Djgb13 2,338 Posted August 16, 2018 Really curious if any of you are actually against it? Personally, I dont care. If they want to get married then let them. Its not bothering me and if it makes them happy why not Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RaiderHaters Revenge 3,585 Posted August 16, 2018 dont care, only care, that since they moved past that agenda its got insanely worse 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gladiators 1,904 Posted August 16, 2018 dont care, only care, that since they moved past that agenda its got insanely worse This Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
crackattack 513 Posted August 16, 2018 Don't care. I would only care if somehow the church was forced to marry gays. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tanatastic 2,061 Posted August 16, 2018 No, its their business and doesnt affect me. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cyclone24 1,814 Posted August 16, 2018 Nope. Never has. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bier Meister 1,514 Posted August 16, 2018 no. they have the right to be equally unhappy in marriage 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
supermike80 1,286 Posted August 16, 2018 Nah. I got my own issues to worry about. If I start caring that much about what others do id stress myself out Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Voltaire 4,562 Posted August 16, 2018 dont care, only care, that since they moved past that agenda its got insanely worse So very this. I'd use to be very opposed to it but that weakened and weakened such that I gradually came around such that, towards the end, I'd supported the change and was actually happy for them. Then - BAM! - overnight, the next day, in came lawsuits against bakers, perverts in the girls' restroom, men kissing men on TV, trannies winning female sporting events. Every politician in the entire Democratic Party immediately flipped from opposed to gay marriage to supporting it. Congradulations, you won. Now, fock off and go away. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
iam90sbaby 2,125 Posted August 16, 2018 Not against gay marriage but I am against gay adoption. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brad GLuckman 518 Posted August 16, 2018 Not against gay marriage but I am against gay adoption. Interesting. Why are you against gay adoption? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RaiderHaters Revenge 3,585 Posted August 16, 2018 Interesting. Why are you against gay adoption? guaranteed liberal Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ROCKFORD 134 Posted August 16, 2018 so, you guys like me now? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kilroy69 994 Posted August 16, 2018 dont care, only care, that since they moved past that agenda its got insanely worsethis. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wiffleball 4,643 Posted August 16, 2018 dont care, only care, that since they moved past that agenda its got insanely worse This. It's like voting against Jim Crow laws when they only presented Maya Angelou and Thurgood Marshall. Then the minute those laws were repealed, they haul out Kanye West and Flavor Flav. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hardcore troubadour 12,656 Posted August 16, 2018 Don't care for metro sexuals, a lesser variant of gay. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brad GLuckman 518 Posted August 16, 2018 guaranteed liberal Im pretty moderate, depends on the issue. I think gay couples adopting kids is a good thing, but am not looking for a slap fight. Just curious what the reason is. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Djgb13 2,338 Posted August 16, 2018 Im pretty moderate, depends on the issue. I think gay couples adopting kids is a good thing, but am not looking for a slap fight. Just curious what the reason is. I dont care if they adopt kids. Just let the kid think for themselves as to what sexual orientation they want to be. If they want to be straight let them. If they want to be gay let them. I have seen though that a lot of gay couples that want their kids to be straight so they can get grandkids. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bier Meister 1,514 Posted August 16, 2018 I dont care if they adopt kids. Just let the kid think for themselves as to what sexual orientation they want to be. If they want to be straight let them. If they want to be gay let them. I have seen though that a lot of gay couples that want their kids to be straight so they can get grandkids. a lot of gay couple want their child to be happy and tend to be more accepting of whatever their inclination might be. I haven't seen them push the kids into "being gay," but instead encourage support of gay causes. far less indoctrination than religious parents (of any sort). Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Let Da Big Dog Eat 37 Posted August 16, 2018 We as a people seem to form opinions based solely on legal and morality opinions. The issue of gay marriage is also an economic issue. What does is cost in terms of SS survivor benefits? What does it cost in terms of Retirement health care benefits? What does it mean to Retirement pension benefits? All these benefits could be sold on a fake gay marriage or a real one for that matter. We need to address these real issues before anyone could have a viable opinion. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Djgb13 2,338 Posted August 16, 2018 a lot of gay couple want their child to be happy and tend to be more accepting of whatever their inclination might be. I haven't seen them push the kids into "being gay," but instead encourage support of gay causes. far less indoctrination than religious parents (of any sort). Yea thats my thing. As long as they dont push the child to be something they arent then Im completely fine with it. Same as straight parents. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wiffleball 4,643 Posted August 16, 2018 yeah, before we start talking about sssb, you might want to educate yourself as to who this FICA chick is that keeps taking money out of your paycheck every 2 weeks. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RaiderHaters Revenge 3,585 Posted August 16, 2018 Im pretty moderate, depends on the issue. I think gay couples adopting kids is a good thing, but am not looking for a slap fight. Just curious what the reason is. my thing is that I think a well rounded child is raised by both a man and a woman I am not against gay adoptions per say, I just think a straight couple is a better option Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bier Meister 1,514 Posted August 16, 2018 my thing is that I think a well rounded child is raised by both a man and a woman I am not against gay adoptions per say, I just think a straight couple is a better option we already know that there are a lot of crappy straight parents. I do not think we have the history or numbers to know how good or bad gay parents are. i tend to believe that due to the struggle to become a parent when you are gay that they are more committed to being "good" Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fireballer 2,383 Posted August 16, 2018 Im not against the premise of gay marriage. What I am against is flaming fhaggut, look-at-me, attention whores. We get it, youre gay. Big deal. Its not like youre curing cancer. Get over yourself. You get no special treatment or privledges. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Strike 3,979 Posted August 16, 2018 we already know that there are a lot of crappy straight parents. I do not think we have the history or numbers to know how good or bad gay parents are. i tend to believe that due to the struggle to become a parent when you are gay that they are more committed to being "good" Did you read about the gay parent who drove her kids off a cliff? In Cali IIRC. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bier Meister 1,514 Posted August 16, 2018 Did you read about the gay parent who drove her kids off a cliff? In Cali IIRC. how much bad shlt do straight parent do in the world? I don't read an article and attribute it to them being straight (though they are). Shlt happens because there are bad parents. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RaiderHaters Revenge 3,585 Posted August 16, 2018 we already know that there are a lot of crappy straight parents. I do not think we have the history or numbers to know how good or bad gay parents are. i tend to believe that due to the struggle to become a parent when you are gay that they are more committed to being "good" maybe 2 gay men, but what we do know is that the single highest rate of domestic abuse occurs in lesbian couples making it far more likely the child is in an abusive house Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bier Meister 1,514 Posted August 16, 2018 maybe 2 gay men, but what we do know is that the single highest rate of domestic abuse occurs in lesbian couples making it far more likely the child is in an abusive house police and military are higher. they shouldn't have children! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RaiderHaters Revenge 3,585 Posted August 16, 2018 police and military are higher. they shouldn't have children! comparing apples to oranges one is a job, the other is a relationship Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RaiderHaters Revenge 3,585 Posted August 16, 2018 I am going to be honest and I know its completely wrong that I think that way, but part of me still worries about stuff like Milo Yianopolis says, that alot of gay men go after younger boys especially those confused, and I would tend to think a boy raised by 2 gay men hitting puberty might be confused Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bier Meister 1,514 Posted August 16, 2018 both paint a broad picture. if you are taking a stance based on behavior then we need to be consistent with consequences. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RaiderHaters Revenge 3,585 Posted August 16, 2018 both paint a broad picture. if you are taking a stance based on behavior then we need to be consistent with consequences. I agree with that, and I would think a cop and his wife, if there is a history of domestic violence would not be able to adopt. However, that chick that drove all those kids off the cliff was able to adopt what 7? despite being a know abuser, all in the name of inclusion again single incident I know, I am just trying to be honest of my opinions Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bier Meister 1,514 Posted August 16, 2018 adoption agencies need to be thorough with their screenings, regardless of sexual preference. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tubby_mcgee 686 Posted August 16, 2018 I disagree with the morality of it. But hey...go ahead...have it. 30+ years ago...people thought it was crazy...or it was nonexistent, whatever... The left pushed hard...(and even back then, the left was against it for the most part) as time went on...and now...they've got it acceptable amongst themselves. Give it a few more years...and the left will start pushing that it should be acceptable for people to marry pets, have threesome marriages, incest marriages etc. how much bad shlt do straight parent do in the world? I don't read an article and attribute it to them being straight (though they are). Shlt happens because there are bad parents. Not all golden retrievers or pugs are perfect either. Are you telling me that golden retrievers never hurt anyone?Then don't tell me that pit bulls are bad dogs, because golden retrievers and pugs can damage people also. I don't read articles about Pit Bulls injuring or killing because they are pit bulls. Sh#t happens because they are dogs. And so are Retrievers and Pugs.... So...since Retrievers and Pugs are also dogs, so they are just as dangerous as Pit Bulls. Its common sense. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bier Meister 1,514 Posted August 16, 2018 We recently had a thread about children being left in hot cars. Because I do not make a habit of generalizing incidents, I did not point fingers and falsely attribute this to poor straight parenting. Your likening gay parents to pitbulls is a grotesque misnomer. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wiffleball 4,643 Posted August 16, 2018 Did you read about the gay parent who drove her kids off a cliff? In Cali IIRC.Did you hear about the straight parent who just killed his two little girls and wife and just admitted it a little while ago not too far from where you live? That's a stupid game. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
titans&bucs&bearsohmy! 2,745 Posted August 16, 2018 my thing is that I think a well rounded child is raised by both a man and a woman I am not against gay adoptions per say, I just think a straight couple is a better option If there was a waiting list of nice straight couples, I may agree. But seeing as How in most states, the foster system is a focking sh!t show, Im willing to let any loving couple that has the means to properly provide for a child do so. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites