BunnysBastatrds 1,920 Posted December 22, 2010 I wouldn't have a problem with it. I see girls around here that do it just to piss off Daddy and end up getting prego and stuck. Then they go crying to Daddy for help. "Sorry Daddy, I just wanted your attention." Dumb asses. The first boy to show interest in my daughter was this very nice black kid. He failed a grade and was crosseyed, but it made her happy. He asked my daughter if she wanted to be his girlfriend and she nicely told him no. When she told me, she was waiting for a negative response from me, I just told her she did the right thing and maybe the next boy won't be crosseyed. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drobeski 3,061 Posted December 22, 2010 Free. Palau is a territory of the US! Duh. Big deal I just bought a pajamagram for my snatch ....that's in the states and I had to pay shipping and handling. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The Elevator Killer 497 Posted December 22, 2010 I wanna be. I mean I am. I have always said if she's happy - I'm happy. Her 1st husand was fine with me. He seemed to care for her. I have never liked her out and about especially late at night or driving through town (D.C.) by herself. I'm just being honest with you guys. btw, Riceman if you are Asian that's not even considered a big deal. There is really not much you can do. If you object it will only push her towards him even more. Best thing you can do is try to accept it and let her do her thing. She may decide he's not the one. If she does, then accept it. What you don't want to do is make it where she doesn't want to be around you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drobeski 3,061 Posted December 22, 2010 Then shouldn't you be a Republican? If you paid attention to history, facts and reality instead of kanye west you would know the democrats are the true racist party. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The Elevator Killer 497 Posted December 22, 2010 Big deal I just bought a pajamagram for my snatch ....that's in the states and I had to pay shipping and handling. You bought a what for the snail eater? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drobeski 3,061 Posted December 22, 2010 You bought a what for the snail eater? pajamas man....chics dig em. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The Elevator Killer 497 Posted December 22, 2010 pajamas man....chics dig em. The gram thru me. I didn't know if it was like a moneygram or a Gram cracker. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drobeski 3,061 Posted December 22, 2010 The gram thru me. I didn't know if it was like a moneygram or a Gram cracker. web sites name Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IGotWorms 3,315 Posted December 22, 2010 Free. Palau is a territory of the US! Duh. So...you can get 'em on Amazon with Super Saver shipping? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nikki2200 4 Posted December 22, 2010 I dated a black guy for a few months once. He was a good-looking successful lawyer from a good family, who grew up in a wealthy suburb of Philadelphia. I couldn't bring myself to sleep with him so I ended it. I'm not sure exactly what it was, but it was definitely based on stereotypes and prejudices of black people that I couldn't shake. Part of it was the idea that black men are players and sleep with crack hos and at one point I know I thought to myself "OMG what if he has AIDS." I think another part of it was worrying about what other people would think. The ONLY thing wrong was the fact that he was black. And I felt pretty sh!tty that I couldn't get past that. I have a lot of admiration for people that can overcome prejudices and be open to a relationship with someone of another race. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RicemanX 20 Posted December 23, 2010 I guess there is always reverse prejudices. My Mom always thought that I was going to end up with some tiny Asian girl. So she was definitely shocked when she met my gf, who is more of a Beyonce than a Taylor Swift, so she talked to me about how much better it is to marry an Asian woman. Told me about how they would fit with my culture more, how white women will most likely get fat after pregnancy while asian women stay thin. Blah blah blah. I just told her to please don't force me to choose between my gf and my mom. And please like my gf because she makes me happy. Mom agreed and haven't said a word about an asian girlfriend since that day. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADD1CT36 1 Posted December 23, 2010 I just told her to please don't force me to choose between my gf and my mom. And please like my gf because she makes me happy. Mom agreed and haven't said a word about an asian girlfriend since that day. Well she hasn't said a word to you but I'm sure to your dad or your sister if you have one. Lol I've dated them all, every race and most creeds. I'm always shocked when ppl have a problem with race. Its disgusting and y'all should be ashamed. And for the record I've known way more white guys with stds than non whites. And while its not true about once you go black, it is true that the best lovers I've had were black. It's twoo its twoo! -lili von shtupp Anyway good luck with your daughter and hopefully you won't do anything so retarded to keep her away from your prejudiced @ss. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADD1CT36 1 Posted December 23, 2010 I dated a black guy for a few months once. He was a good-looking successful lawyer from a good family, who grew up in a wealthy suburb of Philadelphia. I couldn't bring myself to sleep with him so I ended it. I'm not sure exactly what it was, but it was definitely based on stereotypes and prejudices of black people that I couldn't shake. Part of it was the idea that black men are players and sleep with crack hos and at one point I know I thought to myself "OMG what if he has AIDS." I think another part of it was worrying about what other people would think. The ONLY thing wrong was the fact that he was black. And I felt pretty sh!tty that I couldn't get past that. I have a lot of admiration for people that can overcome prejudices and be open to a relationship with someone of another race. Well good for you for admitting you're a prejudiced b1tch. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DuckStupid 40 Posted December 23, 2010 Well she hasn't said a word to you but I'm sure to your dad or your sister if you have one. Lol I've dated them all, every race and most creeds. I'm always shocked when ppl have a problem with race. Its disgusting and y'all should be ashamed. And for the record I've known way more white guys with stds than non whites. And while its not true about once you go black, it is true that the best lovers I've had were black. It's twoo its twoo! -lili von shtupp Anyway good luck with your daughter and hopefully you won't do anything so retarded to keep her away from your prejudiced @ss. kork it kunt. Ricey ain't your issue. Reply to the OP. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADD1CT36 1 Posted December 23, 2010 kork it kunt. Ricey ain't your issue. Reply to the OP. I did dstupid I was just relating to the asian mother thing. As if no one here goes off topic Look, I'm not a dad but I would like to think that the only questions in a dads mind should be does this guy love my daughter and treat her right and do anything for her happiness and safety? Obviously phan is concerned for how they will be treated by society but unless she grew up under a rock, she knows. And to top it off she's in dc? That's the most interracial city there is. Even more than nyc I think. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nikki2200 4 Posted December 23, 2010 You Well good for you for admitting you're a prejudiced b1tch. could be worse. I could be an aging ex-hooker who spreads her legs for any guy who will talk to her and posts naked pictures of herself all over the internet to get guys to pay attention to her. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADD1CT36 1 Posted December 23, 2010 You could be worse. I could be an aging ex-hooker who spreads her legs for any guy who will talk to her and posts naked pictures of herself all over the internet to get guys to pay attention to her. Well see I don't think that's worse actually... but go ahead and feel superior. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nikki2200 4 Posted December 23, 2010 Well see I don't think that's worse actually... but go ahead and feel superior. And that's why I feel a little sorry for you. I don't feel superior. I just wish you had a little bit of self respect. I kinda like you. I know the whole feigning I'm like the chick with no inhibitions who pretends to be OK with taking money for sex and who pretends to be OK with posting naked pictures of herself on a forum that is made up of all guys may make you feel loved. But you know deep down there is something wrong and you haven't been treated right by men. As for my original post... I am not proud of it. I tried really really hard and I tried to talk myself into forming a meaningful relationship with a black man. And I couldn't. And the whole point of my post was that I wasn't happy about it. It's not one of the things I look at my life and I am proud of. It made me feel weak. It made me feel close-minded. And I clearly said I respected people that could look past that. And if you want to insult me for that... it's all good. I'm OK with my outlook on life, love, and sex vs. yours. And I would venture to guess I'm a bit happier. But don't question why some guy, who shall not be named, may want me over you. It's pretty obvious. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Voltaire 4,562 Posted December 23, 2010 I'm white and my wife is Chinese so the thread title compelled me to post. I wouldn't have a problem with my kids dating/marrying people of any race. I did that exact thing myself. Just so long as they find somebody that loves/ respects/ cares about them. Heck, with affirmative cr@ption institutionalizing and encouraging discrimination against whites and asians in college enrollment, it may even be a plus. My wife, on he other hand, is a huge racist against blacks and Japanese. She'd blow a brain gasket if any of our kids hooked up with one of them. I knew this about her before marriage by the way. If it becomes a problem in the future, I'll take my kids' side. Deep down, I do admit to some semblance of racism. I can't stand pron with white chicks focking guys of any race other than white so I avoid it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shovelheadt 62 Posted December 23, 2010 At least strike one then - I would be against my daughter dating someone with divorced parents. That sh!t has a way of propagating trouble. Then your daughter most likely will die alone. You'd have to be the most anal, unrealistic person alive to toss that prerequisite out there. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shovelheadt 62 Posted December 23, 2010 Here's what my problem would be. I know, and have seen, how these people act in a group setting. You could be talking to the nicest, most professional African American you've ever seen...but let some of his/her friends show up. Nope, can't be seen talking to whitey. Or, they'll think I'm a sell out if I don't start jiving it up a little. It won't matter if he thinks you're the best damn person on the planet..it all changes after you leave the room just for the sake of appearances. Your daughter could end up being the butt of jokes, a 'trophey' when she's not around, and resented by his friends...especially the female ones...which could lead to a safety issue. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MDC 5,892 Posted December 23, 2010 And that's why I feel a little sorry for you. I don't feel superior. I just wish you had a little bit of self respect. I kinda like you. I know the whole feigning I'm like the chick with no inhibitions who pretends to be OK with taking money for sex and who pretends to be OK with posting naked pictures of herself on a forum that is made up of all guys may make you feel loved. But you know deep down there is something wrong and you haven't been treated right by men. Says the chick who shows her t1ts off at McGillan's. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 5,206 Posted December 23, 2010 I think it is normal to not be comfortable with it; as animals we tend to be more comfortable with "our own kind". I expect that I would raise an eyebrow (internally) if my daughter brought home a black man. The difference is what you do about that feeling. I would hope that when she is 25, I would be confident that I had raised my daughter to make intelligent decisions which are in her own best interests. I would also hope that I am still involved enough in her life to get to know this man and make an informed judgment. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NewbieJr 540 Posted December 23, 2010 I think it is normal to not be comfortable with it; as animals we tend to be more comfortable with "our own kind". I expect that I would raise an eyebrow (internally) if my daughter brought home a black man. The difference is what you do about that feeling. I would hope that when she is 25, I would be confident that I had raised my daughter to make intelligent decisions which are in her own best interests. I would also hope that I am still involved enough in her life to get to know this man and make an informed judgment. Exacly correct. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADD1CT36 1 Posted December 23, 2010 And that's why I feel a little sorry for you. I don't feel superior. I just wish you had a little bit of self respect. I kinda like you. I know the whole feigning I'm like the chick with no inhibitions who pretends to be OK with taking money for sex and who pretends to be OK with posting naked pictures of herself on a forum that is made up of all guys may make you feel loved. But you know deep down there is something wrong and you haven't been treated right by men. As for my original post... I am not proud of it. I tried really really hard and I tried to talk myself into forming a meaningful relationship with a black man. And I couldn't. And the whole point of my post was that I wasn't happy about it. It's not one of the things I look at my life and I am proud of. It made me feel weak. It made me feel close-minded. And I clearly said I respected people that could look past that. And if you want to insult me for that... it's all good. I'm OK with my outlook on life, love, and sex vs. yours. And I would venture to guess I'm a bit happier. But don't question why some guy, who shall not be named, may want me over you. It's pretty obvious. Holy crap if you think I come here to feel loved, you obviously have not been here long. And thanks for getting all personal about it. If you want to get personal I couldn't imagine for two seconds in a row that he and I would ever work out so don't worry about me pining away over any body. I thought he was a good guy and I have actually met plenty of people from here who have turned into friends and I don't regret a single thing I've done because regret and guilt is a waste of time. I do feel sad that people like you and obviously him can't get a grip on how people who make certain destructive choices in life can move on to be happy and healthy and better for it. Maybe you can't grasp this, but people do live perfectly wonderful happy lives after making a lot of mistakes. Maybe you missed that show on oprah, Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADD1CT36 1 Posted December 23, 2010 I think it is normal to not be comfortable with it; as animals we tend to be more comfortable with "our own kind". I expect that I would raise an eyebrow (internally) if my daughter brought home a black man. The difference is what you do about that feeling. I would hope that when she is 25, I would be confident that I had raised my daughter to make intelligent decisions which are in her own best interests. I would also hope that I am still involved enough in her life to get to know this man and make an informed judgment. Good. I mean seriously, to admit that it's racism is better than to just feel like that's ok. That's the problem I'm having with people here. Most of you will never have any focking clue what it's like to live as someone other than white and how frustrating it is to have to consistently deal with racism and prejudice every single day of your life. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IMMensaMind 459 Posted December 23, 2010 Then your daughter most likely will die alone. You'd have to be the most anal, unrealistic person alive to toss that prerequisite out there. Here's what my problem would be. I know, and have seen, how these people act in a group setting. You could be talking to the nicest, most professional African American you've ever seen...but let some of his/her friends show up. Nope, can't be seen talking to whitey. Or, they'll think I'm a sell out if I don't start jiving it up a little. It won't matter if he thinks you're the best damn person on the planet..it all changes after you leave the room just for the sake of appearances. Your daughter could end up being the butt of jokes, a 'trophey' when she's not around, and resented by his friends...especially the female ones...which could lead to a safety issue. :mad: Hold on - you may be the biggest clueless d0uchebag I've encountered yet. Your first comment is followed up with this directly focking racist comment? DIAF focking kvnt. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ravens 03 0 Posted December 23, 2010 You could be worse. I could be an aging ex-hooker who spreads her legs for any guy who will talk to her and posts naked pictures of herself all over the internet to get guys to pay attention to her. Catfight! :popcorn: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NewbieJr 540 Posted December 23, 2010 Catfight! :popcorn: Doesn't that imply two females? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADD1CT36 1 Posted December 23, 2010 Doesn't that imply two females? if "nikki" isnt a real person, then there is someone on here who is more demented than i ever imagined! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 5,206 Posted December 23, 2010 Good. I mean seriously, to admit that it's racism is better than to just feel like that's ok. That's the problem I'm having with people here. Most of you will never have any focking clue what it's like to live as someone other than white and how frustrating it is to have to consistently deal with racism and prejudice every single day of your life. Thanks, I think. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADD1CT36 1 Posted December 23, 2010 Thanks, I think. sorry, yes, that was an indirect compliment. you were being honest, but when the rubber meets the road, you are willing to give a guy a chance. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NewbieJr 540 Posted December 23, 2010 if "nikki" isnt a real person, then there is someone on here who is more demented than i ever imagined! "She" knows a helluva lot of board history for someone who's been here three months. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 5,206 Posted December 23, 2010 sorry, yes, that was an indirect compliment. you were being honest, but when the rubber meets the road, you are willing to give a guy a chance. Cmon man, we're talking about my daughter. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADD1CT36 1 Posted December 23, 2010 "She" knows a helluva lot of board history for someone who's been here three months. Allegedly she gets insider info. But someone is getting off on the idea that I'm jealous of "her" Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MDC 5,892 Posted December 23, 2010 but nikki has to be real. suxbnme talks to her on the phone and hangs out with her. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADD1CT36 1 Posted December 23, 2010 Cmon man, we're talking about my daughter. Haha sorry i didn't think of that.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GobbleDog 816 Posted December 23, 2010 I want my kids and grandkids to be the same race as me. Beyond that, let the world mix it up! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NewbieJr 540 Posted December 23, 2010 but nikki has to be real. suxbnme talks to her on the phone and hangs out with her. LOL. Yeah true. Plus there was a faceless picture of a 14 year-old boy in a FFToday t-shirt. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NorthernVike 2,080 Posted December 23, 2010 Get a rope. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites