cyclone24 1,912 Posted October 7, 2023 So we’re in Nashville. We’ve been drinking all night. Met a group of guys we think they’re pretty cool but I’m a fairly big guy 62 210 I work out. So I go to the bathroom I come back my wife tells me that one of the guys in the group you’ve been hanging out with try to kisser. So I get in his face and I say OK try it now motherfucker that I’m standing here. She says oh that’s not what happened and so I’m like literally telling the guy OK that’s cool. I just want to make sure that we’re good that you’re not trying . am I in the wrong being a little bit pissed off with her after the fact. I mean don’t get me wrong I’m not American bad ass or anything but like I know at least two of the guys I could take at the same focking time if they wanted to start something. so what am I supposed to do here. I think it’s a bunch of that in front of the guys she said that’s not what happened. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
seafoam1 2,805 Posted October 7, 2023 Lucy, you got some 'splainin to do. I would be pissed. This is all her doing. That is a nearly divorceable act. 1 of 2 things though you have to find out because there is a definite lie in there somewhere. Just depends where. 1- She told you the truth initially but didn't expect you to confront one of them and lied about it after the fact saying that nothing happened when it really did but didn't want to see you in a fight. What would she expect you would do??? She knows you, right? 2- She lied in the first place for some kind of weird attention grab just to see what you would do about it. If it was the first one, she should have just not said anything to you in the first place. What was the point? Is she testing you? If it's the second one. Hoo-boy. That's some focked up mental shlt going on there. I care not to speculate on it as I don't know you all. I don't envy your position on this one. I would not give her an option of either of those two explanations, I would wait to hear what she says when you go to your hotel and keep your cool and think it over til morning. You know her better than anyone. Wimmin.... Oh, maybe #3 would be you are both focking drunk and acted way out of character? Something to consider. But I'm sure you have been drunk with her before and know her tendencies. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weepaws 3,158 Posted October 7, 2023 Stop going out drinking all night, that’s where it usually starts. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MLCKAA 547 Posted October 7, 2023 Oh, that’s a problem. How long have you been married? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gladiators 1,964 Posted October 7, 2023 What your wife said/did sounds focked up, but there’s also a good chance there was some miscommunication or misunderstanding based on the fact you were out drinking all night. Let us know what you figure out after you’ve sobered up and talk to her. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cyclone24 1,912 Posted October 7, 2023 4 hours ago, Gladiators said: What your wife said/did sounds focked up, but there’s also a good chance there was some miscommunication or misunderstanding based on the fact you were out drinking all night. Let us know what you figure out after you’ve sobered up and talk to her. Yeah we’re not messy drunks (when we even drink which isnt that often) we’re more like we’re running for mayor drunks and just talk to everybody, buy drinks, etc. So she said she saw me in his face and im not yelling im just in a good tone asking if hed like to try it while im standing there…and she said she saw that it might escalate and thought the best plan was to say it didnt happen so i didnt kill him. Trust me I tried to explain what a dumbass that makes me look like… I dunno…wimmen. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The Real timschochet 6,468 Posted October 7, 2023 You’re in the wrong for being in Nashville. 1 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GutterBoy 2,898 Posted October 7, 2023 17 minutes ago, cyclone24 said: Yeah we’re not messy drunks (when we even drink which isnt that often) we’re more like we’re running for mayor drunks and just talk to everybody, buy drinks, etc. So she said she saw me in his face and im not yelling im just in a good tone asking if hed like to try it while im standing there…and she said she saw that it might escalate and thought the best plan was to say it didnt happen so i didnt kill him. Trust me I tried to explain what a dumbass that makes me look like… I dunno…wimmen. Losing your temper is never a good look. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lickin_starfish 1,893 Posted October 7, 2023 She was testing you to see what your reaction would be. She was testing the waters to see if you'd be open to watching another dude bang her. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
5-Points 3,398 Posted October 7, 2023 Your wife kissed him then tried to preemptively blame him before anybody said anything. And you shrugged it off like a cuck. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hardcore troubadour 14,964 Posted October 7, 2023 I always defer to Rusty when it comes to marital advice. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Horseman 2,375 Posted October 7, 2023 You're in the wrong for hanging out with a bunch of dudes. Find a gaggle of daisy dukes with boots to hang out with. They're everywhere. 1 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
edjr 6,578 Posted October 7, 2023 she kisses my d1ck really well Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mike Honcho 5,121 Posted October 7, 2023 You post at the GC...whatever you did was right...none of us has ever been wrong about anything. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
edjr 6,578 Posted October 7, 2023 2 minutes ago, Mike Honcho said: You post at the GC...whatever you did was right...none of us has ever been wrong about anything. I am wrong 90% of the time Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OldMaid 2,129 Posted October 7, 2023 4 minutes ago, edjr said: I am wrong 90% of the time I concur. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cyclone24 1,912 Posted October 7, 2023 42 minutes ago, lickin_starfish said: She was testing you to see what your reaction would be. She was testing the waters to see if you'd be open to watching another dude bang her. Lol at least someone would get some.. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cyclone24 1,912 Posted October 7, 2023 20 minutes ago, Horseman said: You're in the wrong for hanging out with a bunch of dudes. Find a gaggle of daisy dukes with boots to hang out with. They're everywhere. Ohhhh…we did. Hah. Young girls are exhaustingly dumb. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WhiteWonder 2,681 Posted October 7, 2023 48 minutes ago, 5-Points said: Your wife kissed him then tried to preemptively blame him before anybody said anything. And you shrugged it off like a cuck. this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cyclone24 1,912 Posted October 7, 2023 50 minutes ago, 5-Points said: Your wife kissed him then tried to preemptively blame him before anybody said anything. And you shrugged it off like a cuck. Man..havent been here in awhile but your reading comprehension hasnt gotten any better. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DonS 3,292 Posted October 7, 2023 You forgot to include crucial information so that we can weigh in on this situation... Can size? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mike Honcho 5,121 Posted October 7, 2023 1 hour ago, edjr said: I am wrong 90% of the time I think you are wrong about that. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TommyGavin 790 Posted October 7, 2023 17 minutes ago, DonS said: You forgot to include crucial information so that we can weigh in on this situation... Can size? FU DonS. I’m reading this thread and as I’m reading I’m thinking holy sh1t I’m going to be able to point this out. Beat me by 17 minutes. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
iam90sbaby 2,494 Posted October 7, 2023 You definitely peaked in high school 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
5-Points 3,398 Posted October 7, 2023 1 hour ago, cyclone24 said: Man..havent been here in awhile but your reading comprehension hasnt gotten any better. Well your wife's ability to pull one over on you sure has. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites