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I don't like my daughter.

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I knew when I divorced her crazy, evil, narcissistic mother that she might end up just like her.

 

20 years later, she's followed in her mother's career footsteps, had the same minimal level of success, subsequently ruined her career over something extremely petty (just like her mom did) all while keeping her mother at her side as her manager and adviser.

 

She's now living with my ex and my ex father-in-law, pretending to take care of him even though he doesn't really need it.

 

She's consumed with her looks, almost Kardashian level consumed. She doesn't have any sort of steady job. She treats people like sh!t and is generally just as nasty to me as her mother was.

 

Over the years, I've tried to show her that there's more to life than her superficial interests. I've encouraged her to have an open mind about people and ideas that differ from hers and I've constantly drilled home the ideas of the golden rule and karma.

 

For the past 7-8 years, I've kept telling myself she has time to grow up. She can still turn things around.

 

No dice. She's a hateful, conceited b!tch. Uncannily similar to her mom.

 

With this one, I am a failure as a father.

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Well thats a downer. Just let her do her own thing. She sounds like she never grew out of that mean girls, TV trope of a character that makes her feel good about herself. Im sure she will meet a man and it will all be his problem.

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I knew when I divorced her crazy, evil, narcissistic mother that she might end up just like her.

 

20 years later, she's followed in her mother's career footsteps, had the same minimal level of success, subsequently ruined her career over something extremely petty (just like her mom did) all while keeping her mother at her side as her manager and adviser.

 

She's now living with my ex and my ex father-in-law, pretending to take care of him even though he doesn't really need it.

 

She's consumed with her looks, almost Kardashian level consumed. She doesn't have any sort of steady job. She treats people like sh!t and is generally just as nasty to me as her mother was.

 

Over the years, I've tried to show her that there's more to life than her superficial interests. I've encouraged her to have an open mind about people and ideas that differ from hers and I've constantly drilled home the ideas of the golden rule and karma.

 

For the past 7-8 years, I've kept telling myself she has time to grow up. She can still turn things around.

 

No dice. She's a hateful, conceited b!tch. Uncannily similar to her mom.

 

With this one, I am a failure as a father.

That sucks, I can't imagine having to feel that way about your own child.

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Very small. If I had to guess, 30 something A. Again, just like her mom.

 

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Sorry to hear that. Not many options other than to keep trying and to lead by example.

So your saying, he should get implants first?

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Some things you just can't overcome. Sounds like the genetic factor was strong there plus if only 1 out of 2 parents are trying to set a good example that doesn't have much chance of success either.

 

Don't beat yourself up over it. It was beyond your control

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Trump loves his daughter. Trump 2016

I can only imagine all the creepy, inappropriate things he did to Ivanka while she was a youngster.

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Your ex sounds just like my ex, luckily I have 2 wonderful good to the core daughters. She'll turn around, she just needs to distance herself from the poison that is her mother. Best of luck.

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Your ex sounds just like my ex, luckily I have 2 wonderful good to the core daughters. She'll turn around, she just needs to distance herself from the poison that is her mother. Best of luck.

I've been holding out hope for years that she would go out into the world on her own and discover that people and life are far better than the example she saw at home.

 

Unfortunately, when she came of age and went off to NY, Tokyo and Milan, her stupid mom went with her.

 

I've now abandoned that hope and have come to grips with the facts.

 

She's not a serial killer. She's not drug addict or criminal. She's just not a nice person.

 

Dissapointing as hell, but it could be worse.

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Some things you just can't overcome. Sounds like the genetic factor was strong there plus if only 1 out of 2 parents are trying to set a good example that doesn't have much chance of success either.

 

Don't beat yourself up over it. It was beyond your control

I still question whether I could have done better.

In some ways, it seems like a self-fulfilling prophecy.

 

I knew divorce from the evil one would drive a wedge between us. I also knew the kunt would end up as the primary influence in her life.

 

So, I've fought against it, but am now wondering if I just gave in to what I perceived as inevitable.

 

I always just assumed that she would break away at some point, and that her friends would become a stronger influence. It never happened.

 

I'm determined to do better with my sons. If they end up being azzholes, I'll be really pissed.

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I still question whether I could have done better.

In some ways, it seems like a self-fulfilling prophecy.

 

I knew divorce from the evil one would drive a wedge between us. I also knew the kunt would end up as the primary influence in her life.

 

So, I've fought against it, but am now wondering if I just gave in to what I perceived as inevitable.

 

I always just assumed that she would break away at some point, and that her friends would become a stronger influence. It never happened.

 

I'm determined to do better with my sons. If they end up being azzholes, I'll be really pissed.

Serious question. Did your ex wife act normal and sweet when y'all were dating and engaged or was she always a b1tch and major kvnt?

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Serious question. Did your ex wife act normal and sweet when y'all were dating and engaged or was she always a b1tch and major kvnt?

How would you like to have this guy for offspring? Oooof

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How would you like to have this guy for offspring? Oooof

Be a lot better than have you.

 

Burn!

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Be a lot better than have you.

 

Burn!

Every single time I read these posts all I can think is this guy

 

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Every single time I read these posts all I can think is this guy

 

Yea no one cares what you think :overhead:

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M O O N that spells Djgb13

Tilt :overhead:

 

 

 

 

This is also why we can't have nice conversations here cause we have dipsh1ts who do nothing but troll

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M O O N that spells Djgb13

Lol. Now that's a burn!

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Man I hope that I never get to that point. My ex is a pretty hard working woman and she has a good family around her. I feel like the boy has a pretty good chance of coming out relatively unscathed.

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Man I hope that I never get to that point. My ex is a pretty hard working woman and she has a good family around her. I feel like the boy has a pretty good chance of coming out relatively unscathed.

They actual key is to just not procreate with someone like that. Vudus wife might not have acted like that when they were dating or when they were engaged and just turned into a b1tch. Or she could have been like that the whole time. I've seen guys marry girls like that, be miserable, have kids, and then get divorced even though you saw it coming a mile away.

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They actual key is to just not procreate with someone like that. Vudus wife might not have acted like that when they were dating or when they were engaged and just turned into a b1tch. Or she could have been like that the whole time. I've seen guys marry girls like that, be miserable, have kids, and then get divorced even though you saw it coming a mile away.

Yeah, why don't you let the people that have kids comment on this one, mmmmkay? You can sit this one out

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They actual key is to just not procreate with someone like that. Vudus wife might not have acted like that when they were dating or when they were engaged and just turned into a b1tch. Or she could have been like that the whole time. I've seen guys marry girls like that, be miserable, have kids, and then get divorced even though you saw it coming a mile away.

I agree but man women change quick. It is so hard to tell if you have hooked into a good one or a piece of one.

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Is your wife black and your daughter biracial?

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Is your wife black and your daughter biracial?

I'm pretty sure he said she's normal

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Is your wife black and your daughter biracial?

I just read the entire thread. I don't even see that inferred. Only like 5 to 7% of married couples are inter racial of any sort. The odds of that being true on an obscure lightly trafficked fantasy football boards seem unlikely.

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Yeah, why don't you let the people that have kids comment on this one, mmmmkay? You can sit this one out

Well that disqualifies you since you actually have to have sex with a woman to procreate. So how about you pipe down ok cupcake :wave:

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I agree but man women change quick. It is so hard to tell if you have hooked into a good one or a piece of ###### one.

Yea they can change. But then again some people marry someone even though they are complete b1tches. They are just blind to it til it's too late

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Serious question. Did your ex wife act normal and sweet when y'all were dating and engaged or was she always a b1tch and major kvnt?

She was crazy, controlling, and verbally abusive pretty early on. She was also insanely hot, so I looked the other way.

 

We were both way too young for marriage. I eventually grew up. She is is still incredibly immature.

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No. Why?

 

Maybe I'm mixing you up with someone else or you just lied about that years ago.

I thought you were dating some black woman...and you had a drug problem.

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Maybe I'm mixing you up with someone else or you just lied about that years ago.

I thought you were dating some black woman...and you had a drug problem.

Never dated a black woman. Hardest drug I've ever done is hash.

 

You're definitely thinking of someone else.

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