenly become all fussy and regretful, golddigging is a good living and a time-honored tradition. Even skank-nasty 60-somethings with a lot of miles on them appeal to millionaire octogenarians It's not, strictly speaking, ethical. But neither is banking, lawyering, or politicking, and those pay well too. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cruzer 1,993 Posted April 10, 2013 I believe my good friend's "3-F's Principal" applies here. If she ain't Feeding You, Focking You, or Financing You - what do you care? She's not your daughter and she's a grown woman - let her be and stay out of it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Recliner Pilot 61 Posted April 10, 2013 You might try minding your own fukking business for once. One Dr. Phil is one too many. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites