I have 2 choices -- UPDATE: my how things change

[ToadSprocket 12]

It's a cold rainy day in the Delmarva and my divorce will be (might be, could be) final at midnight tonight.

I have 2 choices.

1) I could continue living in my (our) home albeit in the basement while my estranged (but not legally divorced) wife continues to live in the upper level master suite. 2 teenage sons also live here. And I still am 1/2 owner of said premise.

Did I mention that said wife can do ANY DAMN THING SHE WANTS. Obviously, sexually but also with all homeowner decisions. I forfeit any say in anything.

or

2) I can sign divorce decree, move out, wait for home to sell and get half. Obviously, no direct connection with my boys since visitation would be negotiated. As well as child support.

[Filthy Fernadez 2,696]

Bite the bullet swallow the pride and move out. There are way too many ways she can screw you over by you continuing to live there.

[Baker Boy 1,485]

If you want to continue to be the family pet choose 1.

[cyclone24 1,814]

I suppose some of it depends on the dynamic in the house. Are you guys fighting?

[iam90sbaby 2,125]

Move out.

[jerryskids 5,206]

"Hey honey, wanna come back to my ex-wife's basement?!"

[patweisers44 697]

What are the chances she sells the house to the guy that's currently banging her (or a family member) for like 50 bucks?

[Cloaca du jour 2,064]

If you move out your losing out. Dont give up claim to home

 

 

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[ToadSprocket 12]

If she wants to rearrange stuff or tear down a shed, I don't care but I'm pretty sure she can't sell it from under me. Ownership was key in this. Taxes, etc.

 

We don't fight or even argue loudly. Really never did. Kids don't deserve that.

[Sho Nuff 719]

If you move out your losing out. Dont give up claim to home

 

 

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Hear their commercials alot.

Definitely think moving out gives up a ton of leverage that you may have.

[Cloaca du jour 2,064]

Document any activities that you find objectionable with kids in the house while your there. All that stuff can go against her in a settlement

[drobeski 3,061]

3. Kill her

[cyclone24 1,814]

3. Kill her

But first meet a hitman at some shady Diner or coffee shop. Gives the Dateline folks more to work with.

 

"There was more than coffee brewing at the local coffee shop that day. There was also a plan....for murder" --Keith Morrison voice.

[fandandy 3,311]

What do you think is best for the kids? As a teen had my parents divorced and still been living in the same house that would have been one weird dynamic that I'm sure I would have preferred not to deal with. I have no idea legally what moving out would do but if nothing and you had a place to go I'd split.

[Filthy Fernadez 2,696]

If you move out your losing out. Dont give up claim to home

 

 

http://cordellcordell.com/resources/

 

These guys are amazing at protecting dads interests in divorce

 

Tough call.

 

I know guys who tried to continue living in the home and the ex went psycho on them, calling the cops for everything.

[ToadSprocket 12]

Well this morning the honorable Judge has decreed that all my wife's claims concerning settlement is bogus.

 

Bottom line :: I'm now living in the upper level suite whether she wants to continue doing so or not. We are still married.

[Strike 3,975]

Well this morning the honorable Judge has decreed that all my wife's claims concerning settlement is bogus.

 

Bottom line :: I'm now living in the upper level suite whether she wants to continue doing so or not. We are still married.

 

Who sleeps where? What do the kids think of this "arrangement"? Doesn't seem like a situation I'd like to be in. Why not just get divorced, sell the house, and start living your lives?

[Cruzer 1,992]

I prolly missed out on previous details........... but did you do something to get the ass end of this deal? Seems she has you over a barrel.

 

In any event, I have cousins that can make it look like an accident...

[ToadSprocket 12]

 

Who sleeps where? What do the kids think of this "arrangement"? Doesn't seem like a situation I'd like to be in. Why not just get divorced, sell the house, and start living your lives?

 

I don't want to ... and my kids want me around. My wife just wanted to be in control. We still been doing the nasty which is one major reason the Judge chucked this. He said you can't litigate by day and fornicate by night (in the same house).

[ToadSprocket 12]

I prolly missed out on previous details........... but did you do something to get the ass end of this deal? Seems she has you over a barrel.

 

In any event, I have cousins that can make it look like an accident...

 

 

Yes, I got drunk and her little sister.

[Cruzer 1,992]

 

 

Yes, I got drunk and ###### her little sister.

DAMN.

 

Focking somebody on the side is sometimes forgivable.. When said somebody is your wife's little sister - that's an atom bomb, no recovering from that... I'd pick #2 and move on.

[ToadSprocket 12]

DAMN.

 

Focking somebody on the side is sometimes forgivable.. When said somebody is your wife's little sister - that's an atom bomb, no recovering from that... I'd pick #2 and move on.

 

It backfired on both of them. My wife wanted her sister to flirt with me to see how far I'd go. Problem: we both got drunk and did it.

I'm sorry. I was wrong. But ......

[vuduchile 1,941]

This story has a 2dgsfkn feel to it.

[Strike 3,975]

 

I don't want to ... and my kids want me around. My wife just wanted to be in control. We still been doing the nasty which is one major reason the Judge chucked this. He said you can't litigate by day and fornicate by night (in the same house).

 

Can SIZES!!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Nice job on the little sister btw.

[Cruzer 1,992]

 

It backfired on both of them. My wife wanted her sister to flirt with me to see how far I'd go. Problem: we both got drunk and did it.

I'm sorry. I was wrong. But ......

How is their relationship, did she forgive her?

[Hardcore troubadour 12,646]

I don't know if this is a lifetime movie or a comedy.

[Strike 3,975]

I don't know if this is a lifetime movie or a comedy.

 

Porno?

[NorthernVike 2,080]

Sorry, not a believer.

[Patriotsfatboy1 1,432]

Is this the sister that is a midget?

[supermike80 1,285]

I don't know if this is a lifetime movie or a comedy.

You kidding? This is springer!!!

[wiffleball 4,640]

1. Nice job on the sister.

2. Congrats on recent court decision.

3. Only 'advice' I can give is - nail down any home sale provisions. For example, must sell for +- MV. Timing of the home sale, associated sales costs, etc.

4. Guys - Always always avoid the sister, BF, etc. Vaginal Ties are MUCH stronger than the tightest male/female bond. Even when said sisters are fighting and 'hate' each other. - It's focking weird.

5. Make sure this site (and therefore, browsing history) is secure.

 

Now, describe the sister. - Slowly. And in great detail.

And what you guys did - specifically.

[Hardcore troubadour 12,646]

You kidding? This is springer!!!

Nah, this is geek club. It's classy here.

[fandandy 3,311]

1. Nice job on the sister.

2. Congrats on recent court decision.

3. Only 'advice' I can give is - nail down any home sale provisions. For example, must sell for +- MV. Timing of the home sale, associated sales costs, etc.

4. Guys - Always always avoid the sister, BF, etc. Vaginal Ties are MUCH stronger than the tightest male/female bond. Even when said sisters are fighting and 'hate' each other. - It's focking weird.

5. Make sure this site (and therefore, browsing history) is secure.

 

Now, describe the sister. - Slowly. And in great detail.

And what you guys did - specifically.

Umm, she has pigtails, loves My Little Pony. We were watching Dora the Explorer, and you know, one thing led to another. I think it really started when she made a Play-Doh snake the day before. That's when I could tell she was into me.

[frank 2,145]

3. Kill her

He used to love her.

[DonS 3,067]

How does the sister compare to the wife?

[frank 2,145]

Two words:

 

Pacific Heights

[MDC 5,891]

You screwed your wife's sister and the wife is still fvcking you? I'd say turn this into a 3-way. Either that or you all should get on Springer.

[patweisers44 697]

Friday already?

[Mike Honcho 4,034]

Two words:

 

Pacific Heights

 

I'm thinking four words: War of the Roses.