ED III is no more :(

[edjr 6,898]

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Left the house at 9:30 yesterday morning to drive into Boston. Was there until 2:30, the place was like a meat factory, I was in complete shock how many girls under 25 were in there. She ended up being 7 weeks and the medical abortion option was optional, so they gave her a pill to take, she takes the final pills at 2:30 today, no turning back now.

 

When she had the Ultra Sound the doctor told her she had a Bicornuate Uterus she would be lucky to carry a baby to 7 months. I did my own research when I got home and it may have been the best thing after all.

 

A bicornuate uterus is described as one having protrusions at the top of either side of the womb, sometimes giving the uterus a distinct heart-shape (see picture). It is actually a birth defect, so if you do have the condition, it is not due to something you have done or are doing wrong. Likewise, there is no way to correct the condition.

 

Pregnancies in a bicornuate uterus are usually considered high-risk and require extra monitoring because of association with poor reproduction potential. A bicornuate uterus is associated with increased adverse reproductive outcomes like:

 

1. Recurrent pregnancy loss. The reproductive potential of a bicornuate uterus is usually measured by live birth rate (also called fetal survival rate). This rate is estimated around 63% for a bicornuate uterus. [3]

 

2. Preterm delivery. With a 15 -25% rate of preterm delivery. The reason that a pregnancy may not reach full-term in a bicornuate uterus often happens when the baby begins to grow in either of the protrusions at the top. A short cervical length seems to be a good predictor of preterm delivery in women with a bicurnuate uterus. [4]

 

3. Malpresentation (breech birth or transverse presentation). A breech presentation occurs in 40-50% pregnancies with a partial bicornuate uterus and not at all (0%) in complete bicornuate uterus. [5]

 

Sorry Rusty and everyone else.

[dain11279 980]

In other news, the sun rose this morning.

[NewbieJr 541]

 

Good decision. Not easy, I'm sure, but it was the right one.

[Bert 1,128]

Good luck dude, It's going to be tough for awhile.

[posty 2,809]

And Roe v. Wade was voted on 37 years ago today...

[KSB2424 3,173]

Seemed like a tough call for you edjr, so good luck with it.

 

On the bright side, at least you know your stuff can swim. If you ever do get married again down the line or whathaveyou.

[Frank M 181]

Sorry Rusty and everyone else.

 

Ed, I know the situation and decision wasn't easy. Good luck going forward.

 

And you don't need to apologize to anybody.

[edjr 6,898]

Seemed like a tough call for you edjr, so good luck with it.

 

On the bright side, at least you know your stuff can swim. If you ever do get married again down the line or whathaveyou.

 

Yes, that is the good part. The bad part, I am 37. We had a talk and she wants to try again after we have known each other for a lot longer. She is going to take birth control until that time comes. In a few months she is going to see a specialist to find out about her split uterus and see what the doc says.

[jerryskids 7,085]

Good luck bro. I couldn't imagine taking a pill knowing that it would kill the baby inside me. She's going to need your support. Don't be a doosh to her for a while, mkay?

[parrot 789]

We had a talk and she wants to try again after we have known each other for a lot longer.

 

I'm sure she'll come around.

[edjr 6,898]

I'm sure she'll come around.

 

[Strike 6,019]

Yes, that is the good part. The bad part, I am 37. We had a talk and she wants to try again after we have known each other for a lot longer. She is going to take birth control until that time comes. In a few months she is going to see a specialist to find out about her split uterus and see what the doc says.

 

Seriously, does she know you got married and then cheated a week later? If so, this could be GOLD for the next couple of years.

 

[MedStudent 56]

Sorry to hear that edjr. i know it was a tough decision. good luck to you and the misses going forward. You still have time to have a baby if you do really want one. My dad was 41 when i was born and look how awesome i turned out.

[BLS 314]

$15 for an abortion?

 

Seems to me like condoms are a bad investment.

[edjr 6,898]

$15 for an abortion?

 

Seems to me like condoms are a bad investment.

 

co-pay, something you know about when you have insurance, it is a tip.

[jets24 6]

co-pay, something you know about when you have insurance, it is a tip.

 

Pretty good response there. BLS gets owned.

[MedStudent 56]

In a few months she is going to see a specialist to find out about her split uterus and see what the doc says.

 

you actually have really good swimmers because a bicornuate uterus makes conception harder too. I don't think they can do anything to improve the uterus. All her pregnancies will be high risk. The fetus was in a bad place for growth in your ultrasound. If the fetus implants itself in a larger part of the uterus then it has a better chance. So, what would happen if she wanted a baby is that the doctor would probably look at the ultrasound and find out what part of the uterus it attached to and then give you a diagnosis on the chances for survival. She may have to suffer through a miscarriage or two before getting a baby. Not pleasant but if you really want a baby it is worth it. Its also likely the baby will be an early delivery but you would be focken amazed at how early babies can be delivered these days and go on to be perfectly normal.

[Ravens 03 0]

100.7 points!

[edjr 6,898]

you actually have really good swimmers because a bicornuate uterus makes conception harder too. I don't think they can do anything to improve the uterus. All her pregnancies will be high risk. The fetus was in a bad place for growth in your ultrasound. If the fetus implants itself in a larger part of the uterus then it has a better chance. So, what would happen if she wanted a baby is that the doctor would probably look at the ultrasound and find out what part of the uterus it attached to and then give you a diagnosis on the chances for survival. She may have to suffer through a miscarriage or two before getting a baby. Not pleasant but if you really want a baby it is worth it. Its also likely the baby will be an early delivery but you would be focken amazed at how early babies can be delivered these days and go on to be perfectly normal.

 

cept the really good swimmers part. No way i could have been this lucky all those years, I don't believe it.

[Eagles Green 34]

Can you knock somebody else up now please?

 

 

That was the best topic in this shithole-of-a-bored in a long time.

 

 

TIA

[edjr 6,898]

Can you knock somebody else up now please?

That was the best topic in this shithole-of-a-bored in a long time.

TIA

 

 

Agreed.

 

Very soon ED III and whoisjgalt will be playing cribbage together.

[GettnHuge 2]

[kutulu 1,703]

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[NorthernVike 2,095]

Ed, I know the situation and decision wasn't easy. Good luck going forward.

 

And you don't need to apologize to anybody, but God.

Fixord

 

 

 

Sorry to hear about your decision. Take care of her. She will need your support for awhile.

[Strike 6,019]

So is there a pill such that Ed II would be no more?

[kutulu 1,703]

In a few months she is going to see a specialist to find out about her split uterus and see what the doc says.

 

I want to split your ex-wife's uterus.

[NorthernVike 2,095]

So is there a pill such that Ed II would be no more?

No pill, but there is a shot...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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[heavy-set 39]

murderer

[KSB2424 3,173]

So when does the pill take full effect? That's gonna be one helluva period she has.

[TAS 2]

The wife and I lost 2 about 13 months apart, the 1st @ 5 months It tore both of us apart. Good luck the rest of the way!

[Rusty Syringes 478]

OK, ed. I support the decision, which I know was a difficult one.

 

Thoughts and prayers to you.

[edjr 6,898]

So when does the pill take full effect? That's gonna be one helluva period she has.

 

I am leaving work early today and she is going to take the rest of the medication, she will have "heavy bleeding" for up to 3 hours.

[edjr 6,898]

OK, ed. I support the decision, which I know was a difficult one.

 

Thoughts and prayers to you.

 

Thank you Rusty.

[NorthernVike 2,095]

The wife and I lost 2 about 13 months apart, the 1st @ 5 months It tore both of us apart. Good luck the rest of the way!

Me and the misses lost 3 before we had two beautiful boys. It was hard as h3ll on both of us.

[jocstrap 8]

hmmmmm

 

I guess abortion was an option after all

 

 

better to do that I suppose, than have a kid on the street who's parents don't want him/her

[jerryskids 7,085]

Did you find out if it was a boy or a girl?

[Rusty Syringes 478]

Thank you Rusty.

 

Also, I wasn't at any point kidding about taking the baby. The wife was on board.

[BLS 314]

co-pay, something you know about when you have insurance, it is a tip.

 

 

Math, fuckface babykiller.

 

$15 < $28 http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?...uct_id=10910693

 

My point, had you not been a fuckin retard, was that $15 was a more cost effective methodology of birth control than the typical, socially-accepted methods.

 

it's called irony.

 

Edjr = pwned

[heavy-set 39]

so she will be giving birth to a dead fetus?

 

how long of a grace period will you give yourself before u start going down on her again?

I would need a good 30 days for that to air out b4 i go in face first

[TAS 2]

Me and the misses lost 3 before we had two beautiful boys. It was hard as h3ll on both of us.

I feel for you!