Personality type

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Take the quiz: https://www.16personalities.com

These are the possibilities: https://www.16personalities.com/personality-types

I'm an ISTP-A.

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Oh boy, Jerry just popped a boner.

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Your personality type is:

Entrepreneur

ESTP-T

[Kopy 561]

ISTJ-T

Logistician

[titans&bucs&bearsohmy! 2,745]

Debater.

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Pretty spot on most of it. The only variance, is that while I'm very good in social settings, ie friendly, jovial, liked, etc... I find myself not enjoying it as much as they indicate. I like being alone or with just my wife and kids a lot.

 

 

CAMPAIGNER (ENFP-A)

• DIPLOMAT
• PEOPLE MASTERY

 

 

MIND: 76% EXTROVERTED - 24% INTROVERTED

 

ENERGY: 66% INTUITIVE - 34% OBSERVANT

 

NATURE: 47% THINKING - 53% FEELING

 

TACTICS: 37% JUDGING - 63% PROSPECTING

 

IDENTITY: 59% ASSERTIVE - 41% TURBULENT

 

ENFP PERSONALITY (“THE CAMPAIGNER”)

The ENFP personality is a true free spirit. They are often the life of the party, but unlike Explorers, they are less interested in the sheer excitement and pleasure of the moment than they are in enjoying the social and emotional connections they make with others. Charming, independent, energetic and compassionate, the 7% of the population that they comprise can certainly be felt in any crowd.

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for – and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing. It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool – for love – for your dreams – for the adventure of being alive.

Oriah Mountain Dreamer

You Can Change the World With Just an Idea

More than just sociable people-pleasers though, ENFPs, like all their Diplomat cousins, are shaped by their Intuitive (N) quality, allowing them to read between the lines with curiosity and energy. They tend to see life as a big, complex puzzle where everything is connected – but unlike Analysts, who tend to see that puzzle as a series of systemic machinations, ENFPs see it through a prism of emotion, compassion and mysticism, and are always looking for a deeper meaning.

ENFPs are fiercely independent, and much more than stability and security, they crave creativity and freedom.

Many other types are likely to find these qualities irresistible, and if they've found a cause that sparks their imagination, ENFPs will bring an energy that oftentimes thrusts them into the spotlight, held up by their peers as a leader and a guru – but this isn't always where independence-loving ENFPs want to be. Worse still if they find themselves beset by the administrative tasks and routine maintenance that can accompany a leadership position. ENFPs' self-esteem is dependent on their ability to come up with original solutions, and they need to know that they have the freedom to be innovative – they can quickly lose patience or become dejected if they get trapped in a boring role.

Don't Lose That 'Little Spark of Madness'

Luckily, ENFPs know how to relax, and they are perfectly capable of switching from a passionate, driven idealist in the workplace to that imaginative and enthusiastic free spirit on the dance floor, often with a suddenness that can surprise even their closest friends. Being in the mix also gives them a chance to connect emotionally with others, giving them cherished insight into what motivates their friends and colleagues. They believe that everyone should take the time to recognize and express their feelings, and their empathy and sociability make that a natural conversation topic.

The ENFP personality type needs to be careful, however – if they rely too much on their intuition, assume or anticipate too much about a friend's motivations, they can misread the signals and frustrate plans that a more straightforward approach would have made simple. This kind of social stress is the bugbear that keeps harmony-focused Diplomats awake at night. ENFPs are very emotional and sensitive, and when they step on someone's toes, they both feel it.

ENFPs will spend a lot of time exploring social relationships, feelings and ideas before they find something that really rings true. But when they finally do find their place in the world, their imagination, empathy and courage are likely to produce incredible results.

ENFP Strengths

• Curious – When it comes to new ideas, ENFPs aren't interested in brooding – they want to go out and experience things, and don't hesitate to step out of their comfort zones to do so. ENFPs are imaginative and open-minded, seeing all things as part of a big, mysterious puzzle called life.
• Observant – ENFPs believe that there are no irrelevant actions, that every shift in sentiment, every move and every idea is part of something bigger. To satisfy their curiosity, ENFPs try to notice all of these things, and to never miss a moment.
• Energetic and Enthusiastic – As they observe, forming new connections and ideas, ENFPs won't hold their tongues – they're excited about their findings, and share them with anyone who'll listen. This infectious enthusiasm has the dual benefit of giving ENFPs a chance to make more social connections, and of giving them a new source of information and experience, as they fit their new friends' opinions into their existing ideas.
• Excellent Communicators – It's a good thing that ENFPs have such strong people skills, or they'd never express these ideas. ENFPs enjoy both small talk and deep, meaningful conversations, which are just two sides of the same coin for them, and are adept at steering conversations towards their desired subjects in ways that feel completely natural and unforced.
• Know How to Relax – It's not all “nature of the cosmos” discussions with ENFPs – people with this personality type know that sometimes, nothing is as important as simply having fun and experiencing life's joys. That Intuitive trait lets ENFPs know that it's time to shake things up, and these wild bursts of enthusiastic energy can surprise even their closest friends.
• Very Popular and Friendly – All this adaptability and spontaneity comes together to form a person who is approachable, interesting and exciting, with a cooperative and altruistic spirit and friendly, empathetic disposition. ENFPs get along with pretty much everyone, and their circles of friends stretch far and wide.

ENFP Weaknesses

• Poor Practical Skills – When it comes to conceiving ideas and starting projects, especially involving other people, ENFPs have exceptional talent. Unfortunately their skill with upkeep, administration, and follow-through on those projects struggles. Without more hands-on people to help push day-to-day things along, ENFPs' ideas are likely to remain just that – ideas.
• Find it Difficult to Focus – ENFPs are natural explorers of interpersonal connections and philosophy, but this backfires when what needs to be done is that TPS report sitting right in front of them. It's hard for ENFPs to maintain interest as tasks drift towards routine, administrative matters, and away from broader concepts.
• Overthink Things – ENFPs don't take things at face value – they look for underlying motives in even the simplest things. It's not uncommon for ENFPs to lose a bit of sleep asking themselves why someone did what they did, what it might mean, and what to do about it.
• Get Stressed Easily – All this overthinking isn't just for their own benefit – ENFPs, especially Turbulent ones, are very sensitive, and care deeply about others' feelings. A consequence of their popularity is that others often look to them for guidance and help, which takes time, and it's easy to see why ENFPs sometimes get overwhelmed, especially when they can't say yes to every request.
• Highly Emotional – While emotional expression is healthy and natural, with ENFPs even viewing it as a core part of their identity, it can come out strongly enough to cause problems for this personality type. Particularly when under stress, criticism or conflict, ENFPs can experience emotional bursts that are counter-productive at best.
• Independent to a Fault – ENFPs loathe being micromanaged and restrained by heavy-handed rules – they want to be seen as highly independent masters of their own fates, even possessors of an altruistic wisdom that goes beyond draconian law. The challenge for ENFPs is that they live in a world of checks and balances, a pill they are not happy to swallow.

[Frozenbeernuts 2,186]

ENTP A

 

Debater

[jerryskids 6,619]

Oh boy, Jerry just popped a boner.

WOO HOO$#!@#$#@!

 

also RMFF...

[Frozenbeernuts 2,186]

No one loves the process of mental sparring more than ENTPs, as it gives them a chance to exercise their effortlessly quick wit, broad accumulated knowledge base, and capacity for connecting disparate ideas to prove their points.

 

That can definitely be me sometimes. Although i am definitely not a great debater by any means since my memory is pretty poor and i cannot focus on multiple things at once (unless i am extremely interestes in what im doing, or the pressure is on), i am in a way an antagonist. My wife is the one i practice it on all the time. She takes a stance and i debate it just to throw a counter point in there, and it usually annoys the hell out of her.

[rholio 339]

INTP-A

Logician

[Bier Meister 1,672]

ESFJ-A

The consul

sentinel

people mastery

 

 

extraverted: 72 - 28

 

observant: 76 - 24

 

feeling: 59 - 41

 

judging: 79 - 21

 

assertive: 65 - 35

 

 

 

People who share the ESFJ personality type are, for lack of a better word, popular – which makes sense, given that it is also a very common personality type, making up twelve percent of the population. In high school, ESFJs are the cheerleaders and the quarterbacks, setting the tone, taking the spotlight and leading their teams forward to victory and fame. Later in life, ESFJs continue to enjoy supporting their friends and loved ones, organizing social gatherings and doing their best to make sure everyone is happy.

 

Discussing scientific theories or debating European politics isn't likely to capture ESFJs' interest for too long. ESFJs are more concerned with fashion and their appearance, their social status and the standings of other people. Practical matters and gossip are their bread and butter, but ESFJs do their best to use their powers for good.

 

Respecting the Wisdom of Leadership

 

ESFJs are altruists, and they take seriously their responsibility to help and to do the right thing. Unlike their Diplomat (NF) relatives however, people with the ESFJ personality type will base their moral compass on established traditions and laws, upholding authority and rules, rather than drawing their morality from philosophy or mysticism. It's important for ESFJs to remember though, that people come from many backgrounds and perspectives, and what may seem right to them isn't always an absolute truth.

ESFJs love to be of service, enjoying any role that allows them to participate in a meaningful way, so long as they know that they are valued and appreciated. This is especially apparent at home, and ESFJs make loyal and devoted partners and parents. ESFJ personalities respect hierarchy, and do their best to position themselves with some authority, at home and at work, which allows them to keep things clear, stable and organized for everyone.

 

Play Dates Aren't Just for the Kids!

 

Supportive and outgoing, ESFJs can always be spotted at a party – they're the ones finding time to chat and laugh with everyone! But their devotion goes further than just breezing through because they have to. ESFJs truly enjoy hearing about their friends' relationships and activities, remembering little details and always standing ready to talk things out with warmth and sensitivity. If things aren't going right, or there's tension in the room, ESFJs pick up on it and to try to restore harmony and stability to the group.

Being pretty conflict-averse, ESFJs spend a lot of their energy establishing social order, and prefer plans and organized events to open-ended activities or spontaneous get-togethers. People with this personality type put a lot of effort into the activities they've arranged, and it's easy for ESFJs' feelings to be hurt if their ideas are rejected, or if people just aren't interested. Again, it's important for ESFJs to remember that everyone is coming from a different place, and that disinterest isn't a comment about them or the activity they've organized – it's just not their thing.

Coming to terms with their sensitivity is ESFJs' biggest challenge – people are going to disagree and they're going to criticize, and while it hurts, it's just a part of life. The best thing for ESFJs to do is to do what they do best: be a role model, take care of what they have the power to take care of, and enjoy that so many people do appreciate the efforts they make.

 

 

 

 

• Strong Practical Skills – ESFJs are excellent managers of day-to-day tasks and routine maintenance, enjoying making sure that those who are close to them are well cared for.
• Strong Sense of Duty – People with the ESFJ personality type have a strong sense of responsibility and strive to meet their obligations, though this may sometimes be more from a sense of social expectations than intrinsic drive.
• Very Loyal – Valuing stability and security very highly, ESFJs are eager to preserve the status quo, which makes them extremely loyal and trustworthy partners and employees. ESFJs are true pillars of any groups they belong to – whether it is their family or a community club, people with this personality type can always be relied upon.
• Sensitive and Warm – Helping to ensure that stability, ESFJ personalities seek harmony and care deeply about other people's feelings, being careful not to offend or hurt anybody. ESFJs are strong team players, and win-win situations are the stuff smiles are made of.
• Good at Connecting with Others – These qualities come together to make ESFJs social, comfortable and well-liked. ESFJ personalities have a strong need to "belong", and have no problem with small talk or following social cues in order to help them take an active role in their communities.

 

 

• Worried about Their Social Status – These Strengths are related to a chief Weakness: ESFJs' preoccupation with social status and influence, which affects many decisions they make, potentially limiting their creativity and open-mindedness.
• Inflexible – ESFJs place a lot of importance on what is socially acceptable, and can be very cautious, even critical of anything unconventional or outside the mainstream. People with this personality type may also sometimes push their own beliefs too hard in an effort to establish them as mainstream.
• Reluctant to Innovate or Improvise – Just as they can be critical of others' "unusual" behavior, ESFJs may also be unwilling to step out of their own comfort zones, usually for fear of being (or just appearing) different.
• Vulnerable to Criticism – It can be especially challenging to change these tendencies because ESFJs are so conflict-averse. ESFJ personalities can become very defensive and hurt if someone, especially a person close to them, criticizes their habits, beliefs or traditions.
• Often Too Needy – ESFJs need to hear and see a great deal of appreciation. If their efforts go unnoticed, people with the ESFJ personality type may start fishing for compliments, in an attempt to get reassurance of how much they are valued.
• Too Selfless – The other side of this is that ESFJs sometimes try to establish their value with doting attention, something that can quickly overwhelm those who don't need it, making it ultimately unwelcome. Furthermore, ESFJs often neglect their own needs in the process.

 

Few personality types are as practical and caring as ESFJs. Known for their social and administrative skills, ESFJs are good at creating and maintaining a secure, stable and friendly environment for themselves and their loved ones. ESFJs' dedication is invaluable in many areas, including their own personal growth.

Yet ESFJs can be easily tripped up in areas where their kindness and practical approach are more of a liability than an asset. Whether it is finding (or keeping) a partner, learning to relax or improvise, reaching dazzling heights on the career ladder, or managing their workload, ESFJs need to put in a conscious effort to develop their weaker traits and additional skills.

[vuduchile 1,945]

INFP-T

 

Diplomat - Mediator

 

INFP PERSONALITY (THE MEDIATOR)

 

INFP personalities are true idealists, always looking for the hint of good in even the worst of people and events, searching for ways to make things better. While they may be perceived as calm, reserved, or even shy, INFPs have an inner flame and passion that can truly shine. Comprising just 4% of the population, the risk of feeling misunderstood is unfortunately high for the INFP personality type but when they find like-minded people to spend their time with, the harmony they feel will be a fountain of joy and inspiration.

 

INFP personality

Being a part of the Diplomat (NF) personality group, INFPs are guided by their principles, rather than by logic (Analysts), excitement (Explorers), or practicality (Sentinels). When deciding how to move forward, they will look to honor, beauty, morality and virtue INFPs are led by the purity of their intent, not rewards and punishments. People who share the INFP personality type are proud of this quality, and rightly so, but not everyone understands the drive behind these feelings, and it can lead to isolation.

 

All that is gold does not glitter; not all those who wander are lost; the old that is strong does not wither; deep roots are not reached by the frost.

 

Famous INFPs

 

William Shakespeare J.R.R. Tolkien Björk Johnny Depp Julia Roberts Lisa Kudrow Tom Hiddleston

 

Fictional INFPs

 

Frodo Baggins from The Lord of the Rings Anne of Green Gables Fox Mulder from X-Files Amélie Poulain from Amélie Arwen from The Lord of the Rings Sybil Branson from Downton Abbey Lance Sweets from Bones

[Hardcore troubadour 15,087]

Borderline

[jerryskids 6,619]

ENTP A

 

Debater

 

Same. I knew that going in though, as in Myers-Briggs tests (which this totally is, I'm surprised they get away with blatantly stealing the lettering system) I not only always get ENTP, but I get high E and P and marginal N and T.

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Same. I knew that going in though, as in Myers-Briggs tests (which this totally is, I'm surprised they get away with blatantly stealing the lettering system) I not only always get ENTP, but I get high E and P and marginal N and T.

I get very high E, 70 % and even higher P 82%

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My woman is the same... Campaigner. Great.... no wonder we're butting heads trying to get our way in this thing.

[naomi 356]

ITSP-T “The Virtuoso”

 

Some aspects don't at all resonate. They're good mechanically. They'll be the first to tell an insensitive joke (to diffuse situations).

 

"ISTP women are especially rare, and the typical gender roles that society tends to expect can be a poor fit – they'll often be seen as tomboys from a young age." I do tend to connect with how men's thoughts evolve more than women's generally, BUT women who are logical yet warm and open-hearted are the most relateable.

[Frozenbeernuts 2,186]

ITSP-T The Virtuoso

 

Some aspects don't at all resonate. They're good mechanically. They'll be the first to tell an insensitive joke (to diffuse situations).

 

"ISTP women are especially rare, and the typical gender roles that society tends to expect can be a poor fit they'll often be seen as tomboys from a young age." I do tend to connect with how men's thoughts evolve more than women's generally, BUT women who are logical yet warm and open-hearted are the most relateable.

Logical women? Yeah thats pretty rare.

[naomi 356]

Logical women? Yeah thats pretty rare.

 

One of my friends comes to mind. her for being caring yet automatically understandable too. Some of my female colleagues are clearly logical with the dry, practical, technical, often convoluted stuff that needs to be unravelled, but in their downtime they're very empathetic and people focused in their conversations with each other. I think it's important obviously to be empathetic and people focused, but women's minds go to narrower spheres in downtime than men, and that's where I differ a bit. What I don't like is the stereotype that those narrow spheres are selfish, because with these women for example, they're not selfish, just simply a bit narrow, but I am not a married women with pretty much grown children and retiring husbands like they are.

[BufordT 429]

ISTJ-T

 

82% Introverted

[Djgb13 2,339]

Protagonist

ENFJ-A

[hdaddy 18]

ISFJ A Defender

[WhiteWonder 2,688]

No one loves the process of mental sparring more than ENTPs, as it gives them a chance to exercise their effortlessly quick wit, broad accumulated knowledge base, and capacity for connecting disparate ideas to prove their points.

 

That can definitely be me sometimes. Although i am definitely not a great debater by any means

I don't know. You seem like a master debater to me.

[Frozenbeernuts 2,186]

I don't know. You seem like a master debater to me.

I have some videos. I can PM them if youre into that kind of stuff

[Mookz 1,338]

INFP-T

 

Diplomat - Mediator

 

INFP PERSONALITY (THE MEDIATOR)

 

INFP personalities are true idealists, always looking for the hint of good in even the worst of people and events, searching for ways to make things better. While they may be perceived as calm, reserved, or even shy, INFPs have an inner flame and passion that can truly shine. Comprising just 4% of the population, the risk of feeling misunderstood is unfortunately high for the INFP personality type but when they find like-minded people to spend their time with, the harmony they feel will be a fountain of joy and inspiration.

 

INFP personality

Being a part of the Diplomat (NF) personality group, INFPs are guided by their principles, rather than by logic (Analysts), excitement (Explorers), or practicality (Sentinels). When deciding how to move forward, they will look to honor, beauty, morality and virtue INFPs are led by the purity of their intent, not rewards and punishments. People who share the INFP personality type are proud of this quality, and rightly so, but not everyone understands the drive behind these feelings, and it can lead to isolation.

 

All that is gold does not glitter; not all those who wander are lost; the old that is strong does not wither; deep roots are not reached by the frost.

 

Famous INFPs

 

William Shakespeare J.R.R. Tolkien Björk Johnny Depp Julia Roberts Lisa Kudrow Tom Hiddleston

 

Fictional INFPs

 

Frodo Baggins from The Lord of the Rings Anne of Green Gables Fox Mulder from X-Files Amélie Poulain from Amélie Arwen from The Lord of the Rings Sybil Branson from Downton Abbey Lance Sweets from Bones

 

 

Your Results

 

“The Mediator” (INFP-T)

Vudu, by any chance are you a middle chile?

[drobeski 3,061]

Adventurer

ISFP

[penultimatestraw 473]

ITSP-T “The Virtuoso”

 

Some aspects don't at all resonate. They're good mechanically. They'll be the first to tell an insensitive joke (to diffuse situations).

 

"ISTP women are especially rare, and the typical gender roles that society tends to expect can be a poor fit – they'll often be seen as tomboys from a young age." I do tend to connect with how men's thoughts evolve more than women's generally, BUT women who are logical yet warm and open-hearted are the most relateable.

Same as me, but I'm a -A.

[TimmySmith 2,782]

ESTP T

[nzoner 937]

ENTJ (The Commander)

 

Wow,this whole profile is scary close only posted one paragraph from each section.

 

If there's anything ENTJs love, it's a good challenge, big or small, and they firmly believe that given enough time and resources, they can achieve any goal. This quality makes people with the ENTJ personality type brilliant entrepreneurs.

 

Poor Handling of Emotions – All this bluster, alongside the assumed supremacy of rationalism, makes ENTJs distant from their own emotional expression and sometimes downright scornful of others'. People with this personality type often trample others' feelings, inadvertently hurting their partners and friends, especially in emotionally charged situations.

 

Their authentic confidence makes ENTJs' sex life dynamic to say the least, and they often push to explore new ways to express their affection with imaginative enthusiasm. Yet ENTJs tend to have these innovations planned in advance, with some structure and predictability to their sex lives, leaving the true spontaneity to those less organized personality types

 

Only the most hardened rationalists are able to hold their ground against strongly expressed ENTJ personalities, who neither need emotional support, nor understand others' need for it. This lack of sensitivity is ENTJs' chiefest weakness. Their tendency to challenge their friends, question their conclusions, and dismiss emotional arguments as irrelevant is especially difficult for Feeling-oriented friends to cope with. Either a point is supported by logic and reason, or it is erroneous.

 

Thankfully I opted to not have kids.....

 

Often, given their strong will and critical nature, it is challenging enough to spend a great deal of time with ENTJs by choice, as in friendships and romance – to be with them by default, as in the parent-child relationship, can border on the impossible. This by no means suggests that people with the ENTJ personality type are bad parents – far from it – simply that their relationships with children, who are typically more sensitive and less able to conduct truly rational analysis, require a great deal more emotional tact and personal liberty than they are accustomed to giving.

 

ENTJs are visionaries and leaders, not grunts or day-to-day administrators. Getting that to be recognized is not always easy, but ENTJs are probably up to the task.

 

Those seen as inefficient by their ENTJ managers, or who demonstrate themselves to be lazy or to produce shoddy work will know in no uncertain terms of their failure to impress. The only way to recover is to comply, the only alternative is to find a new manager to impress, somewhere else.

 

ENTJs' intelligence, strong will and logical reasoning skills are a force to be reckoned with. Be it a minor obstacle or a seemingly impossible task, ENTJs will find a way – or make one. This fearsome determination and intellect allow ENTJs to overcome many challenges.

Yet ENTJs can be easily tripped up in areas where careful and rational thinking is more of a liability than an asset. Whether it is finding (or keeping) a partner, connecting with other people, reaching dazzling heights on the career ladder or forcing themselves to relax, ENTJs need to put in a conscious effort to develop their weaker traits and additional skills.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[shorepatrol 1,870]

ISTJ-A

 

Logistician

[Frozenbeernuts 2,186]

Commander

 

While you display great leadership qualities, one weakness that is not seen from the outside is the unrelenting urge to look at penls porn

[BunnysBastatrds 2,352]

Most likely to bang a chunk?

[Bier Meister 1,672]

Most likely to bang a chunk?

 

 

big boned asian women?

[penultimatestraw 473]

ENTJ (The Commander)

 

Wow,this whole profile is scary close only posted one paragraph from each section.

I thought mine was pretty good, too, until I started to read others. Now I think these things are like horoscopes, where there are a bunch of statements that can apply to everyone, while you discount the stuff that is incongruent with your personality.

[titans&bucs&bearsohmy! 2,745]

ENTJ (The Commander)

 

Wow,this whole profile is scary close only posted one paragraph from each section.

 

If there's anything ENTJs love, it's a good challenge, big or small, and they firmly believe that given enough time and resources, they can achieve any goal. This quality makes people with the ENTJ personality type brilliant entrepreneurs.

 

Poor Handling of Emotions All this bluster, alongside the assumed supremacy of rationalism, makes ENTJs distant from their own emotional expression and sometimes downright scornful of others'. People with this personality type often trample others' feelings, inadvertently hurting their partners and friends, especially in emotionally charged situations.

 

Their authentic confidence makes ENTJs' sex life dynamic to say the least, and they often push to explore new ways to express their affection with imaginative enthusiasm. Yet ENTJs tend to have these innovations planned in advance, with some structure and predictability to their sex lives, leaving the true spontaneity to those less organized personality types

 

Only the most hardened rationalists are able to hold their ground against strongly expressed ENTJ personalities, who neither need emotional support, nor understand others' need for it. This lack of sensitivity is ENTJs' chiefest weakness. Their tendency to challenge their friends, question their conclusions, and dismiss emotional arguments as irrelevant is especially difficult for Feeling-oriented friends to cope with. Either a point is supported by logic and reason, or it is erroneous.

 

Thankfully I opted to not have kids.....

 

Often, given their strong will and critical nature, it is challenging enough to spend a great deal of time with ENTJs by choice, as in friendships and romance to be with them by default, as in the parent-child relationship, can border on the impossible. This by no means suggests that people with the ENTJ personality type are bad parents far from it simply that their relationships with children, who are typically more sensitive and less able to conduct truly rational analysis, require a great deal more emotional tact and personal liberty than they are accustomed to giving.

 

ENTJs are visionaries and leaders, not grunts or day-to-day administrators. Getting that to be recognized is not always easy, but ENTJs are probably up to the task.

 

Those seen as inefficient by their ENTJ managers, or who demonstrate themselves to be lazy or to produce shoddy work will know in no uncertain terms of their failure to impress. The only way to recover is to comply, the only alternative is to find a new manager to impress, somewhere else.

 

ENTJs' intelligence, strong will and logical reasoning skills are a force to be reckoned with. Be it a minor obstacle or a seemingly impossible task, ENTJs will find a way or make one. This fearsome determination and intellect allow ENTJs to overcome many challenges.

Yet ENTJs can be easily tripped up in areas where careful and rational thinking is more of a liability than an asset. Whether it is finding (or keeping) a partner, connecting with other people, reaching dazzling heights on the career ladder or forcing themselves to relax, ENTJs need to put in a conscious effort to develop their weaker traits and additional skills.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sorry for the long as Fock rambling post. Im bored lying in bed recovering.

 

Wow. That's my real dad, who I haven't talked to in ten years. Just couldn't put up with it any more. Honestly, I saw how miserable he was, and saw that I was going down the same path.

 

Dad is a robot. All that matters is the cold hard logic. Ever. Mom on the other hand will openly tell you she rarely employs logic, and is a very emotion driven person. Thus their marriage (and dads three that came after) were train wrecks.

 

I always had traits of both. I can be the most cold, logical motherfocker around and smash through whatever barrier needs to be smashed to get a task done. But I also get a bit emotional sometimes.

 

It was always weird growing up, mom would b!tch "you're just like your father!" And he would say "don't be like your crazy focking mother."

 

I have had to actively try to turn off some of the type a commander stuff and go with the flow more, in an attempt to be happier and have better relationships. And honestly, when you flip the switch and take charge and go guns blazing, it is much more effective than if you do it all the time.

 

For example, there is a chick here I have a thing for (she had a boyfriend, but just dumped him the other day, so game on.) She has a sh!t job from a shady company who refuses to let her have a release letter (necessary to get the next job.)

 

I told her I could get her hired where I work. She said she can't without a release letter. I told her getting a release letter would be no problem.

 

"How?" She asks.

 

"Simple. I go to your bosses office and tell him he has two options. Hand over a release letter or I make it my mission in life to Fock his world apart. Hire some Chinese people to picket his school. Badmouth his school on every expat recruitment site on the Internet. File dozens of reports with the Chinese authorities for him to respond to. Etc. then ask him how does he want to play it, you have five minutes to decide."

 

She says "I could never do that!"

 

"I know, and so does he, that's why he is trying to screw you over. He's a bully, and you deal with a bully by getting in their face and daring them to Fock with you."

 

It's a useful trait, but has to be harnessed or it will destroy your life though.

[Hardcore troubadour 15,087]

Your mom was hot?

[nzoner 937]

 

Wow. That's my real dad, who I haven't talked to in ten years. Just couldn't put up with it any more. Honestly, I saw how miserable he was, and saw that I was going down the same path.

 

Dad is a robot. All that matters is the cold hard logic. Ever. Mom on the other hand will openly tell you she rarely employs logic, and is a very emotion driven person. Thus their marriage (and dads three that came after) were train wrecks.

 

I always had traits of both. I can be the most cold, logical motherfocker around and smash through whatever barrier needs to be smashed to get a task done. But I also get a bit emotional sometimes.

 

 

 

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Sounds a lot like my dad and I,it hasn't been 10 years but we rarely talk and knowing I was so much like him was why I opted to never have children.I will say that somehow I've been married 30 years now but there have some been some miserable times.I too have tried to go with the flow but will admit it's very difficult at times and i find myself just saying fock it.

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brotha!