Im an alcoholic.
sober for 11 years, 5 months, 15 days, 97 minutes as i post this.
Pain.
He simple has not felt enough pain to change his behavior, and thinking. Some never get the gift of desperation, incomprehensible demoralization.
you can t do it some the wife, girlfriend, kids, cops, judge.. you have to do it for you..
or not.. ive been to a lot of funerals of friends who had it, lost it and never got it back