ToadSprocket 12 Posted March 31, 2017 It's a cold rainy day in the Delmarva and my divorce will be (might be, could be) final at midnight tonight. I have 2 choices. 1) I could continue living in my (our) home albeit in the basement while my estranged (but not legally divorced) wife continues to live in the upper level master suite. 2 teenage sons also live here. And I still am 1/2 owner of said premise. Did I mention that said wife can do ANY DAMN THING SHE WANTS. Obviously, sexually but also with all homeowner decisions. I forfeit any say in anything. or 2) I can sign divorce decree, move out, wait for home to sell and get half. Obviously, no direct connection with my boys since visitation would be negotiated. As well as child support. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Filthy Fernadez 2,696 Posted March 31, 2017 Bite the bullet swallow the pride and move out. There are way too many ways she can screw you over by you continuing to live there. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Baker Boy 1,485 Posted March 31, 2017 If you want to continue to be the family pet choose 1. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cyclone24 1,814 Posted March 31, 2017 I suppose some of it depends on the dynamic in the house. Are you guys fighting? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 5,206 Posted March 31, 2017 "Hey honey, wanna come back to my ex-wife's basement?!" Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
patweisers44 697 Posted March 31, 2017 What are the chances she sells the house to the guy that's currently banging her (or a family member) for like 50 bucks? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cloaca du jour 2,064 Posted March 31, 2017 If you move out your losing out. Dont give up claim to home http://cordellcordell.com/resources/ These guys are amazing at protecting dads interests in divorce Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ToadSprocket 12 Posted March 31, 2017 If she wants to rearrange stuff or tear down a shed, I don't care but I'm pretty sure she can't sell it from under me. Ownership was key in this. Taxes, etc. We don't fight or even argue loudly. Really never did. Kids don't deserve that. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sho Nuff 719 Posted March 31, 2017 If you move out your losing out. Dont give up claim to home http://cordellcordell.com/resources/ These guys are amazing at protecting dads interests in divorce Hear their commercials alot. Definitely think moving out gives up a ton of leverage that you may have. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cloaca du jour 2,064 Posted March 31, 2017 Document any activities that you find objectionable with kids in the house while your there. All that stuff can go against her in a settlement Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cyclone24 1,814 Posted March 31, 2017 3. Kill her But first meet a hitman at some shady Diner or coffee shop. Gives the Dateline folks more to work with. "There was more than coffee brewing at the local coffee shop that day. There was also a plan....for murder" --Keith Morrison voice. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fandandy 3,311 Posted March 31, 2017 What do you think is best for the kids? As a teen had my parents divorced and still been living in the same house that would have been one weird dynamic that I'm sure I would have preferred not to deal with. I have no idea legally what moving out would do but if nothing and you had a place to go I'd split. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Filthy Fernadez 2,696 Posted March 31, 2017 If you move out your losing out. Dont give up claim to home http://cordellcordell.com/resources/ These guys are amazing at protecting dads interests in divorce Tough call. I know guys who tried to continue living in the home and the ex went psycho on them, calling the cops for everything. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ToadSprocket 12 Posted May 2, 2017 Well this morning the honorable Judge has decreed that all my wife's claims concerning settlement is bogus. Bottom line :: I'm now living in the upper level suite whether she wants to continue doing so or not. We are still married. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Strike 3,975 Posted May 2, 2017 Well this morning the honorable Judge has decreed that all my wife's claims concerning settlement is bogus. Bottom line :: I'm now living in the upper level suite whether she wants to continue doing so or not. We are still married. Who sleeps where? What do the kids think of this "arrangement"? Doesn't seem like a situation I'd like to be in. Why not just get divorced, sell the house, and start living your lives? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cruzer 1,992 Posted May 2, 2017 I prolly missed out on previous details........... but did you do something to get the ass end of this deal? Seems she has you over a barrel. In any event, I have cousins that can make it look like an accident... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ToadSprocket 12 Posted May 2, 2017 Who sleeps where? What do the kids think of this "arrangement"? Doesn't seem like a situation I'd like to be in. Why not just get divorced, sell the house, and start living your lives? I don't want to ... and my kids want me around. My wife just wanted to be in control. We still been doing the nasty which is one major reason the Judge chucked this. He said you can't litigate by day and fornicate by night (in the same house). 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ToadSprocket 12 Posted May 2, 2017 I prolly missed out on previous details........... but did you do something to get the ass end of this deal? Seems she has you over a barrel. In any event, I have cousins that can make it look like an accident... Yes, I got drunk and her little sister. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cruzer 1,992 Posted May 2, 2017 Yes, I got drunk and ###### her little sister. DAMN. Focking somebody on the side is sometimes forgivable.. When said somebody is your wife's little sister - that's an atom bomb, no recovering from that... I'd pick #2 and move on. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ToadSprocket 12 Posted May 2, 2017 DAMN. Focking somebody on the side is sometimes forgivable.. When said somebody is your wife's little sister - that's an atom bomb, no recovering from that... I'd pick #2 and move on. It backfired on both of them. My wife wanted her sister to flirt with me to see how far I'd go. Problem: we both got drunk and did it. I'm sorry. I was wrong. But ...... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vuduchile 1,941 Posted May 2, 2017 This story has a 2dgsfkn feel to it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Strike 3,975 Posted May 2, 2017 I don't want to ... and my kids want me around. My wife just wanted to be in control. We still been doing the nasty which is one major reason the Judge chucked this. He said you can't litigate by day and fornicate by night (in the same house). Can SIZES!!!! Nice job on the little sister btw. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cruzer 1,992 Posted May 2, 2017 It backfired on both of them. My wife wanted her sister to flirt with me to see how far I'd go. Problem: we both got drunk and did it. I'm sorry. I was wrong. But ...... How is their relationship, did she forgive her? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hardcore troubadour 12,646 Posted May 2, 2017 I don't know if this is a lifetime movie or a comedy. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Strike 3,975 Posted May 2, 2017 I don't know if this is a lifetime movie or a comedy. Porno? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NorthernVike 2,080 Posted May 2, 2017 Sorry, not a believer. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Patriotsfatboy1 1,432 Posted May 2, 2017 Is this the sister that is a midget? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
supermike80 1,286 Posted May 2, 2017 I don't know if this is a lifetime movie or a comedy. You kidding? This is springer!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wiffleball 4,640 Posted May 2, 2017 1. Nice job on the sister. 2. Congrats on recent court decision. 3. Only 'advice' I can give is - nail down any home sale provisions. For example, must sell for +- MV. Timing of the home sale, associated sales costs, etc. 4. Guys - Always always avoid the sister, BF, etc. Vaginal Ties are MUCH stronger than the tightest male/female bond. Even when said sisters are fighting and 'hate' each other. - It's focking weird. 5. Make sure this site (and therefore, browsing history) is secure. Now, describe the sister. - Slowly. And in great detail. And what you guys did - specifically. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hardcore troubadour 12,646 Posted May 2, 2017 You kidding? This is springer!!! Nah, this is geek club. It's classy here. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fandandy 3,311 Posted May 2, 2017 1. Nice job on the sister. 2. Congrats on recent court decision. 3. Only 'advice' I can give is - nail down any home sale provisions. For example, must sell for +- MV. Timing of the home sale, associated sales costs, etc. 4. Guys - Always always avoid the sister, BF, etc. Vaginal Ties are MUCH stronger than the tightest male/female bond. Even when said sisters are fighting and 'hate' each other. - It's focking weird. 5. Make sure this site (and therefore, browsing history) is secure. Now, describe the sister. - Slowly. And in great detail. And what you guys did - specifically. Umm, she has pigtails, loves My Little Pony. We were watching Dora the Explorer, and you know, one thing led to another. I think it really started when she made a Play-Doh snake the day before. That's when I could tell she was into me. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
frank 2,145 Posted May 2, 2017 3. Kill her He used to love her. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DonS 3,067 Posted May 2, 2017 How does the sister compare to the wife? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
frank 2,145 Posted May 2, 2017 Two words: Pacific Heights Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MDC 5,891 Posted May 2, 2017 You screwed your wife's sister and the wife is still fvcking you? I'd say turn this into a 3-way. Either that or you all should get on Springer. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
patweisers44 697 Posted May 2, 2017 Friday already? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mike Honcho 4,034 Posted May 2, 2017 Two words: Pacific Heights I'm thinking four words: War of the Roses. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites