gocolts for all that pontificating about women not having sense, your response is full of drummed up reaction. Pot, kettle.
Deconstructing what TNG said: A woman getting bothered because of attention more heavily focused on another woman...that is behavior that doesn't exude confidence. Check. That's pretty much true as a general concept. Anyone driven to action (like leaving a board) by personal affront that arises in that manner has a fragile ego.
Gocolts running a site where women enjoy being ogled by men (regardless of any inherent appeal of the men...i think that is an important point...I will add on)....not surprising. Check. (Albeit it's a bit disparaging). It's not being suggested that the site exists primarily for that.
That is just the stating of simple (probable) realities.
I do not need my groups or posts analyzed and broken down trying to find secret meanings. It is just one situation that happened after over 4 years. Also, one instance does not define a group. .