Literally everybody reading your posts knows exactly what you are saying. You want 45 year old men going into the girls bathroom.
You are trying to play some stupid word game. "I wanted him to jump off the bridge, i never said i wanted him to die!!!"
The inevitable, absolutely guaranteed path forward if we follow what you are saying is that people wouldnt question people going into the bathroom. No word games here. You want dudes in the womens bathroom. You dont get to weasel out of that.