Murphys Law 0 Posted December 4, 2007 I have reason to believe the wife is up to no good We have 2 beautiful kids ages 5 and 2 and its absolutely killing me. Anyone familar w/ any keystroke tracking software. I need some recommendations quickly. Also is there any software out there that can go back say a week or two before it was installed to track passwords and the like. much thanks to those who respond Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kpbuckeye 3 Posted December 4, 2007 I have reason to believe the wife is up to no good We have 2 beautiful kids ages 5 and 2 and its absolutely killing me. Anyone familar w/ any keystroke tracking software. I need some recommendations quickly. Also is there any software out there that can go back say a week or two before it was installed to track passwords and the like. much thanks to those who respond kutulululu has been working a "night' job. I smell a connection. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kutulu 1,728 Posted December 4, 2007 kutulululu has been working a "night' job. I smell a connection. WTF? She said she was in a open relationship. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
akaoni 0 Posted December 4, 2007 If you don't trust your wife so much that you want to get tracking software and spy on her, then you might as well just end it now. Either you're right and she's cheeting on you or you're wrong and you're a suspicious assh0le who doesn't deserve her. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
akaoni 0 Posted December 4, 2007 Sorry, that was a bit harsh, it's just that LTBDE's insulting comments about Shari Lewis got my dander up. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FSW Mephisto 0 Posted December 4, 2007 If you don't trust your wife so much that you want to get tracking software and spy on her, then you might as well just end it now. Either you're right and she's cheeting on you or you're wrong and you're a suspicious assh0le who doesn't deserve her. Yeah, that's logic at it's finest. Maybe just a face-to-face confrontation without support is the right approach! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mujack 0 Posted December 4, 2007 I once was married to a girl and it went down just as your worries are indicating. I miss Mona. ~mujack Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
surferskin 31 Posted December 4, 2007 what's your wife's email? i'll try to sleep with her and tell you the results. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
edjr 7,165 Posted December 4, 2007 I once was married to a girl and it went down just as your worries are indicating. I miss Mona.~mujack Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shake_a_leg 0 Posted December 4, 2007 I have reason to believe the wife is up to no good We have 2 beautiful kids ages 5 and 2 and its absolutely killing me. Anyone familar w/ any keystroke tracking software. I need some recommendations quickly. Also is there any software out there that can go back say a week or two before it was installed to track passwords and the like. much thanks to those who respond Well....your name IS "murphys law"....chances are she's cyber-banging half the town. I say kill the bithch Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IndyTom 0 Posted December 4, 2007 There are a number of shareware titles out on download.com Not sure how PC literate your wife is but I believe AdAware and Spybot will catch your program if she runs those. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Patriotsfatboy1 1,433 Posted December 4, 2007 what's your wife's email? i'll try to sleep with her and tell you the results. You could tell him the results right now. She will be very disappointed. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
surferskin 31 Posted December 4, 2007 You could tell him the results right now. She will be very disappointed. of course she would. disappointed that she's stuck with ML when there's a stud like me out there. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mighty_thor 115 Posted December 4, 2007 I have reason to believe the wife is up to no good We have 2 beautiful kids ages 5 and 2 and its absolutely killing me. Anyone familar w/ any keystroke tracking software. I need some recommendations quickly. Also is there any software out there that can go back say a week or two before it was installed to track passwords and the like. much thanks to those who respond I never used one but i know there are plenty of products out there. when junior gets a little older then I was thinking i should get one. I trust my wife but my kids i would be concerned about. I don't want any of those predators trying anything. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheNewGirl 1,640 Posted December 4, 2007 Maybe just a face-to-face confrontation without support is the right approach! Yup. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
surferskin 31 Posted December 4, 2007 Yup. but what if he's wrong? it's kinda hard to put that genie back in the bottle. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mujack 0 Posted December 4, 2007 disappointed that she's stuck with ML Hello? Have you not read this thread? His wife is doing more bending and folding than an Origami class. ~mujack Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheNewGirl 1,640 Posted December 4, 2007 but what if he's wrong? it's kinda hard to put that genie back in the bottle. So, let's put some spying software on the computer, yeah, like that's a good indication that her husband trusts her. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NorthernVike 2,122 Posted December 4, 2007 So, let's put some spying software on the computer, yeah, like that's a good indication that her husband trusts her. Typical response from a "women". get the software and make sure she does not find it. Trust is one thing but if its to the point where you are concerned better to have the truth. Good luck. Hope you are wrong about her. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cbfalcon 828 Posted December 4, 2007 So, let's put some spying software on the computer, yeah, like that's a good indication that her husband trusts her. Obviously he doesn't trust her.... Which means it would be hard to believe anything she says if he confronts her..... but lets assume he is wrong. Is it better to find out on his own and let the issue fade away? Or to have a big fight about it? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheNewGirl 1,640 Posted December 4, 2007 Wow. Lots of sneaky men out there. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
surferskin 31 Posted December 4, 2007 So, let's put some spying software on the computer, yeah, like that's a good indication that her husband trusts her. news flash, HE DOESN'T TRUST HER. this isn't the kind of thing you confront your spouse with without proof. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NorthernVike 2,122 Posted December 4, 2007 Wow. Lots of sneaky men out there. Afraid that your husband is now checking your on line antics out? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Patriotsfatboy1 1,433 Posted December 4, 2007 So, let's put some spying software on the computer, yeah, like that's a good indication that her husband trusts her. It is obvious that he trusts her. He trusts that she is boning some other guy Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Strike 6,203 Posted December 4, 2007 Here you go buddy: http://www.thinkgeek.com/gadgets/security/5a05/ Go get her Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheNewGirl 1,640 Posted December 4, 2007 Afraid that your husband is now checking your on line antics out? Yup, that must be it. What I meant, was...what if he's wrong and he puts the spyware or whatever on there and she finds out? That would piss me off. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
surferskin 31 Posted December 4, 2007 Yup, that must be it. What I meant, was...what if he's wrong and he puts the spyware or whatever on there and she finds out? That would piss me off. damned if he does, damned if he doesn't. BUT there's a much better chance she doesn't notice some hidden software, than him actually asking her if she's cheating on him. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NorthernVike 2,122 Posted December 4, 2007 Yup, that must be it. What I meant, was...what if he's wrong and he puts the spyware or whatever on there and she finds out? That would piss me off. Better to be pissed off than pissed on Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheNewGirl 1,640 Posted December 4, 2007 damned if he does, damned if he doesn't. BUT there's a much better chance she doesn't notice some hidden software, than him actually asking her if she's cheating on him. I don't think so. But, yeah, whatever he needs to do. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FSW Mephisto 0 Posted December 4, 2007 So, let's put some spying software on the computer, yeah, like that's a good indication that her husband trusts her. You're a stupidass. My reply was a joke. The trust is gone either way... at least with the software, he can find out if he's right, and if he's not, hope his efforts aren't discovered while he figures out what made him suspicious in the first place. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheNewGirl 1,640 Posted December 4, 2007 You're a stupidass. My reply was a joke. The trust is gone either way... at least with the software, he can find out if he's right, and if he's not, hope his efforts aren't discovered while he figures out what made him suspicious in the first place. I know the trust is gone either way. if he puts the sw on and she doesn't find it, good for him. if she does find it, then she will be pissed. His initial post indicates that he thinks that he knows that she's "up to no good." if he's all ready at that conclusion, there must be something else going on, more "evidence" and so on. I guess I would just come right out and ask, and if I had any further suspicions that someone were lying, I would do the sw or PI thing. And I am not a stupidass. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The Moz 72 Posted December 4, 2007 the software is the correct way to go. With that he can verify she is cheating or not. If she is he has proof he can use against her in the divorce or if he is a spineless fock he can use it to get sympathy. If She isn't then he can be worry free and never think about it again and the wife will be none the wiser. However if he asks her straight up and she isn't that just creates controversy in the marriage where there wasn't and opens the door for it to happen. He ask her straight up and she is Wife then locks down all proof and it's a he said / she said in court. Nothing to gain by asking her straight up - being deceitful and shady are truly the only way to go. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheNewGirl 1,640 Posted December 4, 2007 being deceitful and shady are truly the only way to go. Probably her line of thinking as well. They are perfect for each other. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cbfalcon 828 Posted December 4, 2007 the software is the correct way to go. With that he can verify she is cheating or not. If she is he has proof he can use against her in the divorce or if he is a spineless fock he can use it to get sympathy. If She isn't then he can be worry free and never think about it again and the wife will be none the wiser. However if he asks her straight up and she isn't that just creates controversy in the marriage where there wasn't and opens the door for it to happen. He ask her straight up and she is Wife then locks down all proof and it's a he said / she said in court. Nothing to gain by asking her straight up - being deceitful and shady are truly the only way to go. This is dead on. It covers all 4 scenarios and is the exact truth as to what would happen in all four instances. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shake_a_leg 0 Posted December 5, 2007 I know the trust is gone either way. if he puts the sw on and she doesn't find it, good for him. if she does find it, then she will be pissed. His initial post indicates that he thinks that he knows that she's "up to no good." if he's all ready at that conclusion, there must be something else going on, more "evidence" and so on. I guess I would just come right out and ask, and if I had any further suspicions that someone were lying, I would do the sw or PI thing. And I am not a stupidass. I can't believe my response was just glazed over so carelessly. I'm tellin ya....KILL THE B!TCH!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tubby_mcgee 702 Posted December 5, 2007 Lots of sneaky men out there. What? It's his wife we're trying to help him catch. She's the sneaky one. Women are sneaky. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tubby_mcgee 702 Posted December 5, 2007 the software is the correct way to go. With that he can verify she is cheating or not. If she is he has proof he can use against her in the divorce or if he is a spineless fock he can use it to get sympathy. If She isn't then he can be worry free and never think about it again and the wife will be none the wiser. However if he asks her straight up and she isn't that just creates controversy in the marriage where there wasn't and opens the door for it to happen. He ask her straight up and she is Wife then locks down all proof and it's a he said / she said in court. Nothing to gain by asking her straight up - being deceitful and shady are truly the only way to go. Bingo. I knew they called you the Moz for good reason. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tubby_mcgee 702 Posted December 5, 2007 I have reason to believe the wife is up to no good We have 2 beautiful kids ages 5 and 2 and its absolutely killing me. Anyone familar w/ any keystroke tracking software. I need some recommendations quickly. Also is there any software out there that can go back say a week or two before it was installed to track passwords and the like. much thanks to those who respond What makes you think she's up to no good? Was she dripping from the upper leg region when she got back from a quick trip the grocery store or what? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Murphys Law 0 Posted December 5, 2007 can size?? 34 D Share this post Link to post Share on other sites