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So my wife left me a about a year and a half ago. She never gave me a reason for leaving. I have had a hunch that is was a seven year itch thing. So this past week or so she started hitting on me and making all kinds of sex innuendo, even sent me some snatch pics. She even said she wanted to fock, which I said I couldn't do. She broke up with her boyfriend the day before all this started. She also informs me that she has been going to some strip bars and even has given money to the chicks dancing. She goes to drinking parties as well.

 

So last night I to sit at home in terror because she done what both of us agreed to never do, introduce our son to people we date. Of coarse that all went out the window for her the day she bailed on the marriage. So this focking idiot she was dating that she broke up with says he is going to kill himself and called her 50 times yesterday. He said she would know that he killed himself because he was going to come to her apartment and do it right in front of her and my son. I sat here worried to death last night that this insane fock would try and take out her and my kid in the process.

 

See, a few months back this focking tard told his mom and friends that my son was really his son. She dumped the guy then and told my son all about it. :pointstosky: Then she took the focker back and now my son has a problem with lying to her, and she doesn't understand why. :banana:

 

My ex wife claims now that she has learned her lesson and will not be introducing our son to all her freaking ###### buddies. I hope she sticks by that, but I have my doubts.

 

My son also announced to me and my parents this weekend at a restaurant that his mom and Brian have a problem with kissing each other all the time. :puking:

 

She asked for my advice on this and I told her to keep messages when he calls if he says that he is going kill himself and call the mental hospital. She said she may get a restraining order against this loser.

 

So anyone got any advice on any this???

 

ETA: 34C

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So my wife left me a about a year and a half ago. She never gave me a reason for leaving. I have had a hunch that is was a seven year itch thing. So this past week or so she started hitting on me and making all kinds of sex innuendo, even sent me some snatch pics. She even said she wanted to fock, which I said I couldn't do. She broke up with her boyfriend the day before all this started. She also informs me that she has been going to some strip bars and even has given money to the chicks dancing. She goes to drinking parties as well.

 

So last night I to sit at home in terror because she done what both of us agreed to never do, introduce our son to people we date. Of coarse that all went out the window for her the day she bailed on the marriage. So this focking idiot she was dating that she broke up with says he is going to kill himself and called her 50 times yesterday. He said she would know that he killed himself because he was going to come to her apartment and do it right in front of her and my son. I sat here worried to death last night that this insane fock would try and take out her and my kid in the process.

 

See, a few months back this focking tard told his mom and friends that my son was really his son. She dumped the guy then and told my son all about it. :pointstosky: Then she took the focker back and now my son has a problem with lying to her, and she doesn't understand why. :pointstosky:

 

My ex wife claims now that she has learned her lesson and will not be introducing our son to all her freaking ###### buddies. I hope she sticks by that, but I have my doubts.

 

My son also announced to me and my parents this weekend at a restaurant that his mom and Brian have a problem with kissing each other all the time. :puking:

 

She asked for my advice on this and I told her to keep messages when he calls if he says that he is going kill himself and call the mental hospital. She said she may get a restraining order against this loser.

 

So anyone got any advice on any this???

 

ETA: 34C

 

 

A restraining order is a must. Any chance that you could get full custody? :banana:

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Wow. She sounds like a nut. My advice to you is to start building your case for full custody. Keep track of all the things she does that makes her unfit to be a mother. If you could get some sort of evidence (notes, videos, phone messages, etc.) that would really help you out a lot. It is very hard for a man to get full custody though...you basically have to prove that she can't properly take care of him.

 

Also, sorry you married such a crazy b!tch. I've dated a few in my life and fortunately I didn't tie the knot with one of them, but I just as well could have. :unsure:

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So anyone got any advice on any this???

 

Yeah.

 

Try and get full custody of your son. I am sure telling the courts that she's admited to doing some of this stuff, and dates suicidal crazies would go in your favor.

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So anyone got any advice on any this???

 

 

I would have to see the snatch pics to give any advice on them. :unsure:

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A restraining order is a must. Any chance that you could get full custody? :unsure:

I wish I could. She doesn't work and hasn't since she bailed. My 8 year old son has been supporting her this whole time. She moved him to another town and took him out of one of the best schools in the state and stuck him in one of the worst schools in the state. She moved him from a nice home away form his friends and moved into the projects. They both hate it, but she won't work and can't afford anything else. I could go on and on. It has been a disaster. She can't go without sex and parties and dating, yet I haven't went on a single date since then. I don't go to parties. I don't do much of anything except spend time with my son on the weekends. All of that will change at the end of the month when he gets out of school. She said we will do a 50/50 split in the summer. I hope I can get him more than that though. She is too busy running around looking for d!ck.

 

Which is another thing. She complains that they don't have enough money for anything, yet she goes goes out drinking every single weekend.

 

I agree that a restraining order is a must.

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I would have to see the snatch pics to give any advice on them. :unsure:

:clap: She knows about this place and has even posted a few times here, JK hit on her. :lol: I told the next day after I got that pic that I posted it here and she was like :o

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:unsure: She knows about this place and has even posted a few times here, JK hit on her. :clap: I told the next day after I got that pic that I posted it here and she was like :lol:

 

SHOCKING!@#@!

 

You don't say?!

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OK....for the FFTodayer in me:

 

You're a focking hillbilly who married a complete slut.

This is Jerry Springer typeshit.

 

 

For the human in me (what little there is):

 

I agree with above posters. And for the life of me, I NEVER understand why people in your position whine and whine and whine about a focked up Mom not taking care of the kids, and you don't start putting together a SOLID case to get custody.

 

You don't have enough money, you'll never win custody, blah, blah, fuckin blah.

 

Start DOCUMENTING everything this crazy b!tch is doing. Record stuff, record phone calls, record the times/dates, record when she has your son and dumps him off to go out drinking. Record her slutiness, WHATEVER. Find every dirty, nasty, cheapass thing that slut does and TAKE YOUR SON OUT OF THAT ENVIRONMENT.

 

NO EXCUSES.

 

Good Luck man. Your son's ENTIRE life will depend on your actions NOW.

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I wish I could. She doesn't work and hasn't since she bailed. My 8 year old son has been supporting her this whole time. She moved him to another town and took him out of one of the best schools in the state and stuck him in one of the worst schools in the state. She moved him from a nice home away form his friends and moved into the projects. They both hate it, but she won't work and can't afford anything else. I could go on and on. It has been a disaster. She can't go without sex and parties and dating, yet I haven't went on a single date since then. I don't go to parties. I don't do much of anything except spend time with my son on the weekends. All of that will change at the end of the month when he gets out of school. She said we will do a 50/50 split in the summer. I hope I can get him more than that though. She is too busy running around looking for d!ck.

 

Which is another thing. She complains that they don't have enough money for anything, yet she goes goes out drinking every single weekend.

 

I agree that a restraining order is a must.

 

 

Uh, come again??????

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Uh, come again??????

 

 

Child Support and probably Welfare

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That's sucks...good luck getting custody of your son. Do you know if your nutty ex is into getting tag teamed by a married couple?

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:unsure: She knows about this place and has even posted a few times here, JK hit on her. :clap: I told the next day after I got that pic that I posted it here and she was like :lol:

What was her name? And I must suck at it if I couldn't score a slut like that. :o

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OK....for the FFTodayer in me:

 

You're a focking hillbilly who married a complete slut.

This is Jerry Springer typeshit.

For the human in me (what little there is):

 

I agree with above posters. And for the life of me, I NEVER understand why people in your position whine and whine and whine about a focked up Mom not taking care of the kids, and you don't start putting together a SOLID case to get custody.

 

You don't have enough money, you'll never win custody, blah, blah, fuckin blah.

 

Start DOCUMENTING everything this crazy b!tch is doing. Record stuff, record phone calls, record the times/dates, record when she has your son and dumps him off to go out drinking. Record her slutiness, WHATEVER. Find every dirty, nasty, cheapass thing that slut does and TAKE YOUR SON OUT OF THAT ENVIRONMENT.

 

NO EXCUSES.

 

Good Luck man. Your son's ENTIRE life will depend on your actions NOW.

I actually like that advice. Keep in mind though that other than the loser telling his mom and friends that my son was his, I didn't know she was doing all this stuff I suspected she was. She had just told me all this stuff yesterday. There is nothing to record. She doesn't leave this type of thing on my answering machine, e-mails or anything like that. I get my son every weekend on Friday right after school and take him back Sunday evening. She does most of this crap on the weekends I suspect. You are right, I married a slut. I didn't realize I was whining and whining. Just had a situation arise and thought I might get some advice on this situation.

 

She has all the power and lets me have him every single weekend, when the courts said only every other weekend. I have no evidence of anything either. Just what she has told me. She hasn't sent an email, other than the pic, nor does she leave anything like this on an answering machine.

 

About the only thing I could do to get my son out of that environment would be to try and get her back with me, which is something she seems to want right now. I have been contemplating that too, if for no other reason than to get him out of that environment. :unsure:

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What was her name? And I must suck at it if I couldn't score a slut like that. :unsure:

Her handle her was gocolt's wife.

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I actually like that advice. Keep in mind though that other than the loser telling his mom and friends that my son was his, I didn't know she was doing all this stuff I suspected she was. She had just told me all this stuff yesterday. There is nothing to record. She doesn't leave this type of thing on my answering machine, e-mails or anything like that. I get my son every weekend on Friday right after school and take him back Sunday evening. She does most of this crap on the weekends I suspect. You are right, I married a slut. I didn't realize I was whining and whining. Just had a situation arise and thought I might get some advice on this situation.

 

She has all the power and lets me have him every single weekend, when the courts said only every other weekend. I have no evidence of anything either. Just what she has told me. She hasn't sent an email, other than the pic, nor does she leave anything like this on an answering machine.

 

About the only thing I could do to get my son out of that environment would be to try and get her back with me, which is something she seems to want right now. I have been contemplating that too, if for no other reason than to get him out of that environment. :first:

 

Sans the 34C's and the benefit for your son, I wouldn't want anything to do with that ######.

I know the type...dated her for 2 years...thank god I never had any kids.

 

You weren't whining....and I don't mean to insinuate such.

But where there's a will there's a way my friend. YOU can find a way to remove him from that environment.

Do whatever it takes (legally of course).

 

Best of luck my friend; your son is at a crossroads in his life, which he has no choice over.

My advice is to find a way to make something happen for him.

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About the only thing I could do to get my son out of that environment would be to try and get her back with me, which is something she seems to want right now. I have been contemplating that too, if for no other reason than to get him out of that environment. :first:

 

That's a terrible idea. She's a stupid, selfish slut that treated you like sh!t. Why the hell would you want that back in your life? Focus on getting your son and forget about her. You say she doesn't send you e-mails or leave you voice mails...but you can GET her to do that. For example, you could send her an e-mail about "getting back together" in which you ask her to admit all the sh!t she has done. Then print out her e-mail response and take it to court. It's low, I know, but this is your son's life we are talking about.

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have you ever watched: Locked up Abroad?

It's pretty good.

This broad should be locked up too.

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So, by taking her back and putting him into an unhappy marriage is better? Where he will more or less learn, "Always take the chick back" from you, and that unhappy marriages are okay?

 

I said this a few weeks ago: you need to let go of your anger and resentment towards your wife. Sure, she focked up with the marriage and continues to do so in her personal life. That's on HER, not you. I can see your concern for your son, but the "only way" out is not to take her back, jeesus. Get MORE custody. Take HER to court. You can't tell me that if it were YOU out there focking everything under the sun and dating chicks that at the crazy for breakfast that SHE wouldn't be hauling your ass into court? Come on, colts. Your concern shoudl be for HIM...not for if she's dating and you're not.

 

Show your kid that this is NOT acceptable. Sounds like mom tells him a whole bunch of sh!t that he doesn't need to be concerned with and is potentially putting him into unsafe conditions with the doods that she dates.

 

Again, he is going to identify more with you, the same sex parent. He's going to learn how to treat others and how to have others treat you, FROM YOU.

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Maybe he was holding her up for the snatch shots. :first:

 

maybe he was the photographer

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She's a stupid, selfish slut

 

 

You forgot insecure and codependant.

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They're all focking crazy. Wish I had a better answer, but that's just the case.

 

 

And, I have no idea what this is: "She goes to drinking parties as well".

 

 

Sounds like something John Lithgow said in FootLoose.

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That's a terrible idea. She's a stupid, selfish slut that treated you like sh!t. Why the hell would you want that back in your life? Focus on getting your son and forget about her. You say she doesn't send you e-mails or leave you voice mails...but you can GET her to do that. For example, you could send her an e-mail about "getting back together" in which you ask her to admit all the sh!t she has done. Then print out her e-mail response and take it to court. It's low, I know, but this is your son's life we are talking about.

I don't think I could take her back. Hell, I haven't even went on a date in a year and a half and turned down free sex with her. I'm sure it is a terrible idea to get back together. I haven't even laid out some of the other things she done. All kinds of crazy shiat has crossed my mind this past 24 hours to try and get him back in my life on a daily basis and out of the situation she has put him in.

 

My ex went to over 10 different schools in her school days and she always said how she would never do that to our son.

 

We always use to talk about how crazy it was to make a child deal with a parent's sex life and meeting the people who their parents dated.

 

We always talked about how bad it is for one parent to move away from the other one and making it difficult for the child to see one of the parents.

 

It goes on and on. My son has been giving her a very hard time for breaking up the marriage(she told him it was all on her why the marriage went south). He always reminds her that she broke her promise to GOD.

 

I was the one who was home with him and took him to everything. She has been having a difficult time him and complains about me not helping her enough. I don't know what she expects me to do since she moved away from me making it hard for me to help in the first place. When I reminded her of this, she seemed open to letting me have him this next school year. The only way she would do this though would be if I kept paying her child support, since that is her only income and has been since she bailed.

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I don't think I could take her back. Hell, I haven't even went on a date in a year and a half and turned down free sex with her. I'm sure it is a terrible idea to get back together. I haven't even laid out some of the other things she done. All kinds of crazy shiat has crossed my mind this past 24 hours to try and get him back in my life on a daily basis and out of the situation she has put him in.

 

My ex went to over 10 different schools in her school days and she always said how she would never do that to our son.

 

We always use to talk about how crazy it was to make a child deal with a parent's sex life and meeting the people who their parents dated.

 

We always talked about how bad it is for one parent to move away from the other one and making it difficult for the child to see one of the parents.

 

It goes on and on. My son has been giving her a very hard time for breaking up the marriage(she told him it was all on her why the marriage went south). He always reminds her that she broke her promise to GOD.

 

I was the one who was home with him and took him to everything. She has been having a difficult time him and complains about me not helping her enough. I don't know what she expects me to do since she moved away from me making it hard for me to help in the first place. When I reminded her of this, she seemed open to letting me have him this next school year. The only way she would do this though would be if I kept paying her child support, since that is her only income and has been since she bailed.

 

 

So she doesn't work?

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I think little gocolts needs to go stay with grandma for a while until gocolts and hocolts get their lives in order.

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Good God, man. MDC is dating your ex-wife. :first:

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So she doesn't work?

 

Reading comprehension is not your strong suit, is it?

 

 

As for gocolts, I had a buddy that went through something like this. You sound a lot like he did too. Here is what he needed to do (that you should probably think about):

 

1. Let her go. There is a reason things did not work out between you two and you are not getting back together. Who cares whose fault it was? The bottom line is you need to move on.

 

2. Your son needs to be priority number one, of course, but you need to take some time to get right with yourself as well. You say you haven't dated since she broke up. Well try getting your feet wet a little bit. You basically need to re-learn how to interact with women. And keep in mind that not all of them are as crazy as your ex-wife.

 

3. Back to your son: get him away from her. Do whatever you need to. Either convince her that it is in his best interest that he live with you, or if that does not work, take her to court. If you can get him from her voluntarily, then after awhile you can cease paying child support. If she goes to court, you tell them that he has been living with you for years and she basically does nothing for him anymore. No more child support.

 

Anyway, the whole point is you need to worry about #1) your son and #2) yourself. Forget about the ex. She's made her bed and has to lie in it.

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Reading comprehension is not your strong suit, is it?

 

He said child support has been her only source of income since she bailed on the marriage. I am confirming that she doesn't work.

 

:dunno:

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I don't think I could take her back. Hell, I haven't even went on a date in a year and a half and turned down free sex with her. I'm sure it is a terrible idea to get back together. I haven't even laid out some of the other things she done. All kinds of crazy shiat has crossed my mind this past 24 hours to try and get him back in my life on a daily basis and out of the situation she has put him in.

 

My ex went to over 10 different schools in her school days and she always said how she would never do that to our son.

 

We always use to talk about how crazy it was to make a child deal with a parent's sex life and meeting the people who their parents dated.

 

We always talked about how bad it is for one parent to move away from the other one and making it difficult for the child to see one of the parents.

 

It goes on and on. My son has been giving her a very hard time for breaking up the marriage(she told him it was all on her why the marriage went south). He always reminds her that she broke her promise to GOD.

 

I was the one who was home with him and took him to everything. She has been having a difficult time him and complains about me not helping her enough. I don't know what she expects me to do since she moved away from me making it hard for me to help in the first place. When I reminded her of this, she seemed open to letting me have him this next school year. The only way she would do this though would be if I kept paying her child support, since that is her only income and has been since she bailed.

 

So let me see if I got this right.

 

She's done stuff you probably don't want to even get into here (and I don't blame you).

She understands how hard it is on a kid to move him around, but does it anyway.

She blows off the fact her son blames her for the failed marriage and continues to partake in unhealty activities for him to be around.

She BLAMES YOU for not helping her enough, after she split with you, moved away and only lets you see him once a week.

She's OK pawning him off to you, as long as she knows she's still got some coin coming.

 

She's a real fuckin winner Colts. A REAL winner.

 

If you give this fuckin b1tch the time of day, I'll personally come kick you in the sack.

I have a buddy of mine, who although has his faults, is a great freakin dad, not only to his son, but to his ex's first child (her daughter).

They split after he lost his job, and subsequently his house (because she couldn't hold a job for sh1t).

She's the EXACT same way as your ex...and my buddy is a fuckin SUCKER for her everytime she comes crawling back.

 

I finally figured out why....because he doesn't understand WHY she left HIM when he wasn't at fault. Therefore he has some sort of inner need to satisfy his own ego that in fact it wasn't his fault, and he always takes her back.

 

I finally told him after the 3rd time this went down, and she then put a restraining order on HIM, that if he went back to her, he and I were done as friends, because there was no other way to let him know that NOBODY approves of this situation.

 

He has finally cut the cord, so to speak, and SWEARS he won't go back...but I'm not holding my breath.

 

You know I'm right. Everyone you know has TOLD you "she's crazy", "she's trouble", "she's no good for you".

You know what I mean......don't you....

 

You better get creative buddy. Find a way to get him out of there. NOW.

 

My buddy's ex's daughter, is now 13, and she's already doing some pretty scary stuff; IE following right down mommy's path.

She'll be pregnant by the time she's 18 (just like mommy was) and her WHOLE life will be a struggle to be anything normal SIMPLY because of the environment she grew up in.

 

I'm telling you Colts....NOW is the time...before it's too late.

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He said child support has been her only source of income since she bailed on the marriage. I am confirming that she doesn't work.

 

:dunno:

 

Seems kinda obvious don't it??

 

She doesn't work and hasn't since she bailed.

:doh:

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So, by taking her back and putting him into an unhappy marriage is better? Where he will more or less learn, "Always take the chick back" from you, and that unhappy marriages are okay?

 

I said this a few weeks ago: you need to let go of your anger and resentment towards your wife. Sure, she focked up with the marriage and continues to do so in her personal life. That's on HER, not you. I can see your concern for your son, but the "only way" out is not to take her back, jeesus. Get MORE custody. Take HER to court. You can't tell me that if it were YOU out there focking everything under the sun and dating chicks that at the crazy for breakfast that SHE wouldn't be hauling your ass into court? Come on, colts. Your concern shoudl be for HIM...not for if she's dating and you're not.

 

Show your kid that this is NOT acceptable. Sounds like mom tells him a whole bunch of sh!t that he doesn't need to be concerned with and is potentially putting him into unsafe conditions with the doods that she dates.

 

Again, he is going to identify more with you, the same sex parent. He's going to learn how to treat others and how to have others treat you, FROM YOU.

You're right TNG. It is amazing how my ex wife expects me to give up everything we agreed to teach our son before and after my son was born. Every week I hear the complaints about how I am not making it easier for her by teaching him simple morals. I don't say "Don't do this crap your mom does." Far from it. I never mouth off about who she is dating and focking. I don't even ask her about it. She ends up telling me because she knows my son will tell me anyway. I don't ask him about either. He just ends up slipping it out. There has even been times where he says "UH-oh, I wasn't supposed to tell you about him." To which I tell him that he should be keeping things from me or his mom and that if either one of us asks him to not tell the other, that is a big clue that you probably should tell the other.

 

As far as anger towards my wife, I am pissed off. Not because she is out focking dudes, but for the other stuff I have mentioned. I made a choice long before my wife bailed that I could never make him have to deal with my sex life, which is why I don't have one. She has all weekend every weekend to do this crap and I don't care. I DO care that she finds it necessary to introduce my son to everyone she wants to fock because she can't wait till the weekend. When he grows up and looks back, he will know what she was doing. When we were married, she always talked about how bad it was to watch her mom bring home random guys form various bars and fock them. Yet here she is doing exactly what she said she hated as a child.

 

As far as getting more custody goes, he doesn't live in the same town. So it is impossible to have him through the week due to school. He can't go to 2 different schools. She keeps telling him and me that she wants to move near me so he can go back to the good school. He is always asking her to come back to my town where his school and friends and church is. He hasn't been to church since they moved away. At the end of the month he will be done with school and I will get him at least 50% of the time at least. I figure it will be more so she go out and have fun.

 

I am very torn on what I can and can not tell him. I don't want to paint a picture that his mom is this bad person. I figure that will be for him to decide. Plus, she can just snap her fingers and I will only see him every other weekend.

 

I get hell about teaching him all the things we agreed to teach him all the time. She is like "Why do you have to try and make this so hard for me." To which I say to myself "I guess I am supposed to give up on teaching him anything about morality just because you do these things that we both agreed was important to teach him." It is maddening sometimes.

 

You have any suggestions on telling him this is not acceptable??? When she first bailed she was acting like it was just a separation and telling me and my son that we weren't divorcing. I always told him that we made a commitment to each other and to GOD and that I wanted her back(This was immediately after she left). No he gives her a hard time about breaking that commitment, and I hear about it on a monthly(at the very least) basis. There are many different situations that come up where I try and teach him something and get hell for it. Another time, he was talking about not getting to see me though the week. I told him he better NEVER do this to his children if/when he has some. It isn't fair to the kid or the parent when one parent wants to move away, as he had already noted.

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BTW Colts....

 

 

I know you're getting beat up pretty bad here, but I sincerely want you to know this;

 

I'm hard on you because I went through the SAME sh1t with another chic about 2 years ago.

I'm not judging you...I don't have the authority and I'm no better than you.

 

I'm just trying to help convince you this is a bad freakin idea brother.

 

Do the right thing.

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So she doesn't work?

Nope. She has been living off the child support this whole time. She is always claiming to try and find a job. Just yesterday she said she was going to get serious about getting one. :dunno: That was probably the 10th time I heard that. She even has cable TV and I can't afford it. Yet she tells my son that I have money and that she doesn't. I bring in less than 15,000 a year. :doh: I get kinda pissed when he tells him this stuff. "Mommy says you have more money and it's just you, mommy and I don't get as much as you and it's two of us." I tell him mommy needs to get a job, to which he says she is trying. I always want to say "Well son, you are supporting your mother for a year and half and you're only 8."

 

She says she is having a hard time finding a job because of what happened at one of her former places of employment where she stole over 40 grand and got caught. I found out about it the day she went to jail for it. I didn't boot her out after that, I just said we will find away. She even used some of my sons child support to pay restitution to keep herself out of jail. She has had several jobs since then but always just quit them with no plan whatsoever.

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Jsut for the record, I am not beating you up about this stuff.

 

There IS stuff that you can do. Go to court. Get your son. She doesn't work, brings home random guys and puts your child into potentially dangerous situations. There IS stuff that you can do.

 

Do it.

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Just some tips:

 

Alot of cell phones do have a "record" option on them. I would utilize this.

As far as the emails are concerned, don't only print them out, but make sure you save a soft copy as well.

 

Also...you need to bait her into conversations that are recorded. If she goes out drinking all the time, call her right around the time the bars close. She'll be drunk, and will likely talk about whatever the hell you want to. If she wants to get back together, you could definately use that to your advantage to get her to tell you exactly what you (and the judge) need to hear. That would be my approach. I don't know if that stuff is allowed in court or whatever, if not, then go for the emails.

 

Good luck man

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Nope. She has been living off the child support this whole time. She is always claiming to try and find a job. Just yesterday she said she was going to get serious about getting one. :dunno: That was probably the 10th time I heard that. She even has cable TV and I can't afford it. Yet she tells my son that I have money and that she doesn't. I bring in less than 15,000 a year. :banana: I get kinda pissed when he tells him this stuff. "Mommy says you have more money and it's just you, mommy and I don't get as much as you and it's two of us." I tell him mommy needs to get a job, to which he says she is trying. I always want to say "Well son, you are supporting your mother for a year and half and you're only 8."

 

She says she is having a hard time finding a job because of what happened at one of her former places of employment where she stole over 40 grand and got caught. I found out about it the day she went to jail for it. I didn't boot her out after that, I just said we will find away. She even used some of my sons child support to pay restitution to keep herself out of jail. She has had several jobs since then but always just quit them with no plan whatsoever.

 

OK....Now I feel like I've already swallowed the bait.

 

She stole $40k from a former job and that is inhibiting her chances of employment? OMFG....I can't understand why.... :doh:

 

If you're being totally for real dude....this is classic. I will probably tell my friends at softball this story on Thursday.

 

You could always tell her you'll cut her up into 500 different pieces and bury each in a different town if she doesn't give up custody.

I know people.....for a nominal fee, of course.

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