ever get in a fight with the spouse but you were so smashed you

[cmh6476 1,025]

that would suck.

[jerryskids 6,811]

Do you have something you'd like to share, but you were too snockered to remember?

[IrishDrunk 0]

Next time you should go for a ride on the interstate instead.

 

 

HTH.

[cmh6476 1,025]

Do you have something you'd like to share, but you were too snockered to remember?

not necessarily

[phillybear 366]

I predict that this thread will end very, very badly.

[TheNewGirl 1,496]

SHOCKING!@#@! that cmh would be too drunk to remember talking to someone.

[kutulu 1,678]

I think so, but the details are a little hazy.

[ADD1CT36 1]

the last thing i do when i'm drunk is fight. i'm a lover not a fighter.

 

i have slept with someone and was too smashed to remember

[cmh6476 1,025]

the last thing i do when i'm drunk is fight. i'm a lover not a fighter.

 

i have slept with someone and was too smashed to remember

 

 

i dont know what happenned. I would go into it, then people would just hammer on me so whats the point. But bascally it escalated into me delving into life in general and how it's focked up and we might as well all be dead and stuff cause I'm tired of missing my dad and brother and stuff.

 

Which freaked the wife out a little bit because it seemed that I wasn't happy with my life and didnt care if I wasnt with my wife and kids.

 

Which I explained the night before wasn't really the point, the point of me being depressed and sad is the fact I have loved ones I miss, but it doesn't mean I would give up what I have now just to get those lost ones back, so I think she kinda got it.

 

It's just not good to get that drunk and then let all that stuff like that come out and then not remember wtf you were talking about the next day. I don't know how we got there or why I was so mad or how the hell I got so messed up, I was just havin a good time

 

 

 

But when all is said and done, and once I get my quarterly binge out of the way and some of that stuff I leave bottled up inside of me out, I sure fell better for a llittle bit...

[jerryskids 6,811]

i dont know what happenned. I would go into it, then people would just hammer on me so whats the point. But bascally it escalated into me delving into life in general and how it's focked up and we might as well all be dead and stuff cause I'm tired of missing my dad and brother and stuff.

 

Which freaked the wife out a little bit because it seemed that I wasn't happy with my life and didnt care if I wasnt with my wife and kids.

 

Which I explained the night before wasn't really the point, the point of me being depressed and sad is the fact I have loved ones I miss, but it doesn't mean I would give up what I have now just to get those lost ones back, so I think she kinda got it.

 

It's just not good to get that drunk and then let all that stuff like that come out and then not remember wtf you were talking about the next day

 

I can't imagine why it freaked your wife out. I mean, your getting drunk is such a rare occurrence, why would she be concerned that you would off yourself?

[Jetdoc 20]

the last thing i do when i'm drunk is fight. i'm a lover not a fighter.

 

Isn't a c0ckpunch the equivalent of loving for you?

[SigEp316 0]

you should take a 12 pack of Natural Light....and fock it, just before you cvm you should stick your head in the hole and run into traffic

[ADD1CT36 1]

But when all is said and done, and once I get my quarterly binge out of the way and some of that stuff I leave bottled up inside of me out, I sure fell better for a llittle bit...

 

well that's why it's better to get sloppy drunk with a bartender that you trust and let all that out. they will show the appropriate amount of concern, but not take any of it personally and will make sure you get into the cab home ok. plus they wont hold anything you said against you next time you come in. they might laugh about it with the other staff, but who the fock cares what bar staff think about us??? lol

[Mephisto 15]

...once I get my quarterly binge out of the way...

 

Which "quarter" of each week do you have your binges?

 

WHOOOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOOO!@#!%!#@!!! WHO'S DRINKIN' AND VERBALLY ASSAULTING THEIR SPOUSE TONIGHT?!??!?!@!#

[jerryskids 6,811]

But when all is said and done, and once I get my quarterly binge out of the way and some of that stuff I leave bottled up inside of me out, I sure fell better for a llittle bit...

 

Do you schedule this shiot, is it in your Outlook calendar for, say, December 8?

 

Also, are you telling us you will not get drunk at a Chief's game all year?

[TheNewGirl 1,496]

i dont know what happenned. I would go into it, then people would just hammer on me so whats the point. But bascally it escalated into me delving into life in general and how it's focked up and we might as well all be dead and stuff cause I'm tired of missing my dad and brother and stuff.

 

Which freaked the wife out a little bit because it seemed that I wasn't happy with my life and didnt care if I wasnt with my wife and kids.

 

Which I explained the night before wasn't really the point, the point of me being depressed and sad is the fact I have loved ones I miss, but it doesn't mean I would give up what I have now just to get those lost ones back, so I think she kinda got it.

 

It's just not good to get that drunk and then let all that stuff like that come out and then not remember wtf you were talking about the next day. I don't know how we got there or why I was so mad or how the hell I got so messed up, I was just havin a good time

 

But when all is said and done, and once I get my quarterly binge out of the way and some of that stuff I leave bottled up inside of me out, I sure fell better for a llittle bit...

 

You are depressed.

 

Drinking alcohol is one of the WORST things that you can do. Not to mention using alcohol as the crutch that you need to get stuff out that's been "bottled" up.

 

Good luck with the wife and the kids and all of that.

 

Seriously.

[Jetdoc 20]

Larry Johnson signed...doesn't that make you giddy?

[jerryskids 6,811]

Also, how did you "fell better for a little bit" if you didn't even remember the conversation?

[SigEp316 0]

Also, how did you "fell better for a little bit" if you didn't even remember the conversation?

 

 

you should give him some quick stock tips to lift his spirits

[Rusty Syringes 478]

I shudder to think what's going to happen when the Chiefs finish 4-12 this year, starting with a loss this Sunday to the mighty Texans.

[jerryskids 6,811]

you should give him some quick stock tips to lift his spirits

OK... hey cmh, invest in the company that made sigep's wife's breast implants. They don't feel terribly real but your manjuice bounces off of them like a ping pong ball, so that's kinda cool.

[Mephisto 15]

I shudder to think what's going to happen when the Chiefs finish 4-12 this year, starting with a loss this Sunday to the mighty Texans.

 

I'm thinking.... WOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

[Tusekan Raiders 0]

the point of me being depressed and sad is the fact I have loved ones I miss

 

We all have dead loved ones we miss, but the difference in being a man is not being a pansy about it and letting your self-pity bring down those you love who are still freaking alive. Life is rough, get a helmet.

[29 Guests 29]

I think so, but the details are a little hazy.

[29 Guests 29]

I shudder to think what's going to happen when the Chiefs finish 4-12 this year, starting with a loss this Sunday to the mighty Texans.

this has to be their year...well, maybe..haha

[TommyGavin 790]

me nah

[TheNewGirl 1,496]

We all have dead loved ones we miss, but the difference in being a man is not being a pansy about it and letting your self-pity bring down those you love who are still freaking alive. Life is rough, get a helmet.

 

 

Seriously.

 

cmh, we ALL have people that we miss.

 

You have a wife and family now, they are among the living. Do you think that your loved one's who've passed on like seeing you like this around and in front of them?

 

If you're grieving so badly that you are DRINKING, you need to see someone before it gets out of hand...or you will end up mourning the loss of your marriage too. Your kids are going to grow up remembering you like this, and someday, they might be posting on here about their alcoholic father.

 

Seriously.

[Rusty Syringes 478]

Let's put your money where your mouf is.

 

If the Texans beat the Chiefs, you have to stop drinking for a month.

 

[jerryskids 6,811]

Let's put your money where your mouf is.

 

If the Texans beat the Chiefs, you have to stop drinking for a month.

 

You'd have to give up something similar, like... breathing for a month.

[TheNewGirl 1,496]

You'd have to give up something similar, like... breathing for a month.

 

Rusty is one of my favorite posters, I would miss him were he to stop breathing.

 

How about you stop hitting on womens on the 'net? That'd be worse than cmh giving up the juice.

[jerryskids 6,811]

Rusty is one of my favorite posters, I would miss him were he to stop breathing.

 

How about you stop hitting on womens on the 'net? That'd be worse than cmh giving up the juice.

Ooooooh!!!@#!#!@!! How about you stop nagging?

 

Checkmate.

[TheNewGirl 1,496]

Ooooooh!!!@#!#!@!! How about you stop nagging?

 

Checkmate.

 

 

Wow. Another lemming jumping on the Naggin' Wagon. Shocking!@#@!

[jerryskids 6,811]

Wow. Another lemming jumping on the Naggin' Wagon. Shocking!@#@!

Wow. How clever a response. Let me get this straight, you call me out for hitting on interweb womens (which I haven't done in a long time btw), I respond about your nagging, and you call me a lemming? Nagzilla pot, meet kettle.

[Mephisto 15]

...the point of me being depressed and sad is the fact I have loved ones I miss, but it doesn't mean I would give up what I have now just to get those lost ones back, so I think she kinda got it.

 

I wonder when you'll get that you've jumped on the Express Train to reuniting with them in the afterlife.

 

WOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOO!!!@!@$#!#$@@ HAVE ANOTHER ONE ON ME!!!@!@$

 

[cmh6476 1,025]

We all have dead loved ones we miss, but the difference in being a man is not being a pansy about it and letting your self-pity bring down those you love who are still freaking alive. Life is rough, get a helmet.

 

 

That's just it, I don't. I don't talk about it, I don't dwell on it, I don't let people know it bothers me.

 

I wasn't drinking Sunday because I was depressed, I was drinking because a friend had a cookout and I was out playing volleyball and having a grand ol time. Then the wife started laying into me and it was like flipping a switch and I just kind of snapped.

 

Then it's times like that where it just all comes out at once and then poof I am better and keep going.

 

Sunday would have been my mom and dad's 30 year anniversary, so maybe that had something to do with it

 

I guess I just wanted the wife to drop me off somewhere because I was mad, so she took me by mom mom's cause she didn't know what to do and then it all came out. It was almost like maybe my dad wanted me to go by there or something for some reason, maybe then it was easier for him to connect to my mom which maybe he was wanting to do

[RLLD 4,237]

Nah, she is still alive....

[Toro 1]

That's just it, I don't. I don't talk about it, I don't dwell on it, I don't let people know it bothers me.

 

But it does.

 

You need to find someone to talk to about it. If you are having episodes while drunk when something "snaps", then there are some issues you need to deal with in a sober state of mind. Don't ever be ashamed or feel weak that you can't just suck it up and deal with it. Not many people can and the sooner you take care of yourself, the better your life will be. Don't wait til something happens that you can't take back.

 

In all seriousness, it sounds like you need some help. Why not try?

[cmh6476 1,025]

But it does.

 

You need to find someone to talk to about it. If you are having episodes while drunk when something "snaps", then there are some issues you need to deal with in a sober state of mind. Don't ever be ashamed or feel weak that you can't just suck it up and deal with it. Not many people can and the sooner you take care of yourself, the better your life will be. Don't wait til something happens that you can't take back.

 

In all seriousness, it sounds like you need some help. Why not try?

I'm fine today

 

btw, tomorrow is the 1 yr anniversary of my dad's death

[Toro 1]

I'm fine today

 

btw, tomorrow is the 1 yr anniversary of my dad's death

 

You should be fine everyday.

 

BTW, if you want to go see someone to work through these issues, you don't have to tell ANYONE. Not even your wife.

[cmh6476 1,025]

You should be fine everyday.

 

BTW, if you want to go see someone to work through these issues, you don't have to tell ANYONE. Not even your wife.

 

 

why would I not want to tell her? It's not like I don't want to talk about it or want to bottle all of it up, but when I try it just hurts too much and I literally can't talk about it.

 

Plus it's the same ol stuff that I have no control over. Someday I'll be dead, and then hopefully I'll be back with my brother and dad as well as my wife and kids and mom. There's nothing I can do in the meantime that is going to give me what I want. Nothing is going to bring us all back together. And no "specialist" I can go talk to is going to be able to help me in dealing with all of these issues, no matter what they say or tell me. They don't have a fix or an answer.

 

 

So, I'll continue to live my life to the best of my ability, in being a father and supporter to my family and the good-natured, fun loving person that I am. If I get drunk a few times a month to forget about all the trials and tribulations who the fock cares? If you don't like it then leave me alone