How do you deal w/ a guy hitting on your SO?

[Red White and Blue 81]

How'd he get your girlfriends work number??

 

She gave him and two of my friend's friends (a guy and a girl) her card when we first met - I gave them my card too. I'm sure she could handle it on her own but I'm kind of pissed - I think it's really rude for this guy to act friendly to my face, then call my GF and ask her out behind my back. What a cack.

[kutulu 1,676]

thread over.

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[jerryskids 6,799]

She gave him and two of my friend's friends (a guy and a girl) her card when we first met - I gave them my card too. I'm sure she could handle it on her own but I'm kind of pissed - I think it's really rude for this guy to act friendly to my face, then call my GF and ask her out behind my back. What a cack.

I gotta ask, what is your job description on your card?

 

Seriously, the day my wife doesn't get attention from other guys will be a sad day for me. In your case, trust her to handle it. If you don't trust her, get out. If she doesn't handle it, get out. Email? That's a poossay idea.

[TAS 2]

She gave him and two of my friend's friends (a guy and a girl) her card when we first met - I gave them my card too. I'm sure she could handle it on her own but I'm kind of pissed - I think it's really rude for this guy to act friendly to my face, then call my GF and ask her out behind my back. What a cack.

Not to add fuel to the fire, but if I was in your position it would be really hard for me to not call the guy and at the very least explain what's up. Sounds like the guy was fed bad relationship info about the 2 of you, or is just a cackuss!

[Red White and Blue 81]

Not to add fuel to the fire, but if I was in your position it would be really hard for me to not call the guy and at the very least explain what's up. Sounds like the guy was fed bad relationship info about the 2 of you, or is just a cackuss!

 

Nah, this guy knows what's up. He's just an ass - a little greaseball guideo suburban prep douche. My GF and I didn't like him even before this happened. I like him even less now. I'm really tempted to make that call. My GF didn't call him back and doesn't plan to and gave me the green light to do whatever I need to do. I'm just really pissed at the moment and think I should sleep on this before doing something I'll regret.

 

Whoever asked, my business card says "marketing coordinator."

[Rusty Syringes 478]

Dude, your newspaper is a step up from my church's Sunday circular ...

 

 

You mean the one you can't get published in?

 

[TAS 2]

Nah, this guy knows what's up. He's just an ass - a little greaseball guideo suburban prep douche. My GF and I didn't like him even before this happened. I like him even less now. I'm really tempted to make that call. My GF didn't call him back and doesn't plan to and gave me the green light to do whatever I need to do. I'm just really pissed at the moment and think I should sleep on this before doing something I'll regret.

 

Whoever asked, my business card says "marketing coordinator."

Fair enough!

[Spider fantasy 0]

I would just ignore him ( if I were her) and refrain from giving my card out to people at parties.

[ADD1CT36 1]

i'm in kind of a bad mood today, so i'll be harsher than normal.

 

your gf sounds like she's either lazy or looking for the drama. we girls can handle ourselves and dont need some man to swoop in and save the day for cripe sake. if she cant make it clear maybe she just doesnt want to. ever think of that? any girl who cant take care of this is looking to stir up trouble and needs the reassurance.

 

the only exception to this is if it borders on stalking or he gets physical and she is not able to fight him off. i mean there's a point up to which any girl can handle herself and letting you do it is so 15th century. i still say dont get involved in the p1ssing contest. take it as a compliment that she can get other guys but wants you and call it a day.

 

i'm done.

[SigEp316 0]

Whoever asked, my business card says "marketing coordinator."

 

 

note to self...

 

marketing coordinator = knob slobbing, coffee pouring, douchetastic secretary

 

 

i'm in kind of a bad mood today, so i'll be harsher than normal.

 

your gf sounds like she's either lazy or looking for the drama. we girls can handle ourselves and dont need some man to swoop in and save the day for cripe sake. if she cant make it clear maybe she just doesnt want to. ever think of that? any girl who cant take care of this is looking to stir up trouble and needs the reassurance.

 

the only exception to this is if it borders on stalking or he gets physical and she is not able to fight him off. i mean there's a point up to which any girl can handle herself and letting you do it is so 15th century. i still say dont get involved in the p1ssing contest. take it as a compliment that she can get other guys but wants you and call it a day.

 

i'm done.

 

I've been in Denver a lot....and haven't made any attempt to get in touch with you

[Red White and Blue 81]

You mean the one you can't get published in?

 

 

Any moron can get published in a local paper. When I graduated from college I wrote for 3-4 daily locals at a time. Then I got enough clips to get a real job and stopped. The money in newspapers, at least at the writer level, is really poor. But congrats on your paper - that's really super and I'm glad you're happy with what you're doing. I got tired of it and moved into a different field.

[TheNewGirl 1,491]

i still say dont get involved in the p1ssing contest.

 

Yup.

 

She didn't return his call, that should be good enough. If he contacts her again, SHE needs to be the one to say that she's not interested.

 

ITA that you should be glad that another guy is attracted to her.

[Toro 1]

She gave him and two of my friend's friends (a guy and a girl) her card when we first met - I gave them my card too. I'm sure she could handle it on her own but I'm kind of pissed - I think it's really rude for this guy to act friendly to my face, then call my GF and ask her out behind my back. What a cack.

 

Hi. My name is Monkey Douche Car. Here is my business card.

And this is my imaginary girlfriend, Douchetta. Here is her business card.

 

 

Any moron can get published in a local paper.

 

torridjoe proved this correct.

[parrot 789]

1) Only insecure little welching biatches get upset about shat like that.

Seriously Toro, you should just let this whole welching thing go. It is a tip that you're as big a welcher as MDC.

[Mephisto 15]

My suggestion is that she give me this jerkoff's number so that I can return the call and explain a few things. She is not so keen on this idea. I'm not the kind of meathead who's going to throw punches for no reason but if it came to it this guy is no threat no problem.

 

Advice?

 

He needs to be told and in no uncertain terms.

 

Most of the time, I'm flattered. She handles it quite well and there is no muss, no fuss. Prior to reading the whole of your post, I was going to add that if it "crossed a line" - I would feel compelled to address it more substantially.

 

I think you need to address it more substantially. No threats or fights - just be perfectly clear that the advances are unacceptable to the both of you and it "had better stop now."

[Toro 1]

Seriously Toro, you should just let this whole welching thing go. It is a tip that you're as big a welcher as MDC.

 

for what? I ALWAYS paid up for losing a bet. And I know what you are going to say, but my bored suicide was not the result of a bet so STFU.

 

loser.

[parrot 789]

for what? I ALWAYS paid up for losing a bet. And I know what you are going to say, but my bored suicide was not the result of a bet so STFU.

 

loser.

Who gives a fock what your bored suicide was the result of? You said you would do something and didn't. Thus you word is sh!t and you are a focking WELCHER. Hth.

 

Loser? I'm not the guy trying to get my wife to bribe me with a $6000 motorcycle to make me have enough backbone to quit smoking.

[Toro 1]

Who gives a fock what your bored suicide was the result of? You said you would do something and didn't. Thus you word is sh!t and you are a focking WELCHER. Hth.

 

Loser? I'm not the guy trying to get my wife to bribe me with a $6000 motorcycle to make me have enough backbone to quit smoking.

 

You must be bored today.

[parrot 789]

You must be bored today.

This is true.

[Toro 1]

This is true.

 

Well, then why don't you swallow a razor blade?

[stop talking cheerleader 0]

I'm going to alter my response to this because this thread is getting annoying....as my said earlier, your a focking tool. Get over it and find something worth worrying about

[parrot 789]

Well, then why don't you swallow a razor blade?

I'd find that easier than swallowing my pride to where I think I deserve a $6000 reward for not slowly killing myself.

[Toro 1]

I'd find that easier than swallowing my wife's cack.

[cday 0]

I'd find that easier than swallowing my pride to where I think I deserve a $6000 reward for not slowly killing myself.

 

[parrot 789]

My wife doesn't have a cack. Fyi, most wives don't; you really need to get out more.

[Toro 1]

My wife doesn't have a cack. Fyi, most wives don't; you really need to get out more.

 

When did she complete her transformation?

[parrot 789]

When did she complete her transformation?

If we did have some extra balls laying around, I'd gladly loan them to you. I'm guessing your mother in law keeps yours in her nightstand.

[Red White and Blue 81]

When did she complete her transformation?

 

Mrs. Toro is still in the caccoon.

[Burt 50]

1) Only insecure little welching biatches get upset about shat like that.

2) Where does your girlfriend work? Willy Wonka's Chocolate Factory?

3) You don't have any friends.

4) You should let her go so she can date this other guy. It's better to just move on now then to get more invested in the relationship and she focks some other dude anyway.

5) Your a welching sissy phaggot secretary who drinks beer at lunch to kill the pain that is your life.

6) Your short stories suck so much that Dyson wanted to buy them to put in his next invention.

 

That should do.

 

Toro OUT!!!

 

Could you possibly be any more unfunny?

[Toro 1]

Mrs. Toro is still in the caccoon.

 

as soon as you have the balls to post a picture, then you can comment.

 

you focking whiney little biatch.

 

 

Could you possibly be any more unfunny?

 

I could be Redtodd.

[Rusty Syringes 478]

The money in newspapers, at least at the writer level, is really poor.

 

Particularly if you suck at it.

 

[Red White and Blue 81]

Particularly if you suck at it.

 

 

Eh whatever, I probably make as much if not more money than you working fewer hours, I could move down to Texor anytime I felt like it but you'll never live in the Northeast, blah blah it's all so boring and been done before that I can't bother, good night.

[Rusty Syringes 478]

Eh whatever, I probably make as much if not more money than you working fewer hours, I could move down to Texor anytime I felt like it but you'll never live in the Northeast, blah blah it's all so boring and been done before that I can't bother, good night.

 

 

Maybe you'll scare off your girlfriend's new suitor by glaring at him from behind some of that badass mascara.

 

[Toro 1]

Maybe you'll piss off the wrong person and he'll rape your wife and murder your children!

 

 

note to self:

MDC doesn't like mascara comments...

[doughboys_2002 11]

Just fvck the dude up and tell him if you hear he is even thinking about your GF you are not going to be so nice next time!

[Rusty Syringes 478]

note to self:

MDC doesn't like mascara comments...

 

 

I think he might be having himself a good about it right now.

 

LINK

 

[MDC 7,428]

I think he might be having himself a good about it right now.

 

LINK

 

 

You must do the graphic design for the Buttmont Register website.

[Rusty Syringes 478]

You must do the graphic design for the Buttmont Register website.

 

 

You must have taken comedy lessons at the Holocaust museum.

 

[The Moz 69]

Dude -- like nothing happened so the guy was drunk an said a few things , hey maybe he called her and asked her out becasue he didn't know she was really " with you " as you said he was pretty drunk. if you make it a big deal your just going to piss your ' SO " off and likley will be begining of end of your relationship.

[Rusty Syringes 478]

Dude -- like nothing happened so the guy was drunk an said a few things , hey maybe he called her and asked her out becasue he didn't know she was really " with you " as you said he was pretty drunk. if you make it a big deal your just going to piss your ' SO " off and likley will be begining of end of your relationship.

 

Considering his self-restraint, insecurity and self-esteem issues, I'm banking - and hoping - that it ain't going to play out like that.