Why Do Women Wear Tight Clothes When They Are Overweight

[BeenHereBefore 1,452]

& Think they look good

[EternalShinyAndChrome 3,828]

The women's body positivity movement has been a disaster for eyeballs everywhere.  

Of course, those same people will turn around and have no issue calling men fat slobs.

[League Champion 1,896]

And always Fat Pale purple haired Liberal girls with cheap prison leg tattoos. 

 

[easilyscan 857]

Why do people like Lizzo ?

Because a significant % of Americans are overweight themselves & many men seem to love hog women. 

[weepaws 3,152]

Attention, like someone making a thread about it, see it works, you notice them.  They Win.  

[Strike 5,184]

53 minutes ago, BeenHereBefore said:

& Think they look good

Ask your Mom.

[Bier Meister 1,655]

They’re all tens in their minds

[League Champion 1,896]

6 minutes ago, weepaws said:

Attention, like someone making a thread about it, see it works, you notice them.  They Win.  

Naaa, they already lost the game of life. 

[kutulu 1,659]

The looser the waistband, the deeper the quicksand

 

Or, so I have read 

[TommyGavin 790]

It’s a black and Latino thing. They just do not care. They think they are hot. 

[seafoam1 2,798]

53 minutes ago, weepaws said:

Attention, like someone making a thread about it, see it works, you notice them.  They Win.  

So if you are driving and notice a dead deer with it's head twisted around backwards lying on the side of the road, then that means the deer got you? Deer wins because you noticed it? 

Why don't you go back to school and pay attention next time? And I'm.not talking about Wheaton College.

 

[weepaws 3,152]

36 minutes ago, League Champion said:

Naaa, they already lost the game of life. 

Lie. 

[weepaws 3,152]

25 minutes ago, seafoam1 said:

So if you sre driving and notice a dead deer with it's head twisted around backwards lying on the side of the road, then that means the deer got you? Deer wins because you noticed it? 

Why don't you go back to school and pay attention next time? And I'm.not talking about Wheaton College.

 

What does sre mean?  Not talking about a dead dear, talking about a person, learn the difference butthead.  

Liberals notice deers, other men notice woman.  They both win.  

[MDC 7,118]

Moo  

[weepaws 3,152]

Just now, MDC said:

Moo  

 

Just now, MDC said:

Moo  

Shouldn’t have done that, seafoam will be getting out the baby oil and beach towel.  Stupid liberal that he is.  

[seafoam1 2,798]

5 minutes ago, MDC said:

Moo  

Yeah, we know your wife is a cow. Go away. 

[lickin_starfish 1,889]

I blame Megan Trainer and that bullschit song she made.

[BeenHereBefore 1,452]

1 hour ago, TommyGavin said:

It’s a black and Latino thing. They just do not care. They they are hot. 

Na the whites are in on it too.

[TommyGavin 790]

14 minutes ago, BeenHereBefore said:

Na the whites are in on it too.

Not going to argue it (and I miss typed they think is what I meant to say) but it’s less white and more color. 

[BufordT 427]

Who doesn't like a decent looking zaftig every once in a while?

[Fireballer 2,639]

35 minutes ago, BeenHereBefore said:

Na the whites are in on it too.

Indeed

 

[BunnysBastatrds 2,307]

We call them a can of biscuits when they are cracked open.

[kilroy69 1,215]

Because overweight women are delusional. They have society telling them they are hot and to flaunt that whale blubber. 

[IGotWorms 4,057]

A fair amount of dudes like those women. I don’t get it other than it obviously increases their chance of success quite a bit 

[Thornton Melon 603]

44 minutes ago, kilroy69 said:

Because overweight women are delusional. They have society telling them they are hot and to flaunt that whale blubber. 

Exactly. Society tells these sows they have "curves" 

[League Champion 1,896]

There's nothing more disgusting than an obese girl in spandex. It does seem to be more of a thing in the Latina culture, but unfortunately it's everywhere. 

[BeenHereBefore 1,452]

11 minutes ago, Thornton Melon said:

Exactly. Society tells these sows they have "curves" 

John Madden would say they have curves on curves.

[kilroy69 1,215]

1 hour ago, IGotWorms said:

A fair amount of dudes like those women. I don’t get it other than it obviously increases their chance of success quite a bit 

It is because they are easy to land. Low hanging fruit.  You literally have to put very little effort into gorlock. 

[lickin_starfish 1,889]

43 minutes ago, Thornton Melon said:

Exactly. Society tells these sows they have "curves" 

A circle is just one continuous curve.

[seafoam1 2,798]

 

 

 

[Cruzer 1,995]

Same reason grown ass men spend all day, all night here, arguing over the same old shiit, day in and day out...............................attention. 

[peenie 1,896]

The same reason why men with big ole huge beer guts wear fitted clothing. 

[Blue Horseshoe 348]

 

 

 

The majority of men probably don't mind added weight in women in some "context" 

The reality is that very few women carry extra weight well. Some do. But it's rare. Sara Ramirez from early Grey's Anatomy was one of the few IMHO. 

In our society, women "trade" on their looks. So while many women will probably say they carry weight well, it doesn't matter what they think. It matters what men think. If men don't find you attractive, then you have nothing to "trade on" at all. 

The older women get, then it's just that much harder to be heavy and "carry that weight well" 

One of the big conflicts here is that the majority of women want to define what is attractive. They want to define it for themselves and they want to define how men SHOULD see it in their eyes. Which is totally insane when you really start to think about it. 

But in total, I'd rather just filter by character. I remove all low character people and zero character people out of my daily life. Filter out, not in. That's how most people could really save themselves here. Get rid of zero character people, and if you still want to date, see if there's anyone left, after you've run the full purge, where you find them attractive and have some good chemistry. 

[seafoam1 2,798]

33 minutes ago, peenie said:

The same reason why men with big ole huge beer guts wear fitted clothing. 

Your ex? Sad. Another fatherless kid in the world is your kid. Good job peenie.

[Blue Horseshoe 348]

27 minutes ago, peenie said:

The same reason why men with big ole huge beer guts wear fitted clothing. 

 

 

 

 

Denzel Washington has put on quite a bit of weight since the first Equalizer film. But he can compensate with charm, charisma, humor, career success, wealth, power, status, etc, etc. 

Abbie Cornish has put on a huge amount of weight since Sucker Punch. And society is just less forgiving of it. 

Would the women you know date and/or marry a man who was dramatically shorter than her? Dramatically poorer than her? Now you might cite some instances, but they would be exceptions to the general rule. Also those "exceptions" will likely have some mitigating factor ( i.e. woman is very low status herself, woman is aging and options are dried up, guys has massive wealth, guy is "known" or has status in a niche that the woman values, etc, etc) 

The majority of men are turned off by obese women, most single mothers and/or women who are proven to be sexually promiscuous ( if we are talking commitment for the last point) 

The majority of women are turned off by low status men, very short men and/or very poor men with no career success ( if we are talking commitment for the last point) 

You can default into being intentionally obtuse, because you don't like how any of this makes you "feel"  But the hard simple answer is no one cares how you feel.  The "mating/dating" marketplace isn't ruled on feelings. It's usually, and tragically, transactional in nature. In an idea sense, would it be nice if it all worked differently? Yes. But that's not reality. It's not what happens at the ground level. 

[easilyscan 857]

5 hours ago, Thornton Melon said:

Exactly. Society tells these sows they have "curves" 

A+

 

[Blue Horseshoe 348]

5 hours ago, kilroy69 said:

It is because they are easy to land. Low hanging fruit.  You literally have to put very little effort into gorlock. 

 

 

People will tend to find "attractive" on what was normalized in their youth. 

If you grow up as the only white person in a predominantly black area, odds are, you'll find black people attractive. Or Asian. Or whatever. 

If you grew up on a farm and grew up doing heavy labor, you won't see "blue collar" people in the same way that someone who grew up with lots of traditional wealth will see them. 

If you are raised by a single parent, odds are you will be a single parent. Same for smoking and getting a college education. 

As American women, on the average, get heavier and heavier, across the nation, and it's happening younger and younger, then that's "normalized" 

I would tend to disagree here. If you are a single guy, good health, good shape, good career, take care of yourself, act like a decent person and don't have STDs, kids or a previous marriage/divorce, then you will have lots of options. They might not all be the options you want, but the standards for men are so low right now, that it's not tough to be competitive. 

Honestly, I could care less what people wear when it's not related to something in my life. For example, if I have 8 kids in public school or something like that, I don't want their teachers to dress like they are going to a club. If I hire an employee, I don't want them showing up to work looking like they are doing a porn video shoot. Simple things like that. Otherwise, I just don't care. Would it matter if I considered something like attraction? Sure. But if I've already decided I don't find them attractive, in private and in silence, then who cares. 

I'm big believer there are usually way more reasons to despise someone long before you get to their weight or their perceived inappropriate clothing or lack of it. Someone who is always late. Someone who is a flake. Someone who never pays their debts. Someone who complains all the time, etc, etc, etc. 

Something I've learned in this life is to never attempt to "negotiate" with a woman. On anything. I'm not invested in negotiating with women on being a different weight. If that's how they want to do it, let them. I could care less if they weep as they clip their catfood coupons in silence. It's not personal. I have real problems of my own. It's not like they are rushing to come and save me from my woes in life. 

[posty 2,609]

19 hours ago, MDC said:

Moo  

Like clockwork on seafoam...  You are living rent free for sure...

[Mike Hunt 261]

On 8/12/2023 at 3:50 PM, BeenHereBefore said:

& Think they look good

I was at a festival yesterday and though the same thing.  These two fat chicks had halters and spandex on.  Their guts were hanging over the waistband and you could see the cellulite rolls through their pink tights.

It was disgusting.  There are fat women who can look classy when they dress right.

[League Champion 1,896]

13 hours ago, peenie said:

The same reason why men with big ole huge beer guts wear fitted clothing. 

Who does that? Liberals maybe.