3 days after we got married, my new spouse told me she's transgender. Many thought it would break us up, but it brought us closer.

[edjr 6,578]

https://news.yahoo.com/3-days-got-married-spouse-110100123.html

"She told me she is transgender"   MENTAL ISSUES!!

She must be blind as fock to not know. I feel like this is a total look at me, BS.

[The Real timschochet 6,468]

The only sick people involving this story is anyone who disapproves of it. 

[wiffleball 4,788]

I can relate. 

 

3 weeks after I got married, my wife told me she was Bruce Jenner. 

[iam90sbaby 2,494]

26 minutes ago, The Real timschochet said:

The only sick people involving this story is anyone who disapproves of it. 

You're queerer than a $2 bill son 

[Engorgeous George 2,161]

They seem made for each other.

[The Real timschochet 6,468]

6 minutes ago, iam90sbaby said:

You're queerer than a $2 bill son 

Can’t even get the quote right. It’s $3. 
 

Or maybe I misheard you. You’re kind of muffled behind that hood. 

[Tree of Knowledge 1,715]

So if a gay man married another gay man that then claims he is now a woman, does that ungay him?

This stuff gets so confusing.  

[Reality 3,104]

Definitely explains gutter's posting history.

[weepaws 3,158]

Not worthy of a thread.  

[BuckSwope 654]

SHOCKING - a queer person was accepting of another queer person.   Amazing "news".  

[nobody 2,569]

1 hour ago, The Real timschochet said:

The only sick people involving this story is anyone who disapproves of it. 

I don't know about that.  There's definitely something off here.

How do you marry someone without knowing the person's gender?   Seems like an important discussion.

[BuckSwope 654]

2 minutes ago, nobody said:

I don't know about that.  There's definitely something off here.

How do you marry someone without knowing the person's gender?   Seems like an important discussion.

I don't remember ever discussing my wife's gender before we got married in the 10+ years we were together.   

[nobody 2,569]

Did your wife have a dìck?  

[RaiderHaters Revenge 4,243]

7 minutes ago, BuckSwope said:

SHOCKING - a queer person was accepting of another queer person.   Amazing "news".  

amazing enough that yahoo has to put it front page

[BuckSwope 654]

3 minutes ago, RaiderHaters Revenge said:

amazing enough that yahoo has to put it front page

Not sure why people would be looking for news there anyway.   Clickbait at it's finest.  

[BuckSwope 654]

5 minutes ago, nobody said:

Did your wife have a dìck?  

Not that I ever saw.  

[Cloaca du jour 2,147]

 

[RaiderHaters Revenge 4,243]

Just now, BuckSwope said:

Not that I ever saw.  

but did you feel it while she was pegging you?

[TheNewGirl 1,357]

My only question would be that if they dated for so long, how would they not know their partner was trans? 

[nobody 2,569]

9 minutes ago, BuckSwope said:

Not that I ever saw.  

So it's probably safe to say that in your situation, you made an assumption that your wife, who you think has never had a dìck, was a woman.

Now, if a person has a dìck and thinks they're a chick.  They probably should mention that to their significant other, so I guess your situation isn't really relevant.  Although I'm sure if your wife disclosed to you that she was actually a trans man 3 days after your wedding, you'd have been super cool with it.

Now, of course, maybe she didn't figure out she was a chick until 3 days after the marriage, but Occam's razor would suggest this person may have wanted the security of legal union before disclosing her true gender identity.

[BuckSwope 654]

2 minutes ago, nobody said:

So it's probably safe to say that in your situation, you made an assumption that your wife, who you think has never had a dìck, was a woman.

Now, if a person has a dìck and thinks their a chick.  They probably should mention that to their significant other, so I guess your situation isn't really relevant.  Although I'm sure if your wife disclosed to you that she was actually a trans man 3 days after your wedding, you'd have been super cool with it.

Now, of course, maybe she didn't figure out she was a chick until 3 days after the marriage, but Occam's razor would suggest this person may have wanted the security of legal union before disclosing her true gender identity.

It's probably safe to say that everybody probably assumes the person they are with are the gender they are presenting as.   Hence my snide comment about how most of us probably haven't had a discussion about our SO's gender like you suggested was so important.    

Yes, that is on the person who is struggling with that to disclose that to the other person.  No, I would not have been cool with it, but I am also not a queer person like the one in the article. 

[BuckSwope 654]

11 minutes ago, RaiderHaters Revenge said:

but did you feel it while she was pegging you?

Hey man, I'm not gay.   Artificial dongs only while pegging! 

[RogerDodger 797]

The real story are these women who feel like they have to settle for these effeminate man creatures.  Sad, makes you wonder what happened to them early in life.  

[nobody 2,569]

2 minutes ago, BuckSwope said:

It's probably safe to say that everybody probably assumes the person they are with are the gender they are presenting as.   Hence my snide comment about how most of us probably haven't had a discussion about our SO's gender like you suggested was so important.    

Yes, that is on the person who is struggling with that to disclose that to the other person.  No, I would not have been cool with it, but I am also not a queer person like the one in the article. 

I didn't think I needed to clarify that you need to have the discussion if you aren't adhering to gender norms, but I guess this is the internet.

[edjr 6,578]

33 minutes ago, nobody said:

Did your wife have a dìck?  

Not till I got her one for our Anniversary  

[TBayXXXVII 2,485]

30 minutes ago, TheNewGirl said:

My only question would be that if they dated for so long, how would they not know their partner was trans? 

I think @edjr had it right in the OP... "Mental Illness".  He got the other thing right as well.  It's a "look at me" article.

[BuckSwope 654]

16 minutes ago, nobody said:

I didn't think I needed to clarify that you need to have the discussion if you aren't adhering to gender norms, but I guess this is the internet.

Hey man, you ask a dumb question and you get dumb replies.    You know 100% how this could happen - the person going through the issues didn't tell their partner.  

I take issue with that not occurring in a relationship and the fact that this story is evidently "news".  

[edjr 6,578]

3 minutes ago, TBayXXXVII said:

I think @edjr had it right in the OP... "Mental Illness".  He got the other thing right as well.  It's a "look at me" article.

No one knows both as well as me. 

[edjr 6,578]

I am sure I have told the board.

My 20 year old lesbeen niece, has a "boyfriend" that was born a female.

They work at starbucks. 

eta: In their defense, no one without a mental disorder/straight person, would ever date either. 

 

[GutterBoy 2,898]

23 minutes ago, RogerDodger said:

The real story are these women who feel like they have to settle for these effeminate man creatures.  Sad, makes you wonder what happened to them early in life.  

I'm more sad about the women that end up with toxic males who treat them like sh1t.  They definitely went through some stuff early in life.

[seafoam1 2,805]

Just now, GutterBoy said:

I'm more sad about the women that end up with toxic males who treat them like sh1t.  

Sorry you got with one of the bad guys.

[edjr 6,578]

Just now, GutterBoy said:

I'm more sad about the women that end up with toxic males who treat them like sh1t.  They definitely went through some stuff early in life.

I am 50 focking years old. Went to my buddies an 1/2 an hour ago (he is 56) to grab some golf clubs for my kid.

We are both members at the same golf course and I told him something happened last week and I wasn't happy about it.  he says to me "you know I always told you to make sure to ask questions"

Imagine talking to a grown ass man that way   Imagine how he talks to his wife

[RogerDodger 797]

5 minutes ago, GutterBoy said:

I'm more sad about the women that end up with toxic males who treat them like sh1t.  They definitely went through some stuff early in life.

Hit a little too close to home?  

[edjr 6,578]

1 minute ago, RogerDodger said:

Hit a little too close to home?  

Do you think his wife is toxic and beats him?

[RogerDodger 797]

Just now, edjr said:

Do you think his wife is toxic and beats him?

No, I think his wife settled for an effeminate little man.  

[GutterBoy 2,898]

2 minutes ago, RogerDodger said:

No, I think his wife settled for an effeminate little man.  

Of course you do.

[jerryskids 6,577]

2 hours ago, The Real timschochet said:

The only sick people involving this story is anyone who disapproves of it. 

I disapprove of dropping something this important on your wife of 3 days, it's a selfish d1ck move and doesn't bode well for a future of honest communication. 

Guess that makes me sick, oh well.

 

[BuckSwope 654]

2 hours ago, The Real timschochet said:

The only sick people involving this story is anyone who disapproves of it. 

Well played - exactly the type of thing they expect the lefties to say.  Personally, I don't GAF about who marries who or who bangs who.  What I disapprove of is the part where that wasn't disclosed, and the general tone from the left that it shouldn't be an issue if they do tell you after the fact - none of which is acceptable to me.  Guess I'm sick too.  

[jonmx 2,424]

8 minutes ago, jerryskids said:

I disapprove of dropping something this important on your wife of 3 days, it's a selfish d1ck move and doesn't bode well for a future of honest communication. 

Guess that makes me sick, oh well.

 

If you really believe gender is fluid and gender is a spectrum...there is no such thing as male or female.   So it is a complete fraud.  Everyone is 'transexual' if you don't believe that the obvious truth that gender is genetic and binary.   This new genderism is total meaningless nonsense.  

This is like one day saying you feel like eggs and bacon and the next day you feel like cereal.  It is silly. 

[GutterBoy 2,898]

I don't approve, disapprove, give any focks, or whatever.  I'm glad these people are happy.  I'm not sick, I'm perfectly healthy.