Dating a White Girl, with a Black child **SPINOFF**

[Guest Black Label Society]

Rather ironic..but true case scenario for me.

 

I'll start by admitting I'm doing the online dating thing.

A rather attractive woman (31...prolly B's/small C's) emailed me, saying she wanted to get to know me.

I had already noticed her profile, so when she emailed me I was a bit excited.

 

she tells me she just got back from a vacation with her Mom and Daughter.

So I start going through her pictures again...and what appears to be her daughter....is Black.

 

So....would you date her, knowing that in the long run you're looking for something serious, if her daughter was black? (plus she looks like she's about 14/15, which would make mom around 16/17 when she had her)

[KSB2424 3,148]

I wouldn't automatically rule it out just because of this. If you are interested, then meet with her and see if you hit it off, you never know. If after you go out, the date was just meh, then bail.

[Mephisto 15]

It's a date. Go on it and see what happens.

[spottedowl 1]

Nope, don't date women with kids.

[KSB2424 3,148]

Wait a couple of years and date the daughter.

[D_House 0]

Wait a couple of years and date the daughter.

[SigEp316 0]

if she's already throated and taken the big black wang....I can't imagine that the Black Label Wang will keep her interest for long....

 

 

:console:

[edjr 6,593]

Those yahoo personals really work wonders for you, eh?

[Jessy 0]

It's a date. Go on it and see what happens.

 

Agreed.

[Jeremy 0]

I guess I don't understand the question. We talked about how some guys aren't attracted to black women, but why would the kid being black have anything to do with it? You're dating the mom, right?

 

 

 

if she's already throated and taken the big black wang....I can't imagine that the Black Label Wang will keep her interest for long....

:console:

 

Oh, is the hangup? That'd be a silly reason to pass up a date.

[edjr 6,593]

I guess I don't understand the question. We talked about how some guys aren't attracted to black women, but why would the kid being black have anything to do with it? You're dating the mom, right?

 

What if it works out?

 

2 white people with a black kid? They're not Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie for christ sakes. it's just silly.

[SigEp316 0]

I guess I don't understand the question. We talked about how some guys aren't attracted to black women, but why would the kid being black have anything to do with it? You're dating the mom, right?

Oh, is the hangup? That'd be a silly reason to pass up a date.

 

 

every minute he's with her, he'll be thinking about that big black wang penetrating her....and then his mouth will water

[frank 2,307]

Wait a couple of years and date the daughter.

 

[itsbigmoni 1]

The black part is totally up to the individual. Its not like someone is going to persuade you one way or the other about that. I know guys who won't date a girl if they knew she was with a black guy. But then again, there are guys that don't care and would date a girl that dated a black guy or they'd even date a black girl.

 

The "dating a mom with a kid" thing is where input would help if your on the fence. The closest i ever came to dating a chick with a kid was when i played wingman for my friend and we ended up going back to the girls apt (they were roommates or something) and when i was in her room she had pictures of her and her kid. On the fridge there was also the stereotypical look at what my daughter did in class type things. Kinda weird but its not like i ever saw her again.

[vuduchile 1,945]

if she's already throated and taken the big black wang....I can't imagine that the Black Label Wang will keep her interest for long....

:console:

 

Yeah. The answer to this question can be solved by using a simple math equation.

 

White poon divided by black length + black girth = White poon forever rooned for white wang.

[KSB2424 3,148]

Not to sound like I go around and check out other men or anything, but I've been in plenty of gym's with showers ect. and I've never understood the "myth" that black men have these huge peckers. They all looked pretty standard to me.

 

Okay, I feel really wierd and dirty now.

[surferskin 30]

Nope, don't date women with kids.

LOL, aren't you like 60? how could you possibly accomplish this?

[hellothere 1]

ever throw a hotdog down a hallway?

[donhaas 18]

I'll start by admitting I'm doing the online dating thing.

 

 

[DuckStupid 40]

Say hello to Rene for me.

[wiffleball 4,790]

Date the Mom, molest the hell outta the daughter.

 

No one will believe a black teenager over a White Man.

[Jeebus 3]

It's just a date. Find out what chemistry is there with the girl first. If things progress from there, THEN worry about the other crap.

[redtodd 7]

Go on a date, what the hell.

 

If it makes it beyond 5 dates, she is obviously crazy and you should buy a gun.

[gocolts 300]

It's just a date. Find out what chemistry is there with the girl first. If things progress from there, THEN worry about the other crap.

I disagree. If it bothers you now, why even bother, if your looking for a wife and not just something warm.

 

If you won't accept the black daughter, no sence in getting involved in the first place. You are not obligated to this woman so it is your choice. You can chose to not date women with black kids. You can chose to not date women with kids no matter what color they are. It is all about what you want in a wife, if that is what your looking for.

 

The having a kid when she was a kid herself speaks volumes about her.

[Jeremy 0]

The having a kid when she was a kid herself speaks volumes about her.

 

Volumes?

 

It tells me 2 things about her.

 

1. She made a mistake when she was young.

2. She didn't take the easy way out by having an abortion.

 

 

I think you'll actually have to talk to the young lady to find out the rest. Say, dates are good for that kind of thing.

[ADD1CT36 1]

BLS, i HIGHLY recommend you NOT go out with this woman. you seem to already have a problem with the potential drama that may ensue. and why would you put her through that if you already have negative associations with her past? it's unfair to both of you.

 

now if it was me it's different because i dont view dating strictly as a means to an end. i see it more as experience and just hanging out with someone who you may actually enjoy spending time with, regardless of whether it "works out" or not. one of my best friends is a guy i dated and we realized we were better as friends and neither of us saw it as a waste of time to date, even tho we knew it wouldnt go any where. but i think you see dating as more serious than that and want to find "the one." so to you and quite possibly to her, it would be a waste of time to even try.

 

thats just my two cents and you can stick it in yourear if you wanna.

[wiffleball 4,790]

molest the hell outta the daughter.

 

 

 

 

 

 

:Matthew McConahey:"......Now, imagine she was WHITE!"

[naomi 356]

:Matthew McConahey:"......Now, imagine she was WHITE!"

 

That was a really well acted scene. Read your post in Peenie's thread earlier. Good post but then you joke about this stuff.

 

I think you'll actually have to talk to the young lady to find out the rest. Say, dates are good for that kind of thing.

 

 

Just go on the date. Unless there is something you absolutely know now they would prevent you from ever wanting a future with her.

 

Gocolts, why would someone willing to accept someone's kid draw the line if she was black? And the stuff about comparing to more well endowed black guys is retarded on several levels.

[gocolts 300]

 

 

Gocolts, why would someone willing to accept someone's kid draw the line if she was black? And the stuff about comparing to more well endowed black guys is retarded on several levels.

 

Hell if I know why it be any difference if the kid is black or whatever color. I was just saying that if the guy doesn't want to have a black child in his life, don't date someone with a black child. No sence in putting some poor kid through hell if your a bigot, just so you can have the mom. Sounds like a package deal, if you don't want the whole package, why even start anything up, if a wife is what your looking for.

 

I didn't say ANYTHING about how well endowed black guys are, that was other posters.

 

Volumes?

 

It tells me 2 things about her.

 

1. She made a mistake when she was young.

2. She didn't take the easy way out by having an abortion.

I think you'll actually have to talk to the young lady to find out the rest. Say, dates are good for that kind of thing.

A mistake.

 

1.A mistake is putting on the wrong sock on your way out the door. Letting a man fock you is not "a mistake".

 

2.The easy way out I am glad she didn't have an abortion, that is the worst way to go. But why didn't she love her child enough to give her a loving 2 parent home by adoption???

[jerryskids 6,800]

1.A mistake is putting on the wrong sock on your way out the door. Letting a man fock you is not "a mistake".

 

2.The easy way out I am glad she didn't have an abortion, that is the worst way to go. But why didn't she love her child enough to give her a loving 2 parent home by adoption???

People like you give conservatives a bad name. Do you even read the words you type? In your fantasy world nobody has sex outside of marriage. I can't even think of the words to respond to your last sentence; that is the most assinine, uninformed statement I have seen in quite some time.

[CurlyNight's Ghost 0]

She's a skank!@#@!

 

Are you desperate? Why date a woman with a kid? You want a ready made family to deal with?

[donhaas 18]

1.A mistake is putting on the wrong sock on your way out the door. Letting a man fock you is not "a mistake".

 

The funny thing is that I totally believe you've never ever had pre-marital sex -- which would clearly back up your position on this topic

[gocolts 300]

The funny thing is that I totally believe you've never ever had pre-marital sex -- which would clearly back up your position on this topic

Well you would be wrong.......AGAIN

 

I can't even think of the words to respond to your last sentence; that is the most assinine, uninformed statement I have seen in quite some time.

 

How is that?? Because I think every child should be in a 2 parent family??? What's wrong with that???

 

So you think it is assinine for a kid to have 2 parents that love them.

 

How is it uninformed. It is no secret that children who grow up in a 2 parent home reduces the risks for drug abuse, early sexual behavior, among a whole list of things that parents don't want there children doing at a young age. You are very uninformed as you have demonstrated.

[jerryskids 6,800]

 

So you think it is assinine for a kid to have 2 parents that love them.

 

How is it uninformed. It is no secret that children who grow up in a 2 parent home reduces the risks for drug abuse, early sexual behavior, among a whole list of things that parents don't want there children doing at a young age. You are very uninformed as you have demonstrated.

What I think is "assinine and uninformed" is your statement about "not loving her child enough...". You quote statistics (well, not really quote, but assuming they are true) which represent an average. You know nothing about this person, she could be Mother of the Year 10 years running, and have a well-adjusted, outstanding young woman as a daughter. But nnnoooo, in your world, every two parent family is better than every single parent one, so obviously she didn't love her child enough to give her up for adoption.

 

The world isn't black and white, gocolts.

[gocolts 300]

What I think is "assinine and uninformed" is your statement about "not loving her child enough...". You quote statistics (well, not really quote, but assuming they are true) which represent an average. You know nothing about this person, she could be Mother of the Year 10 years running, and have a well-adjusted, outstanding young woman as a daughter. But nnnoooo, in your world, every two parent family is better than every single parent one, so obviously she didn't love her child enough to give her up for adoption.

 

The world isn't black and white, gocolts.

I hope she is mother of the year 10 years running. I just happen to think children having children is not always the best way to go. I think it is even a little selfish of her. But I certainly don't wish them harm or any ill feelings.

 

You know nothing about her either. Maybe she dumped the baby on mom so she go out and still have a life. You ever hear of someone doing that??? I have. I have seen it. Been apart of it even. When I was dating this stripper chic, I went to pick her up one night at her apartment. She got in the car and said hit the gas, let's get the fock out of here. As we pulled off, I could hear her mom screaming out the window "Don't you leave these kids with me again".

 

The girl was still in high school, how could she possibly know how to be a parent when she is still being parented herself. Have you really been so sheltered in your life you don't know these things????

[manola 0]

Look on the bright side, you'll never have to worry about the daddy showing up and causing any problems

[jerryskids 6,800]

I hope she is mother of the year 10 years running. I just happen to think children having children is not always the best way to go. I think it is even a little selfish of her. But I certainly don't wish them harm or any ill feelings.

 

You know nothing about her either. Maybe she dumped the baby on mom so she go out and still have a life. You ever hear of someone doing that??? I have. I have seen it. Been apart of it even. When I was dating this stripper chic, I went to pick her up one night at her apartment. She got in the car and said hit the gas, let's get the fock out of here. As we pulled off, I could hear her mom screaming out the window "Don't you leave these kids with me again".

 

The girl was still in high school, how could she possibly know how to be a parent when she is still being parented herself. Have you really been so sheltered in your life you don't know these things????

I never said I know anything about her. But "Happen to think" is a long leap from "not loving her child enough...", the statement you made which IMO is very presumptive not to mention cruel. Yes, I realize that most HS kids are not prepared for such a commitment, and I have not been so sheltered. Perhaps she had a supportive family?

 

What you experienced with your stripper chick is completely irrelevant, other than it helped to form your crystallized opinions on such topics. HTH.

[BMoney 0]

bang the heck out of her until he gets out of the clink...

[naomi 356]

Hell if I know why it be any difference if the kid is black or whatever color. I was just saying that if the guy doesn't want to have a black child in his life, don't date someone with a black child. No sence in putting some poor kid through hell if your a bigot, just so you can have the mom. Sounds like a package deal, if you don't want the whole package, why even start anything up, if a wife is what your looking for.

 

I didn't say ANYTHING about how well endowed black guys are, that was other posters.

 

Gotcha. Also I should have dropped a line for the comment about the well endowed statments. Wasn't related to you.

 

 

But why didn't she love her child enough to give her a loving 2 parent home by adoption???

 

 

While I agree two parents are the best, at the same time some moms can still really want their kids even if they didn't plan them. Maternal connection. It can seem unloving to seperate yourself from them no matter what, even if you recognize two parents as better, you just want to be their parent. Totally natural. Asking a mom to part with her kid because she happens to not have a man to be a Dad is cruel.

[birdbrain3X 0]

The world isn't black and white, gocolts.

 

After reading this thread and Peenies thread I must beg to differ.

 

 

 

Don't date anyone with kids unless you really fall for the person. It's not worth the xtra trouble. The kid being a different race just adds to the problem. Plenty of people out there without kids, go find them, you'll be better off.